Outcomes & Evidence Progress Inventory : Leadership Development
Outcomes & Evidence Progress Inventory : Leadership Development
DEVELOPMENT
Outcomes & Evidence
Progress Inventory*
MINOR IN LEADERSHIP STUDIES
Center for Student Leadership Development
Memorial Union
University of Rhode Island
Name: Amanda Wright
Date Enrolled:
Date of Graduation:
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the University of Rhode Island and cannot be reproduced in part, or in its entirety, without the written permission of the acting
Assistant Director of the CSLD.
CONTENTS
ABOUT THE MINOR & CENTER FOR STUDENT LEADERSHIP DEVELOPMENT (information included)
Center for Student Leadership Development Information
Minor Information
Developmental Model
ADVISING INFORMATION (students will include own documentation)
Tracking Sheet / Advising Updates
Syllabi of Minor Classes (Core and Electives)
Internship
o Guidelines
o Syllabus
o Mid-term
o Final
OUTCOMES
Outcomes (Self-Leadership, Interpersonal and Organizational, Leadership Theories, Inclusive Leadership, Critical
Thinking)
Targeted Classes
Experiences
Evidence
GENERAL INFORMATION
Requirements may be satisfied by completing 18 or more credits related to leadership and offered by more than one department.
Twelve (12) of the 18 credits must be at the 200 level of instruction or above. A course grade of C or better must be earned in each graded course. At least 12 of the credits
must be earned at URI.
No course may be used to apply to both the major and minor fields of study. Courses in General Education or for other minors may be used for the minor* (*this does not
apply to students in the College of Business). With the exception of internship credit, all courses for the minor must be taken for a grade. The Introductory class must be taken
before the internship and the capstone course.
Application for the minor must be filed in your academic deans office no later than the beginning of the final semester or term.
Approval of the minor does not guarantee that the suggested courses will be available to you on a schedule correlated with your graduation plans nor guarantee space in any
required course.
Class options
HDF 190: FLITE
Requires 40 hours/credit with a min. of 80 hours & a max. of 120 hours of documented
internship experience for graded credit
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Capstone
3 credits
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Notes
You need to have your own act together before you can lead others:
2. Lead Yourself
1. Know Yourself
Lead Others
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Strengths
Weaknesses
Values
Needs
Styles
Learning
Teaching
Personality
Membership
Leadership
PROGRESS
Time management
Organization
Self care
Self discipline
Perseverance
Develop and maintain family,
interpersonal, and intimate relationships
Academic, social, personal goals and
objectives
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RE-EVALUATE
former stages as you
progress
Hierarchy of needs
Racial, cultural, gender, sexual orientation,
religious, class, ability, etc. diversity and
commonalities
Power, privilege, oppression, liberation;
individual and institutional discrimination
OUTCOMES
In this section, you will track your progress toward the outcomes. Each class in the minor targets different outcomes; all of the classes list these
outcomes on the syllabi (the words goals or curriculum areas may be used instead). In many of our classes, the assignments can serve as your
evidence. Periodically, and not less than at the end of each semester, you should update your outcomes progress. In the additional experiences
column, name additional classes or experiences that contributed to you becoming proficient in that outcome. As the semesters pass, you will think of
things from recent semesters and semesters further in the past, or people or jobs, etc. in your past that also influenced your progress on that outcome.
Do not let that ambiguity upset you. Reflecting on development is not a linear process, but it does help to reflect often. In the descriptive notes
column, share insights about your growth, lack of progress, successes, stumbling blocks, etc. At the end of each section, you need to include evidence
that supports your development toward the outcomes. Copies of papers, grading sheets, evaluation lettersanything that shows that someone has
determined that you have demonstrated proficiency (or not, or are making progress). Make sure to keep electronic copies of all of your evidence to
include in your Portfolio.
Target class
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Additional Experiences
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See Evidence #
Each person handles stress differently and it is important to
understand how you personally handle it. Within the rollercoaster
that we call life a lot can be thrown at an individual at once and
sometimes it feels like we might self-combust if we take on anymore
work or responsibility. People can expect a lot from you and while
that rises, often times so does your stress level. Being able to
manage that stress can at times be hard, but it is definitely not
impossible! There are many options to managing stress and
depending on you are the only one that knows what works for you
and what does not. For starters, you can take a 5 minute break to
simply breathe and recollect yourself while also reminding yourself
that you can do this, one step at a time. You can also manage your
stress by taking this into a good work out, take a nice run around the
neighborhood and recollect your thoughts. You can also handle this
by facing your problems head on. It is important to eliminate and
reduce any excess stressors and even taking the time to figure out
what exactly is stressing you out so you can quickly move on. If you
have enough time my biggest suggestion is to sleep on it, I know for
myself that if a take a night to sleep on it I wake up feeling much
better about the situation with a new, bright, mindset.
