Conversation Topics
Conversation Topics
These conversation topics were generated for the English and international
conversation partners to provide mutually beneficial learning experiences and lesson
ideas. The topics below may be adapted for each casual meeting. Conversation ideas
can also be modified according to both of your interests. Other topics may be generated
spontaneously during the session. To make the most of this experience, find out more
about your partners cultural background, be sensitive to political situations and religious
beliefs, meet regularly, keep an open mind, and think positively. The important point is
that you both have fun while learning!
1. Topic: Holidays
Objective
Learn about special days throughout the year and how they are celebrated by law or
custom.
Preparation
Bring a current 12-month calendar to the meeting.
Make a list of holidays celebrated in your country.
Conversation Ideas
Compare and contrast common holiday observations (New Years Day,
Valentines Day, etc.).
Discuss other special days, such as independence days and legal holidays,
religious celebrations, etc.
Make suggestions for spring break travel or plans for vacations during other
school breaks.
3. Topic: Food
Objective
Learn about daily meals and special menus for celebrations and possibly try new foods
and exchange recipes.
Preparation
Optional: Eat at the campus caf or dining hall together.
Optional: Exchange a favorite recipe or home cooked dish from each others country.
Optional: Go to a cultural festival sponsored by a UI international student club or the
community.
Conversation Ideas
Discuss what food is served during a typical/traditional breakfast, lunch, and
dinner.
Find out what special foods are prepared on holidays, birthdays, weddings, etc.
Talk about rituals, etiquette/manners, eating utensils, etc. associated with food.
4. Topic: Family
Objective
Learn about family structures (nuclear or extended), values, and domestic lifestyles.
Preparation
Bring a family photograph, album, or family tree to the session.
Conversation Ideas
Share favorite memories about your family, relatives, etc.
Talk about parents' professions, your home, your family vacations, your
upbringing, etc.
Tell each other about any pets (dog, cat, fish, bird, etc.) you or your family
own(ed).
Optional: Share photographs of occasions that you each have celebrated or attended.
Conversation Ideas
Compare and contrast birthday traditions, coming of age celebrations, marriage
and wedding customs, death and funeral rites, etc.
Inquire about special food, clothing, rituals, beliefs, superstitions, etc. associated
with each occasion.
6. Topic: Customs
Objective
Learn about interesting cultural behaviors, etiquettes, beliefs, proverbs, etc.
Preparation
Do some online research about your partners country.
Optional: Read the profile about your partners country from the reference book,
CultureGrams (it is available in the Curriculum Lab in N140 Lindquist or can be
purchased individually from www.culturegrams.com).
Conversation Ideas
Discuss and/or demonstrate your vs. your partners cultural behaviors for
greeting, visiting, tipping, dating, etc.
Ask whether your partner is experiencing culture shock and how he/she is
adapting to life in the U.S.
Answer questions your partner may have about American values and behaviors.
Find out about the various stereotypes and enlighten each other about realities.
7. Topic: Education
Objective
Learn about educational systems, teaching methods, and transmission of knowledge in
each of your cultures.
Preparation
Do some online research about education in your partners country.
Optional: Bring old report cards, assignments, reports, or textbooks to the session.
Conversation Ideas
Find out what each other is studying/doing at the UI, why he/she chose his/her
academic major or career field, etc.
Talk about primary and secondary schooling, the ages when children begin their
education, the length of the school day and year, teaching methods and
important lessons, and preparations for college.
Inquire how your partner learned English and about the U.S.
Tell how Americans typically learn about the world and other languages.
Share success tips on studying.
8. Topic: Jobs
Objective
Learn about the types of jobs available and most common in each others countries.
Learn about employment opportunities on campus, in the area, and abroad. (Keep in
mind that a student visa restricts the bearer to a part-time job on campus.)
Preparation
Optional: Bring a classified ads page from the newspaper.
Conversation Ideas
Share financial tips for college (part-time jobs, money management strategies,
etc.). Realize the tuition differences for in- and out-of-state students and
international students.
Talk about your part-time job/internship/assistantship/fellowship experiences.
Discuss how your partner is preparing for his/her occupation.
Compare and contrast what information may be included in a resume in each
others cultures (and whether personal data, photographs, etc. are necessary).
Discuss what it would be like to work in each others countries.
9. Topic: Communication
Objective
Learn about language, expressions, gestures, and communication styles.
Preparation
E-mail each other and note the language (conversational tone, mechanics, etc.) use via
this communication medium.
Optional: Bring a current newspaper/magazine to the session.
Conversation Ideas
Share/demonstrate greeting and departure behaviors and rituals.
Discuss language and translation challenges, alphabets and writing (script or
characters), pronunciation, vocabulary-building, etc.
Talk about how various emotions are expressed and which of them are culturally
and socially acceptable/permitted.
Compare nonverbal communication (movements of the hands and body,
symbolism of clothing and accessories, etc.).
Look at newspapers, magazines, or other media (such as websites) to observe
what each culture may value.
Conversation Ideas
Discuss stereotypes portrayed in the movies and television shows, storylines and
characters, cultural values/themes, popular actors and actresses, etc.
Compare and contrast music and dance styles in America and in your partners
country.
Ask about popular singers, bands, and other entertainers.
Discuss popular literature and writers.
Talk about the symbolism of artistic designs and other creative expressions.