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we draw on theory taken from the work of Harry Stack Sullivan (1953) and
Robert Weiss (1974). We then evaluate our model with two samples of
early adolescent boys and girls. Finally, we discuss our findings and point
to future directions in this area of research.
Theoretical and Empirical Background:
Peer Relations and Adjustment
Our research on the association between aspects of peer relations and
emotional adjustment is embedded within the larger literature regarding
the links between peer relations and adjustment. The overriding premise
of our research is that relations with peers influence development. Several
researchers (for example, Sullivan, 1953) have argued that peer relations
during early adolescence play an important, if not essential, role in the
development of severalaspects of competenceand well-being. A particular
point of this work is that relations with peers provide experiences that
cannot be found in relations with parents. Specifically, whereas parentchild relationships are defined by a hierarchy of social unequals,peer
relationships consist of interaction among equals. As a consequence,
peer relationships give early adolescents important opportunities to experience acceptance, validation, and closeness. For these reasons, Sullivan
argued that peer and friendship relations in early adolescence constitute a
persons first true interpersonalrelationships and make a profound contribution to an early adolescents sense of well-being.
In conjunction with this theoretical literature, there is a great deal of
empirical evidence that measures of peer relations are associated with
measures of adjustment (see Kupersmidt, Coie, and Dodge, 1990; Parker
and Asher, 1987). Indeed, numerous studies have shown that indices of
adjustment can be significantlypredicted from measures of peer relations.
The general conclusion from this literature is that children and adolescents
who do not establish good relations with peers are more likely than other
children to show behavioral and emotional problems during adulthood.
The obvious question raised by these observations is, How do relations
with peers affect development and adjustment in children and adolescents? This question is the centerpiece of our research program.
What Are the Basic Dimensions of Peer Relations? When describing
the effects of peer relations, many investigators have distinguished between childrens and adolescents general experiences within the peer
group and their expelences on the dyadic level with particular peers
(Bukowski and Hoza, 1989; Parker and Asher, in press). The experiences
at the group level fall under the heading of popularity and can be further
broken down into the dimensions of u c c e p ~ ~(that
c e is, how much a child
is liked by members of the peer group) and ~ e j e c ~(that
i ~ n is, how much a
child is disliked by members of the peer group). In contrast, the experi-
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ences at the level of the dyad fall within the domain of friendship. Two
aspects of friendship have been studied: whether a person has a mutual
~
~ relation~with a peer
~ and the
~ q u ~ ~ii t ~ofe the
5 p~~~~p
relation.
That is, whereas popularity refers to a child's general experiences at the
level of the group, friendship refers to dyadic experiences with specific
peers.' It is important to note that popularity is a unilateral construct in that
it refers to the view of the group toward the individual, and friendship is
a at at era^ construct because it refers to the relationship between two
persons.
Measuring Popularity and Friendship. Because popularity and friendship are distinct constructs, they present different measurement requirements. Moreover, each of the constructs is in itself a multidimensional
phenomenon. As pointed out above, there are two fundamental dimensions of populari~,acceptance and rejection. Acceptance and rejection are
typically measured with nomination procedures in which children or
adolescents indicate which of their peers they regard as best friends and
which peers they do not like to be with. The number of times that a child
is chosen as a friend is used as an index of acceptance, whereas the number
of times that the child is chosen as a disliked peer is used as the index of
rejection. These variables are often combined to form two higher-order
measures known as impact and preference. Impact is the sum of acceptance
and rejection and is an index of a child's visibility in the group. Preference
is the difference between acceptance and rejection and is a measure of a
child's relative likeableness.
Another means of measuring popularity is the rating scale. With this
procedure, children indicate on a rating scale how much they like each of
their peers, The mean of the ratings that a child or adolescent receives from
peers is used as the index of popularity. Relative to nomination procedures,
one drawback to the use of a mean received liking score is that it does not
provide distinct indices of acceptance and rejection. Instead, the mean
received liking score is probably best thought of as a construct equivalent
of the preference score derived from nomination data. The important
point, however, is that regardless of whether one uses a rating scale or a
nomination technique, the essential feature of a popularity measure is that
it represents the view of the group toward the individual.
Measures of friendship, in contrast, must reflect the properties of the
relationship between two individuals. Two measures of friendship have
been widely adopted. First, as an index of whether a child has a mutual
friend, investigators determine whether the child makes a reciprocated
friendship choice. That is, a child is regarded as having a mutual friend if
he or she chooses as a best friend a peer who in turn chooses him or her
as a best friend. One could adopt a very restrictive criterion whereby the
reciprocated choice must be observed with the children's first friendship
selection, or one could use a more liberal criterion such as accepting any
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Previous research indicated that popular children have more consistent friendship relations than do unpopular boys and girls. Specifically,
Bukowski and Newcomb (1984)reported that friendshipselectionsacross
a variety of intervals, ranging from one month to eighteen months, were
more stable among popular children than among unpopular boys and girls.
