Introduction: Message Not Received
Introduction: Message Not Received
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The Intersection of
Business, Language,
Communication, and
Technology
The single biggest problem in communication is
the illusion that it has taken place.
George Bernard Shaw
* Weird
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At its most basic level, the word communicate means to make common.*
For a long time now, people have denounced the use of buzzwords when plain English would suffice. Yet jargon persists. The
critics are helpless against words like incent. Beyond that, business
folks turn nouns into verbs. In reality, theyre only bloviating. (The
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now commonplace adoptions of use case* and price point are real pet
peeves of mine.) They fail to consider the context of what theyre
saying, and they speak and write with zero regard for their audiences.
Second, you may believe that new times have always required new
words and phrases. This is true, but not to the same extent currently
exhibited. The verb to Google developed organically. Millions of
people quickly understood what it meant. But what about horrible
and contrived phrases such as Next-Generation Big Data Platform as a
Service? Can we honestly make the same case here?
If technology were a fleeting trend, then perhaps we could
excuse the growing use of jargon, the e-mail deluge, and bad business communication in general. Unfortunately, it isnt and we cant.
Technology is permeating every instance of our livesand not just in
the workplace. The Internet of Things is arriving as we speak. Every
company is becoming a tech company; some of them just havent
realized it yet. Few employees work in tech-free zones.
Although many people currently use the two terms interchangeably, a use case is
not a synonym for use. Rather, the former is a formal software and system engineering term describing how users use systems to accomplish particular goals. A use case
defines the features to be implemented and the resolution of any errors that may be
encountered. See http://tinyurl.com/kg38mu7.
I used to speak Spanish fluently, and I still love the word esposas. It signifies both
wives and handcuffs. Its a fascinating double meaning.
The World Wide Web wasnt the first innovation in communication to draw some initial skepticism. Writing itself was the target of one early critic. Plato warned that writing would weaken
memory, but he was more concerned that written wordsmere
shadows of speechcouldnt adequately represent meaning.
His objections paled as more and more people began to structure their lives around handwritten documents. Centuries later,
the innovative output of Gutenbergs printing press was faulted
for disrupting the natural, almost spiritual connection between
the writer and the page. Eventually, we got used to printing,
but Henry David Thoreau scorned the telegraph when it was
invented in 1840s because this technology for quickly transporting words across vast distances was useless for people who had
nothing to say to one another. The typewriter wasnt universally
embraced as a writing tool when it appeared in the 1870s because
its texts were impersonal, it weakened handwriting skills, and it
made too much noise. And computers, now the writers tool of
choice, are still blamed by skeptics for a variety of ills, including
destroying the English language, slowing down the writing process, speeding up writing to the point of recklessness, complicating it, trivializing it, and encouraging people to write who may,
as Thoreau might put it, have nothing to say.
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The central premise of Message Not Received is quite simple and can
be stated in six words:
Most business communication simply doesnt work.
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head of DIYDrones. Anderson believes that community-driven companies will always win.* His company is pioneering tremendous
innovation via open-source hardware. For his part, WordPress CEO
Matt Mullenweg describes betting on the community as the difference between long-term thinking and short-term thinking.
By espousing transparency and platform thinking, Musk,
Anderson, Mullenweg, and hundreds of other CEOs are effectively
betting that their companies will ultimately gain more than they
surrender. Silly is the organization, however, that arbitrarily posts
highly sensitive documents for all to see. Examples include IP,
financial statements (if the company is privately held), proprietary
software code, and employee performance reviews, salaries, and
succession plans. Discretion, tact, privacy, and basic common sense
still matter and always will. Some things have remained constant.
At the same time, many things have changed. In a nutshell,
its high time for many organizations and people to reevaluate
their internal and external business communications. Aside from
avoiding buzzwords and confusing language, Message Not Received
argues that e-mail should not represent the default or sole means
of sending messages and exchanging information. Better tools
have been available for years, and this book introduces many of
them, as well as a few of the companies that are reaping their
considerable benefits.