See Evidence #
Stress is very common among college students and the ability to
tame the stress Beast is important. Throughout my 3 years at URI I
have really mastered managing my stress; whether it was within
school, work, or within my sorority. I know that I tend to be a
procrastinator and that has a huge influence on my stress levels. By
leaving things off until the last minute I have realized that it only
makes it worse on myself. I now have set plans where I start all of
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See Evidence #
Ethical Leadership is knowing your core values and having the
courage to live them in all parts of your life in service of the common
good. There are 4 Vs within ethical leadership. Values, Vision,
Voice, and Virtue. There are also three key elements which include
service, polis, and renewal. Both exist together in the model of
ethical leadership. Personal values are very important to understand
when being an ethical leader. By discovering your core values, you
are able to make decisions and choices on not only a personal level
but also on a fair and effective level. Vision allows a group to
collaborate and work with each other towards a common goal.
Having a voice is extremely important to get your ideas and thought
across. You can communicate well with others and get your point
across. Virtue is also important. Practicing the virtuous behavior will
make sure that you are doing what is right not only for you but for the
group as a whole. Individuals with good virtue, care for the common
good. See evidence #1.
Revision:
Ethical Leadership is knowing your core values and having the
courage to live them in all parts of your life in service of the common
good. Within ethical leadership, there are three Vs. Those being,
Value, Vision, Voice, and Virtue. By discovering your core values,
you are able to make decisions and choices on not only a personal
level but also on a fair and effective level. Vision allows a group to
collaborate and work with each other towards a common goal.
Sometimes you may not share the same vision as someone else so
it is important for you establish a shared vision for everyone to work
towards. Having a voice is extremely important to get your ideas and
thoughts across. Practicing a virtuous behavior will make sure that
you are doing what is right not only for you but for the group as a
whole. Individuals with good virtue, care for the common good.
There are also three key elements that go along with Ethical
Leadership which include, service, polis and renewal. Both exist
together in the model of ethical leadership. It is important to take into
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every aspect of my life and truly believe that they are necessary for
success. See evidence #2
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Revision:
My Personal Values Statement: After I found out my VIAs. I found
that my top value is love and I think it is one of the most important
values someone can have. Love is expressed as an action and
experienced as a feeling. Yet, love is hard to define in one single
way. It includes but it not limited to compassion, tolerance,
endurance, support, faith, determination and more. Love is more
than just a romance. It embraces us in all aspects of our lives.
I practice my personal values statement in everyday life and
especially with meeting new people. I enjoy being around people
who share the same or similar values as me and finding out what
they mean to them as an individual. When I took the VIA quiz and
found out that my top values were love, humor, honesty, kindness,
and bravery I was not surprised. These are all things that I have a
deep admiration for. I keep these values in the back of my head at all
times and always refer to them in situations reminding me to do the
right thing. All of these values match my personality to a tee. With
knowing these values it helped me figure out who I am and what I
want out of life. I know what I look for in other people who share
these similar values and what kind of people I surround myself with. I
use these values in every aspect of my life and truly believe that they
are necessary for success.
See evidence # 2.
As an intern last summer for Townsquare Media I was giving many
projects within my time there. The one I am going to focus on is the
Free Beer and Hot Wings project I was assigned to. I worked mainly
in the promotions department of Townsquare media so it was my job
to assist with the planning and execution of all our main events. The
Free Beer and Hot Wings event was the first one that I was fully in
charge of (it is also one of our biggest of the year) so I was very
nervous. I had to contact the venues and deal with the on-air talent
that we were going to have as well as the tickets to go to the event. I
had to meet with the radio Jockeys to give them their script to
promote the event. I was in contact with a lot of the different
departments within the company and had to spread myself very thin
in order to complete this event to my bosses standards. I met with
my boss two times a week to receive feedback and suggestions as
well as held weekly meetings with the other interns I need assistance
from. I would talk about where we are now, where we want to be,
and what we need to get down for that specific week. I had two
months to plan the event and find the date that fit within our talents
schedule. It was a lot of fun when it was all said and done. The event
went seamlessly and I couldnt be happier with the results and
feedback I received.
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See Evidence #
Throughout college I have truly learned the value and importance of
giving myself personal goals to better myself, my career and
community. The summer going into my senior year I had written my
goals done that I wanted to accomplish for my upcoming senior year
and I hung them up in my room as a daily reminder.
They are as follows:
Personal: To read more about mindsets and bettering yourself
personally and in the workplace. To achieve this I had purchased
several books and have read 3 out of the 5 that have been eye
opening and have taught me more techniques to use to be an allaround better person and the techniques to land the career of my
dreams. Self-help books are very interesting to me and being able to
read these have helped me better prepare for my future.
