How to Get the Girl: A Gentleman's Guide

How to Get the Girl: A Gentleman’s Guide

By Hugo Harrison

Copyright 2016 Hugo Harrison

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Table of Content

Dedication

Preface

Introduction: Get The Girl, Get The World

Chapter 1: The Science of Attraction

Chapter 2: Presentation

Chapter 3: Total Abundance

Chapter 4: A Purposeful Man

Chapter 5: Stoicism

Chapter 6: When to Walk Away

Chapter 7: Mystery

Chapter 8: Fun and Excitement

Chapter 9: (Use) Your Friends

Chapter 10: Getting Sexual

Chapter 11: Better Off with You

Chapter 12: Generosity

Chapter 13: Authenticity

Chapter 14: Treat Her Well

Chapter 15: Putting It All Together

Final Words from the Author

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Dedication

Dedicated to the one that got away.

Preface

Let me preface by saying that this is not a book about pickup. While you may find elements that are effective for picking up girls, that is not the main purpose of this book. Neither is this book a step-by-step on how to get a girl to like you by saying the right things at the right timing.

This book is not a bag of tricks that you can use to turn the love switch on your girl. I am not a believer of saying the right things to win a girl over. Why? Because while it is possible to instruct a man (you) on how to respond to specific situations, if you keep focusing on saying what you think she would like to hear, you will get it wrong eventually. Because every situation is never exactly the same, and no two girls are exactly the same. Even the greatest conversationalists do not have all the answers, and are bound to make mistakes eventually. Instead, be consistent. Stick to your nature, or what nature has meant you to be: a dominant man who stays true to your principles. This way, you will respond to her with what you truly believe, and what you think is right. You have an opinion of your own. I will talk more about this later on in the book, but in a nutshell this is the approach I am talking about in this book when trying to win a girl over.

This book is about finding out your true identity as a man, and being a worthy man who will be able to pull the woman he desires over, regardless of circumstances. You will learn about how you can go from a potential candidate to her chosen partner, be it boyfriend material, husband material or what have you. It is about building attraction such that you are the obvious right choice for her.

Since the focus is on being, there are little shortcuts offered in this book. You can fake it until you make it and attempt to display the qualities I elaborate here while you work towards them. I am not against that. But the key here is that you are actually striving towards that goal. Just like trying to convince someone by saying the right things, if you are trying to present yourself as someone you are not, you will slip eventually. If by saying the right things you can convince her that you are someone you are not, you are doing the both of you a disservice.

For example, let's say that a woman likes a man who is insightful, so that he can guide her in life. I can tell you what to say to engineer the type of situation that will make her think that way. But if that is not really you, she will find out. And what follows? A total waste of time for the both of you, at the very least.

I hope I made myself clear before we proceed further, so that you don't get a different kind of expectation and get disappointed after you bought this book. The things I will talk about in this book may require work from your part depending on where you are in life, so expect it. However, it may well be that you already possess the qualities I mention in this book, and the only thing that's missing is the way you present them. In that case, you will find an easier time turning your love life around and getting the girl of your dreams.

Introduction: Get The Girl, Get The World

Ok, so that was a very bad attempt on wordplay. I was referring to the line in Heroes, Save the cheerleader, save the world. Bad puns aside, I truly believe that a woman—the right woman, which I talk about in a different book—can truly make or break a man's life.

There is a line from Dave Chappelle, my favorite comedian of all-time, that goes like this: A woman's test in life is material. A man's test in life… is a woman. While we can argue about the former part of his statement, the latter part really resonated with me. Men do so many things for a woman. Dave elaborated on that line by mentioning: "Men buy nice cars. Not because they like