Isfp Personality: Happy To Be Who They Are
Isfp Personality: Happy To Be Who They Are
I change during the course of a day. I wake and I'm one person, and when I go to sleep I
know for certain I'm somebody else.
Bob Dylan
ISFP personality types are true artists, but not necessarily in the typical
sense where they're out painting happy little trees. Often enough though,
they are perfectly capable of this. Rather, it's that they use aesthetics,
design and even their choices and actions to push the limits of social
convention. ISFPs enjoy upsetting traditional expectations with experiments
in beauty and behavior - chances are, they've expressed more than once
the phrase "Don't box me in!"
ISFPs always know just the compliment to soften a heart that's getting
ready to call their risks irresponsible or reckless.
However, if a criticism does get through, it can end poorly. Some ISFPs can
handle kindly phrased commentary, valuing it as another perspective to
help push their passions in new directions. But if the comments are more
biting and less mature, ISFP personalities can lose their tempers in
spectacular fashion.
ISFPs are sensitive to others' feelings and value harmony. When faced with
criticism, it can be a challenge for people with this type to step away from
the moment long enough to not get caught up in the heat of the moment.
But living in the moment goes both ways, and once the heightened
emotions of an argument cool, ISFPs can usually call the past the past and
move on as though it never occurred.
ISFP WEAKNESSES
Fiercely Independent - Freedom of expression is often ISFPs' top
priority. Anything that interferes with that, like traditions and hard
rules, creates a sense of oppression for ISFP personalities. This can
make more rigidly structured academics and work a challenge.
Unpredictable - ISFPs' dislike long-term commitments and plans.
The tendency to actively avoid planning for the future can cause
strain in ISFPs' romantic relationships and financial hardship later in
life.
Easily Stressed - ISFPs live in the present, full of emotion. When
situations get out of control, people with this personality type
(especially Turbulent ones) can shut down, losing their characteristic
charm and creativity in favor of gnashing teeth.
ISFP RELATIONSHIPS
ISFPs are quite mysterious and difficult to get to know. While very
emotional individuals, they guard this sensitive core carefully, preferring to
listen than to express. People with the ISFP personality type focus instead
on their partners, with little interest in dictating the mood of a situation with
their own feelings. While this can sometimes be frustrating, if they are
accepted for who they are, ISFPs prove to be warm, enthusiastic partners.
Things are unlikely to ever grow stale - even the longest-term partners can
be surprised by the secrets ISFPs keep.
ISFP FRIENDS
In friendship, ISFPs are some of the most comfortable people around. Laid
back and spontaneous, people with the ISFP personality type won't bog
things down with arguments or structured long-term plans. Intellectually
exhausting pastimes like debates over European economic policy won't
hold their attention long. The here-and-now is what's important to ISFPs,
and they love spending time with their friends doing casual, fun activities.
they trust, ISFPs know how to relax, shedding rules, traditions and
expectations in favor of just enjoying themselves.
Those who prefer safe, structured environments might end up struggling in
these friendships though, especially if they lecture ISFPs on how they're
living their lives. As with any criticism, those friends are free to do their own
thing, and to leave ISFPs to do theirs.
ISFPs' relaxed, non-judgmental attitudes make it easy for them to get along
with others, but it's not always the same way around.
Lots of personal space and freedom are essential to ISFP personalities,
and it's often other Explorer types, who share their "live and let live"
worldview and joy in actuallydoing things, that gravitate towards ISFPs.
There's really no better friend than ISFPs for dropping the pretenses and
enjoying low-stress fun.
ISFP PARENTS
When it comes to parenting, ISFPs often feel right at home. While no one
could be said to be truly prepared for such a task, ISFP personalities'
natural warmth, practicality and relaxed nature help them to settle in and
appreciate every moment of joy and hardship that comes with raising a
child.
None of this is to say that ISFP parents are overbearing - in fact, they are
one of the most relaxed personality types there is when it comes to
parenting. ISFPs believe that the only way to really have their children grow
up to be open-minded and well-balanced people is to let them explore and
experience new things, make mistakes and learn from them, and to always
know that they'll be able to come home at the end of it.
Interventions and hardline rules just aren't ISFPs' style.
The freedom ISFPs grant their children comes with risks too, since it
demands a certain level of maturity from the children themselves. Some
lessons are harder than others. These can be hard lessons for people with
the ISFP personality type too, since they are more sensitive than most
when it comes to their lifestyles or parenting being criticized. Nothing's
quite as unpleasant as "I told you so".