Academic: To receive a 3.0 GPA while applying and getting into the
Career Rhode Trip for the Winter J-Term. In order to achieve these it
took a lot of planning and self-discipline. Within each of my 5 classes
I knew that I would have to give 100% in each assignment and test.
Making study guides, practice exams and note cards for each class
was essential. The Career Rhode Trip is an amazing opportunity for
Communication studies majors because it is a weeklong trip where
you go to New York City, Stamford Connecticut, and Providence to
meet with huge companies such as, ESPN, Warner Brothers, SNL,
Yelp, ect. To network ourselves on the corporate level. I knew that I
had to take advantage of this opportunity and that it would give me
experience that would help my within my career. So I made sure to
have my application in on time and with the best references. I ended
up being accepted into the trip and will be furthering my experiential
knowledge in this field on a corporate level.
Community: To volunteer and help out more around the community.
In order to achieve this I had researched things that I had felt
strongly about that I wanted to help the most so over the course of
this semester I have volunteered at the local animal shelter and for
Habitat for Humanity to help out in any way they needed.
Overall this semester has been extremely important to my personal
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growth and has shown me the importance of setting goals in all three
of these categories and following through with them.
See Evidence #2
When I heard about the Leadership Institute I was hooked right away
and wanted to be involved. With that being said I applied and hoped
for the best. When I got the letter that said I was selected I was
beyond excited. The beginning of this year as a freshman I gave
myself the goal of finding out what my strengths are and how to use
them correctly and to also look at my weakness and making them
my strengths. When I took Gallup I was not surprised by my
strengths they seemed to fit me very well. Seeing what my strengths
were and what they actually mean was one of my favorite things.
Also finding out my values when we took the VIAs was also a great
experience. I believe that I accomplished the goals I have set for
myself but there are going to be so many more goal that I will
achieve in life and these are two tools that will help me in everything
I do in my future. Within everything in life is a goal that everyone is
striving to achieve and when you do the feeling is indescribable and
thats something that keeps me going, all goals are possible if you
set your mind to them. See evidence #2 and #5.
Revised:
Throughout my life I have set many goals for myself in hopes of
completing them. There are a few that I am proud of today and that I
have accomplished for myself. The one I am going to focus on the
most is going to college and succeeding. Getting into college may
seem as a simple task to others but it is something that I have
always worked hard for. Neither of my parents went to college and I
knew how important it was to them that I went to college and had the
opportunity to experience it myself and honestly in this time in age it
is almost a necessity to go to college if you want to get a decent job.
I made it a goal of mine to get into a college that my parents would
be proud of. Going out of state to was one of the smartest things I
have ever done; it forced me to put myself out there. I came to URI
not knowing a single person and am so gratefully for that decision. I
have become much more mature and have grown as a person in so
many positive ways. I set the goal of going to college and achieved
that not realizing that I would achieve much more once I was here. I
have applied myself in all of my classes and am continuing to do well
on my journey here. I still have a lot more to accomplish in my time
here but have achieved a great deal of my smaller goals while being
here, I made it onto the Deans List and am constantly working
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feel I have the prestige and self-respect I look for, I find another way
to avenue to gain more. So when I achieved graduating high school
with honors the next goal was graduating from a prestigious
university. Than when fully comprehending and mastering the
concepts of leadership and communication it has lead me to the
mastering of the skill of teaching. So to say this need is fulfilled or
not fulfilled is nether correct or incorrect because these needs have
been achieved but an ever going mission for self-improvement may
seem like the need is not fulfilled. Finally, Self-Actualization Needs
are the most difficult needs to fulfill for any one person and in my
personal experience I believe I am still on a path of searching for this
fulfillment. I experience the feeling of seeking personal growth and
peak experiences as society makes you believe these are necessary
things but interpersonally realizing potential and obtaining selffulfillment is something many people never achieve. Knowing what
you want is one thing but to determine your potential to reach that
goal and knowing youll be satisfied with your life when you get there
is something more challenging than most experiences youll have in
life. I believe my path is narrowing in on true potential and the idea of
self-fulfillment is becoming applicable but until I determine the selfactualization values that mean the most to me these needs may
never be met.
See Evidence #3
In Flite, we were asked to take a Gallup quiz that told us our top five
strengths. These strengths were character strengths and leadership
strengths. My top five were, developer, communication, adaptability,
woo, and empathy.
My top strength is developer and to me, developer is the way I
develop such personal and deep relationships with others. I see
others potential right away, even when they cant see it in
themselves. I love watching others progress when they develop and
grow. A lot of my friends and family members look to me for help and
encouragement because they know that I will push them and prove
to them that they can do whatever their mind is set on. This is the
main reason why I want to be a teacher, when the students come in
the fall they have so much to learn and watching how much they
develop by the end of the school year is such an amazing feeling.
Knowing that you are the one who helped them reach their full
potential is something that keeps my drive going. No individual is
fully grown, there is always room to grow with each experience you
have.
