Notes

(Started with a yoga style warm up)

- Any desire is a form of insecurity

- If youre looking to achieve something then you are insecure

- Relax into what youve always been. Then offer your true self as a gift.

- Your body is a resume to a woman

- Relaxed depth of being is most attractive to a woman

- First three times at anything you fail badly, though you might get lucky, then
its less stressful after.

- You point to your heart to define you

- Its in the moment, as you relax in that. Thats what everyone feels.

- You always attract someone as wounded as youre putting out

- If youre trying to achieve something, you are insecure, and youll attract
someone as insecure.

- If youre faking it, people will expect you to keep faking it.

- No one cares about you, except you, and you shouldnt.

- Where your attention is is how people experience themselves.

- If youre attentive on yourself, youll attract selfish women

- Mick Jagger is about the music, and giving it, not about him, not about his body,
not about his aches, not about his age . . .

- Everyone wants a good show (happiness, love, etc.)

- Find out what you want, that when you die youll die complete.

i. What do you want to do before you die?

- Look at your friends and girlfriends, and thats you

- You want a girl to see God through you

- You want the girl to worship you

- The 3rd step, stage of intimacy

The 3 Stages

1st stage Dick suckers (do something wrong and she doesnt suck your dick)
2nd stage Fair (i.e. if you want me to suck your dick, you have to eat my
business relationship)
3rd stage Neither mutual relationship; not fair. ITS I WANT TO OPEN SOMEONE TO
GOD TONIGHT. (GOD being divinity) And in return I accept nothing but pain. You
should feel like Jesus on the cross. When you walk into the club you know youll
experience pain eventually. Its mutual, true worship. We all worship women.

Gift

- Graduation Day

i. Difference is between the girl before meeting you and the girl after meeting
you.

- The part of you totally trustable is what you give to women during sex

- Note: Giving GOD without expectation (she wont give you the kudos you deserve)

- Women are built to show you where youre holding your fear.

- If you need her approval you are already attracting those low level moments

- Find out why you want to be with women.

- Play around -> Finding the right girl(s)

- Good sex is open and intense that if you ever see the woman again you just
breathe . . .

Masculine

- Be the awareness that is undiminished by the moments.i. 2 parts to a moment

1. Youre aware of this moment. You can see a chair; youre not the chair. You are
tired, but youre not the tired. (Witness I am here, not changing.)
2. Everything else everything else except the witness (To be free of the pleasure
and pain, during pleasure and pain)

- Your value as a MAN is your capacity to remain present no matter what happens.

- The capacity to remain present no matter if there is pleasure/pain

- Everything else that changes is the feminine

- Being here is the masculine

- That unflinching makes a man a man

- Fear doesnt collapse them, them who are valuable in society

- Not fidget, collapse . . . thats your value as a man.

- Feminine is move-ability and feminine value is ability to move

- We want a woman who gives you everything; LIFE.

- Masculine is that which does not move.

- Masculine = you
- Feminine = Everything else in the universe

My gift

- The sacrifice of myself for others

- When youre fucking a girl what would you prefer in terms of value. A girl who is
rigid and still, or a girl who is all over the place in pleasure?

- Guys drink to numb

- Women drink to express themselves

- Every fidget de-masculinizes you

- How much of your day do you want to here of her day, life, friends, etc?

- 3rd stage is making a relationship into an art form.

- In general, what kills a relationship is talking

Bomb Dropping Example

- A good warrior feels the bombs before they drop (i.e. fishing, you have to be
sensitive to all the moments to catch the most fish. With picking up women, you
have to be sensitive to any situation)

- Practice increased awareness by feeling the person on your left, on your right,
people behind you. (i.e. Basketball players can pass to anyone on the court of
their field sensitivity)

- David Deida said if he was a woman he wouldnt date anyone in this room

- Any unconscious movement is bad

- All fidgets and movements make you unattractive

More Attractive

- Feel the space around you

- Sense your breathing

- To find out how much you trust someone think of the following. You have a huge
business deal of all your life savings, would you trust that man?

Ask YOURSELF

- Do you trust yourself with someones life savings?

Women Are So Sensitive

- Keep feet straight

- Humour means presence

i. Think of a good joke, and a gun on your side ready to shoot anyone who gets in
your way.

- You can learn to be the most trustable person in the world, but you have to be
real.

- Women want to feel that your body is reflecting the real

- There is not better or worse men, there is better acting and worse acting men

- You get as much self-involved when you believe there are worse or better men.
- After your body goes you will know who you are

- You are always aware of the present, but how much are you expressing?