Long-term planning is another challenging area for ISFP parents. When it
comes to things like saving for their children's college education, ISFPs
necessarily rely on partners who take care of that sort of thing more readily.
ISFP CAREERS
When it comes to the career world, ISFPs need more than just a job.
Wealth, power, structure, advancement and security are all lesser goals to
with hospitals to make patients' stays more pleasant, or laying stone to help
make a house a home, ISFPs always seem to find a way to make the world
a little more beautiful and exciting, and to make a living in the process.
ISFP SUBORDINATES
People with the ISFP personality type don't like to be controlled, and this
can be quite clear in subordinate positions - they loathe being
micromanaged. At the same time, ISFPs aren't well-known for their longterm focus, but rather their adaptability and spontaneity. They'll use
unconventional methods, sometimes risky ones, and existing rules are just
someone else's way of doing things. Still, ISFPs find a way to make things
happen. To manage ISFP personalities successfully, there need to be
clearly set goals, and otherwise an open sandbox.
If this balance can be made to work, ISFPs show themselves to be eager
learners and passionate problem-solvers, especially if they get to deal oneon-one with other people or to tackle a problem solo. People with this
personality type are humble, even shy, and unlikely to put themselves on
the spot by volunteering their help. But ISFPs do love to feel appreciated,
and if assigned a task, they work hard to earn that appreciation.
ISFP COLLEAGUES
Among their peers ISFPs feel most comfortable. Working with equals and
giving some advice in order to solve practical problems is right where ISFP
personalities like to be. While they may exhaust themselves if their role
requires an excessive amount of social interaction, they are otherwise quite
charming and have excellent networking skills.
ISFPs are tolerant and friendly, and usually just do what needs to be done
regardless of whether their colleagues pull their own weight. At the end of
the day though, ISFPs are sensitive and need to know that these efforts are
appreciated - a well-placed compliment goes a long way. ISFPs do let their
personal goals affect their approach to their work, which can make them a
little unpredictable, but this is balanced by their desire for harmony and
willingness to find win-win solutions whenever possible.
ISFP MANAGERS
The position that feels most unnatural to ISFPs is management. They are
not a domineering personality type, and take no joy in exerting control over
others, planning long-term goals, or disciplining unsatisfactory behavior.
But just because it feels a little strange, doesn't mean ISFP personalities
aren't good at it.
ISFPs' sensitivity allows them to be great listeners, helping them to align
their subordinates' personal motivations with the task at hand. They also
give their subordinates the freedom to do what needs to be done to solve
what needs to be solved on any given day, and ISFPs are likely to dig into
that work right alongside them. This gives ISFP managers a marked style
of inspiration and cooperation, and they're usually well-liked.
CONCLUSION
Few personality types are as colorful and charming as ISFPs. Known for
their kindness and artistic skills, ISFPs are great at finding exciting new
things to explore and experience. ISFPs' creativity and down-to-earth
attitude are invaluable in many areas, including their own personal growth.
Yet ISFPs can be easily tripped up in areas where their focus on practical
matters is more of a liability than an asset. Whether it is finding (or keeping)
a partner, reaching dazzling heights on the career ladder, or learning to
plan ahead, ISFPs need to put in a conscious effort to develop their weaker
traits and additional skills.
What you have read so far is just an introduction into the complex concept
that is the ISFP personality type. You may have muttered to yourself, "wow,
PREMIUM PROFILES
HAVE YOU EVER WONDERED WHY...
...you do not mind being alone, but social situations exhaust you?
...your kindness often leads to many people being too dependent on
you?
...you tend to overload yourself and then stress out because you are
not sure you are good enough?
...you have a keen eye for detail, but complicated concepts and
theories frustrate you?
...you often get hurt and then blame yourself for being too kind?
...your efforts are not always noticed or appreciated?
...you are not quite sure how to reach your full potential in a world
that does not always value your hard work and dedication?
...you tend to do things in a slow and steady way?
...you rarely get stressed and often wonder why most of your friends
seem to be more obsessed with success?
...you are relatively happy and satisfied with your life, but you often
find it difficult to get excited?
...you seem to have an unsettling dark side that only comes out in
rare circumstances?
Do any of these sound familiar? You know your personality type. Now
achieve what you have always wanted to achieve without compromising
who you really are.