My second strength is communication. I definitely see why this is my
decision at a time and there is no better time than the present. Being
able to adapt to different situations is key. You can sit back and plan
your life all you want, but not everything goes as planned and being
able to adapt to the situation in a positive manner is what I do. There
will always be speed bumps in life and they should be expected, they
are inevitable. I tend to look forward to them because they make
things more interesting. I was taught how to adapt with different
situations at a very young age. When I was 7 years old my parents
sent me to a camp that was an hour away, where I did not know a
single person. I thank them every day for sending me there because
it made me the outgoing person I am today. At a young age I had to
put myself out there and adapt to all situations.
My fourth strength is WOO, which stands for winning others over. I
love meeting new people and getting them to like me. If someone is
a stranger to me at first, they wont remain that way for long. Striking
up conversations with others that I dont necessarily know that well is
something I feed off of. I love breaking the ice and connecting with
new people. There are so many people in this world and I would love
to get to know as many as I can, there are no strangers, they are
only friends I havent made yet.
My last strength is empathy and to me this means sensing others
emotions around me. I can feel what others are feeling as if they
were my own. I can always see things in others points of view. A lot
of people get sympathy and empathy confused. Feeling pity for a
persons situation is sympathy. I may not agree with others decisions
but I do understand them, and that is empathy. I can help others put
their emotions and feelings into words not only for themselves but
also for others. This is the main reason others are drawn to me.
All of these strengths will help me with my leadership skills and allow
me to connect with others.
See evidence #4.
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be a coach. There was one girl in particular who had never played
before and I used to stay after practice with her every day for about 3
hours and teach her all the basics and everything she needed to
know. I did this because I wanted to, there is no greater feeling then
knowing that you are helping someone else and putting their needs
before your own. Thats what servant leadership really is. I put my
heart and soul into the team and put the whole teams needs before
my own. Watching all of us grow as a whole and become a small
family in the end was one of the best experiences I have ever
encountered. See evidence #8.
Revised:
Servant Leadership is about serving others and puts all other needs
before your own. I accomplished this when I was captain of my
Varsity Softball team in high school. I was given the chance to be a
leader of my team, even though I was the captain I knew it was
important that i stepped back sometimes and let others lead as well.
Being captain of a team came with a lot of responsibility. Although I
did not mind all the responsibilities at times it did get hard. I had to
empower and motivate my teammates at all points of the game,
even when we were losing and I had doubts myself. That was the
most difficult, a lot of the members of my team would feel very
distraught when we started losing and it was my job to remind them
that we can still win, if we keep pushing through with confidence. I
wasnt paid to be captain and thats why this falls under the category
of servant leadership. I was constantly putting the team before
everything in my life and not because I had to but because I wanted
to. I wanted to have a group of girls come together and become a
team and made sure that once a week we all went out together and
did something to besides softball. For example we would all meet up
and get dinner or go bowling. We all had to listen to each other and
at times it was very difficult, especially when you have 30 girls who
have completely different ideas and thoughts. Win or lose we were
still a team, and if we went down we went down together. A lot of the
pressure was on me because our coach was not the best and had
told us that she was only there for the money so along with being the
captain I was also a coach. I ran practices and organized everything
for the games. There was one girl in particular who had never played
before and she was on the freshman team and I used to stay after
varsity practice with her every day for about 3 hours and teach her all
the basics and everything she needed to know. . I did this because I
wanted to, there is no greater feeling then knowing that you are
helping someone else and putting their needs before your own.
Thats what servant leadership really is. I put my heart and soul into
the team and put the whole teams needs before my own. Watching
all of us grow as a whole and become a small family in the end was
one of the best experiences I have ever encountered.
See Evidence #6.
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assign roles and jobs for each member of the sorority to accomplish
our common goal. Some members might be in charge of contacting
venues or booths in the union to set up and some members may be
in charge of decorations and setting up. Each members job is equal
as important because without any one of them we would fail to
achieve our goal.
See Evidence #5
Ethical Leadership is knowing your core values and having the
courage to live them in all parts of your life in service of the common
good. There are 4 Vs within ethical leadership. Values, Vision,
Voice, and Virtue. There are also three key elements which include
service, polis, and renewal. Both exist together in the model of
ethical leadership. Personal values are very important to understand
when being an ethical leader. By discovering your core values, you
are able to make decisions and choices on not only a personal level
but also on a fair and effective level. Vision allows a group to
collaborate and work with each other towards a common goal.
Having a voice is extremely important to get your ideas and thought
across. You can communicate well with others and get your point
across. Virtue is also important. Practicing the virtuous behavior will
make sure that you are doing what is right not only for you but for the
group as a whole. Individuals with good virtue, care for the common
good.
See evidence #1.
