Vinny Chase formula

Yo, whats going on pimp, its Jason Capital here, Americas honest dating coach,
and welcome to the Vinny Chase formula. I remember the first time that I watched
an episode of Entourage ... truthfully, Im going to date myself here, I think I was in
10th grade maybe, so Im 26 now, its probably 15, Entourage has been around for
a long time, and I was sick from school, or I just didnt want to go to school and I
stayed home.
I remember laying on the couch in my living room, it was the middle of the day and
theres not much to do, and I turned on on demand and Im looking at these things,
and I see there were two seasons, maybe one season of Entourage at the time,
and I saw the trailer and I saw Mark Wahlberg was involved, and Im like, You
know, hes a good badass, going to check this out.
So I turn on the first episode, and Im watching it and Im like, This is ... this is
pretty good, I like this. And I watched another episode, and then another, and
then another, and then another, and then it was nighttime and I had watched I
think the first two seasons completely in a single day, and it was fucking great. It
was one of the better shows that I had ever seen.
I dont really watch TV, I dont really let any of my clients watch TV, its a rule we
have where Im a fucking dictator about it, you do not watch TV because its shit,
however, I do use TV as a means of improving my game, my self, my vision, my
strategy, my influence, my body language, all of it.
So what we do, what the top guys on Team Capital do with television, is that we
select the best shows and the best male characters for us to study, to watch,
to model, to steal from. And we study them, we watch the fuck out of them. Ive
watched Hank Moody do things probably 10 or 20 times, do all of his best stuff,
Ive seen those episodes so many times and its not just because I love the
show, and I want to watch the same story and the same highs and lows every
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time, no. I fast forward the other shit. Im just watching him, Im studying him,
Im internalizing his game, his responses, his worldview, all that shit. And Vinny
Chase is a great guy to study.
Now, a couple things I want to talk about before we get into the five biggest
things he does that give him so much success, so much effortless success with
women because, lets be honest, in the show it looks like hes not even trying
and the truth is in real life there is a certain level of guy out there who really
acts just like that, its like hes not even fucking trying yet he still has all these
smokeshows and all these stunners coming up to him already attracted, already
interested, already wanting to have sex with him.
Its a pretty good lifestyle, like to have it for you too. So, a couple of things to
discuss, number one, a lot of guys think that just because Vinny is really good
looking, thats why on the show hes able to do those things, and the truth is it
helps but looks are in your control. As me and Ryan Magin say all the time, being
handsome is a choice, okay?
With women, theyre at a disadvantage because men are very visually
stimulated, we like hot women, we like bitches that are attractive, that have
curves, that have big tits, small waists, tight asses, good legs, pretty eyes, big
lips, we like certain shit like that. Were visually turned on.
Women are different, okay? Women are a little bit visually turned on, but they,
come on man, theyre way more in touch with the energy that the guy gives off. The
energy that he gives off, because theyre so sensitive to the energies around them,
when they meet a strong, confident, relaxed guy, they pick up on that energy, they
like that, theyre attracted to that, they want to soak that up all night, and ironically
it actually gets done so congrats to the guy that fucked them, but thats what really
attracts them, and he has that down, Vince completely has that down, so looks
dont really matter. I could take a guy thats extremely ugly and get him close to the
same results as Vince if he just simply acted the same way as Vince.

So thats number one, number two, a lot of guys think that just because Vince is
famous, thats why he gets a lot of girls. Well, the truth is, yeah fame helps, but
fame doesnt get you laid, okay? Fame gets you access to hot women, it gets
you access.
So the hottest women, typically, you can find them in all kinds of places, but the
really hot in demand women can be found in the coolest social scenes, thats when
theyre going to be socially open, as we would call it. Thats typically where it is,
and when youre famous, you get access to all that kind of shit all the truth, but the
truth is we actually do, on Team Capital.
We know how to engineer those same opportunities, that same level of access,
without having to be a fucking movie star. Its called being a Social God, and
when you become a Social God, truthfully youre going to have just as much
access as Vinny Chase does as well.
And lastly, the other thing to talk about is its a TV show, its not really how life
works, and in most cases, thats actually true. In most TV shows the way people
respond and how overly dramatic they are and the ridiculous coincidences and shit
like that, yeah totally not true, totally not how life works.