- Feel that you are dancing in your body, but you can kill the next person who gets
in your way.

- Its all a matter of being aware of the present moment.

- When you become more aware of your body you can express your glow.

- Laughter of human existence = slight smile

- Practice to real your glow.

- Guys awareness of presence changes, thats why girls say, I want this guy. Then
the next moment says, I want this other guy. Thats why girls dont know what guy
they want.

- Feel like your feet are rooted and feel that root

- ROOT YOURSELF SO YOURE A WHOLE BEING

- For 5-10 Minutes a day stand in front of a mirror, big erect dick and feel like
everyone/you is going to die in the next ten minutes and sing and you can kill the
person who walks in the door

- Twitches are feedback. No twitches if youre ON

- Twitches are feedback that you are losing it

- Wed all go insane if we didnt live in self deception

- Our mortality is so frail that we deceive ourselves so we dont go insane.

- Loosening up your ass makes you less of a tight ass.

- Why not just lay in our excrement and die? If you just eat and masturbate, what
is it about eating and masturbation that are so great?

- Relationships are important for you to live out your fantasies

- Your purpose is to live out your fantasy everyday of your life

- We want to experience power every day

- 1st stage man

i. I want to dominate this woman so I can feel good about myself

- 3rd stage man

i. express your fantasy and use it as a portal

- You only ignore who you are when you say If only . . .

- Sex and violence is on television cause they dont live it out

- Yogic way to use masturbatory fantasy

- Only when you are living on your edge will you feel alive

- If you get emotional by movie types, then you have to do that (i.e. fighting
movie; then box or do martial arts)

- Masturbatory Fantasy

i. Submissive woman

1. cause were not well fucked

- The cure is to trace fantasy to the root

- We fuck each other with our gifts. If you hold in your gift they become demonic,
and thus a fantasy

- Multiple women

i. Infinitely attractive, there fore consciousness is infinitely attraction

(i.e. just walk into a bar/club and be conscious of your whole body, as well as
everyone around you. Walk into a club and feel the whole room. If someone says,
Hi., look at them with depth but be aware of everyone else)

- Breathe = Lots of women

- Depth = Monogamy

- 3rd stage worship you but will cut your head off if you bullshit

- A womans role is to prevent you from your purpose

- Every moment is an excuse to give your gift or not.

- Fuck society, I have to give this gift.

- Girls dont have interest in his books. His books mean a lot, and itll hurt, he
may weep, but he doesnt need mommy. There is a part of him so desperate for her to
acknowledge what he does. He knows this and goes back to writing another book.

- If shes a good woman she wont support you.

- If you need support for your gift then it wont be as artful.

- They will support you in the extreme moments

- As soon as you REALLY REALLY dont need her support will you actually get it, and
youll get it without it going to your ego.

- If you do something big in the world, the world will try to resist you. The
measure of your capacity is your ability to bash it down.

- The world is a big woman

- A woman is a concentrated version of the world.

- Take any great human being and youll see that they have been beaten down. When
you win this game you die, you smile as you exit.
- Women help the process, especially with one woman. And shes giving you what the
world will give you, but in concentrated form.

i. It may take the world ten years to shit on you, but a woman will do that more
often, and you will learn to get up and move on.

- What she wants to feel is, I know what I want to do, join me?, NOT I dont
know what to do, will you help me?

- Wealthy men and extremely beautiful woman have an extreme disadvantage of being
real.

- Men friends are important to keep you in line.

- No one cares about your past, they care about being real.

- How to learn not to give a shit?

i. Its like eating food, your body shits out stuff not needed, but keeps the
nutrients.
ii. EAT THE WORLD, if you do it fully you will take it all in and then youll
discover what you need to do before you die.

- Men dont learn from other peoples mistakes very well.

- Always take everything in and then decide what you need to do to die complete.

Ask

1. Why do you want to talk to her?

a. A positive thing would be you have a gift to give her thatll benefit the world.
The negative thing would be for superficial reasons.

- Most of the fear is whats going to happen you

- In stage 3 youll give your gift and possibly get nothing in return.

- Go to a club and give your gift you everyone, some will accept, some will reject

- What ever shes doing, take it in.

- Take it all in, and still give your gift. (its a test or telling you something)

- Women are geniuses at finding out what weakens you

- Note: If she keeps going on and on then shes a nagging bitch.

