Chapter 1 - 3
Chapter 1 - 3
Stephen Elkins-Jarrett
Nick Skinner
Can You Run Your Business With Blood, Sweat, and Tears? Volume III: Tears
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Keywords
behavior, development, HR, human resources, leadership, management,
performance, SPECTRUM, strategy, team, teamwork
Contents
Foreword..............................................................................................xiii
Introduction to Blood, Sweat, and Tears.................................................. xv
Chapter 1 T Is for Training.................................................................1
Chapter 2 E Is for Encouragement....................................................21
Chapter 3 A Is for Announcements..................................................33
Chapter 4 R Is for Reviews...............................................................47
Chapter 5 S Is for Success.................................................................59
Chapter 6 Conclusions.....................................................................65
Index....................................................................................................73
Foreword
Blood, Sweat, and Tears
Stephen Berry
Hello and welcome to “Blood, Sweat, and Tears!” Why did we write it?
What is it all about? And who the heck are these guys anyway?
Stephen’s Story
My story is that I have been working since I was 16. My background is
strange but has given me an insight into the commercial world that others
don’t get. I did not have a classical educational background. My parents
divorced when I was 11. My father was in sales and my mother a sports
teacher and legal secretary. At 16, my mother said “leave school and go
to work, we need the money.” I trained as a chef, day release at Slough
College, near Heathrow airport, and I left after I had completed my
OND and HND (Ordinary and Higher National Diplomas) to work
with my father in the construction industry. I qualified in NFBPM at
Diploma level. At the same time, I was involved in Amateur Dramatics.
While in a play, I was approached by a director who asked me if I fancied
quitting my job to be his personal assistant and learn his trade from the
bottom. He was a Coopers and Lybrand Management Consultant, now
running his own business. This was a single act of kindness that changed
my world forever.
I went to night school to do my A levels, did a distance learning
Degree with UEL in Industrial Psychology—now called Organizational.
I then qualified in Psychometrics, Life Coaching, NLP, CBT, did an
advanced Diploma in Organizational Psychology at Oxford learning
and then finally got my Master’s in Organizational Psychology just a
few years ago. Parallel to this, I worked full time for Mike at Manskill
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Nick’s Story
My story is almost the opposite. Raised in Hertfordshire, I scrapped the
grades needed to do a first degree before taking up a graduate job, provid-
ing business and project accounting support to scientists. This was in the
late 1980s and the UK was still reeling from the impacts of Thatcherism,
where large swathes of the UK infrastructure that had traditionally been
operated using public money were being forced down a route that made
them think more commercially. The reaction to the kind of externally and
politically induced change created an organizational stress that taught
me a lot. I realized quickly that while finance was important, there was
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more to business than the accountant’s view. Hence, I shifted away from
finance and into broader business commercial management, com-
pleting an MBA with distinction in 1997 from the University of
Hertfordshire and then shifting my career to London to work in
the field of commercializing intellectual property, working as a busi-
ness administrator for a spin-out company commercializing break-
throughs in cancer technology, developing plans for seed funds and
managing a large network of technology transfer stakeholders. Again,
in this role, I was providing commercial and business support to
some very clever scientists. I moved back into agricultural sciences
in 1999, working on business plans and change programs in that
sphere for the next 13 years. It was a long time, but there were so
many projects and exciting new businesses being developed that it
was really more like four or five different jobs. Certainly, by the time
I moved on from there, I had earned my projects management wings,
acting as the leader of a number of change programs which (mostly)
went according to plan. There were some car crashes of course, but they
got fewer, so I must have been getting better! Sometime while there,
I attended an eye-opening training program and came across some very
bright cookies doing organizational development at Roffey Park. My
training with these guys made me finally realize that what really goes
on in business is human interaction, and that to get great outcomes
in business all you needed was great humans. Then it all started to
fall in place. Great business outcomes are about great people, so if all
humans are great this should be easy, right? Wrong! There’s so much
that we humans create and fantasize about and are scared of that pre-
vent us from being at our best. I strongly believe that organizations
that can remove these blocks and find a proper level of human connec-
tion can build trust and once you have trust then we can really start
to go places. I took an MSc in organizational and people development
through Roffey Park and in 2012 backed my learning with the estab-
lishment of Poppyfish People Development, thereby fulfilling a career
dream of helping business capitalize on the potential of the human in
the system and engaging in client work across multiple industries and
coming across Steve Jarrett, and his SPECTRUM model in 2013. As
opposites attract, we make a good team.