And even in Entourage, its not like how life works, but the way the male female
interactions that you see from Vince and all the shows, the other girls, is very
much how it works in real life. Especially in Hollywood, where I spent a lot of
years, dating these models and these actresses and shit like that. Its very very
much the same. So, are you ready to begin? Because I am, so lets begin.
Number One: the first thing that Vince has that makes him have such a
powerful effect on women is the fact that, its two things okay, yes hes always
non-reactive, thats so fucking clutch and Ive talked about this so many times in
so many programs, but its not just that hes non-reactive, its that his path and
his frame, theyre always coming first anyways.

Now heres what I mean by that, so lets just talk about being non-reactive first,
okay? So being non-reactive, of course, is where you dont let things women do
get to you. Its almost like you have this outer impenetrable shell, its like a glass
case that surrounds you at all times so no matter what women throw at you it
never actually gets in.
Its like a foot out on all sides of you and it just protects you from everything,
youre just fucking cool and chill and relaxed all the time. And you do it because,
one, it makes you happy, it keeps you relaxed, we like to be calm, were cool
guys, we like to chill.
But also, we have it because we know that it attracts women, when a woman
throws some shit at you, if she tests you, if she gives you some bad behavior, if
she tries to get a reaction out of you, when she doesnt get that reaction, I mean
you laugh it off and snicker and tease her and be a smart ass and go right back
to your fucking path, it amplifies her attraction in that moment. It increases her
attraction for you, being non-reactive is incredibly attractive on its own.
I would say if you can just hang out with women and be totally non-reactive to them
at all times, you dont even need much game, that would get you enough pussy
right there probably. But heres the other thing Vince does, hes not just nonreactive, but his path and his frame always come first anyways.
So, when someone tests him, someone gives him a little bit of shit or something
like that, its not like hes going to laugh out loud, but hell just chuckle for a
second because its funny, because he knows, Of course this girl wants to sleep
with me, of course shell do whatever I say if I really command her, tell her to.
Its just like, the way I describe it, its like a little kid throwing a little fit, right?
Would you get mad at a six-year old because they said something mean to you
or they said something mean to you? Of course not, its a fucking six-year old,
and women are the same thing.
Truthfully, theyre not that different than like a little six-year old, so when they
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throw these little tests at you, if you, lets say youre a man and for some reason
youre on a playground at an elementary school, I dont know what youre doing
there in the middle of the day, but youre there, okay?
And youre there and some six-year old calls you like a fugly ugly, or you have a
big nose or something like that. If you freaked out at the six-year old, and really
took it personal, you would look like a low-status bitch. Am I correct? Of course
Im correct.
However, what would any adult, any mature man in that situation when a sixyear old said something to him, how would they actually handle that six-year old?
Would they try and snicker back at him and be like, No, you have a big nose, big
nose. No, right? Theyd be chill, theyd laugh, itd be cute because its a little sixyear old trying to get your attention. And thats all it is when a woman does it to
you too, its just a little six-year old trying to get your attention, its funny.
So when Vince gets it from women, he just laughs, its funny, its a six-year old
trying to get attention. So he laughs, and then, like I said, his path and his frame
always come first so he laughs about it, its funny, theres almost no reaction at
all, hes still cool, chill, calm, and then he goes back to doing whatever the fuck it
was that he wanted to do.
One of my favorite Robert Downey Jr. quotes is when he says that truthfully in
life, if anyone tells you anything that you disagree with or tells you something
you dont want to do or anything like that, just smile, agree, and then go do
whatever the fuck you were going to do anyways. Just smile, agree, and then go
do whatever the fuck you were going to do anyways. Thats a pretty good way to
describe what Vince is doing here.
So hes non-reactive, its a funny little six-year old thats cute, and then he goes
right back to his game. So lets say hes escalating on a girl and theyre sitting out
with a group of people and he wants to isolate her so he can start to kind of ramp
up the sexual tension. So if he says something like, Hey, I want to get a drink,
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come with me over there. And he pointed to the bar or something like that to
isolate her. If she says something like, Why are you trying to get me drunk, or I
dont want to get a drink, or I want to stay here, anything like that, which would
be disagreeing with him, would be kind of testing him, theres two things that are
going to happen.
