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Monthly Newsletter
March 2010
www.amsoc.com.br

In This Issue Gather for St. Patrick’s celebration

60th Anniversary event on two nights this month
coming together By Bob Moser, editor

Page 3: Planning for AmSoc’s

T
Diamond Anniversary extrava- he American Society of Sao No RSVP is needed at the AmSoc
ganza is underway. See what Paulo is sponsoring its annual office, just show up on either March 13
there is to look forward to for our St. Patrick’s Day get-together or 17 to enjoy St. Patrick’s Day with your
biggest party of 2010. this year on March 13 and 17 at AmSoc brethren. Visit www.drakesbar.
Drake’s Bar in Pinheiros. com for address and more information.
Live music via local band Wonder Rock
3-on-3 Basketball and hearty Guinness beer will be on tap for
Tourney in the works both nights in March, and Irish pop music
will be played on and off throughout the
Page 8: AmSoc Sports hopes night. There’s also a possibility of free
to have an adult basketball merchandise (i.e. t-shirts and caps) being
tournament in mid-March. Learn given out throughout the night by a yet-to-
more about when and where. be-confirmed sponsor beer company.
Drake’s management will offer all
AmSoc members a 15 percent discount
Two books help expat on food and drink during these two nights.
kids adjust Members should be sure to bring their ID,
because Drake’s staff will compare names
Page 10: Learn about two new with a membership list from AmSoc.
children’s books that have been Guinness pints (400 ml) will be R$12
written with the Brazilian expat throughout the night, and that’s before
child specifically in mind. your 15 percent discount.

Finding peace in
the weeds
Page 16: Sue Banman Sileci
explains the chain of events that
drew her out of the house and into
her neighborhood, on a mission
of beautification.

Our Mission
The American Society of São Paulo
promotes friendship by organizing
social, cultural and athletic events for
its diverse membership; encourages
integration with the Brazilian society;
and supports the American traditions
of education, philanthropy and Find more photos and a recap of last
volunteerism. month’s Abacaxi Bowl on pages 6-7.
 Newcomer
Membership Game Update profile
The AmSoc Membership Game is all our activities, make new friends and
heading towards the finish line, and add to their quality of life here in Sao Name: Michael
Mark Abrams is out in front to win the Paulo. Be sure your friends write down Fine
two airline tickets from GOL. your name on their membership form, Origin: Atlantic
There is still plenty of time for YOU so you get points in the big game. City, N.J.
to win. Just encourage your friends to Have a positive impact; invite Time here: five-
join AmSoc now so that they can enjoy someone to join us today! and-a-half years
Profession: I run

Standings as of Jan. 31 my own marketing

consulting
business.
#OF NEW POINTS Why Sao Paulo? The short answer is
CONTESTANT that my wife is from here. I met her in
MEMBERS AWARDED
2000, whilst doing my year abroad as
Mark Abrams 6 22 part of my MBA course. We later lived
in the U.S., but when we decided to
Richard Wegman 2 12 have a family we settled in SP.
Best thing so far: The Brazilian
Tim Scott 2 12 culture as a whole -- the food and
the music, especially samba. I also
David Warren 2 9 love the diversity here. Sao Paulo
is a great city with all the different
Charlie Cookson 1 6 cultures, people, restaurants and the
general hustle and bustle of life. It’s
Richard Lark 1 6 also perfect for me as this is where
most of the businesses are.
Lynne Couri 1 3 Early frustrations: It’s a big city!
I’ve lived in other big cities before
Taco De Vries 1 3 -- London, Boston, Atlanta -- but Sao
Paulo doesn’t have the same quality
Zack Henry 1 3
of public transport, so you’re forced
Tony Smith 1 3 to deal with the traffic.
Have saudade for anything back
Other (Internet, INC, home? American (sports); World
46 N/A Series. Most food I can get here, but
Consulate, events, etc.)
I sometimes miss ‘Silver-ear Jersey
TOTAL 64 New Members corn’. Of course I miss my family and
my friends. It’s been tough getting
back as often as I would like, but I
visited last July – for the first time in
five years.
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Views expressed in Forum do Favorite place to hang out: The
not necessarily reflect those of Palestra Italia (Palmeiras Soccer
The American Society of São Paulo the American Society board of
governors, members, or staff. Stadium). I’m very much a fan! I love
Rua da Paz, 1431 n 04713-001 São Paulo, SP
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AmSoc’s 60th Diamond Anniversary Dinner

