The Female Orgasm Report

Harry Mete BBMedSc, LLB
The Female Orgasm Report reveals to you:

 The No1 mistake men make in bed.

 The No1 secret to the female orgasm.
 The different kinds of female orgasm.
 The science of the female orgasm.
 How to get a woman to do new things in bed.
 How to give a woman a C spot orgasm.
 How to give a woman a G spot orgasm.
 How to give a woman an A spot orgasm.
 How to give a woman oral sex.
 The best sex positions for the female orgasm.
 The 4 sex personalities that sexually arouse women.

About Harry Mete

Hi, I’m Harry Mete. I’m a female orgasm expert and I’m dedicated to making you a
female orgasm expert as well. I have degrees in biomedical science and law from
Victoria University, Wellington, New Zealand. I have 2 beautiful twin daughters and
my other passions include martial arts, health science and entrepreneurship.
The No1 Mistake Men Make in Bed
The No1 mistake men make in bed is sexual arrogance/ignorance. They think
they’re good in bed, when they’re not. They think they’re giving women orgasms,
when they’re not. “Men’s Health Magazine” found:

 94.7% of men don’t satisfy women in bed.

 91.7% of women have faked orgasms.
 74.6% of women cheat because they aren’t sexually satisfied.

“When a woman says she’s not in the mood, she really means she’s not
in the mood to allow you to masturbate in her vagina.” Harry Mete
Here’s how to be one of those 5.1% of men who give women multiple
orgasms, never get cheated on and always have women begging them for sex:
The No1 Secret to the Female Orgasm
The No1 secret to the female orgasm is relaxation. Women can’t have
orgasms unless they have an absence of fear and anxiety. Here’s how to relax a
woman:

 Wash: Have a bath or shower with her because the heat will relax her
muscles and increase her bloodflow. Increased bloodflow allows pleasure
and orgasm hormones to circulate around her body much faster and
cleanliness also reduces anxiety.
  Environment: Light scented candles and incense to relax her even further.
Play relaxing music and give her some chocolate. Relax her through all her
senses.
 Massage: Massage out all the knots in her neck and back. Knots are little
packets of stress and are the enemy of the female orgasm, so make sure
you take the time to massage them all out.

Kinds of Female Orgasm

For centuries, the female orgasm didn’t exist and women didn’t like sex. This
was a myth that was created by insecure men who were afraid of being cheated
on.
I divide the female orgasm into 2 broad categories:

 Physical
 Psychological

Physical orgasms occur from physical stimulation of the vagina via the mouth,
fingers or penis. Psychological orgasms occur from psychological stimulation of
the orgasm centre in the brain via words, tone of voice and the 4 sex personalities.
Psychological orgasms are by far the most powerful, but very few people are even
aware they are possible.
Physical orgasms can be divided further:

 C spot   The clitoris. The little knob at the top of the vagina.
 G spot   1.5-2 inches on the front wall of the vagina. With or without
ejaculation.
 A spot   3.5-4 inches on the front wall of the vagina.
 PFE      Posterior fornix erogenous zone. 3.5-4 inches on the back wall of
the vagina.
 X spot   The cervix. The entrance to the womb.
 Uterus The womb. Where babies develop.
 U spot   The urethra (pee hole). Between the vaginal opening and C spot.
 P spot   The perineum. Between the anus and vagina.
 Anus      Yes, women can have anal orgasms!
 Nipple   Yes, women can have nipple orgasms!
 Body      Her entire body spasms when she has an orgasm.

Psychological orgasms can be divided further:

 10 count to orgasm         You countdown from 10 and she has an orgasm.
 Instant orgasm                  She has an orgasm when you tell her to.
 Continuous orgasm         She has an orgasm for as long as you tell her to.
 Blowjob orgasm               She has an orgasm from giving you a blowjob.
 I know psychological orgasms sound unbelievable. However, they are real.
Orgasm is in the brain and that’s why hypnotists can give people orgasms
without any physical stimulation.
The Science of the Female Orgasm
There are 4 broad stages to the female orgasm:

 Excitement
 Plateau
 Orgasm
 Resolution

Excitement
During excitement the woman becomes sexually aroused by:

 Touch
 Sound (words and tone of voice)
 Images
 Memory
 Fantasy
 The 4 sex personalities (These personalities are essential to exciting a
woman).

