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Orgasm control is a sexual technique where a high level of sexual arousal is maintained for an extended period of time without reaching orgasm. It can be practiced alone through masturbation or with a partner. When done with a partner, one person stimulates the other to the edge of orgasm and then reduces stimulation to prolong the arousal. This can create a more intense orgasm when finally achieved. Orgasm control is most easily learned through masturbation which allows precise control over stimulation. It aims to make every sensation feel exquisite rather than simply achieving orgasm.

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Orgasm Control

Orgasm control is a sexual technique where a high level of sexual arousal is maintained for an extended period of time without reaching orgasm. It can be practiced alone through masturbation or with a partner. When done with a partner, one person stimulates the other to the edge of orgasm and then reduces stimulation to prolong the arousal. This can create a more intense orgasm when finally achieved. Orgasm control is most easily learned through masturbation which allows precise control over stimulation. It aims to make every sensation feel exquisite rather than simply achieving orgasm.

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Orgasm control

Orgasm control, also referred to as edging, peaking, or


surng,[1] is a sexual technique which may be practiced
either alone or with a partner and involves the maintenance of a high level of sexual arousal for an extended
period of time without reaching orgasm. When practiced
by males, orgasm control allows the practitioner to enjoy direct sexual stimulation without waiting through the
refractory period common after orgasm. When the decision is made to allow orgasm, the physical sensations
may be much greater and more pleasurable than if the orgasm were experienced conventionally. Orgasm control
is referenced as slow masturbation in Alex Comfort's
The New Joy of Sex (1993)[2] and extended massive orgasm in Vera and Steve Bodanskys 2000 book of the
same name,[1] and is similar to the Venus Buttery technique used in the volume The One Hour Orgasm (1988)
by Leah and Bob Schwartz.

usual due to the increased tension and arousal that builds


up during the extended stimulation. If the partner whose
orgasm is being controlled, sometimes referred to as the
submissive partner, is put into physical restraints, it may
better control the orgasm (the activity is sometimes called
tie and tease and if orgasm is denied it is tease and denial). Another possibility is for one partner to help produce multiple orgasms in the other.

2 In masturbation
When practiced alone, orgasm control is benecial for
heightening sexual pleasure as well as a training tool
which permits the practitioner to increase the duration
of sex with a partner. For the female, because there is little or no post-orgasm refractory period, the practitioner
can enjoy direct sexual stimulation for longer periods of
time, as well as with increased frequency and intensity.
For the male, the speed of the rubbing or stroking of
the penis may vary to navigate right to the edge of ejaculation. With orgasm control, a male can experience a
longer or more intense orgasm, as well as a larger volume
of semen expelled during his ejaculation. Because solo
masturbation allows for precise control over the feelings,
the timing, and the speed of stimulation, many people
practice orgasmic control by themselves. One technique,
commonly referred to as edging is where one will masturbate up until the moment before reaching the plateau
phase just before orgasm occurs, and then stop suddenly
before experiencing a climax. Another technique, commonly referred to as surng is where one will reach the
plateau phase and slow down the stimulation to maintain
a heightened level of sensation for an extended time. Repeating either of these techniques many times during a
single masturbation session may result in a stronger, more
intense orgasm.

Since orgasm control prolongs the experience of powerful sexual sensations occurring during the nal build-up
to orgasm, the physical demands of being kept or keeping oneself in this highly excited state for an extended
time can induce a pleasurable, almost euphoric state, and
at times creates changes within an individuals perceived
consciousness.
Orgasm control can involve either sex partner being in
control of the other partners orgasm, or a person delaying their own orgasm during sexual activity with a partner
or by masturbation. To experience orgasm control, any
method of sexual stimulation can be used.

In partnered sex

When shared in sexual activity between partners, one


partner would stimulate the other, gradually bringing
them up to the point high in the plateau phase where
an orgasm is actually building, and will then reduce the
level of stimulation to just below that needed to trigger
the orgasm. If control of the orgasm is given to a partner and orgasm is not allowed for a time in order to develop an increased level of sexual tension, it is referred
to as erotic sexual denial. By carefully varying the intensity and speed of stimulation, and by practicing with
the same partner to learn his or her responses, a person
can be held in the highly aroused state near orgasm. This
process may be repeated as desired, but at some point
repetition may cause the urge to orgasm to become overwhelming. When a partner eventually provides enough
stimulation to achieve an orgasm, it may be stronger than

Many individuals assert that orgasm control is more often


possible with masturbation. This is a direct result of the
fact that one is then able to control the intensity and duration of stimulation without having to rely on the partner
stopping or changing the type of stimulation in order to
postpone the orgasm. Masturbation is then the easy way
to learn ones limits and could also be seen as the starting
point in the technique of orgasm control.
Orgasm control is most easily learned through solitary
masturbation, although many individuals enjoy including elements of Orgasm Control in sex with a partner.
Masturbation provides the individual with the opportu1

nity of learning about their bodies and the amount of pleasure they can experience without reaching orgasm. Selfstimulation can help both men and women acknowledge
the limits of their body and the techniques that may help
them in controlling their orgasms.
As it has been described by Steve Bodansky and Vera
Bodansky in Extended Massive Orgasm: How You Can
Give and Receive Intense Sexual Pleasure, masturbation
practiced with the aim of orgasm control must be carried on with the purpose of making every stroke feel
exquisite and not to relieve tension, like simple masturbation does.[3] In order to practice this other type of
masturbation, the same authors suggest gradual stimulation of the genitals and then making connections between
the primary area (penis or clitoris) and the secondary area
(lips, nipple or other part of the body that is an erogenous
zone). The connection between the two areas is established once the individual stimulates them with exactly
the same moves of the same intensity.

See also
Blue balls
Coitus reservatus, a practice where orgasm is withheld for weeks or months at a time.
Erotic sexual denial
Eroto-comatose lucidity
Tantric sex

References

[1] Extended Massive Orgasm, Steve and Vera Bodansky,


(2000), pp. 91, 92, 9498, ISBN 0-89793-289-7
[2] The New Joy of Sex, Alex Comfort, (1993), ISBN 185732-097-2
[3] Bodansky, Steve; Bodansky, Vera (2000-11-01).
Extended Massive Orgasm: How You Can Give and
Receive Intense Sexual Pleasure. ISBN 9780897932899.
Retrieved 2010-07-27.

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