How to Raise a Child

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© Copyright 2011 Julia Bullard.

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Trafford rev. 05/17/2011

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Contents

INTRODUCTION

CHAPTER 1

CHAPTER 2

CHAPTER 3

CHAPTER 4

CHAPTER 5

CHAPTER 6

CHAPTER 7

CHAPTER 8

CHAPTER 9

CHAPTER 10

CHAPTER 11

CHAPTER 12

CHAPTER 13

CHAPTER 14

CHAPTER 15

CHAPTER 16

CHAPTER 17

CHAPTER18

CHAPTER 19

CHAPTER 20

CHAPTER 21

CHAPTER 22

CHAPTER 23

CHAPTER 24

CHAPTER 25

CHAPTER 26

CHAPTER 27

CHAPTER 28

CHAPTER 29

CHAPTER 30

INTRODUCTION

I have realized that I survived while raising my son and now that he is a teen I’d like to share my parental knowledge on how to raise your child before he or she becomes a teen.

My purpose for writing this book is that I want to be able to share my parental knowledge with all parents who feel they don’t know where to start when they begin parenting. By being parents you create your own manual on how to raise your own child and this is how you start.

CHAPTER 1

BEGINNING OF LIFE

To form a new life, all it takes is for one male’s sperm and one female’s egg to meet. When the egg and the sperm meet in the female’s embryo, they bond together. Out of that, a new human being will be formed. Now that is where the woman has realized that she has formed a human being. So now it is time to learn and know how to take care of this new human being that is being formed inside her embryo for nine months.

When a baby is born, it is considered that from the embryo of the woman, whom the baby comes out, she is considered the biological mother. It is going to be her responsibility to nurture and raise that baby which has formed in her embryo. That mother is going to need to raise, discipline and teach that child what it is going to need to know to be able to survive and live a happy life. A woman whom is the mother of the newborn has control over how she wants her newborn to be raised while growing up. If the woman never heard her newborn cry while inside her embryo, than why allow it now? We know that when a baby cries, it is their only way of saying that it wants something. That’s fine. Just nurture the baby when it is needed than continue your day. As the mother you need to make an everyday daily schedule. Most important you have to stick with that daily schedule and not just once in awhile. The baby needs to realize how it is going to be treated for what reasons and at what time. Believe me, babies already know more than you think they do. You are going to have to get use to your baby when it cries. It is good for them to cry so that they can get it all out until they realize that crying is not working. Before you know it, your baby has stopped crying and knows that you will not give it any attention when it is crying. That will be your biggest relief. It takes awhile to learn how to do something that is being taught. We don’t just go to a corner and pout just……

What is good and what is bad, what we brought them into this world for, who is mom and who is dad, and how to respect and listen to mom and dad and why they need to be raised the way mom and dad are raising them. But we don’t just tell our baby all this just once. Oh No! You need to repeat and remind your baby everyday of your baby’s life. Before you know it you will see that your baby will know more than what you thought your baby was going to know by a certain age. Now both parents need to compromise on a lot of things before ever mentioning it to their baby. It wouldn’t be fair for your baby to listen to mom and dad and they are not on the same subject. Your baby does not need to grow up listening to mom and dad and neither is making sense. Your baby didn’t ask you to bring it into this world, and if this is the kind of life you are going to teach it then it wouldn’t be fair, now would it? As happy and fun as it was building your baby than that is how fun you should continue by raising your baby the correct and best way you know how. Most of all, be patient and I do promise you, that you and your baby will go a long way living a great life together. Of course, if you are an only parent, you will think it is going to be tough to raise a baby. "No’ nothing is tough in life, if we ourselves believe that we can do it no matter what. Learn to have