One, hes going to be non-reactive to it, and two hes going to continue on his
path and and his frame and doing what he wants to do and hes going to assume
that shes obviously coming with him. Its just a little six-year old putting up a little
baby fit.
So he says, Lets go over there, I want to get a drink, and she says, I dont feel
like getting a drink. He might look at her and laugh and say, Yeah I know, but
Im thirsty. Come on. Grabs her by the hand, leads her on the way, assumes that
of course shes coming.
Thats him being non-reactive and completely on his path and putting his shit
first. Thats what you want to be doing. You want to be completely like youre
totally going where youre fucking going, youve already decided youre going
there, and youre completely confidently assuming who the fuck is coming,
youre totally certain about it.
So even when they disagree, they say anything else, that doesnt get into your
mindset at all. Your frame is still your frame, your path is still your path, your
decision about where youre going right now is still your decision about where
youre going right now.
So the test comes, you laugh it off and then boom, lets go anyways. Completely
ignore anything that isnt exactly what youre going to be doing. Its like, Yeah,
I know but Im thirsty. Lets go. Boom, takes her. That is the number one thing
Vince does is that hes totally non-reactive to everything and everybody at all
times and hes just going to do whatever the fuck he wants to do anyways, and
that is highly highly attractive on its own.
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And yeah, Vince gets that because hes famous and he has a lot of money and
a lot of people know who he is and he has a lot of external factors that feed into
him being able to do that, but you dont need the external factors to do it, you
just give yourself permission to do it. And if you need permission right now, Im
telling you, Jason Fucking Capital, Americas honest dating coach, Americas
number one success coach, Im looking you dead fucking in the eyes you
fucking badass, you have my permission. Be as cocky and forward as Vinny
Chase for the rest of your life. Now lets move on.
Number Two: Vince has a signature style. He has a signature style. If you think
about it, most if not all of the most iconic celebrities, male celebrities, of our
time, of history, have what is called a signature style. And what I mean by that is
they basically kind of dress and look the same all the time.
Now they dont dress like everybody else, and they dont act like everybody
else, they have their own consciously chosen style, the way theyre presenting
themselves to the world, and they dont really change it a lot. They wear almost
the same thing every day. Vince has a signature style. Hank Moody has a
signature style. Steve Jobs had a signature style.
If I were to ask you right now, what clothing did Steve Jobs always wear?
Immediately you know, blue jeans and then the black turtleneck. He always wore
the same thing, he had a signature style. Really things people typically have a
signature kind of style. Ryan Gosling has a signature style. George Clooney has a
signature style.
Jason Capital has a signature style. Ill always see me in the solid colored v-necks
and the dark jeans and the black boots. Thats my style right now. So, what I
recommend for you is to have your own signature style. Whatever its going to be,
just wear almost the same thing every single day. You change it up a little, maybe
you change the color of the shirt, maybe you change the color of the pants, the
style of the shoes, but for the most part its the same style every time.

And the reason we do this is because when you have a signature style, its almost
like you create your own box in someones brain. So when someone meets you
theyre always trying to categorize hes this kind of person, hes that kind of person,
Im going to put him in this box, Im going to put him in that box.
When you have your own signature style and someone sees it enough times, they
see it over and over and over, and over again, they realize they cant box you in
with other people. They actually have to create their own separate box for you.
So most people are in this box and the rest of the people are in that box, but
Jason Capital, that guy, hes got his own box. Hes his own thing. Hes in a
category of one, and whats the best part about being in a category of one? You
always win. You always have power, you always win in their mind.
So Vince has a signature style, I highly highly recommend you get your signature
style. I almost recommend pause this recording right now and write out or think
about, go to your wardrobe and figure out what is your signature style. Whats
going to work best for you.
One thing you can even do is if you dont have it is you can go to a mall, or go
to any clothing store, find a cute girl who works there and tell her youre trying to
figure out what your signature style is, lets find out what looks best on me, and
lets put the wardrobe together.