& Dance on May 7, Save the date!
By Kelly Maurice, AmSoc member

The American Society of Sao Paulo is

hosting a night to be remembered by
all, as the grand commemoration of our
Diamond Anniversary will surely shine
throughout the city.
Diamonds are the theme of the party,
due to it’s relation to a 60th anniversary.
The entertainment will be provided by
the well-known Brazilian band SP3,
which will be sure to have us up on the
dance floor into the wee hours of the
morning with continuous contemporary
and flashback music, and a DJ to keep
us going during the band’s breaks.
This is an event members will not
want to miss, and outside guests are
also invited to join the celebration
on Friday, May 7, at Buffet Torres in
Moema. Cocktails begin at 7:30 pm
with dinner and dancing at 9 pm. There
will be a brief live auction to benefit
the new Vivenda da Crianca bakery
(padaria) project and other AmSoc
charity projects, like the matching
charity fund and the annual Angel
Party.
The intention of the Vivenda da
Crianca bakery project is to be a self- also its convenient parking. for this special event. She believes, “this
sustaining small business designed to When AmSoc was first organized in party will be memorable because we
help foster skills and generate revenue in 1950, Brazil was experiencing booming have chosen the prettiest place, the best
Paraisopolis to benefit greater social and growth and global attention, similar band and we will also be giving back to
economic mobility at the neighborhood to today, and was seen as an emerging the community.” Rubeiz gladly accepted
level. This type of support to charities economic and cultural power. Now in the task and has put together a stellar
is a hallmark of American social 2010, since the economy has weathered team of leaders and active participants
commitment and civic activism at home, the worst of the world’s economic crisis who have been divided into several sub-
and here through AmSoc. and landed on its feet more quickly and committees such as fundraising, games,
This event is THE American Society stronger than most, all eyes are again publicity and marketing, logistics and
fundraiser event for 2010 -- so get your on Brazil. With The Economist’s recent ticket sales. Several meetings and lots
tickets and table of 10 reservations early! cover story, and the upcoming hosting of of work have gone into the party to date
For tickets, contact [email protected]. the World Cup and the Summer Olympic and many interesting prizes have already
br or 5182-2074. Tickets are R$200 Games, there is excitement in many areas been donated for the gift raffle boxes
per person for both members and non- for Brazil – namely in sports, business, and silent auction, including several big
members. infrastructure, world politics and culture. prizes for the live auction, which will be
The party will be held at the elegant, President Obama will visit Brazil later brief and take place during dinner.
neoclassical Buffet Torres (www. this year to highlight the country’s So mark May 7 on your calendars and
buffettorres.com.br), known for its importance and the link it shares with get your tickets early to guarantee your
delicious gourmet food, located on Av. do the United States. spot at this sophisticated event full of fun
Imares, 182 in Moema. This buffet was The AmSoc board looked to Marlene and friends to celebrate AmSoc’s 60-year
chosen due to its very accessible central Rubeiz, former board president, to history. Great food, spirits and music
location near Shopping Ibirapuera and spearhead the planning and organization and dancing will be enjoyed by all.

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 White water rafting experience coming up soon
By Mark Abrams, AmSoc board member

Last year, 16 adventurous souls through active learning expeditions parents who would like to attend
ventured out of São Paulo for a that inspire character development, Transportation: the adults who
weekend of rock climbing and self-discovery and service both in and attend will offer rides to those who
canoeing, led by the Outward Bound out of the classroom. need them
wilderness experts. All conquered the Two-night camp out and white Total cost: R$350 per participant;
mountain and lake and mastered new water rafting expedition details: includes all gear and equipment,
skills. This semester we have a hold- Dates: Friday, April 16 to Sunday, food for the two days, instruction and
onto-your-hats kind of weekend when April 18 insurance.
we’ll shoot through the Juquitiba Program: White Water Rafting in As space is limited to only 16
rapids in two-person inflatable rafts! two-person inflatable rafts/ two-night participants, please send your
Up for the challenge? camp-out in tents; all participants inquiries and reservations to Rodrigo
Once again, we will be led by will learn the skills required of the Bastos of Outward Bound (rodrigo.
seasoned Outward Bound Brazil Boy Scouts of America White Water [email protected]) or to Mark
instructors. Prepare for a journey Rafting Merit Badge of the Boy Abrams (9322-7544 – marksabrams@
of discovery and to go well beyond Scouts of America gmail.com). If demand exceeds
your dreams in the true spirit of Location: Juquitiba (approximately available space a second trip will be
OBB. Outward Bound Brazil is a 70 kilometers from São Paulo) or, in scheduled.
world-wide non-profit educational Paraibuna if conditions warrant
organization with programs that serve Participation: open to youth (boys
people of all ages and backgrounds & girls) from age 11 to 15 and any

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Family Volunteer Sports & Fun