When I was in HDF 190 my freshman year there is one saying that
has followed me throughout my college career that was said by
Robert Vincent multiple times throughout the semester, In order to
lead others you must first learn who you are and how to lead
yourself. I think this is a very important component that goes handin-hand with Ethical Leadership. There are three key questions to
ask yourself in Ethical Leadership. 1. Will you be the same person in
all aspects of your life; in work, at home, and in the community? 2.
Will you have the courage to live out your values when there is
pressure to compromise or rationalize? 3. How do your values
contribute to the common good?
Being in a sorority has taught me a lot about myself as a person and
also what leadership models I tend to lean toward and implement.
Throughout my experience Ethical Leadership has been the model
that I use the most. Being in a sorority with 150 girls with very strong
personalities and different outlooks then my own was hard at first.
People were constantly trying to sway my values and convert me to
believe in theirs and I often had to take a step back and remind
myself of my values and why I cherish them so much. My top values
are love, humor, honesty, kindness, and bravery; I have held onto
these very tightly throughout my leadership journey and truly believe
that these values are very important to working toward the common
good for a group. Starting with the first V, Value; I understand my
values and how I can use them in choice-making in my personal and
civic life. Vision is using your values to create a vision in service to
others. I think of this V as the full thought and evaluation of what the
right thing to do is. Not just for yourself but for the masses. Then you
have Voice, the way you sway others to join in and motivate them to
action; getting your vision across to others in a genuine way that
convinces others to join in as well. Lastly you have Virtue, striving to
do what is right and good. We become what we practice and how we
react to situations and the decisions we make will become part of us.
For moving forward to what is best for the common good and
focusing on the masses rather than your own personal needs. It is
important to keep your values in line with the common good and to
reflect on your journey as you go.
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I think one major difficulty that I may face within this Leadership
Model in my selected field is that a lot of the people within the
Marketing, Radio, and TV industries do not possess the same values
as I do. Within these industries it can sometimes be an everyman for
themselves type of mindset and that can hinder my ability to
implement what I have learned and my ability to share my vision.
These industries tend to have a lot of corruption within them so I am
afraid that I might lose sight of the set goals I have for the common
good of others rather than myself. It is important that I realize that
these industries have a strong power to change ones beliefs and
values and to stay true to my own. I will give myself everyday
reminders to prepare for these struggles ahead and understand that
I do not what to change my values for others.
See Evidence #6
Situational Leadership is broken into four different parts. The four
parts are telling, selling, participating, and delegating. Starting with
telling, this is where the leader tells its followers what to do and how
it should be done. Selling is when the leader gives the followers
communication, information and direction. The leader is essential
selling their message to gain a following base. Participating is
another part and this is where the leader is less focused on where
the group is going and more focused on the building relationships
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and effectively. This idea gives a leader the opportunity to take prior
experiences of a job or situation to create ideas as to how things
should progress off of those experiences. Constructivist learning by a
leader leads to aid of self-construction of that leader and it divides
power to subordinates by giving their personal experiences dividends
in the ideas moving forward. The main goal of constructivist leaders
is implement change based on intention not prediction. This leader is
to create a community of memories so to speak and take those
experiences analyze them and then plan accordingly.
See Evidence #8
Within my internship at Townsquare Media I have come to
understand what the word constructivism means to my own personal
growth. When I was first going into my internship I thought everything
I had pictured and seen on TV that showed radio stations was
accurate and that is what I pictured when I first walked in the door. It
wasnt until I started talking to other people within my internship that
had been there for years and had told me about their experiences
and what to expect when my viewpoint shifted. I took what they had
told me about the industry in general and the company worked for
me to better predict how I would be able to complete the jobs and
projects I would have been given. For example, I would go on air but
first I would sit and watch others so I knew what was expected and
how to improve it in the best way. I would often talk with my
internship advisor about ways to help the company and different
radio stations progress forward in a positive and innovative manner.
See Evidence #9
David A. Kolb created the experiential learning model as it pertains to
leadership development based on the concept that a person learns
through carrying out an action and than seeing the results of that
action. He describes it as the process linking education, work and
personal development. His model consists of four key elements
which are; Concrete Experience, Observation and Reflection, the
Formation of Abstract Concepts, and Testing in New Situations.
Concrete Experience- is the leaner gaining experience through
action of completing applicable matter and on hand work. The
learner experiences more hands on experience but watches for most
results. (Diverging)
Observation and Reflection- learner taking the experience given
through the internship/matter process and reflecting on its results.
Through the process of actually completing required work brings
belief in the concepts and ideas administered. (Assimilating)
Formulation of Abstract Concepts- through the experience and
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Experience
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First Socialization: This is when each person learns more about their
personal identity through their parents, relatives, teacher and people
they love and trust. This shapes each persons idea of norms,
values, and expectations.