You could also end up gaming her like Team Capital would, and fvck her in the
changing room, Ive done that at JC Penney before, not at JC Penney, whats
the other place ... J Crew, J Crew, thats what its called, same thing. So thats
number two.
Number Three: the nice thing Vince does is hes the sexually entitled man.
Now this was the newest addition to the infamous STATUS course, which is
probably sold out right now as I record this, because its damn near always
sold out, if you ever get the chance to join you probably should just take it right
away, but thats the newest module we added, its module 13, its the
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13th higher status signal and Vince has it down. What is means to be sexually
entitled is that you simply assume that every girl youre communicating with
wants to sleep with you really really bad, theyve already decided that they want
to sleep with you and theyre chasing you, theyre trying to convince you to sleep
with them right now.
You are sexually entitled. The reason this works is because when youre sexually
entitled and youre talking to a girl, and youre acting sexually entitled, your
frame becomes her frame. If youre a dominant male, like every fucking badass
on Team Capital, your frame becomes her frame. So youre talking to her, and
youre implying or making jokes, youre teasing her, youre taunting her and all
these things that are implying that she is trying to hit on you and after a couple of
minutes that frame becomes her frame.
So if your frame is youre hitting on me right now, then in a couple of minutes she
actually accepts the frame and she goes, Shit, I am hitting on him right now, I do
want to sleep with him right now.
Thats literally the mind control power of being sexually entitled. So probably
my favorite line to trigger this idea in a girls brain that youre sexually entitled is
by simply telling her early on in conversation, you guys are flirting, just stop the
conversation for a second and be like, Yo, by the way I just wanted to let you
know, no matter what happens tonight, were not sleeping together.
And by you saying that, youre saying that one, you assume she wants to sleep
with you already like obviously you do every girl wants to sleep with you, youre
sexually entitled, and two youre actually disqualifying her at the same time from
doing it so now youve set this frame that she wants to sleep with you aka youre
sexually entitled and then b youve set the second frame that youre a challenge,
youre not sold, youre not easy ... seriously shes not sleeping with you tonight
no matter what she does, I dont care what you try, theres no way Im sleeping
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Its not happening. Which of course is going to trigger insane attraction on her part
mixed with the frame of her wanting to sleep with you because youre sexually
entitled and its fucking unstoppable.
You do something like that, and then you just lay back, youre cool for a few
minutes, have a fun conversation with her, and then a couple of minutes later she
sees you talking to another girl and the other girl is responding well to you, game
fucking over its like nuclear bomb to the female frame.
So one way you might see Vince do this a lot, and all the episodes of Entourage,
youre going to go back and watch it, youre going to see all this shit now, is if
hes talking to a girl at a bar or something like that, and even if its for a couple of
minutes, youll notice that hes just interpreting everything that shes saying as her
trying to flirt with him, as her trying to seduce him, as her trying to sleep with him.
So if theyre hanging out, say theyre at a lounge, and hes sitting down and
theres a girl nearby and she says hello and he looks at her and he smiles and
he says hello back, in his mind hes already thinking to himself, Another girl
who wants to sleep with me, this will be fun, maybe Ill sleep with her.
Thats literally what hes thinking, thats why hes smirking, and she sees the
smirk on his face, she sees it in his eyes and subconsciously she gets it, she
gets the frame and its already over before its begun. And thats why most guys,
they look at what hes done with women on the show and theyre like, Well hes
not doing anything, how is he even sleeping with all these women, hes just
famous or hes just good looking, hes just rich, thats the only reason why.
The truth its not, thats not the reason why. The reason why is because hes
sexually entitled. So to other guys, they cant see it, they dont understand it, but
now you do and obviously the top guys on Team Capital do, but he knows what
hes doing, he knows when hes talking to a girl, and even when theyre talking
about something totally innocuous, something totally innocent like, Hey, what did

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you do before you came here, hows your life been? And theyre talking about
it and she says she went grocery shopping and she found some really good
mangoes, he might look at her and smirk and be like, Oh yeah, you found
some really good mangoes, huh? Tell me about your mangoes.
And hes got a little smirk on his face and its just so calm and its such an
innocent conversation, the words are innocent, but the smirk is there. The eye
contact is there.