Day set for April 10
Have you thought about volunteering To help defray the costs of the
at one of AmSoc’s 10 supported lunch and snacks, we suggest that
charities, but wondered how to go each volunteer make an optional
about it? Want to have fun with kids contribution of R$ 20 or R$ 30 for
(yours and others)? The Community a family. Once you have registered
Action Committee of AmSoc has just for the Volunteer Day, you will be
the solution for you: told about the Consulate security
Join the Volunteer Sports & Fun requirements.
Day at the U.S. Consulate on Saturday, For 60 years, The American Society
April 10, from 11:30 am to 4 pm. of São Paulo (www.americansociety.
The children from Lar Tia Edna, com.br) has promoted not only social
Mission ABBA and Casa Limiar will and cultural events geared to its
be our honored guests. They need membership, but also volunteerism
you to complete the fun by playing in social projects. Currently, AmSoc
sports, games or just taking a splash supports 10 institutions that focus on
in the pool. Food and soft drinks will children and education, since this is
be served. the area where we can help make a
Interested volunteers should difference. During the last five years,
contact Maria Cavallin, volunteer we have helped raise more than R$6
recruitment committee chairperson million in donations to the AmSoc-
([email protected]). We need supported institutions and organized
certified lifeguards and a registered many volunteer programs. We look
nurse in addition to fun-loving, game forward to seeing you on Saturday,
playing, kid-oriented volunteers. April 10.

Come for
Easter Sunday
Egg Hunt on
April 4
The American Society is bringing back
the traditional Easter Sunday egg hunt
for children this year. On April 4, from
12-2 pm at Chapel School, AmSoc
families and children can join in the
fun of our classic egg hunt, a variety of
Easter-themed games, plenty of food
and a chance for photos with the Easter
Bunny. Every child will also get an
Easter basket.
Those interested should RSVP to the
AmSoc office by e-mailing amsoc1@
amsoc.com.br . Payment for the party
will be accepted the day of, and as of
press time a price was still being decided.

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 SPORTS

Cougars win Abacaxi Bowl, continue

sports dominance By John Kennedy, AmSoc board member

On Feb. 6 at the Graded School in overtime, could have gone either way
Morumbi, the American Society hosted due to two very close calls by the referee
its annual Abacaxi Bowl along with the at the end, which went in favor of the
Little League sign-ups. Eight teams Cougars and allowed them to come back
participated and more than 200 players and tie the game in the final minutes.
and spectators enjoyed the activities, It was the first time the Cougars
which started at 10 am with the double entered this tournament, for they were
elimination flag football tournament and formed just three years ago as a softball
continued with a BBQ that went from team. Now they are the holders of
11 am until after the rains came around both the AmSoc softball and football
4:30 pm, which washed out the rest of championship trophies. The M.V.P.
the games beginning with the semi-final Award of the tournament was shared
round. by two Cougar teammates, Howard
Because of the rain-out, the Cougars Anderson and Shay Coker.
were declared winners because they Professional photos seen here in
had beaten the two other teams vying Forum were taken throughout the day by
for the other semi-final position, the Wim Laureys and Raquel Goldammer
Brasil Devilz and PACA School, the Benadof. More than 400 photos are
defending and six-time champion. The available for purchase via download,
upstart Devilz also continued to display at www.wlphotography.zenfolio.com\
their AmSoc Sports prominence in this ab2010 (password : amsoc).
tournament by placing second again this Specially-designed photo books
year, due the points differential (26-20) are also available for purchase.
in their losses to the Cougars. In fact, the Contact [email protected] and
Devilz-Cougars game, which went into [email protected] to learn more.
Final Standings:

NET
TEAM RESULTS
POINTS

Cougars 3-0 37

Devilz 3-1 52

PACA 2-1 16

Graded 2-2 14

Silver Bullets 1-2 -7

USCG 1-2 -12

GM 0-2 -31

AMSOC 0-2 -35

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 William Richardson awarded Scouting’s
highest honor By Mark Abrams, AmSoc board member