Institutional & Cultural Socialization: In this stage the individuals
ideas are reinforced by institutions, churches, schools, television,
song lyrics, and media. Social norms are then embedded into the
individual involuntarily. The individual learns the potential
consequences if they are not compliant to their assumed social
identity.
Enforcements: Rewards and punishments are established. For those
who comply to their social identity they get rewards and benefits
while other who disobey their assumed social norm get negative
consequences.
Results: Everything explained above leads to dissonance, silence,
anger, self-hatred and dehumanization. There are targets and
agents; targets are oppressed and battle it internally while agents
unconsciously or unintentionally accept the benefit of these set
norms. Direction for Change: in order to break the cycle each person
must be fully aware of their status in society and how they can use
that to help others. They shall empower one another, build alliances,
and allow new rules and ideas to form. Doing what is morally right
rather than conforming to societal norm pertaining to sexual
preference, race, culture, ethnicity, etc.
Actions: The circle will always continue unless there is conscious
action taken to put an end to this vicious cycle.
See Evidence #17
My path through Harros Cycle of Socialization within the LGBTQ
community was one that has stayed with me over time. My first
socialization was when I was younger; I grew up in a family where I
had a gay uncle and a lesbian cousin and it was accepted by my
immediate family so I never thought anything of it. I didnt know it
was different or out of the ordinary. My parents were always very
open to letting me be whoever I wanted to be and always told me
that they would love me no matter what and that is something I am
very thankful for. I had always grown up in an environment that I
knew to be welcoming to myself and all of my friends. It wasnt until I
had gotten older that I started to realize that others thought it was
weird for me to have a gay uncle. Specifically, I remember in one of
my Confraternity of Christian Doctrine classes they had us talk about
ourselves and family and when I mentioned that I had two uncles
that loved each other the whole class started to laugh and even the
teacher gave me a look of disgust.
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This is when I first realized that some thought this was unacceptable
and wrong. My uncles had adopted two sons and watching what they
had to go through as a family made me confused and angry at a
young age. My uncles are in fact catholic and once they adopted
their sons every time we went to church after that others would
whisper and stare as us. One time a man came up to us and started
screaming at my uncle saying How dare you come to church when
you know God would never approve of your lifestyle. At such a
young age I didnt understand how others could say such mean
things to people within this community and not feel bad. My belief
that being gay or lesbian was nothing out of the ordinary was being
challenged by society and institutions. The songs I heard on the
radio and the way others talked in school were constantly bashing
the LGBTQ community. As I got older I started standing up for others
like my uncles and cousins because I knew the toll it had taken on
them. They wake up every day trying to tell themselves that today
will be different; today will be a good day, only to walk outside of their
door and immediately get hit in the face with oppression and nasty
comments.
See Evidence #18
The Cycles of Liberation derived by Harro is used for the purpose of
deriving a problem and then using the cycle to critically transform the
problem to create a solution. The cycle consists of seven steps with
a single core value.
The 7 steps are as follows:
1. Waking Up- a critical incident that changes the core
ideas/beliefs of someone or a group of people
2. Getting Ready- the dismantlement of previous views and
ideas (Stereotypes, ignorance, misinformation) to replace
them with the new perspectives.
3. Reaching Out- along with the getting ready stage this is when
you take the new perspectives and administer this to others
to get formal feedback as to how the new views will be met
with others
4. Building Community- after the reaching out step and gaining
success with feedback the next step consists of two parts.
Sub-step one is conveying new perspectives to like minded
individuals to gain support and build momentum. Sub-step
two is the convey new perspective to individuals with different
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Most of the education systems have become more helpful for people
within this community although not everyone has come around there
has been a dramatic increase in the amount of people that support
the LGBTQ community. The most recent accomplishment is the right
to get married which has been years in the making and way overdue.
This community has endured both good and bad attention from the
media and education systems. The hardest thing to overcome is the
battle with religion. This is still ongoing and something that Im not
sure will be resolved anytime soon. Certain religions hold a lot of
power over the LGBTQ community and it is a constant battle
between the two. These religions are still trying to hold onto the
societal constructs and expectations that have been put in places
years ago pertaining to the roles of a men and women in society.
This is where they are trying to train new blood to maintain the
configurations. I have seen this on a personal level like I have talked
about previously with my uncles in the churches. This is something
where some people who believe strongly in their religion do not what
to come to an agreement or understanding of the LGBTQ
community. The progress that this community has made is huge but
their fight is nowhere near done, there are so many other injustices
that this community faces and this is just the beginning.
See Evidence #22
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is a leader who creates change and brings ideas off of paper and
into reality. A change agent takes on a leadership role and fires up
and motivates others to join in on making positive changes. A
change agent is aware that change does not happen overnight and
can be a long and tedious process. Change agents understand that
change is a process and that there will be obstacles and they have
strategies for overcoming these obstacles. In order to achieve social
change, one must be a change agent themselves. Social change is
difficult and is extremely process-oriented. A change must have the
ability to be confident, patient and be willing to step out of their
comfort zone when needed. They must also have the ability to
influence others and want to take a risk to make a difference happen.