Hes kind of close in her physical space, but hes still leaning back at the same
time. In his mind he already knows this girl wants to sleep with him, ask yourself,
if I knew the girl Im talking to right now is desperately secretly trying to sleep with
me and there is nothing I can do that is going to stop her from wanting to sleep
with me right now, how would I act towards her? How would I feel, how would I
stand right now, how would I sit, how would I look, how would I talk?
Youd be like Vince, itd be funny, youd talk about anything, youd say anything,
the words wouldnt matter, youd have this great energy, youd be like, I know
this girl wants to sleep with me so bad, oh you picked mangoes, huh, what kind
of mangoes? I cant sleep with a girl who doesnt pick really good mangoes, a
girls fruit selection capabilities are almost always the determining factor if Im
going to shove my dick in her or not. Thats just how I am, so tell me, how good
are the mangoes that you picked?
Something like that, I dont know if I would say the shove a dick in her, but the
rest of that you can all do, you can just use shit like that because it triggers
sexual entitlement.
Now theres a lot of lines we go over and stuff we go over in status with sexual
entitlement, application of it, but truthfully once you understand the mindset the
lines almost dont matter because you just come up with your own. You become
the sexually entitled man and the words that come out of your mouth are just
going to convey that is who you are. Its going to convey that identity.
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Another one thats really good formula before I get to the next one here, if youre
ever walking away from a girl after a conversation or anything like that, just put
in the phrase, "If you want to keep X, Ill be over there."
So for instance, if you want to keep checking me out, Ill be over there. If you
want to flirt with me later, Ill be over there. If you want to try and seduce me
later, Ill be over there. If you want to try and fuck me before the nights over, Im
probably going to be getting drunk over there so your chances would be way
better so meet me over there in a little bit. If you want to keep X, if you want to
keep trying to seduce me, Ill be over there.
If you want to keep checking me out, if you want to check out my amazing ass, Ill
be over there. Sexually entitled, Vince has it, I have it, top guys on Team Capital
have it, and now you have it.
Number Four: Vince never ends relationships. He never ends
"relationships". Now I put relationships because as most of the guys on Team
Capital know I dont believe in relationships. Relationships imply some type
of finality to two people.
The truth is, its like youre single and now youre in a relationship, and now
youve gotten to this endpoint and this is the end, were in the relationship, this
is it, and thats not how life is, life is dynamic, its in flux, its changing moment to
moment, youre never in a relationship with someone, youre simply relating with
them. Youre constantly relating, things are better, things are worse.
Youre going closer, now youre going further apart, youre not doing it on
purpose, because youre growing and evolving as human beings and sometimes
things cross, sometimes they dont, and thats okay.
So youre always relating with women. I dont care if she lives with you, youre
always relating. And Vince gets this, right? So theres even an episode, I think its
season two, where theyre talking about breaking up with girls and Vince literally
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says, Ive never broken up with a girl before. And theyre all shocked, because
most of the other guys in the show are kind of socially programmed, Vince is not.
Thats the other great thing about Vince, hes not.
Hes got his own way of doing things, and one of them is he doesnt break up
with girls because hes never in a relationship, theres never anything to end.
Sometimes were close, sometimes were not. Thats just how it is. So, on top of
it, with him and the women that hes seeing its always open. If a woman ever
came with him with a what are we, exclusive kind of thing.
Im not going to say he would just laugh in her face, but he would be
compassionate about it and he would just, Listen Im not a monogamous kind of
guy. Im not a one woman kind of man. Im a non-monogamous guy. I really care
about you, I like spending time with you, Id love to keep spending time with you,
but thats just not who I am, personally.
And hes just open, hes totally open with all his women, so theyre always open,
theres nothing to break up from. Theyre just relating, theyre open, and what
happens is the girls sometimes if they cant handle it anymore or they dont
see him for a little bit, maybe they back off. Maybe they meet another guy, they
try and date him for a little bit, they get bored, they come back to Vince, thats
typically how it works.
So theres never any breakups, its just sometimes were close, sometimes were
not. And the key to understanding here, you understand that you are the sexually
entitled man.