- As teenagers we should learn to play

Football Example

- Say youre playing football and you dont know the rules. You get the ball, and
everyone starts trying to tackle you and you say Why are you trying to tackle me!?
WELL THATS THE GAME!

- You can connect to God without women (meditation/yoga), or through women.

- If she attacks your core and you tell her, I love you, itll unravel her.

- Women forget the moment

- If you can take fear away from sexual life you have more sex.

- Deida went from white clothed meditating pure type to Jack Daniels, steak eating,
5 women fucking for ten hours.

- Fucking around and not living about your fantasies relives the 60s and results
in what he have now, and that is not a good thing

- You dont win life, you out grow life

- Yogic dick is the root to your heart

- Every woman wants your soul, that communion.

- Look into her eyes, see her heart, breathe with her . . . and there is a point
when breaths are in sync. Then invite her to touch you by feeling her touch you.

- 90% of game is synchronizing breath.

- Dont go soft, RELAX into pure awareness

- Say Hi! from pure awareness.

4 Steps to Opening a Girl

1. Feel deepest purpose

2. Rest in deepest purpose
3. Find gift to give her and open her heart with your gift
4. Then say, Hi! in pure form.

- All women feel the negative and positive, they just dont say it.

- Depth means relaxed, humourous, open, and free.

To Be More Masculine

- Know your purpose

- Breath deeply
- Root yourself
- Stop fidgeting

- Its tough at first, and it takes effort, but after its easy cause you live it.

- During sex, that every moment you are disconnected from the moment youll get a
negative response all the time

- Uh, looking down, fumbling is not masculine.

- Quality women are rejected from the beginning

- The heart adds something to the vocal tone.

i. Tone, no clamping down

1. fix the vocal tone by laughing (taking yourself too seriously)

- connect the hearts for adding something to the voice

- They can feel when youre lying. They can feel more about you, then you can feel
about you.

Enlightened Sex Manual

- He practices many hours a day by himself

- Youre responsible for how you affect others
- When you get really good you will find things about her that she doesnt even
know, and you have to step up to continue with the girl, so people dont get hurt
- When you get good you dont need to find someone, you have to eliminate them
- What do you have to give to a woman before you die?

i. Your gift

- If you went to a club and breath in three ways, fill the space with your
consciousness, conscious of your entire body, and any body that comes near you, and
giving your heart to everyone.
- You attract any woman that your attention is on (i.e. if you spend most of the
time thinking about pleasure, youll attract pleasure. If you focus on your deepest
gift youll attract women who want your deepest gift)
- What counts to women is not what you say, its how you say

- If your heart is disconnected from your purpose, your heart will be rated low on
a scale of 0 to 10.

- Look at someone while saying it, and think of how you would say something to that
person if you were with them.

- Women are about love and giving love.

- Women want to feel your whole body is into your purpose

- Slow down tempo so its like a dance to get them involved, NOT pushing it on them

- You claim the woman you want to claim and you make that claim known to them in
delicious ways

Exercise

- Stay present by counting your breaths 10 minutes a day, and if you are not
conscious then slap yourself.

- More presence = more attractiveness

- Chatting brings you about in your head

- Find your deepest purpose and express it

- Attractiveness

i. So present you can fall asleep

1. show humour though also show that you could kill them if they get crazy

- When talking mix in humour, killing ability, and that you are better than others,
that you could get any woman youd want.

- Presence changes all the time

Best presence

- Feet parallel
- Relaxed jaw
- Breathing in belly
- Thinking you could have any woman
- That you are humourous though you could kill them
- Shoulders back
- Relaxed body/movement
- Relaxed face
- Gaze at the horizon

- When talking, talk direct, at a relaxed pace and the tone that you are better
than them

Ways To Improve

- NO I think . . .
- NO Uh
- NO hesitation
- NO low, insecure
- NO in your head
- Think before you speak
- Relax
- Breath, focus on your breath as breath is life, and your life is most important
- No fighting
- Presence = attractiveness (be more present)

- When youre tired is when you need to practice, thats when you push yourself

- When tired do 10-15 minutes of breathing exercises

- Weight training and yoga are great mixes

- Stage 1 women go for guys who are rich cause they assume wealthy guys can get
through lifes objectives.

- Stage 3 women, if she had a choice between a nonwealthy man in the present and a
wealthy man in the present, she might choose wealthy, though you never know.

