Sway
Sway
• be nurturing
• be docile
• be sensitive
If girls act gifted they are perceived as pushy, aggressive, unpolite and unfeminine
• teachers are far more likely to ID a gifted boy than a gifted girl. (could be due to the "quietness"
of gifted girls)
Social and Emotional Issues faced by gifted girls in elementary and secondary school include:
• Personality factors
• Personal priorities
These issues are present throughout the lifespan of a woman and so it is difficult (if not impossible) to
discuss girls separately from women.
"Memories of negative parental comments haunt gifted and talented women decades after they left
home...Parental opinions matter greatly to young girls...by subtle and not-so-subtle verbal and
nonverbal interactions may encourage [OR] discourage girls for life."
"Teachers were usually able to identify gifted boys, but were often surprised to learn that a girl was
considered smart. The gifted girls...were very successful at hiding their intelligence and in silencing their
voices."
Dilemmas Regarding
• Duty and caring and nurturing the talents for one's self vs. the needs of others first.
• Perfectionism
"...some gifted females begin to lose self-confidence in elementary school and continue this loss through
college and graduate schools..."
"...girls try to avoid competition in order to preserve relationships, even if that means that they don't
take the opportunity to use their skills."
"gifted girls believe it is a social disadvantage to be smart because of the negative reaction of peers."
Characteristics
• They are often conflicted between displaying their knowledge and being socially accepted. So
she may hide her abilities - or she may not even know her abilities.
• She perceives that society disapproves of enthusiasm in girls and, in an effort to be socially
accepted, may make poor decisions to be popular.
• She may be reluctant to express that she knows anything beyond what's asked of her.