Hard working, persistent, courageous Scouts, led by Eli Wilson and Calvin one’s opinions and fighting for what is
and good-natured are qualities that Peter, and was followed by inspiring right, troop committee member Sharon
define William Richardson, AmSoc messages and advice from Richardson’s Cutler rose to her feet, exclaiming,
member and recipient of the Boy Scouts church leaders and from his parents, “You saved my son’s life” and went on
of America’s highest rank of Eagle Marianna and Steve Richardson. His to describe Richardson’s heroism. On
Scout. As Richardson’s scoutmaster for three brothers and two brother-in- a past trip, her son Mathew was being
the past year, I can’t think of a young laws, all of whom are Eagle Scouts, swept away downriver and was having
man more deserving of this prestigious sent their best wishes as well. Other difficulty keeping his head above water.
award. congratulatory messages came from Richardson leapt into the strong river
Richardson’s Eagle Court of Honor Thomas White, U.S. Counsel General current, grabbed Mathew, and, after
ceremony took place on Feb. 7 at the in São Paulo, and from Richardson’s a tiring swim, was able to tow him to
Morumbi location of the Church of Jesus former Scoutmaster back in Washington safety.
Christ and Latter Day Saints. The story state. Josiah Pierce from the American Not all of us will be called upon to
actually began seven years ago when Consulate and Richardson’s young save a life. Yet all of us can live up to
he took his first step along the arduous men’s church leader, administered the three parts of the Scout Oath: Duty
“Trail to Eagle.” To become an Eagle, the Eagle Charge. The 12 scouts in to God and Country; Duty to Others
one must earn at least 22 merit badges, attendance recited the Scout Oath and and Duty to Self. Any boys interested
the Scout, Tenderfoot, Second Class, Law and then each one described a in following William Richardson’s
First Class, Star and Life ranks before different point of the Scout Law. footsteps are encouraged to join the
reaching this coveted achievement. William Richardson is a well-rounded Scout meetings in the Graded Cafeteria
Along the way, Richardson served in young man who has been an inspiring on Mondays from 4 to 5:30 pm for Boy
many leadership roles in his previous example to the rest of the scouts. Few Scouts (starting at age 11) and from 3
Washington state troop, and most students manage the kind of load to 4 pm for the Cub Scouts (starting at
recently as Assistant Scoutmaster to the Richardson carries. He is active in age 7).
26 Graded School Cub and Boy Scouts. varsity sports, a star of the Graded stage,
His Eco Fair Community Service project an outstanding scholar and, yes, a top-
presented last October, in conjunction
with the Graded Goes Green initiative,
involved over 200 person hours of
ranked scout willing to make whatever
contribution he can to others. During the
Board of Review, Richardson was asked
AmSoc Sports
volunteer service.
The ceremony began with the
presentation of the colors by the Graded
in what way he lived up to scouting’s
“A Scout is Brave.” As William talked
about the importance of defending
events tentative
for March, April
As of press time, AmSoc Sports was
planning the following events for March
and April, with optimism about being
able to reserve space on the following
dates. Please confirm by calling the
AmSoc office.
• A 3-on-3 adult basketball tournament
(with teenagers of adequate skill
level allowed as well), to be held
on March 13 from 9 am to 4
pm at Chapel School. Call the
AmSoc office to inquire about date
confirmation and entry price.
• Adult softball on April 10, from 12
to 5 pm, and on April 17, from 9 am
to 5 pm, at Chapel School.

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Meet Sao Paulo’s friendly Barbarians

By Simon Tharby, staff writer

The coach shouts instructions across

floodlit grass, and players answer with
their own calls. An egg-shaped ball is
passed between men, who crash into one
another in a semi-choreographed train
wreck. Muscles flex and strain, bodies
collide and passes fly at a moment’s
notice.
American football? Please. This is
rugby, and it’s catching on in São Paulo.
They’re called the Barbarians, and they
look the part. Most on this recreational
rugby team are big men. They’re also
diverse in true representation of Sao Paulo,
with a roster that includes English, Kiwi,
Australian, Brazilian, Argentinian, North
American, Chilean, and French players.
The team developed slowly throughout
2007 and 2008, drawn together first by de Janeiro in January. “It was cool, be- play football.” The soccer team grew
soccer and remnants of the O’Malley’s cause you could jump in the sea after from this first match against a Brazilian
Rugby Club that died in 2004. the games,” said player Richard Heyton. side, until soon they had enough players
Today, Barbarian coaches instruct in “There was a great social scene on the to stage an England vs. The Rest of
both Portuguese and English. “Using both beach afterwards, including dinner for The World game. They now play once
languages helps us to bond,” said Julian everyone.” a month. Between 10 and 15 players
Montgomery, a North American with the The social aspect is a common thread play 0n both the football and the rugby
team for three months now. Rookies learn amongst all rugby teams, and players say teams.
the ropes from veterans, and age is a non- it’s an aspect of the sport most outsiders Rugby is still the heart of the
issue if you’re willing to scrum, proven never see unless they participate. “When Barbarians.
by the team’s inclusion of a 62-year-old you see a rugby game you imagine a All the media coverage tied to
at the moment. lot of fighting, but actually it’s very the Olympics may well bring new
“The idea is social rugby – games once friendly,” said Vinicius Lima, a Brazilian opportunities for the Barbarians, but
a month, involving barbecues, families, player. “Camaraderie” was a repeatedly Michael McDonald, team coach, prefers
and fun after games,” said James Allen, mentioned word. For Montgomery, to divert attention to a worthier cause. He
team captain. “Any age, any standard can this meant the world. After living in and others are involved with Rugby Para
play – it’s about having a run, meeting Rio, he had found Sao Paulo more Todos, which works with youngsters in
up, and mixing it up [culturally]... There difficult socially, but, “the best thing favelas in Parisopolis. “It’s based on the
are 15 different nationalities here at the I ever did (after coming to SP) was to principles of camaraderie, leadership,
club.” start playing rugby with the Barbs.” teamwork, respect and social integration,”
Brazil has a guaranteed place in the Sponsorship has always and will McDonald said.
2016 Olympics for rugby, so suddenly continue to be an issue for the team. The program, run by two ex-Pasteur
interest and money are being drawn to “Training is a big sacrifice. Some guys School students, now has 150 young
the sport. Public radio, TV, print media, study and we need to support them, so people. As well as training for and
and grass-roots interest have grown. The we depend a lot on sponsorship. We also playing rugby (including a girls team), the
Six Nations (Rugby) Tournament is even need a clubhouse, where we can gather program provides food, a psychologist,
being shown on ESPN Brazil. and a field for games and events.” said nutritionist, doctors, lawyers and more.
The Barbarians play friendly games player Pablo Silenze. “Any exposure is “It diverts kids from drug dealing and
against local teams, like Nippon, a Japa- good because we fight against the monster other problems, and can feed them into
nese veterans team, and Keep Walking, a of football [soccer].” other teams,” Silenze said. “For example
team of Brazilians and Argentinians. The Interestingly, the Barbarians also play (name omitted) from the favela now plays
team also enters serious competitions, soccer. for the Pasteur club. Rugby changed his
like the Rugby Football Union Lions John O’Connor, who organizes friendly life. Now he has a future.”
Tournament, and smaller tournaments soccer games against other Brazilian and
throughout the region. Players fondly ex-pat teams, said this began after a To learn more, visit http://spbarbarians.
recall a beach rugby tournament in Rio Brazilian friend declared, “Gringoes can’t com, or www.rugbyparatodos.org.br.

