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KU Ragging

The document describes the author's experiences with bullying at school. They recall being physically and verbally abused by other students on a daily basis. The author felt powerless to stop the abuse and feared for their safety.

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hLb Avgv‡`i wWwmwc‡bi wmwbqi fvB‡qiv Avgv‡`i Avm‡g Avm‡Zv f‡q
Avgvi kixi w`‡q Nvg So‡Zv| GKw`b e„n¯úwZevi Avgv‡`i K¬vm we‡Kj 5Uv
ch©š—| Avgv‡`i eo fvB‡`i K¬vm `ycyi 2Uvq †kl n‡q‡Q| Zviv Avgv‡`i‡K i¨vM
†`qvi Rb¨B K¨v¤úv‡m _vK‡Zv| Avgvi g‡b c‡o 5Uvi c‡i ïi“ n‡jv †mB wefrm
`„k¨| Avgv‡`i K¬vmi“gUv †ek eo| †mLv‡b †g‡S‡Z Avgv‡`i‡K mvZvi KvU‡e
ej‡jv| GB mvZvi KvU‡Z wM‡qB A‡bKi nvUz‡Z wQ‡j †Mj| ‡mw`b wk‡LwQ
mvZvi ïay cvwb‡ZB bq gvwU‡ZI KvUv hvq| Gic‡i Avgv‡`i‡K Rvbvjvi †iwjs G
Syj‡Z Av‡`k w`‡jb Avgv‡`i eo fvBiv| Avgiv f‡q ZvB ïi“ Kijvg| A‡bKB 4/5
wgwb‡Ui †ewk †mLv‡b Szj‡Z cvi‡jv bv Zv‡`i g‡a¨ AvwgI GKRb| Gevi Avgv‡K
ej‡jv Zvn‡j 200 evi Kvb a‡i DVvemv Ki‡Z| Avwg ivwR bv nIqvq Avgv‡K
†Uªwms †ccvi w`‡q gvi‡Z Aviv¤^ Ki‡jb GKRb| †k‡l ivwR njvg| kvixwiK
AZ¨vPvi mn¨ Kiv Lye KwVY| Avi me‡P‡q KwVY evev-gv Zz‡j Akxj I AK_¨
fvlvq Mvwj nRg Kiv| GK mßv‡ni g‡a¨ me wk‡L †Mjvg| †mw`‡bi `yBkZevi
DVvemv Ki‡Z wM‡q GKmgq Avwg AÁvb n‡q wM‡qwQjvg| hLb Ávb wdi‡jv
ZLb †`wL Avgv‡K mevB GKwU †W‡·i Dc‡i DwV‡q‡Q Ges Avgvi eÜziv mevB
Avgvi w`‡K AcjK `„wó‡Z †P‡q Av‡Q| Avgv‡`i eo fvBiv AvR iv‡Z mevB‡K
wewfbœ `‡j fvM K‡i Zv‡`i †g‡m †W‡K‡Q| mevi `„wó‡Z †Kgb †hb GKUv
Amnvq‡Z¡i Avfv| cÖvq N›Uvi Dc‡i Avgv‡`i Dci G ai‡bi AZ¨vPvi P‡jwQj|
Avgv‡`i wb‡R‡`i K¬v‡m †Kvbw`b Zv‡`i K¬v‡m, w`‡bi ci w`b| A‡bKevi †f‡e
wQjvg Avgiv †Kb Zv‡`i Øviv wbh©vwZZ n‡ev| wKš‘ hLb †`wL Avgvi K¬v‡m
Avgvi wk¶K‡`i A‡MvP‡i Avgv‡`i †K wbh©vZb K‡i ZLb Avi Zv‡`i wei“‡×
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fvB‡`i GKwU `j _vK‡Zv| †mLv‡b hvIqvi c‡i cÖ_g wb‡`©k GKwU we‡kl Kvco
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†mw`b Avwg †mB we‡kl KvcowU cwowb| Gevi Zviv GKwU bZzb wPš—v
Ki‡jv Avgv‡K wb‡q Avgv‡K cy‡iv‡bv cwÎKv Avb‡Z Avgv‡`i †g‡m cvwV‡q w`j
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Avgv‡`i evmvi mvg‡b Avm‡ZB Avgv‡K `yBRb wmwKDwiwU MvW© a‡i
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MvW©iv G‡jv †mRb¨ Avgv‡K †mB iv‡Î GKwU cvw÷‡Ki evjwZ cvwb f‡i
†mUvi g‡a¨ cv w`‡q Aa© †Pqvi n‡q cÖvq Avav N›Uv _vK‡Z n‡qwQj| †mmgq
†mB †ccv‡ii e¨envi †`Ljvg| Avgvi me eÜz‡KB GKwU K‡i †ccvi w`‡q Zv‡`i‡K
cv‡ki i“‡g wM‡q c‡i Avm‡Z ej‡jv Ges †mB mv‡_ Mv‡q †Kvb myZv †hb bv
_v‡K †mB ûuwkqvwiI w`j| wgwbU cv‡PK c‡i †`Ljvg GK GK K‡i Avgvi eÜziv
mevB Avm‡Q| Zv‡e GKUv NUbvi Rb¨ Avgvi mvgvb¨ wKQzUv nvwm
†c‡qwQj, †mUv n‡jv Avgvi me‡P‡q ¯^v¯’¨evb eÜzwUi Rb¨ GKUv †ccvi h‡_ó
wQj bv| †m cwÎKvwU GKUz †U‡b aiv‡Z †mUv wQ‡i †Mj Avi Avwg nvwm
AvU‡K ivL‡Z cviwb| Gevi Avwg †Kb nvmjvg GB Aciv‡a Avgv‡K GKUv KvPv
gwiP I GKUv wcqvR †L‡Z ej‡jv| wcqvR †L‡q †Zgb Amyweav bv n‡jI KvPv
gwiP †L‡Z wM‡q Avgvi Ae¯’v fxlY Lvivc n‡q wM‡qwQj| GKevi g‡b nw”Qj eo
fvB‡`i a‡i jvwV w`‡q †cUvB| cÖ‡qvRb n‡j GB wek¦we`¨vj‡q cijvg bv| wKš‘
cvwiwb| Avgvi evevi cuvP mš—vb, Zv‡`i g‡a¨ Avwg me‡P‡q †QvU| Avwg
wØZxqevi fwZ© cix¶v w`‡q GLv‡b PvÝ †c‡qwQ| Avgvi Ab¨vb¨ fvB-‡evbiv
†KD cvewjK wek¦we`¨vj‡q fwZ© n‡Z cv‡iwb e‡j Avgvi evevi GZw`b GKUv
g‡bvKó wQj| Avwg fwZ© n‡Z †c‡iwQ, Zvi ‡mB ¯^cœ cy‡ivb n‡q‡Q| Avwg
hw` GB wek¦we`¨vjq Z¨vM K‡i P‡j hvB Z‡e RvZxq wek¦we`¨vj‡q ci‡Z n‡e|
Avgvi AveŸvi gy‡Li QwewU †Pv‡Li mvg‡b †f‡m DV‡ZB Avi cvwiwb †mB me
eo fvB‡`i AvNvZ Ki‡Z| †mw`b iv‡Î Avgv‡K Avi Avgvi eÜz‡K Zv‡`i †gS gy‡Q
Zvic‡i Avgiv mevB †mB biKxq hš¿bv †_‡K †mw`‡bi g‡Zv gyw³ ‡c‡qwQ| A‡iv
A‡bK ai‡bi AZ¨vPvi I gvbwmK wbh©vZb cÖwZwbqZ, cÖwZw`b Avgv‡`i‡K
mn¨ Ki‡Z n‡Zv| wKQz ejvi †bB| cÖwZiv‡Z ivZ 3/4 Uv ch©š— wmwbqi
fvB‡`i Gme wbh©vZb mn¨ K‡i Nygy‡Zv †hZvg Avi ciw`b K¬v‡m †h‡Z †`wi
nZ| Avgviv hviv †m mgq †g‡m _vKZvg i¨v‡Mi mgq (bexY eib ch©š—)
wVKgZ Nygv‡Z cviZvg bv, †L‡Z cviZvg bv, Pjv‡divi ¯^vaxYZv wQj bv|
K¬vm †U÷ ch©š— Lvivc KiZvg iv‡Î covïbv Ki‡Z cvwiwb e‡j|