Blood accumulates in her breasts and vagina and they become extremely
sensitive. Her heart rate, breathing rate and temperature increase. Her breasts
and inner vaginal lips become larger and her nipples and clitoris becomes hard.
Her vagina becomes wet and opens up. Her vagina lengthens and widens
internally and her uterus elevates.
 Plateau
Everything increases to a point and then plateaus off, except:

 The inner third of her vagina balloons and she perceives a desire to be
filled.
 Her clitoris shortens and retracts.
 She is now ready to be penetrated.
 Orgasm

 Orgasm is in the brain. This is key. This is why you can give women
orgasms with only psychological stimulation. Orgasm is merely perceived
as happening at the A, C or G spots. You can actually make her perceive
an orgasm anywhere in, on or outside of her body.
 Involuntary anal contractions: Put your little finger on or by her anus
when you think she’s having an orgasm. When her anus involuntarily
flutters (every 0.8 seconds), you know for certain that she has had an
orgasm. These are her PC (pubococcygeal) muscles contracting.  Notice
how these same orgasm muscles contract when you cum as well. As long
as you wash properly, the anus and rectum are actually quite clean.
 Body: Her body goes momentarily rigid and then spasms.
 Vocal: She moans, pants or screams.  This can be faked.
 Facial expression: Looks like pain, but is actually intense pleasure. This
can be faked.
 C spot orgasm: Stimulation of the pudendal nerves. Similar to the penis
orgasm.
 G spot orgasm: Stimulation of the pelvic nerves. Contractions of the lower
third of the vagina and sometimes ejaculation. She holds her breath
involuntarily before she orgasms and exhales explosively as her orgasm
radiates around her body.
 A spot orgasm: Stimulation of the vagus nerves. Contractions of the upper
third of the vagina. She feels her orgasm as a heat wave going from her
lower abdomen to her chest bone. A spot orgasm releases large amounts
of the hormone oxytocin, which causes sexual and emotional
addiction.
 Theta state orgasm: You make her orgasm from using only your voice.
 Resolution
She feels satisfaction, relaxation and euphoria. She can have multiple
orgasms, but if you don’t stimulate her, her breasts and vagina will return to their
non-excited state. Do you notice that a lot of women don’t feel satisfied, relaxed
and euphoric? Do you know why? They’re not getting multiple (vaginal) orgasms.

It is said that it takes the average man 5-6 minutes to have an orgasm, while it
takes the average woman 15-20 minutes. This is true when the man only
stimulates the woman physically. When he learns psychological orgasms, time
becomes irrelevant because he can give her orgasms instantly and for as long as
he wants.
70% of women don’t orgasm during intercourse because 70% of men don’t
know what they’re doing. These women stay in plateau stage and never crest over
into orgasm. 25% of men give women 1 orgasm during intercourse. 5% of men
give women multiple orgasms during intercourse. This is where you’re heading.

 
How To Get Women To Do New Things In Bed
I often get questions like:

 How do I get my woman to have sex?

 How do I get my woman to give me blow jobs?
 How do I get my woman to swallow my cum?
 How do I get my woman to do anal?
 How do I get my woman to have threesomes?

First of all, you must have the mindset that you are not getting a woman to do
something. Instead, you are giving her the gift of extraordinary pleasure and
empowering her as a woman.
Now that you have this essential mindset, do you want to know a clever
psychological trick to “convert” a woman? It’s called “negative suggestion”:
people want the forbidden. Tell a person they can’t have something and then
they will want it.
What the fuck!? That’s just reverse psychology. That would never work in the
bedroom!
But what if it did?
Your negative suggestions could be:

 “It would be really hot if we had sex, but we can’t do that.”