See Evidence #9.
I have realized that I have become a change agent within my family.
Outside of my parents I am very close with my cousins and they tend
to be less sensitive to societal changes and more close minded to
change. For example, my three old cousins are boys and tend to not
have a filter when they speak and constantly make racial and gender
slurs at family functions. To them it is all in light fun and not meant to
be hurtful but I have started to stop them for saying thing and using
the phrases they usually do. Now, Im not saying that I have fully
changed them but I do believe that they are more conscious to what
they are saying, especially around me. I dont hold back in pointing
out inappropriate sentences and reminding them that they are only
encouraging a racial and gender divide in our society.
See Evidence #
In SOLC, every retreat is different as well as the groups we work with
but it is important to always have a code of inclusive leadership
present in the back of your mind. I have noticed that there was a
pattern in almost every retreat and that was usually one or two
students would take charge leaving others annoyed and
discouraged. As a leader, I know how important it is to create an
inclusive environment because I understand that everyones opinions
and ideas have the potential to be equally as powerfully for the group
so I try to stimulate that into them as well. Some may not be as
outgoing as others so I usually try and use activities that require
each member to speak one by one so that everyone feels included in
the retreat. By doing this I have seen multiple people start to come
out of their shells as they have become more comfortable and feel
more involved. Being an inclusive in all aspects of my life is
something I strive for.
See Evidence #12 and #25
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Sigma Delta Tau
raise their hands to vote for which one they find most appropriate for
the situation.
See Evidence #
When in a situation that my family and I are trying to decide what
movie we will watch, we often flip a coin. It may seem silly but we all
know it is fair and it lessens the bickering. Taking a poll is also
something that I tend to do, I will write down my options and take a
poll and tally the answers when I am trying to figure out which option
will be best for a larger group. Picking out of a hat is very helpful
when trying to figure out the order of something. I use this a lot when
in the sorority we had to give speeches, I would have them pick out
of a hat to set the order they would be going in. Weighing the pros in
cons of an option is my favorite and I have used this a lot within my
life whether is be something small in my life like Should I go to
Bonvue tonight when I have a test tomorrow? or things on aa larger
scale such as deciding what college I wanted to attend. Lastly, voting
has proved to be an excellent tactic when in a large group setting
where you need to assess what the majority or people want or can
cooperate with. This has been things as small as what time we were
going to have our weekly meetings to whether we should give
someone a position.
See Evidence #
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Additional
Experiences
Communication Classes
Revised:
The definition of listening is the act of receiving, constructing
meaning, and responding to those messages. There are certain
techniques that are needed in order to be an active listener. One
must be fully committed to what the other person is saying. Some
good techniques are to put all of your electronics away and to make
eye contact. By making eye contact with the person who is speaking
it lets them know that you are fully aware of what they are saying. A
lot of people do not realize active listening involves receiving some
sort of feedback. This could be something as simple as a head nod
in agreement or even the act of actually responding to what was
said. Knowing how to show that you are actively listening is
important because it shows the other person that you are interested
and invested in what they are saying.
See Evidence # 10.
I have truly learned the importance of active listening throughout my
college experience. I know that within my classes I like to be fully
aware of what is happening by silencing my phone and making eye
contact with the professor as he/she is teaching. This helps me really
pick apart what I am supposed to be learning while also showing my
professor that I am engaged in the lesson. I do this by asking
questions and being respectful to the professor or a student that may
be presenting. Within my communication classes I have done and
seen a lot of presentations, I have learned how to actively listen to
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big and small and with 150 girls with all different opinions there will
never be a smooth path but the one thing that is key is proper
communication. Members of the executive board would meet once a
week to go over what needed to be discussed and how to present it
to the house. There were times where things were not
communicated well to the rest of the sorority which lead to a lot of
disagreements and problems. These have ranged from immaturity
and cattiness within the house to legal issues that could possibly put
our sorority at risk. In order to avoid these it is important that
everyone is on the same page and there is a line of communication
that includes all the members. Where we can all analyze the
problem, figure out what has led to this issue, come up with potential
solutions, and how to prevent it from happening again. As a whole
we weigh the benefits and costs of each option and then select the
appropriate course of action. This could be as small as sitting down
with a few girls to discuss their negative actions to requesting the
help of our Nation Advisors. While everyone is freely communicating
their thought and opinions it help find the best solution to be carried
out. Communicating in a large group can sometimes be difficult so it
is important to keep everyone on track and focused.