AviI wKQz wewQbœ i¨vwMs Gi NUbv g‡b co‡Q| †hgb, GKw`b Avwg mn
Avgvi PviRb eÜz‡K GKwU ‡g‡m i¨vM †`qv n‡”Q| GK ch©v‡q GKRb eo fvB
Avgv‡`i‡K GKUv iwk w`‡q Avgv‡`i we‡kl A½wU eva‡Z ej‡jb| cÖ_‡g Avgv‡K
Avi Avgvi GK eÜz‡K w`‡jb| Avwg iwkwU bv eva‡jI Avgvi eÜzwU †e‡awQj|
nVvr eo fvBwU iwkwUi gvSLv‡b a‡i Uvb w`‡jb| G‡Z Avgvi eÜzwU fxlY e¨v_v
†c‡q wbtk‡ã Kuv`‡Z jvM‡jv Ges †Kvb K_v bv e‡j Zvi †g‡m wM‡q e¨vM
†MvQvw”Qj| Avwg GKUz c‡i wM‡q †`wL †m e¨vM †MvPv‡”Q| †m Avi ci‡e bv
GB wek¦we`¨vj‡q| Avwg A‡bK †evSv‡bvi c‡i †m Avi hvqwb| †mI Avgvi gZ
wØZxqevi cix¶v w`‡q GB wek¦we`¨vj‡q fwZ© n‡Z †c‡i‡Q| ZviI nq‡Zv Avgvi
g‡ZvB wcQzUvb wQj|