 “It would be really hot if you put me in your mouth, but we can’t do that.”
 “It would be really hot if you swallowed, but we can’t do that.”
 “It would be really hot if you had an anal orgasm, but we can’t do that.”
  “It would be really hot if we had another person with us making you cum,
but we can’t do that.”

After you make the negative suggestion, don’t pursue the issue any further.
Make the suggestion repeatedly at different times in the future over a period of
days and weeks and then see what happens.
Initial Conditions
You need initial conditions to make negative suggestion work efficiently in the
bed room:
Don’t Pressure Her
Don’t pressure or nag her to do the thing you want her to do. Don’t do what
most relationship “experts” tell you to do: sit down, “communicate”, tell her how
you feel and tell her what you want her to do.
This sounds like the rational thing do to, but often this just aggravates the
situation, so don’t do it. You must communicate with her the right way. You must
communicate with her sexual-subconscious mind in the bedroom.
As a general rule, do NOT discuss your sexual desires (that she is not yet on
board with) outside of the bedroom.
The Alpha State

Put her in the “alpha state”: the state of relaxed alertness. This is a brain
state that is highly relaxed and free of stress. It is also a state where the mind is
highly suggestible (up to 200x more suggestible) and you can communicate
directly with her sexual-subconscious mind.
One of the best ways to achieve alpha state is through massage. As you
massage her, tell her to:

 Close her eyes.

 Take deep, slow breaths.
 Relax her body and mind.
 Try to dose off to sleep.
 Say, “As I rub your X (eg shoulders), you completely relax.”
 Say this for all the parts of her body you massage.
 Massage her for 10-20 minutes and talk with a soothing voice as you do it.
 Transition into “sexual massage”. Stroke her breasts, nipples and clit.
 When she is highly relaxed, make your negative suggestion,
especially when she is cumming. You are planting a seed. All you have
to do is let it grow.
  Remember your mindset of gift-giving.

Oxytocin

Oxytocin is the orgasm hormone. It is also the “sexual reprogramming

hormone”, the “fetish hormone” and the “obsessive-compulsive disorder
hormone”. This means if you release large amounts of oxytocin in a woman
through vaginal orgasms over a period of days and weeks, you can transform a
low sex drive woman into a sex addict. She will develop a fetish and “OCD” for
you. More importantly, oxytocin can erase her old sexual programming like:

 She has a low sex drive.

 She doesn’t like blowjobs.
 She doesn’t swallow cum.
 She doesn’t do anal sex.
 She doesn’t have threesomes.

So, once you flood her body with oxytocin via vaginal orgasms (A & G spots),
how do you erase her old sexual programming and replace it with a new, exciting,
mutually beneficial one? With negative suggestion.
The 4 Sex Personalities
The 4 sex personalities are by far the best way to psychologically stimulate a
woman to give her multiple orgasms.
                           
The 4 sex personalities are:

 The Sexual Beast

 The Passionate Lover
 The Tantric Master
 The Shape Shifter

The 4 sex personalities get women into “excitement phase”, which leads to
orgasm.
The Sexual Beast
 The Sexual Beast’s key trait is dominance. He leads women and expects
them to follow his lead. Because of his powerful self-belief, women become
naturally and willingly “submissive” to him. Nice Guys lack this trait and soon
women avoid having sex with them. Do the following to be a Sexual Beast:

 Master the Challenger trait (More details in SEX IQ).