See Evidence #29
Giving and receiving feedback can be very helpful to the growth of a
person, community, organization and more. It is important to be open
and accepting to the feedback that is being provided even if it may
seem hurtful. There are some techniques to help you give and
receive feedback. When giving feedback you must always approach
the situation kindly and understand that this feedback is meant to
help the other party not hurt them. I also firmly believe that you
should never leave on a con. You can say you really need to step up
more with x, y, and z and then end with but I am really proud of how
you have been doing x, and y. The one good and one bad technique
has proven to do well for me. Now on the reverse end receiving
feedback and criticism can sometimes be hard, especially when it is
not what you want to hear. It is important to stay open-minded and
accepting in the circumstance. The person that is offering this
feedback most likely only want to help you succeed and it is
important to realize that you will have weakness that need
improvement. Take the criticism and actively work hard to fix those
shortcomings in the future.
See Example #
Being able to take criticism is a very important quality to possess.
One must understand that criticism is there to help you improve and
accepting feedback.
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techniques to work
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can address any conflicts and issues that may arise. The third step is
norming, norming is when you look into further skill development.
The fourth step is, performing and this is when you address the most
difficult tasks. The last step is adjourning, this means that you
evaluate your group goal and bring everything to closure. We had to
use this process within our group projects in Flite, and this process
was extremely helpful. See evidence #3.
Revised:
There are 5 essential steps for group development, the first being,
forming. For forming you have to understand that this is going to be
a process and you have to start somewhere so starting out with
icebreakers and teambuilding exercises for the group can be very
beneficial. You can then move onto storming, this is the second
stage where you can address any conflicts and issues that may
arise. The third step is norming; norming is when you look into
further skill development. The fourth step is, performing and this is
when you address the most difficult tasks. The last step is
adjourning, this means that you evaluate your group goal and bring
everything to closure. We had to use this process within our group
projects in Flite, and this process was extremely helpful.
See evidence #14.
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of the construction /
elements of informative and
persuasive speeches
Student will demonstrate
proficiency in informative
and persuasive public
speaking
Student will show knowledge
of planning and conducting
interviews (as the
interviewer)
Student will describe
personal examples of
planning and conducting
interviews (as the
interviewer)
Student will show knowledge
of preparing for and effective
answers in interviews (as the
interviewee)
Student will describe
personal examples of
preparing for and being
interviewed
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In the summer I work for Frogbridge Day Camp, Ive been working
there for 6 years and every year I have to get re-interviewed. If you
have worked there for a previous summer my boss has an
evaluation from that summer that your supervisor fills out. He then
goes over that with you and tells you what you did right and what you
need to improve on. To prepare for this interview I give myself a
mock interview and with working there for 6 years I have gotten the
gist of what questions he will ask and I practice what intellectual
answers I could respond with. In an interview it is important to make
yourself stand out and not just give the common answers of, Im a
people person and other basic answers that the interviewer hears
all day. I always come prepared with my resume at hand. See
evidence #14.
Revised:
I have been working at Frogbridge Day Camp in the summer for 7
years and every year I have to get re-interviewed. The way the
interview process works is by using evaluations. If you have worked
there for a previous summer my boss has an evaluation sheet from
that summer that your supervisor fills out. He then goes over the
evaluation sheet with you and tells you youre your strengths were
and what you need to improve on. He then asks you situational
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credibility applies to
leadership, as well as the
characteristics and skills of a
credible leader
Student will describe
personal examples of
building, maintaining, and
repairing his/her own
credibility as a leader
Student will describe ethical
standards in influence
Student will describe
influence applies to
leadership
Student will describe
principles of effective
mentoring, as well as
problems particular to the
mentoring relationship
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age group that was ages 12 and 13 and they were all girls. With that
age group comes a lot of attitude especially when it comes to girls. I
had one camper that had been made fun of by other campers within
the group. I noticed when I had first met her that she was very timid
and shy so I made sure to really keep my eye on her and make sure
that she had someone to talk to. There was one specific day that
sticks out to me the most. At the camp we travel and we had gone to
a water park and as all the girls were in their bathing suits she had
left her jean shorts on and all the other girls kept asking her why she
was leaving them on and she got extremely defensive about the
whole thing so I knew something bigger was going on. As I sat down
next to her I had realized that she had cut marks along her thighs
and legs. When I asked her what was wrong it took her a little time to
open up but when she did I made sure to be there for her. I took her
under my wing and treated her like a younger sister. I helped her
through some of her hardest times and always tried to remain a
stable positive person in her life. Being a mentor for someone is a
great experience that the two of you get to share. You get to build a
relationship between the two of you that is almost indescribable. She
had taught me so much and I am beyond thankful to be able to be a
mentor for her.
See Evidence #30
142. Student will describe
principles of effective peer
leadership, as well as
problems particular to peer
leadership
143. Student will describe
personal examples related to
being a peer leader and
being led by peers
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