Review

- You walk into a room and see an incredibly attractive woman, why are you
attracted?

i. Light
ii. Radiance
iii. Life

- Women are valued based on Light, Radiance, & Life

- What makes you attractive is consciousness, presence and attention.

- She is NOT attracted to light, radiance, and life

- If you want a woman with light, radiance, life then you have to give
consciousness, presence, and attention

- Money is sexy cause its an example of consciousness, presence, and attention

- Henry Kissinger was voted sexiest man of the year 5 times, and hes ugly. Its
cause he has consciousness, presence, and attention

- Stage 1 women want $ and status

- Stage 2 women want humour, intellect
- Stage 3 women want consciousness, presence, attention in the purest form
(fearless sensitivity that you are willing to take anything without flinching)

- Stage 1

i. Needy men try to make lots of money cause then they think people would like them
(i.e. I need $, attentive women . . .)

- Stage 2

i. Dependence (I dont need . . . )

- Stage 3

i. What can I give before I die?

- Good women want stage III, though they would go after a guy with all stages

- Maturity in a woman determines her stage #

- Nothing wrong with money, master it and move beyond money. Though you can be a
monk, and not have a need for $.

Artists
- Stage 1
i. Art for attention
ii. Art for money
- Very few artists in stage 3

- The stages are a development

- Women mirror you, if you are a stage 1, shell lie to you, steal your money

- Light attracts consciousness

- If youre in 3rd stage, youll induce 3rd stage in people

- Its all our responsibility to be 3rd stage, every moment were not makes the
world a dumber and darker place.

- It takes a woman one second to pick the most conscious/present/attentive man

- How you walk, talk, standing, breathing, looking at horizon

- Man can pick out most radiant girl within three seconds

- Life = Responsiveness

- If body doesnt show depth of man, the tone of voice can

- Gum chewing turns stage III women off

- Genuine smile from heart gives you a 10

- Way predominately men and predominantly women people learn are completely
different

- To Deida, everything is an exercise.

- Look into the persons left eye.

- Women doesnt want you to practice on her, even if it is practice

- Feminine is the water, and masculine is the container. Youre the container,
shes the water. You direct the flow of the river, but she has the power. Its your
job to be the stage 3 container

- If shes bitching

i. Stage 1 guy will just leave and come back later (i.e. have a beer and get back
to her later)
ii. Stage 2 guy will listen but have attention on other things
iii. Stage 3 guy will do the following. She goes Blah, Blah, Blah and in your
heart you find out how to open her to God, the mystery of life. (i.e. you might nod
and then dance her around, and if she gets pissed say, God, I love it when youre
angry

- Dont encourage a woman to be more feminine

- Relax her into amore feminine place than shes at

- Its NOT always true that a woman has to be more feminine to be more happy, they
can add a little more masculine to their life

Energy

- Everyone has masculine/feminine in their body

- Its up to you to take over the masculine.

- Anytime a woman is acting helpless shes playing with you.

- You should play both masculine and feminine sides, if not youre half a person

- A FREE MAN is someone who can have a bunch of sub personalities and not worry
about them.

i. Stage 1 Man goes to many sub personalities

ii. Stage 3 Man doesnt give in.

- You cant serve someone else and find there self if you cant find your own.

- Instead of saying Where do I go, you say hmmm, I have all these personalities,
what gift do I have to give?

Stage 3

- Giving gift regarding your depth through sub personalities. Gift through
meditation. Gift through fucking.
- Just roll with it

- Give gift through sub personalities

- As any artist knows, its the flaw that makes the art

- Michael Jordan was not a balanced human being, he gave it through his kink

- Dance in the wound

- You give your pain through a gift to others

- Build and lose, build and lose, build and lose

- Yea, I wont even work with a business partner unless hes been bankrupt twice.

- Maturity is when you can be rejected and move on.

- You have to fail repeatedly to get the big success

- This bodily reaction of failure came from school and getting good grades

- FAIL IN LIFE

- The bigger game you play, the bigger your losses.

- All this is grounded in enlightenment

- Enlightenment is in this present moment, in light, consciousness, and fucking

- This moment

- Enlightenment is NOT knowing it intellectually its breathing it, living it. This
moment. Yogic sex is one person giving life and one giving consciousness.

- You need friends so you dont delude yourself

- When youre ready a teacher will come

- Playing around with sex and drugs is like masturbation, and you need someone to
get you out of it

- Sensitize yourself to internal, flow of light for masturbation

- Were on a spiritual quest, through women, just take it further, and grow women
to stage III by giving your gift.