Taken together, these findings led to the conclusion that in spite of the
conceptual distinctions between popularity and friendship, measures of
these constructs are nevertheless interrelated.
Given the association between the measures of popularity and friendship, separate examination of each construct presents obvious confounds.
For example, effects associated with popularity may actually be due to the
fact that highly popular children are more likely to have mutual friends
than are less popular children. To avoid this problem, investigators must
simultaneously consider the effects of popularity and those of friendship.
Only in this way can the unique and combined effects of these variables be
adequately examined.
Popularity and Friendship in Adolescence
We next consider whether the association between peer relationships and
a d j u s ~ e nchanges
t
with age.
Age Changes in Popularity and Friendship. According to theory,
research, and childrens comments about their peer relations, the relative
importance of popularity and friendship changes across the childhood and
adolescent years. The major change across these periods is an increase in
the importanceof interaction at the level of the dyad. For example, Sullivan
(1953)proposed that for school-age children general acceptance by peers
and inclusion in the groupare of greatest concern. Exclusion from the
group, he argued, can be devastating to a childs sense of well-being. At a
later age, during preadolescence and early adolescence, the emphasis on
peer relations shifts to dyadic experiencesand relations with best friends.
Sullivan believed that during early adolescence, friendship, rather than
popularity, is centrally important to the development of a positive sense of
well-being and adjustment. The particular qualities of friendship that he
emphasized were closeness and security.
This increased emphasis on closeness and intimacy in friendship
relations is also apparent in childrensand early adolescentsdescriptions
of their friendships and discussionsof the concept of friendship. Beginning
with Bigelow (1977),many investigatorshave found that as children grow
older, they attach increasing importance to the dyadic features of peer
relations (Berndt, 1986;Bukowski, Newcomb, and Hoza, 1987;Furman
and Bierman, 1984).Whereas young children typically say that play and
companionship are the essential features of friendship relations, preadolescence and early adolescents emphasize the role of intimacy, loyalty,
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trust, and closeness in relations with friends. This age-related trend appears to match the developmental shift described by Sullivan.
Research on the link between intimacy and outcome also suggests an
age-related increase in the importance of friendship. Buhrmester (1990),
for example, has shown that intimacy is more closely associated with
feelings of affective well-being during adolescence than in prior developmental periods. These findings support the view that close friendship
relations take on a new importance during early adolescence.
Friendship as a Mediator Between Popularity and Adjustment. Although the research discussed in the previous section seem to support the
conclusion that popularity becomes less important for adjustment during
adolescence, while friendship becomes more important, it is still difficult
to argue that popularity is unrelated to adjustmentin early adolescence.To
the extent that popularity and friendship are conceptuallyand empirically
linked, it is unreasonable to conclude that one of these phenomena is
related to adjustment whereas the other is not.
There are at least four ways in which popularity and friendship may be
related to adjustment. First, popularity and friendship may both be directly
and uniquely related to adjustment. Second, popularity may be indirectly
linked to adjustmentvia the associationwith friendship. That is, friendship
may mediate the link between popularity and adjustment. Third, and the
converse of the second alternative, popularity may be directly linked to
adjustment,mediating the associationbetween friendship and adjustment.
Fourth, popularity and friendshipmay be associatedwith different aspects
of adjustment. Each of these options is depicted in Figure 2.1.
The increased importance of friendship during adolescence argues
against the third option stated above. Indeed, given the likely link between
popularity and friendship and the increased importance of friendship
during adolescence, we would expect popularity to be linked to adjustment via its association with friendship rather than the other way around.
Moreover, that popular children are more likely to have friends than are
unpopular children argues against the first option. Accordingly, we would
expect (1)popularity to be linked to adjustmentby means of the mediating
effect of friendship and, perhaps, (2) popularity and friendship to be
related to different forms of adjustment. Clearly, in order to understand
how popularity and friendshipare linked to adjustment,investigators need
to examine both the direct and the indirect (mediated) associationsamong
these variables. In the next section, we discuss the possibility that popularity and friendship are linked to different aspects of adjustment.
Popularity, Friendship, and Adjustment
In this section we address the question of whether popularity and friendship have similar effects on adjustment during early adolescence.
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Note: All hypothesizedassociationsin the model are representedby dark arrows. These paths are
all statistically significant. The direct links, representedby gray arrows (coefficients in parentheses), are not statistically significant.
