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Teasing acts as the mechanism that breaks rapport thus moving us forward from social comfort INTO attraction. Teasing is a toggle. Toggles move us forward or backwards in the interaction depending on how they are used. Story-telling is the art of telling someone something vague and making it sound profound. Cold reading establishes psychological authority a major factor in persuasion and attraction. Body Language girls are looking for any tells in your Body Language that say you're nervous, uncomfortable or feeling rejected

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Teasing acts as the mechanism that breaks rapport thus moving us forward from social comfort INTO attraction. Teasing is a toggle. Toggles move us forward or backwards in the interaction depending on how they are used. Story-telling is the art of telling someone something vague and making it sound profound. Cold reading establishes psychological authority a major factor in persuasion and attraction. Body Language girls are looking for any tells in your Body Language that say you're nervous, uncomfortable or feeling rejected

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The Skills Of Attraction

In the last video, we discussed the types of attraction, now were going to discuss the various skills that are necessary to generate attraction in the women you are attracted to.

The Skills Part 1


1. Teasing
2. Story-Telling 3. Warm and Cold Reading

4. Touching 5. Group Dynamics


6. Body Language 7. Frame Control

Skills Part 2
8. Being Non Reactive
9. Getting Comfortable 10. Role Playing

11.A Cocky and Playful Attitude 12. Delivery


13. Pre-selection 14. Leading

Skills Part 3
15. Humor
16. Understanding Women 17. Handling Congruence Tests

18. Willingness to walk Away 19. Proper Conversational Ratio 20. Grounding Yourself
21. Commitment Ladders 22. Emotional Fluidity

Touching
Touching is an art
For now The 3 basic rules of touching are this 1. Touch Early 2. Escalate touch 3. MAKE SURE YOU RELEASE FIRST!!! Releasing is the key to all ESCALATION

Teasing
For right now, its important to understand that teasing acts as the mechanism that breaks rapport thus moving us forward from social comfort INTO attraction.
Teasing is a toggle. Toggles move us forward or backwards in the interaction depending on how they are used. Qualification is another toggle.

Story-Telling
Stories are a butterknife tool with many uses:
For now heres how to use stories 1. To ground yourself. Well discuss grounding in depth later

2. To make girls laugh


3. To convey some IMPORTANT re ATTRACTIVE information.

Cold and Warm Reading


Cold reading is the art of telling someone something vague and making it sound profound. Cold reads are truisms.
Cold reading establishes psychological authority a major factor in persuasion and attraction.

Warm reading is telling a woman about herself based on information she has already given you. For example: An interior designer is attracted to beautiful things and wants to surround herself with them.

Group Dynamics
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Body Language
Girls are looking for any tells in your body language that say youre nervous, uncomfortable or feeling rejected. Stay Relaxed
Keep Good Posture The person who moves least has the most social power.

Frame Control
Frames are the underlying meaning of an interaction.
When two frames meet, the stronger frame absorbs the weaker frame. This process is known as frame control.

There are two types of frame control


Passive-Teasing, Value Demonstrations, Leading Active- Controlling conversational threads, reframing, sexual framing, shaping, qualification and of course sexual framing.

Being Non-Reactive
When two people interact, much like there is a clash of frames, one person becomes more emotionally reactive than the other.
We generally only emotionally react to things that we perceive as having value.

Being Non-Reactive means to control our emotions and project an image of confidence no matter what we feel inside.
Non reactive is not non expressive.

Getting Comfortable
Getting Comfortable means to re-shape the social group so that you are the most comfortable person in it. WWBPD?
Hemmoraging social value.

Role-Playing
Role-Playing is emotional stimulation at its finest.
Role-Plays allow distance and objectivity to allow for escalation and emotional stimulation.

Example:
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A Cocky And Playful Attitude


A cocky and playful attitude can really amp up the attraction.
This is what I call an attraction amplifier. It doesnt create attraction by itself, but when you already have attraction it strengthens it.

Ways to use a C and P attitude 1. Give 1 funny answer at some point


2. Act like she wants you 3. Give and take away points.

Re-cap
We learned what Attraction skills were and were introduced to the first 11 skills of attraction as well as where these skills fit in.
We learned: Teasing Story-Telling Warm and Cold Reading Touching Group Dynamics Body Language Frame Control, etc

Exercise
Pick 2-3 skills that you want to work on right away.
Pick 1 skill to practice every time you approach the next night out, the night after etc

Next Time
On the next video, were going to wrap up the final skills youll need to master if you want to master the attraction process.
You wont want to miss that!

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