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 Two children’s books help expat kids
deal with transition By Beatriz Salgado, staff writer

As our surroundings change, so do as a guide for expat children is titled, “The Mission of Detective Mike Mov-
we. With new seasons we adapt, “The Mission of Detective Mike Mov- ing Abroad” will be available March
and in new climates we evolve. ing Abroad,” written by Simone T. Costa 4 at Amazon.com. Those who live in
But a certain maturity is needed to Eriksson, a Brazilian psychologist that Brazil may purchase directly from www.
embrace the change of language-country- lived abroad for 13 years. Eriksson is interculturalplus.com. “The Big Field:
continent, and for expat children in Brazil, the coordinator of the Campinas Expat a Child’s Year Under the Southern
the experience can be very special -- or Group, and deals with couples and chil- Cross,” is also available via Amazon.
scary. Two authors with ties to the expat dren’s issues regularly. Her workshop com.uk, but the best way to buy the
community have written books especially on the impact of expatriation on children book is directly from Anne Morddel’s
for the expat child in Brazil, in hopes of has also been selected for the Families in Web site: www.morddeleditions.com.
readying them to embrace a new season. Global Transition Conference in March
Anne Morddel, an American originally 2010 in Texas, and in the SIETAR USA
from Northern California who has been an 2010 conference to be held in Washington.
expat for almost 30 years, wrote a chil- The story’s protagonist, Detective
dren’s book while living in Brazil, “The Big Mike, goes through many concerns
Field: a Child’s Year Under the Southern about what it means to move abroad. As
Cross.” She felt the urge to write a book in a psychologist, Eriksson believes that
English for the children living in the Atlan- children have different perceptions of
tic Rainforest to teach them to understand transition from adults, and in order for
and appreciate their unique environment. the parents to help their child they have to
Morddel believes that “nature is con- understand these different points of view.
stant in our lives, providing a source of An enriching experience of living abroad
security by its repetitions,” key reasons will be cherished forever in each “global
why this book in particular may help expat child,” for their views of the world, the
children living in São Paulo. The “con- friends they’ve made, their values and per-
crete jungle” of Sampa may be a shock to spectives will be differentiated from many.
expat kids in many different ways, but as By having the opportunity to live in
the “creatures” that must live here, expat a different country they are exposed to
children can learn to adapt to their new diverse realities, making them understand
surroundings. While the core message the world better and be able to cooperate
of Morddel’s story is about change, the and help with the problems of the hu-
subtext urges young readers to take better man race. Both books may be an easy
care of nature, to cherish it as their home, way for expat children to understand
because it has suffered much destruction. their situation and appreciate the new
Another new book that may serve and unknown place that they live in.

