Chinese Family Tree Part4
Chinese Family Tree Part4
Paternal relatives chart in this final series on the Chinese Family Tree completes the jigsaw puzzle.
In the famous Chinese classic Dream of the Red Chamber hng lu mng, the male and female protaganists in the story, Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu are maternal cousins engaged to be married from young in a parental pre-arrangement. The Chinese in the olden days have always treated paternal cousins or tang qin as direct blood relations but not biao qin, or maternal relatives, to the extent of forbidding the marriage of paternal cousins while giving a free rein to the union of maternal cousins. Recall from the previous article on maternal relatives that the Chinese take great care to differentiate the titles of relatives that bear the ancestral name and those who don't in the kinship naming system. The use of the prefixes biao (for maternal relatives) and wai (outsider) is a systematic way of achieving this purpose. To conclude this series on the Chinese Family Tree, we will look at the family name bearing part of the kinship system: relatives on the father's side - or paternal relatives. The Chinese use the term tong tang xiong di, to refer to the closest brothers of the same bloodline. So it is natural that the word tang is used to address cousins descended from the males in the family bearing the same family name. By the same token, paternal cousins descended from an aunt however, do not share the same family name and are not addressed as a tang cousin. They are instead, accorded the same titles as the cousins from the mother's side, i.e. biao.
Fathers parents
Paternal grandfather: ye ye Paternal grandmother: nai nai
Fathers siblings
Older paternal uncle and spouse: / bo bo / bo mu Younger paternal uncle and spouse / shu shu / shen shen Paternal aunts and spouses: gu gu / gu zhang Note: birth order is differentiated when addressing paternal uncles, unlike for the maternal side where the mothers brothers are all known as jiu jiu, regardless of their order of birth vis-avis the mother.
Older female maternal cousin and spouse: / biao jie / biao jie fu Younger female maternal cousin and spouse: / biao mei / biao mei fu Note: whether a cousin is older or younger is taken with respect to the age of the person addressing them, i.e. yourself
Paternal Grandfather Paternal Grandmother Maternal Grandfather Maternal Grandmother Father Mother Parents
Husband Wife
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zhng f q zi / ti ti
Uncles & Aunts Paternal Uncle (older) Wife Paternal Uncle (younger) Wife Paternal Aunt Husband Maternal Uncle Wife Maternal Aunt Husband b bo b m sh shu sh m g g g zhng ji jiu ji m y y zhng b f b m sh f sh m g m g fu ji f ji mu y m y fu
Cousins Maternal Male Cousins Maternal Female Cousins Paternal Male Cousins Paternal Female Cousins Paternal Male Cousins (Paternal Aunt's children) Paternal Female Cousins (Paternal Aunt's children) bio g bio d bio ji bio mi tng g tng d tng ji tng mi bio g bio d bio ji bio mi bio xing d bio ji mi tng xing d tng ji mi bio xing d bio ji mi
a higher degree than those who don't. Thinking along this line will help you remember when to use the various prefixes of tang, biao and wai. --------------