Avi GK w`‡bi NUbv| Avwg Avi Avgvi wWwmwc‡bi Avi `yBRb eofvB f¨v‡b K‡i
wbivjv AvevwmK GjvKvq hvw”Q| wKQz`yi hvIqvi c‡i GKRb ej‡jb, ZzB f¨vb
†_‡K †b‡g Avgv‡`i f¨v‡bi wcQ‡b wcQ‡b †`Їo Avq| GZw`b e× i“‡g i¨vM
†LZvg wKš‘ AvR‡K cÖKv‡k¨ w`‡bi Av‡jvq GKUv f¨v‡bi wcQ‡b †`Šov‡Z Lye
Lvivc jvMwQj wKš‘ Zvi Aeva¨ n‡Z cvwiwb| mZ¨ ej‡j mvnm nqwb| c‡i hw`
Avevi †Kvb fqven wKQz kvw¯— †`q| Av‡M †QvU †ejvq Avgvi evB mvB‡K‡ji
wcQ‡b Avgv‡`i KzKziUv †hfv‡e †`Šov‡Z AvwgI †mfv‡e †`Šovjvg †mB f¨v‡bi
wcQ‡b|

Avi GKw`b Avgv‡K Avgvi GKRb wmwbqi fvB wbivjv AvevwmK GjvKvi GKwU
†`vKv‡b Avgv‡K `k wgwb‡Ui g‡a¨ †W‡K cvVvq| Avwg ‡mLv‡b †cŠwQ‡Z c‡bi
wgwb‡Ui g‡Zv †j‡MwQj| Avwg †Kb Avm‡Z †`wi Kijvg †mRb¨ Avgv‡K †mB
†gv‡iB Kvb a‡i `yevi DVvemv Kivi wb‡`©k w`‡jb| Avwg Zvi AvÁve‡ni g‡Zv
Zv cvjb K‡i wQjvg|

AviI KZ iK‡gi i¨vM †L‡qwQ| Avgiv i¨vM †L‡q KvbœvKvwU Kwi Avgvi wmwbqi
fvB‡qiv Zv †`‡L gRv cvq| KZ iKg †h i¨vM †L‡qwQ Zvi wn‡me †bB, †hgbt PK
†L‡qwQ, Avjy, wcqvR, gwiP †L‡qwQ, gy‡L RyZvi Kvwj †g‡LwQ, iv‡Î VvÛv
cvwb‡Z †Mvmj K‡iwQ, Avgvi †P‡q †Wi ¸b IR‡bi eÜz‡K Nv‡i wb‡qwQ, Aa©
†Pqvi n‡q e‡m †_‡KwQ, Akxj eB/KweZv cvV K‡i ïwb‡qwQ AviI A‡bK wKQz
K‡iwQ hvi wKQz wKQz wj‡L cÖKvk Kiv Avgvi c‡¶ m¤¢e bq|

GB wmwbqi fvB‡`i Kv‡Q †Kvb Kvib `k©v‡bv I bv ejv GKcÖKvi fqven Aciva|
†h †hUv bv ej‡e Zv‡K †mUvB Ki‡e| GUvB †eva nq i¨v‡Mi gyj D‡Ïk¨| Zv‡`i
cÖwZ Avgvi †Kvb kª×v‡eva nqwb| ZLbI Zv‡`i‡K Agvbyl g‡b nZ AvRI g‡b nq|
GLbI A‡bK‡K †`L‡j Avgvi K_v ejvi i“wP nq bv| Zv‡`i gy‡L _y_y w`‡Z B‡”Q
K‡i|

i¨v‡Mi cwigvbUv gv‡S gv‡S evo‡Zv Avi gv‡S gv‡S Kg‡Zv| Avgvi g‡b Av‡Q
Avgv‡`i bexY ei‡bi Av‡M Avgviv mevB Rvb‡Z †c‡iwQ Avgv‡`i mevB‡K
mvivivZ i¨vM †`qv n‡e| †mB iv‡ZB n‡e Avgvi wmwbqi‡`i †kl i¨vM Ges fqven
i¨vM| Avgiv K¬vm †kl K‡i `ycy‡iB mevB †gm †Q‡o cvwj‡q hvB| †h †hLv‡b
†c‡i‡Q| Ae‡k‡l Avgiv †mB fqven i¨vM †_‡K †e‡P †MwQ Z‡e †h `yB Rb cvjv‡Z
cv‡iwb Zv‡`i Dci †m iv‡Z AgvbywmK wbh©vZb n‡q‡Q|
cÖ_g w`‡K `yGKw`b evmvq Gme NUbv wKQz wKQz ejZvg c‡i Avi ewjwb|
Ah_v Avgvi eve-gv‡K †Ubk‡b ivLvi wK `iKvi| GKevi Avgvi eo fvB‡K GKUv
NUbv ejv‡Z †m gv‡K e‡jwQj| c‡i gvi mv‡_ K_v ej‡Z †M‡j gv Kvbœv ïi“ K‡i
w`‡qwQj| e‡jwQj- evev †Zvi ILv‡b covi `iKvi †bB ZzB P‡j Avq| Gi ci †_‡K Avi
wKQz evmvq ewjwb|

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