Volunteers needed July 3-4 to

help set up Independence Day
Individual or Groups

Celebration COURSE WHERE

Company
English
Spanish Home
Portuguese University
AmSoc is looking for members who Consulate, and you’ll have plenty
ANY TIME !
can serve their community in one of support from past organizers.
of the most important events of the Call AmSoc at 5182-2074 or Alan www.englishintheoffice.com.br
year. The annual AmSoc July 4th Blau directly at 9970-8727 to learn [email protected]
Party is a joint effort with the U.S. more about how you can help. Phone: 011 – 50443859

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GM sponsors 60 children from local charity

to visit Stock Car Races in Interlagos
By Kelly Maurice, AmSoc member

GM offered a follow up gift to the the racetrack and the rumble and roar few children said to me, “Auntie, this
American Society’s Communittee of the cars, with the spectacle of the outing was the MAX! I will never,
Action Committee (CAC) in December, boxes and cars and the fully-dressed ever forget this day!” The joy I felt
taking 60 children, ages 6-15, to visit drivers up close. The children did not upon hearing this was reflected back to
the stock car race practice day at the know where to look first: there was a me by the looks of wide-eyed wonder
Autodrome in Interlagos. line-up to play the stand-up racecar on their precious faces. I will also
During the CAC meeting after video game; there were constantly never forget that day.
the 2009 Christmas Angel Party, it replenished, delicious individually After the races, two of the pilots came
was mentioned how the 600 children wrapped sandwiches and cookies and to meet and talk with the children, take
from the Associacao Crianca Brasil beverages set out on a large buffet pictures with them and give autographs
(ACB) do not qualify to attend the table just for them. Later the waiters on their programs and even on their
Angel Party because they are not in even brought out hot burgers to be shoulders and arms and hands! The
orphanages or homes, so it was a enjoyed by all. They sat together at teenage girls were screaming like the
perfect opportunity to allow some of tables chatting with one another and drivers were rock stars, as they were
them to have this thrilling, once-in- gathered together in group to share close enough to touch at times. It was
a-lifetime experience. This donation the moment. such a great day at the races, so full
came spontaneously from people tied I went with some of the kids to visit of adrenaline – a dream come true for
to GM who participated in the Angel the restroom, and on the way back a many of Sao Paulo’s children.
Party event and were moved to
do even more for Sao Paulo’s
needy children.
Sixty ACB children and
several leaders were picked up
on a Saturday morning from
the Jardim Panorama entity,
after a brief roll call session
and a pep talk about behavior
as a representative group of
ABC. The children were taken
then to two full-sized, very
comfortable buses and were
given new t-shirts, one by
one, as they joyously hopped
on the bus on the way to their
adventure. The children’s
banter was light and playful,
of the color, fit and smell of the
new t-shirt and what it would
be like at the racetrack.
Upon arrival at Interlagos,
the anticipation and excitement
were reaching a boil. As we
lined up and walked in, all
eyes were on the well-behaved
children. We proceeded to
the reserved area for the day,
and you should have seen
the happiness and glee on
the children’s faces. They
marveled at the expanse of

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 Beyoncé gives Sampa fans a stratospheric
performance at Morumbi Stadium
“ W h a t ’s m y President Barack Obama. in advance, but there were fanatic
name!?” The two-hour concert ended just fans that literally camped outside
“Beyoncé girl!” after midnight, and though Beyoncé the stadium since Wednesday, four
“Say my name!” was obviously the main attraction days before the concert, to be able
“Beyoncé girl!” of the night, many fans enjoyed the to guarantee a spot front and center.
“Say my name opening of Brazilian star Ivete Sangalo As more people started to arrive,
say my name…” beforehand. With her signature everyone suddenly went crazy. Some
That back- charisma and energy, Ivete is adored of those fans who did make it front
and-forth with by all Brazilians, she is as we say “do and center came to regret it shortly
the audience was povão,” meaning that people from all after the show started, when the
By Beatriz Salgado, staff writer one of my personal social classes love her. weight of thousands behind pressed
highlights at Morumbi Stadium on Different from diva Beyoncé, at least two fans into exhaustion and
Saturday, Feb. 6, when Beyoncé, not everyone knows Ivete and her fainting.
the American diva of R&B, sang a songs. Ivete and her music are from Beyoncé’s “I am…Tour” has
hit back from when she was part of Bahia, which offers a very different passed through Florianopolis, Rio de
Destiny’s Child. heartbeat for the crowd to latch on Janeiro, Sao Paulo and would finish
The pop star introduced the show to. Brazilian artists choreography in Salvador on Feb. 10 before she
with an outstanding performance of is different, their outfits and style, would visit other Latin American
“Crazy In Love,” making 60,000 fans when compared to an American countries.
jump energetically to their feet. Two music star. With international concerts It was a night I’ll never forget, with
other features that were outstanding we Brazilians tend to have higher photos I’ll probably safeguard for the
and emotional was when the diva sang expectations. Foreign artists don’t rest of my life.
“Ave Maria” wearing a huge, wavy perform that frequently in Brazil, so The world’s no. 1 diva, who won
white dress with a veil on her head. it’s a privilege and an honor to have six Grammy’s this year, wowed
Another remarkable moment was divas like Beyoncé or Madonna in her Sampa audience with an awe-
Beyonce’s small tribute to the king our country. inspiring voice, humility, grace and
of pop, Michael Jackson. Beyoncé I made my way to the concert hours impeccably sexy dancing.
asked all her fans to raise their hands
holding a lighter or cell phone, and
sing with her “Halo” to remember
the late star.
“This is one of my biggest shows,
if not the biggest,” exclaimed the
artist, as she spoke to the crowd in the
stadium that can hold a maximum of
80,000 people. Beyoncé wasn’t aware
of how many Brazilians love her,
and mentioned that it was the biggest
crowd she ever performed for.
At times it felt as if we were inside
her video clip; I still remember the
striking vision of Beyoncé in her super
tight bodysuit, with all of her dancers
performing with such preciseness.
She performed various songs from her
new CD, “I am Sasha Fierce,” as well
as a sampling of her hit songs from
Destiny’s Child. When “All the single
ladies” started, Beyonce’s breakaway
2009 hit, a big screen beside the stage
flashes video clips of people dancing
all over the world, including the U.S.

