Object Relations Handout PDF
Object Relations Handout PDF
• Vienna, Austria
Object Relations Theory • Believed her birth was unplanned >>feelings
of rejection
• Early relationships: unhealthy & tragic
Melanie Klein – Cold, distant father; suffocating mother
– Older sister’s death>>>over attachment to
her younger brother>>>difficulties with men
Tension
Reduction • ***What is the first object we recognize
as infants?
#tensionreduction
Phantasies
• Psychic representations of
Id+unconscious
• An infant represents everything in two
ways: GOOD and BAD (alternating)
• Experiences are organized into
POSITIONS
#goodvsbad
Object
Id
=Aim
Internal External
Ego Superego
=drives =internal objects
Positions
Id Ego
– ignored – disorganized at birth
– Split: bad vs. good
– Unified upon resolution of positions
Superego Oedipus Complex
– Emerges earlier in life – Begins during early months
– Not due to Oedipus complex, it grows – Overlaps oral and anal stage
along and later becomes realistic guilt – Climaxes at the Genital Stage
– Much more harsh and cruel – Female and Male Oedipal Complex
– Early superego produces TERROR not
GUILT
#Splitting #Ivancase
Paranoid-Schizoid Position
• In adults: Ambivalence
• Adults become passive rather than
active objects:
– Others as perfect; self as worthless
***Splitting
#confusedfeelings
Depressive Position
• 5-6 months
• Maturation of the ego: toleration of Anxiety
Guilt over
destructive feelings over
destructive
• Good and bad can exist in a single possible
feelings
object. loss
#tolerance #whole
Depressive Position
• Reparation-amends
• Resolved by EMPATHY
#empathy #reunification
Introjection Projection Internalization
Taking in the good Throwing out the bad
• Taking in aspects of the external world
and organizing them into a meaningful
Defense framework
Mechanisms
Projective
Identification Splitting
Taking in the Good me & bad me
Good me & bad me
#everythinghasmeaning
Mary Ainsworth
• The strange situation experiment