Disclaimers
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are often just as important, if not more so. These include our facial
expressions, gestures, body language, posture, and paralinguistics
(e.g., tone of voice, loudness, inflection, and pitch). It would be irresponsible to dismiss the importance of nonverbal communication.
This meaty topic is well beyond my realm of expertise. As such, it lies
outside of the scope of this book. (If youre curious about the subject, The Definitive Book of Body Language, by Barbara Pease, is worth
checking out.)
Next, Message Not Received is not a psychology book. It does not
examine the most effective ways to communicate to disparate personality types. You wont find any overt references to psychometric
questionnaires. No Myers-Briggs Type Indicators.* It also ignores
the differences between introverts and extroverts. (If youre curious
about this subject, check out Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World
That Cant Stop Talking, by Susan Cain.)
Tone Message Not Received delves into our challenges with business
communications (hence the subtitle). As I wrote in Why New Systems Fail, failure teaches us a great deal. Business books like Good
to Great by Jim Collins suffer from relying exclusively on successful
examplesor at least, companies that had been successful at certain
points. That is never wise. As you know from reading the Preface,
this book cites examples of how not to communicate but does not
harp on negativity. Message Not Received is ultimately a positive book
with a tone that is intended to be more instructive than paternalistic or snippy. You will not find any criticisms of honest grammatical
errors and typos.
Who Should Read This Book?
In essence, the theory proposes that a great deal of ostensibly random variation in
human behavior is actually quite orderly and consistent. It stems from basic differences in the ways individuals prefer to use our perception and judgment.
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These people are all trying to achieve different things. Yet, paradoxically, they all have the same fundamental objective: to effectively
communicate to their audiences. They need to ensure that their
messages are received. Whats more, the quality of their communications will dramatically impact whether they ultimately prosper in
their professional endeavors.
Lamentably, far too many people think that successful business
communication necessitates using buzzwords, jargon, and invented
words. It doesnt. (In addition, they often choose the wrong medium
for their communications [e-mail].) Think about talented colleagues
and acquaintances with demonstrable skill and intelligence. Despite
these assets, many people cant communicate well to a single layperson, let alone a group of them, and this is a big problem. As I learned
a long time ago, skill and intelligence only get you so far.
Whether in public or behind closed doors, business communication has never been more essential. The tsunami of technology permeating our lives (a topic that Chapter 1 fully explores) has made
simple, effective, and clear communication an extremely valuable
currency for nearly everyone.
A Holistic Methodology
As of this writing, Amazon sells nearly 3,600 books under the general umbrella of business communication.* Im an avid reader,
* See
http://tinyurl.com/bcbooks2.
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On his ESPN show Olbermann in 2014, the eponymous host mocked himself by
holding a tournament of sorts. He presented a bracket of his 64 jobs similar to that
of the NCAA Basketball Tournament. Yes, the 55-year-old Olbermann has held that
many jobs over his career if you include college internships.
I usually avoid this term at all costs. Ill feel better by putting it in quotes.
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Message Not Received consists of four parts. The first, Worlds Are Colliding starts with an overview of the book. It then explains where we
are, recapping recent technological, societal, and business developments and trends. It concludes by examining one of the key effects
of these trends as it relates to business communication.
Part II is titled Didnt You Get That Memo? Why We Dont Communicate Good at Work. It delves into business communication and
its two main problems.* It examines the increasing use of buzzwords,
the evolution of e-mail, and our continued dependence on it. It
concludes by describing some of the most inimical consequences of
poor business communication.
Part III, Message Received, focuses on solutions. It offers some
general principles to increase the chances that our audiences will
receive our messages. It then provides some specific communications tips around language and context before moving on to the
case studies. Youll meet some fascinating companies that excel at
communication and collaboration.
The book concludes with Part IV, What Now?, in which I offer
some final thoughts on business communication and how we can
effect change in our jobs.
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Chapter 1 looks at the deluge of technology affecting seemingly
every aspect of our lives. Yes, business communication has always
been important. It is often the difference between success and failure. Sending effective messages is even more critical today, however,
because our world has become noisier, busier, faster, and more chaotic than ever.
How hectic?
Youre about to find out.