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Volunteer of the Month Adopt a pet

By Simon Tharby, staff writer

Karri Ware was voluntary work through members of

vital to the success both groups. “I think (volunteer work)
of the 2009 AmSoc is what I need to do. It’s the right thing
Angel Party, but to do. There’s enjoyment in it when you
you probably see the children’s faces, but I have a lot
wouldn’t know it, more than they have, so I feel a need to
as she often works share. It’s what every person should do.”
in the background. Despite having four children, Ware
She organized all also works voluntarily at her daughters’
190 volunteers at school – Chapel School. She trained EVERY MONTH AMSOC MEMBERS TELL THE
this party for Sao Paulo orphans, including as a “parent helper,” and works in the FORUM ABOUT SAMPA PETS IN NEED OF A
contacting, delegating, scheduling, classrooms two days a week. She also GOOD HOME . C HECK OUT THIS MONTH ’ S
and arranging specific training. helps with the International Festival, and FEATURE DOG:
Ware came to Sampa four-and-a-half annual Art Show. She’s also an active NAME: BIG BLOND (LOIRÃO)
years ago, because of her husband’s member of the St. Paul’s Anglican Church. AGE: 3 MOS.
work. They originally planned an Ware’s unafraid to speak her mind COLOR: CARAMEL AND WHITE, WITH GREEN
18-month posting, but chose to stay. “ I regarding social responsibility. “Most EYES
think it’s a beautiful place,” she said. “I expats can give more than they give. SEX: MALE
like the people and the ‘calmness’ here, A lot don’t understand that even a little FLEAS: NONE
though I know many people will think makes a difference. I think sometimes TICKS: NONE
that’s a strange thing to say about SP.” they are fearful of not being able SIZE: MEDIUM
She joined AmSoc and The to speak Portuguese well enough, KILOS: NOW ALMOST 10 KG
International Newcomers Club on but they can still help even if they FARTS: NO
arrival here, quickly hearing about don’t speak a word [of Portuguese].” HOUSEBROKEN: NOT YET
HOBBIES: WE HAVE TO LEARN
VACCINES:V8 AND RABIES
NEUTERED: YES
INJURIES: NONE
FOUND: IN THE GARDEN OF A COLLEGE,
WITH HIS FAMILY
ABILITY TO WALK ON A LEASH: WE HAVE
TO FIND OUT
LEVEL OF PERFECT GOODNESS FOR A NICE
FAMILY: REALLY HIGH!
COST TO YOU: VET CONSULTATION, TOYS,
FOOD AND LOVE
APPLICATIONS: BEING ACCEPTED AT CAROL.
[email protected]

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CALENDAR of São Paulo

For more information about this month’s AmSoc events (highlighted), visit www.amsoc.com.br.

March 2010 IMPORTANT DATES: 8 International Women’s Day / 17 Saint Patrick’s Day / 28 Palm Sunday

At Morumbi Stadium. Visit www.ticketmaster.com.br for

2 Tuesday Coldplay in Concert
availability.

INC Monthly Coffee and

3 Wednesday For more information visit www.newcomers-sp.com.br.
Vendors’ Day

4 Thursday NOFX in Concert At SESC Santana. Visit www.sescsp.org.br to learn more.

10 Wednesday INC Red Rose For more information visit www.newcomers-sp.com.br.

At Credicard Hall, buy your ticket at www.ticketmaster.

10 Wednesday A-Ha Farewell Tour
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13 Saturday INC Evening Event For more information visit www.newcomers-sp.com.br.