And when you have that kind of sexual abundance that Vince has and youre
always seeing multiple women, youre spinning multiple plates all the time, when
you have that and maybe she cant handle the non-monogamy thing for a little
bit and she leaves, you know shes going to come back because you ended on
good terms, you ended on good terms, youre on Team Capital, so you fucked
the shit out of her, she really enjoys being with you, youre cool, youre cocky,
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youre funny, youre indifferent, youre carefree, youre higher status, and then
you ended on good terms, and youre like, Listen, you want to go try something
else? I sincerely want you to be happy, I hope it works out for you guys, I wish
you all the best.
If you leave on those terms and then you walk away, thirty, sixty, ninety days
later, a year later, it doesnt matter, shes going to come back at some point,
because she cant resist that kind of indifferent, higher status, sexually abundant,
sexually in-demand man. So thats number four.
Number Five: most important by far, and its something even myself as a white
dude the last few months Ive gone back and forth on. Sometimes I even lose
focus on this but its so fucking crucial, it is the fucking foundation of what we do
on Team Capital, its what makes us the top one percent, and here it is. Vince
never chooses girls over his mission in life.
He never chooses girls over his mission in life. There is never a point in the show
where maybe he gets a call from Ari and they have to go on this really important
meeting for a movie or something like that and hes with a chick or something, hes
never like, Shit, I want to fuck this chick, because I dont know if Im going to see
her again, Ill move the meeting later.
Its not, he leaves the fucking girl whenever he fucking has to because he knows
whats number one, he knows whats more important, he knows whats most
important, his mission in life in that moment.
And truthfully, Heres the secret, so lets say hes with two chicks, and theyre
banging hot and theyre both sucking his dick and he gets a call from Ari and hes
got to go to this big meeting, he will leave them on the spot and go to Ari.
The sheer action of him, literally showing his subconscious, Yeah, theres two
hot women here who are blowing me, but I am leaving them to go work on my
mission, to move towards my big huge throbbing vision for myself, that sheer
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act of leaving the girls to do this thing, it strengthens his identity, it strengthens
his identity as a sexually abundant man, and it strengthens his identity that his
mission is more important to him than anything else in life.
A big understanding for you, whatever point you are, intermediate, advanced,
doesnt matter, is that you are going to strengthen the parts of your identity that
you like through your actions and not necessarily through affirmations and all that
other kind of inner game stuff, and that stuff works, and its important, and I do it
every day and I think you should too because its like making pizza, if you made
pizza with no cheese, or maybe just a little bit of cheese or just one kind of
cheese instead of three, thats what it would be like trying to strengthen your
identity in certain ways without using the inner game stuff.
Its important, you got to use all the cheese, you got to finish the whole fucking
pizza, and thats good. But if youre not acting in accordance with the person that
you want to be all the time, thats even more important than the journaling, the
affirmations and all that shit.
So when Vince leaves the girls to go work on his mission, in that moment
he is taking the action in accordance with the person he wants to be, he is
strengthening that identity even more. Change your actions, change your beliefs,
he takes that action, proving to himself, yeah his mission is more important,
proving to himself, yeah girls are everywhere, because I just left two and I dont
even give a shit because I know Im going to get more, it doesnt fucking matter.
That kind of sexual power is incredibly alluring to women and that power he takes
from making that action of leaving the girls to go to the meeting to work on his
mission, that there is a certain sexual abundant energy, charisma, whatever you
want to call it, that is literally ... it locks itself in to who he is for the next thirty days
maybe, because he took that one sexually abundant action, put his mission first.
So the next thirty days after he makes that action, however long it is, maybe its two
weeks, maybe its sixty days, every girl he meets, theyre going to subconsciously
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... dude, they feel it, they get it. And its obvious, from the way he talks, from the
way he looks at them, hes even more sexually entitled now, in his body language,
in his tonality, in his non-reactivity, they love it. And then on top of it, when you put
your mission before your girls, obviously youre always in motion, youre always
going somewhere more important.
Of course, girls hate it when they see a guy standing still, and they love it when
they see that he is in motion, in self directed motion on his path, and Vince
always has that, such a key thing most guys would never realize, but dude, look
at every fucking episode of Entourage.
Vince never chooses girls over his mission, always chooses his mission over
everything else just like you, just like me, just like all the top guys on Team
Capital.

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