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index of a childs relative likableness in the peer group. The score is the
difference between the number of times a child is chosen as a friend and
the number of times the child is chosen as a disliked peer.
The mutual friendship measure indicated whether a child had a reciprocated friend. To meet the criterion of mutual friendship, a child had to be
either the first or the second choice for best friend of each of the children that
he or she had chosen as a first or second best friend. Approximately half of
the children in the sample met this criterion.
Friendship quality was measured with our Friendship Qualities Scale,
a self-report questionnaire that we designed to assess childrens impressions of their relationships with their best friends in terms of five dimensions: companionship, help or support, conflict, security, and closeness. In
the current study, we focused on two of these subscales-security and
closeness-because they most closely approximate the relationship provisions that have been identified as unique to friendship (Furman and
Robbins, 1985).The items and reliability of these two subscales are shown
in Table 2.1. The security subscale consists of items indicating that in times
of need the child can rely on and trust his or her friend, and that if there
were a quarrel or a fight or some other form of negative event in the
friendship relation, the friendship would be strong enough to transcend
Table 2.1. Items in Two Subscales
of the Friendship Qualities Scale
Subscale
(Cronbachs alpha)
Security C.73)
Item
Closeness (.79)
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this problem. The items in the closeness scale focus on the sense of
affection or specialnessthat the child experiences with his or her friend
and the strength of the childs attachment to the friend.
To complete these two measures, subjects were asked to identify their
best friends and to rate each item on a 5-point scale according to how well
it described their relationships with these friends. These ratings were
coded so that higher scores indicated greater levels of the quality measured.
The children in our sample also completed a scale designed by Asher,
Hymel, and Renshaw (1984) to measure loneliness and social dissatisfaction. Using the subjects ratings of the items in this scale, we tallied two
scores: loneliness and social belongingness. The loneliness score was the
mean of a subjects ratings of the two items in this scale that referred most
directly to feelings of loneliness: I feel alone and I feel lonely. The social
belongingness scale included items that referred to childrens feelings of
inclusion and isolation: I have lots of friends in my class, I dont have
anyone to play with,* I am well likedby the kids in my class, and I dont
have any friends in my class. The subjects rated each of these items on a
5-point scale, higher ratings indicating greater levels of loneliness and
isolation from the peer group. These two scores were internally consistent
(alpha = .68 and .77, for the loneliness and the social belongingness
scores, respectively).
As indicated in Figure 2.2 by the dark arrows, seven paths were
included in our model: popularity was linked to mutual friendship, friendship quality, and social belongingness; mutual friendship was linked to
friendship quality and loneliness;and friendship qualityand belongingness
were linked to loneliness. We evaluated this model with Bentlers (1989)
structural equations program. Our findings indicated that the model
worked very well: The observed goodness-of-fit index was -91 and the chisquare value was 8.08, indicating that our model matched the data well.
The path coefficients also indicated that both mutual friendship and
friendship quality were linked to loneliness, and that popularity was linked
to belongingness. When the model was reevaluated with direct paths
between the popularity measure and the loneliness measure, the mutual
friendship measure and the social belongingness measure, and the friendship quality measure and the social belongingness measure, the overall
quality of the model did not improve. The coefficients for these additiona~
paths were not statistically significant. This pattern of findings supports
the argument that popularity is linked to loneliness not directly but rather
indirectly via mutual friendship and feelings of belongingness.
Popularity, Friendship, and Adjustment: New Directions
Investigators who have studied the associationsbetween peer relations and
adjustment have typically focused on either a single aspect of the peer
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Our findings clarify two other points as well. First, the results suggest
that although children who are unpopular may not feel included in the peer
group, they may nevertheless be protected from feelings of loneliness by a
close and secure relationship with a best friend. In other words, the
friendship relation may act as a buffer to protect unpopular children from
loneliness. Second, it is important to note that mutual friendship is linked
to loneliness directly and indirectly via friendship quality. That is, early
adolescents who do not have a mutual friend are at risk for loneliness
because they lack this kind of relationship and because nonreciprocated
friendships are less likely to provide experiences for closenessand security.
Conclusion
There is a large literature demonstrating that relations with peers play an
important role in social development. The goal of our research program
was to identify the particular means by which peer relations and adjustment are linked during early adolescence. Our approach was predicated on
the proposal that popularity and friendship constitute different forms of
experience for early adolescent boys and girls, and the belief that popularity and f r i e n ~ h i are
p conceptually and empi~callyrelated constructs and
hence must be studied together in a unified model. By pursuing this
research direction, investigators are likely to illuminate how particular
domains of peer relations affect emotional adjustmentduring early adolescence.
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&?LLIAM M. BUKOWSKI
is associateprofessor in the Department of Psychology,
Concordia University, Montrea~.