14 Sunday 3-on-3 Basketball Tourney Visit our Web site for more information: www.amsoc.com.br.

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17 Wednesday St. Patrick’s Happy Hour
amsoc.com.br.

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20 Saturday The Challenge Golf Cup Visit our Web site for more information: www.amsoc.com.br.

21 Sunday Easter Party for Kids For more information visit www.amsoc.com.br.

Sampa Community Church will celebrate its 5th year with

Sampa Church celebrates a special service by saxaphonist Andre Paganelli. Lunch
21 Sunday
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 FLIPSIDE

Morumbi is introduced to Guerrilla Gardening

For most of his gloves and Robert. We marched over from Ragazzo. I care deeply about the
life, my father to the offending sidewalk and, while sidewalk in front of the Elite newsstand.
had a stressful my friends at the dog park looked on, I You won’t find greenery in the cracks
job at The Denver placed the chicken, along with several near McDonald’s either. My main source
P o s t . To r e l a x , used condoms, beer bottles and a pair of pride, however, is a sidewalk in front
he’d spend hours of black panties, into the bottom of the of an abandoned lot by the taxi stand. It
every weekend first trash bag. Robert lay down. Friends was impassable, but now, some 40 trash
pulling weeds from in the distance returned to chatting about bags later, I see people walking on it.
the cracks in the their dogs. Few people notice my efforts. One
d r i v e w a y. T h a t I started pulling weeds. The first one person who did, a doorman, said, “I
By Sue Banman Sileci, seemed obsessive was a mid-sized clump and it came up like what you’re doing. Keep it up.” I
AmSoc member
to me until, two with a satisfying rip. I loved it. The was happy all day. The other was an
months ago, I tried it myself. Either it’s roots were shaped exactly like the crack old woman who shouted at me from the
a genetic disorder or there’s something they’d come from, completely intact. park, “No one will thank you for that,
to pulling weeds that just soothes us The dark hole they left swarmed with you know. Come over here.” I laughed.
Banmans. ants. I put the clump in my trash bag. It’s about relaxing, not about getting
I don’t have a garden to pull weeds I tackled a bigger clump. This required thanked.
from. I live in a tall building in Morumbi both hands and lots of grunting. After Looking at the world from this worm’s
and we have an attentive gardener who several attempts and some undignified view, I suddenly feel more connected
loves his job. But walking my dogs, squatting, out it came. There were to my neighborhood. I truly appreciate
Robert and Cookie, past the same overhanging vines and branches. Using the workers in apartment buildings who
abandoned lot every day, I began to get sewing scissors, I clipped those back too. spend hours cleaning up leaves and trash
irritated with a fabric chicken that had Robert sighed. out front. I stop and talk to the municipal
been dropped there. And it lay there, day That sidewalk became my obsession. trash men who sweep the gutters.
after day, turning gray in the rain, bugs Finally, five hours and three evenings (They’re not supposed to do sidewalks
crawling on it, mud gathering under it. later, I’d yanked up every blade of but, like me, find themselves doing it
Eventually its head fell off. Meanwhile, grass and snipped every creeping vine. anyway.) And I get mad when buildings
I began to notice other defects in this A friend took a picture of Robert and don’t live up to their responsibilities.
sidewalk. There were unruly sprouts of me that evening as we posed by our That led to a three-week campaign to
leaves along the curb and every crack trash bags. A moment in weed history, get Lojas Americanas to clean up their
held tufts of grass. In São Paulo, the with Robert looking off at Mel, his new parking lot, trim their weeds, and build
law states that the owner of a property girlfriend. I was sweaty but relaxed. something to hold their trash. I tormented
is responsible for the sidewalk, too. I Work deadlines? The supermarket? I them until they hired a gardener to clean
waited for someone to clean up the mess, could handle anything. up. He was surprised by my cheerleading
every day hoping that Mr. Clean would Now, two months later, my obsession as he cut the grass but it had been a long
see the weeds and the headless chicken is in full bloom. During the morning dog struggle for me. (Be careful what you
and do his civic duty. walk, I choose little areas to become part wish for. The concrete trash container
Nope. So one afternoon I grabbed of my “weed beat.” I pull weeds by the they’re building looks ridiculous.)
some large trash bags, yellow kitchen Casablanca bakery and across the street There’s even a name for what I’m doing:
Guerrilla Gardening. It’s only logical
to ask: What if we pulled up the hedge
along the back side of Graded School and
Fellowship Community Church turned it into a zucchini ranch?
I figure I’m saving my sanity, one
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don’t care about sidewalks.” Or do I? If
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on it. I suggested she help by pulling one
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of bugs. Eww.” Oh well. I have my weed
beat and sometimes it’s the best part of
Conveniently located on Rua Carlos Sampaio, 107 – Bela Vista
Just a block and a half from the Brigadeiro Metro station on the Avenida Paulista
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