How To Have A First Kiss With Your Partner
How To Have A First Kiss With Your Partner
First Kiss
With Your
Partner
Kissing Tips for Girls:
1. Make sure your breath is OK by carrying mints
with you always.
2. Get close to your boyfriend and lean onto his
shoulder, resting your head like you are tired. Turn
and look up towards him and see if he responds. If
he does not try to kiss you it probably just is not the
right time yet.
3. Stare at his lips for a second, close your eyes
slightly and look away and then smile up at him.
4. Don't get nervous or stressed. When it is the right
time for the kiss, it will happen. Just accept that and
wait for another good opportunity.
5. To signal you want him to kiss you, put your arms
around his neck or gently touch his neck and
shoulders. These are all signals he should pick up on
easily.
6. Don't be afraid to go for the kiss. Some guys are
just too shy to make the first move so you can
encourage them by giving them a gentle kiss on their
cheek to show you are interested.
7. Tell him you would like him to kiss you. Many
guys like it when girls are open and honest like that.
If your subtle hints and suggestions are not working
then just say something like "You could kiss me if
you wanted too" and see what happens. If nothing
happens than accept that it just isn't meant to be.
Kissing Tips for Guys:
1. Get over your shyness. Girls want you to kiss
them as much as you want to kiss them in most
cases. If you mean it, say that you love them.
2. Carry mints with you to make sure you have fresh
breath.
3. Don't try for the first kiss with an audience. Most
girls would rather this be a private moment between
the two of you so wait until you are alone or out of
sight.
4. Read her signals and body language. Her signals
may not always make a lot of sense, for example she
may shove you away and then laugh and look you in
the eyes. She could be playing hard to get our she
could be unsure what she wants to do. Think about
your time together and try to figure out if she is
comfortable and relaxed on your dates, if she is flirty
with you and sends you signals with her body
language and if she does things like touch you a lot,
lick her lip or bite her lips? These could be signals
she wants a kiss from you.
5. Look into her eyes. If she returns the look and
doesn't break the eye contact then she feels
comfortable.
6. Slowly and gently move closer to her. Do not
move to fast or it will be very unromantic.
7. Wrap your arms around her. Do not attempt to
feel her up or grab her in inappropriate places while
going for the first kiss. You should be a gentleman.
Put your arms around her and pull her towards you.
Do not get uncomfortably close to her, though.
8. Make sure you are making eye contact while you
do this. Eye contact is so important, we talked about
it twice now!
9. Look in the direction of her lips and move in
towards them for the kiss. Make sure you don't miss.
10. Don't be too aggressive with the kiss but don't be
too chaste either. You want the first kiss to be
romantic and sensual but not overly aggressive and
intimidating. Don't keep your mouth completely
open or completely closed and don't make the kiss
last too long, like over 30 seconds, or too short, like
under 5 seconds. Aim for a kiss lasting around 10
seconds. Tongue is optional but should be done
gently and not forcefully.
11. Don't say anything, just wait to see what she
does. Smile at her and relax. Give her a big hug to
make the moment even more special.