 Command respect. Never allow her bullshit drama to take you off your path.
If you don’t command respect, she won’t take your dirty talk (an advanced
female orgasm technique) seriously.
 Corner her in a pseudo-predatory way.
 Push her onto the bed.
 Rip her clothes off.
 Pull her hair when you fuck her.
 Spank her.
 Bite her neck.
 Pin her down.
 Lightly choke her.
 Tie her up.
 Fuck her doggy style.
 Fuck her rapidly and forcefully.
 Stand up while she gives you a blowjob.
 Make her deepthroat you.
 Make her squirt.
 Put your cock between her tits and titty fuck her.
 Slap her face with your cock.
 Fuck her in the arse and give her a squirting anal orgasm (this is a squirting
G spot orgasm via anal stimulation).
 Put a collar and leash on her and walk her around the room.
 Cum on her tits and face.
 Make her swallow your cum.
 Tell her to look you in the eye when she cums.
 If a guy hits on your woman knowing that she’s your woman or he
disrespects your woman, knock him the fuck out. Use the elbow charge
(See SEX IQ ) and unleash the mad dog.
 Talk dirty to her:
 Tell her to open her legs.
  Call her your naughty little cum slut.
 Tell her that you own her pussy.
 Tell her to talk dirty back to you.
 Make her say she loves your cock.
 You’ll learn more about this later.
 Fantasies (This is another advanced female orgasm technique. Describing
sexual fantasies to women turns them on completely and makes them cum
hard. See SEX IQ)
 Exhibitionist fantasy: Get her to pretend she’s fucking in front of a group
of people or actually fuck in front of a group of people. Get her to pretend
she’s a porn star or make a homemade porn. Take naughty photos of her.
 Daddy fantasy: If a woman is a “Daddy’s girl” (her father is strong,
masculine, he treats her like a princess and she adores him), get her to
pretend that you’re her daddy. I know this sounds fucked up, but is
extremely exciting to women who have Elektra complexes (a daughter’s
pseudo-sexual attraction to her father).
 Forced sex fantasy: Get her to pretend that you are forcing sex on her.
This is extremely dominant and exciting to most women. Be extremely
careful with this.

The Passionate Lover

The Passionate Lover’s key trait is emotion. He makes women feel powerful
emotons, both good and bad, but mostly good. Pickup Artists lack this trait (love in
particular) and don’t really enjoy sex. They only enjoy the ego boost of getting a
woman into bed. Nice Guys are caring, but extremely boring. Emotion is not
limited to love. Many guys think emotion is about being vulnerable, telling a
woman how you feel and being a cry baby. It is not. “Girly” emotions are fine as
long as you’re dominant as well and come from a position of strength and
abundance as opposed to a position of weakness and scarcity. There are “lower
energy” emotions like trust, comfort, safety, security, certainty and relaxation and
there are “higher energy” emotions like attraction, chemistry, excitement, curiosity,
mystery, anticipation, playful teasing, laughter, sexual tension and of course love.
Do the following to be a Passionate Lover:

 Master the Explorer trait (See SEX IQ).

 Master laughter (See SEX IQ).
 Be trustworthy: Always keep your promises and follow through on your
 commitments because trust finds its way into the bedroom. If you don’t
keep your promises, she won’t take anything you say seriously, especially
emotional talk (an advanced female orgasm technique).
 Elicit her love strategy (See SEX IQ).
 Anchor her love emotions to a variety of anchors (See SEX IQ).
 Look her in eyes when you have sex and when you both cum.
 Kiss during sex.
 Be gentle.
 Tease her to build anticipation and sexual tension.
 Penetrate her partially, then fully.
 Kiss her entire body, but avoid her breasts and vagina.
 Spread her vagina open with your middle and index fingers to create an
empty feeling that needs to be filled.
 Use “Cat String Theory” a lot (See SEX IQ).
 Do the “forbidden” to create an adrenaline rush.
 Make her do things that “good girls” aren’t supposed to do like: Do anal.
Have sex in public places. Make her swallow your cum.
 Do emotional talk: Possession: Tell her that she belongs to you. Women
love to be “owned”. When you’re having sex, tell her how strongly you feel,
how close you feel to her and how much you love her because this
accelerates and intensifies her orgasm. When she cums, tell her to scream
out “I love you”. Combine with dirty talk.
 Virgin fantasy: Tell her to pretend she’s a virgin and she’s about to give
her virginity to you. This is a very emotional experience for women.
 Pregnancy fantasy: Tell her that’s she’s going to have your babies and
also make her say it. This is highly emotional and her orgasm will literally
suck your sperm into her womb. Use wisely.
 Threesome fantasy: Either describe a threesome fantasy to her or actually
have one.

