Patchwork: Conversation Between Generations

Patchwork: Conversations Between Generation

Copyright © 2020 by Carol Wilson-Mack

Published in the United States of America

ISBN Paperback: 978-1-951775-42-1

ISBN eBook: 978-1-951775-43-8

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Book Reviews

The beauty of women connecting from different generations is explored in Patchwork

—Reviewed by Aly Avina–Pacific book review

The personalities and perspectives of the women clearly emerge in the story.

—Reviewed by Carolyn Davis US Review of Books

The story focuses on a group of women within the Patchwork group who connect by sharing their problems in an attempt to find peace and support.

—Rating: 3 / 5 Star Reviewed by

Susan Miller–San Francisco Book Review

I am inspired by these women. Despite some terrible circumstances, most of them carried on with their lives and worked through it.

—Rating: 3.5 / 5 Star Reviewed by

Megan Walvoord–Seattle Book Review

The aged women likewise, that they be in behavior as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things; That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children.

—Titus 2:3–4

Dedication

This manuscript is dedicated to my fraternal grandmother, Anna Kirkland-Wilson, and maternal grandmother Carrie Nimmons-Dickerson.

These extremely strong women, both born in the 1800s had no choice but to be strong.

Grandma Carrie born to parents who longed for boys out of necessity often spoke about how her parents desired boys for they needed the boys to work the farms. It seemed that farming was what was done to feed families. Being the offsprings of slaves, farming was the only job they knew. Grandma Carrie’s Mom and Dad bore girls so they raised their girls like boys. She fulfilled all the chores that a boy would do fishing, hunting, chopping cotton, chopping wood, picking cotton, and preparing cotton for the gin. (The gin was the machinery used to remove the seeds from the cotton, so that the cotton can be used for making clothing.) They were also required to assist with other chores, like cooking, cleaning, washing dishes, hauling wood, and packing the cotton in preparation for the gin. This involves assuring that no metal objects were lost in the cotton for that would damage and or hinder the gin’s performance. Grandma Carrie even knew how to plow!

Ma Anna did not have to learn to plow, for she had many brothers, who did the plowing. Her job was to prepare their meals and deliver lunches and meals to the men in the fields.

Grandma Anna demonstrated the same inner strength; however in a more quiet gentler manner they both were insightful and kind. They shared the same mindset in that they both believed in being about their Father’s business, which was teaching the younger generation, and they created the perfect platform to accomplish that goal.

This was my introduction to an organization that was founded, being organized and developed, as an ongoing group that was feeding God’s first, and favored institution ‘the family.’ We must strive to keep our family strong and supported.

This group of women shared and supported each other in the face of whatever challenges, each may have been facing. They contributed greatly to the lives of each other as well as to the lives of those in each of the various families.

These strong courageous women were the first women whom I was privileged to have observed, as they gingerly helped the group of women that they were leading. They braced themselves to meet each challenge, and their focus was always on what was best for the families. They understood the fact, that our enemy Satan the devil would always attempt attacks on the family, simply because it was God’s institution.

At the time, I was also being taught, though I was a youngster, I heard many of the stories, threaded many of the needles, bought and cleaned many of the eyeglasses, found scissors, cut thread, gathered straight pins, and searched for pin cushions. I remember thinking why can’t they see these needle holes. I understand it now.

I sometimes felt the pain, and or understood bits and pieces of the emotions associated with some of the stories that they told, as much as I could understand. I responded to the needs of these Chief Executive Officers, as these nurturing creators rose to the level of obedience to the instructions from their heavenly Father. Patchwork reminds us of the multiple pieces of our life that we are required to juggle, as we interact with other lives and we do it continually and simultaneously.

As we put our pieces together, we attempt to maintain balance, as we proceed on our journey. We might remember also that while we piece our pieces together, there is a peacemaker, and he makes his peace available to all of us, provided we call upon him. Remember to call upon him as you juggle your pieces.

Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid. John 14:27

Contents

Book Reviews

Dedication

Acknowledgments

Foreword

Chapter 1: Ma. Anna

Chapter 2: Mary

Chapter 3: Mary

Chapter 4: May Dell

Chapter 5: Sappy

Chapter 6: Magnolia

Chapter 7: Eleanor

Chapter 8: Ma. Anna

Chapter 9: Sappy

Chapter 10: Magnolia

Chapter 11: Eleanor

Chapter 12: May Dell

Chapter 13: Magnolia

Chapter 14: Instant Change

Chapter 15: Bits and Pieces

Chapter 16: Reflections by Trudy

Chapter 17: Trudy’s Family Reunion

Chapter 18: There Is More

Acknowledgments

To all the great ladies and their families who had the mindset, were the co-creators, who stepped out in faith, following the directives of their loving creator. They started the Patchwork organization. My ancestors, I am grateful.

To Alma Wilson, my sister, I am grateful that you listened to my every word as the idea of Patchwork came to me your words were always encouraging.

To Stella Bobian, a great gospel singer, thank you for listening to my brainstorms as I pondered over ideas and past thoughts in the early stages of Patchwork. You were with me throughout the writing process, you sang Burdens down Lord, Burdens down. As my character placed closure to her life’s ordeal. I can still hear you singing. Great, great voice! Listen to her at CD baby/bobian.

Brother James H. Wilson I know I wore you out, asking What do you think, how does this sound?

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