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ROUTINES
time I guess it was just because some days you feel like
you're the king of the world and everything works out for
you, right? It actually became quite a dilemma though
because even though I really enjoyed the feeling, I couldn’t
go to sleep. I wanted to sleep, but I also wanted to keep
that good feeling, right? So I ended up [doing something
I really enjoy doing that’s high-value] for an hour in the
middle of the night before going happily to sleep...Ever had
one of those days? Feels good, doesn’t it?”
Now that you see how to adapt the masters’ personal routines
to your life, you can do the same thing with other personal
routines in this chapter.
Rokker, Love Systems Instructor
Heart Melters
Heart Melters are routines geared towards creating acce-
lerated, deep intimacy with a woman by sharing background
information and tugging on a woman’s heart strings.
Invented by Love Systems Instructor Captain Jack, they
are tailored around the idea that sharing intimate personal
information and revealing deep vulnerabilities heightens
intimacy and trust. As in the previous example, use these as
be made into “heart melters.”
Heart Melter 1 - “Honey, Let Gramma Buy You Some
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‘I was visiting my mom the other day, she lives with my
grandma and takes care of her and watches over her to
make sure she’s okay. While we were talking I noticed my
pair that came with holes already in them, a designer jeans
day I guess... I was wondering ‘Why does she keep looking
After a while my mom got up to check on something in the
other room. My grandmother waited till my mom was out
of hearing range.... Then she leaned over and whispered,
“Honey, let grandma buy you some new jeans.”
(Women will often respond with “Awwwww!”)
“So I had to explain. ‘Oh, these jeans come like that, it’s
the style now.’”
Heart Melter #2 — “$18 for the Light Bill”
One night when I was laying in bed I overheard my mom
talking on the phone to one of her friends.
what your parents are saying but you can tell something
is wrong?”
(She usually nods.)
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“Well, I snuck out of bed and listened through the crack in
the door.
She was worried about how she was going to pay the light
bill. So the next day after school I got my red wagon - you
know those little red wagons everybody has when they’re
kids? — I got mine from the backyard and dumped a bunch
of toys in it. I started at one end of the street and sold the
toys to the neighborhood kids. I gave my mom $18 and
told her it was for the light bill. She started crying.”
(Women have teared up at light bill story.)
Heart Melter #3 — “First Child Brings Surge of Ambition”
“People always told me stuff like ‘Having a kid will change
and helpless. I was amazed. ‘I have to protect this beautiful
little human. She’s really depending on me.’ I was scared
for a second but then I felt this amazing surge of ambition.
I wanted to work harder and become more successful so
that she could have everything she needed.
It’s proven that men who have kids are more successful.
Something about having kids depending on you really
makes you stronger and hungrier for success than ever...
and when I look at my two daughters, I understand why.”