The Tantric Master

The Tantric Master’s key trait is immersion. Immersion is about being

completely in the moment during sex. It’s about the absence of all thoughts
whether they are positive or negative. It’s about being focused and not allowing
yourself to be distracted with the other things in your life while you’re having sex.
It’s about being completely relaxed, both mind and body, and being in the alpha
state (the relaxed alertness and accelerated learning state) and eventually in the
theta state (the meditative, dreaming, hypnotic, orgasmic state). It is also about
NOT thinking about the next sex technique you’re going to use or worrying that
you’re going to cum too fast or whether or not she is cumming. Overly
technical/intellectual guys lack immersion because they think too much in the
bedroom. Do the following to be a Tantric Master:

 Massage each other so you are completely relaxed. Rub out all the knots in
her neck and back and get her to reciprocate.
 Do emotional freedom techniques on each other to remove any emotional
baggage you both may have (See SEX IQ).
 Do chakra balancing on each other (See SEX IQ).
 Develop your spiritual intelligence together (See SEX IQ).
 Master your multi-orgasmic man exercises, especially circulating your
sexual energy around your micro-cosmic orbit and teach her to do the same
thing. You’ll learn this soon (See SEX IQ).
 Hypnotise her with NLP patterns. You’ll learn this soon (See SEX IQ).
 Have sex when you’re half asleep. You’ll slip in and out of an altered state
of consciousness. You will be fully immersed and have no distracting
thoughts.
 Do “Celtic Soul Gazing” when you have sex (See SEX IQ).
 One soul fantasy: Get her to pretend you are one soul when you have sex.
Use the “Deep Connection Pattern” to assist you. (See SEX IQ).
 Dream fantasy: Have sex while you’re half asleep early in the morning.
Lubricate your penis well so you don’t wake her up and break her
immersion.
 Hypnosis fantasy: Get her to pretend she is hypnotised and then follow all
your commands or you can actually hypnotise her (See SEX IQ).

The Shape Shifter

The Shape Shifter’s key trait is variety. The Shape Shifter is the most
powerful sex personality when you can be a Sexual Beast, Passionate Lover and
Tantric Master at once. Your woman will think she’s sleeping with a variety of men
which is extremely exciting for her. Do the following to be a Shape Shifter:

 Master the other sex personalities. Be a Sexual Beast one night, a

Passionate Lover the next night and then a Tantric Master the next.
 Use all the sex techniques in SEX IQ.
 Continually learn new techniques and refine and recombine existing ones.
 Design custom fantasies.

Key Techniques

 Sexual Beast
o Key trait: Dominance
o Key physical technique: Manhandling
o Key psychological technique: Dirty talk
o Key fantasies: Exhibitionist, Daddy, Forced sex
 Passionate Lover
o Key trait: Emotion
o Key physical technique: Teasing
o Key psychological technique: Emotional talk
o Key fantasies: Virgin, Pregnancy, Threesome
 Tantric Master
o Key trait: Immersion
o Key physical technique: Massage
o Key psychological technique: Hypnosis
o Key fantasies: One Soul, Dream, Hypnosis
 Shape Shifter
o Key trait: Variety
o Key physical technique: Changes
o Key psychological technique: Changes
o Key fantasies: Customised

Train Her Vagina & Her Mind

First train her vagina with your fingers because they have pinpoint
accuracy. Start with the C spot, then A spot, then G spot, then use your
penis. Your results will be much faster when you also stimulate her
psychologically with the 4 sex personalities.
C, A & G Spot Orgasms
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Oral Sex
The best way to give a woman an orgasm from oral sex is to lick her C
spot in a certain way: clit circles and the clit blowjob. Always give a woman
an orgasm from oral sex during foreplay. Don’t even let her touch your
penis until you’ve done so. Watch these videos:
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Sex Positions
The best sex positions for the C spot orgasm are “reverse missionary”
and "cowgirl”. The best sex positions for G & A spot orgasms are “deck
 chair” and “folded deck chair”. Watch these animations:
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