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Coming Together
We met when a mutual friend and client, Ian Cresswell, a people-focused
leader to whom we are both indebted, intuitively thought we would work
well together in his organization. We did. Nick is more cautious and care-
ful, methodical, analytical, and checks everything and Stephen, dives in,
cracks on, and says, “Everything will be alright in the end, if it is not
alright it is not the end!” (Indian Proverb). Stephen thinks getting stuck
in is the answer and Nick knows that to reflect and think about it first
often gets a better outcome. Nick acts as the brake to Stephen’s accelerator
pedal and on average we work off each other well. Like in many relation-
ships, the only challenges come when we both want to steer. We both
believe in the power of dreams and that positivity and energy really count
for something.
Our work together has been varied, and challenging, but always reward-
ing, working as coaches, consultants, trainers, facilitators, and leaders of
learning and behavior change for many individuals, teams, and businesses.
In a nutshell, we help our clients align people performance with organiza-
tion performance. We do this in many different industry sectors, including
technical services, information technology, scientific research, start-ups, and
construction. We don’t spend much on marketing; instead, our growth has
been through word of mouth and personal recommendation. We think that
is important. It’s part of our own brand.
We are guided by the simple principle that the best people build the
best businesses. In a world increasingly driven by technical development
and big data, workplaces remain a human environment. The performance
of your business depends massively upon the talents, motivations, and
behaviors of the people who work within it.
We want to see those people at their best, in a space where their talents
shine.
To work with us is to recognize that each of us has our own dreams,
aspirations, and desires, and that if we can tap into this rich vein of
motivation, then we can all fly. Our motives for writing this series of
books are to capture some of the “common sense” activities that we think
make a difference to how businesses perform. Most of what you will
read here is not rocket science, but it is hopefully practical and resonates
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enough with your own experiences to allow you to feel confident and
capable at making great things happen. It’s a chance for us to share what
we have learnt through the blood, sweat, and tears of our work, and we
hope that you find the content rewarding.
Book One
B stands for BRAND: Can you build the right brand for you and for
your business and demonstrate alignment between the two?
L stands for LEADERSHIP: Do you have the right skills to understand
the needs of others and get the best out of yourself and your team?
O stands for OPPORTUNITIES: Can you manage the process of
generating leads and prospects and take advantage of the opportu-
nities that will grow your business?
O stands for OUTCOMES: Are you focusing on the right outcomes
to hit your goals? How do you set goals and objectives?
D is for DECISIONS: Can you make the right decisions that lead
to success?
Book Two
Don’t forget the and (&): Don’t forget yourself and enjoyment and
quality time and family and friends, etc.
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Book Three
TEARS are the things that will refresh and reward you.
T stands for TRAINING: Are you training the right people in the
right way? The essential tool that makes you ready to cope with the
demands of tomorrow. Train people all the time and so they can
leave—then treat them so they don’t want to!
E is for ENCOURAGEMENT: To get the best out of others, you
must know what drives and motivates them. Can you give encour-
agement to others and know where to find your own?
A stands for ANNOUNCEMENTS: Do you announce the important
things in the right way? How can you present for maximum impact?
R stands for REVIEW: Do you take time to reflect and review the
past with an eye on the future? Taking time at each step of the way
to look back at what you have achieved, what you can learn from
it, and how this can help you for future planning.
S stands for SUCCESS: Can you deliver success for you, your team,
and your business? How will you know you are succeeding and
what to do next? Taking time to enjoy your successes has a narcotic
effect, leaving you wanting more!
if we train our people and they leave? Well, what if we don’t train them
and they stay?
Failure to ENCOURAGE people leads to alienation at work and
development and strategic goals not being met. In addition, negativity
will seep into the workplace and will be visible to customers. A negative
team is a poorly performing team. You also run the risk of sabotage, where
people dig their heels in to actively prevent and delay progress (yes, it does
happen).
If you fail to ANNOUNCE what you are doing, then you risk people
putting their own reasons behind your motives. Nobody likes surprises
and when people see the action but without knowing the reasons, they
have no chance to buy in, no chance to support, or to even realize what
is going on. This creates resistance and can even promote fear as people
often fantasize about losing their jobs.
If you fail to REVIEW, then you are condemning yourself to repeat-
ing the same old mistakes again and again. Doing the same thing time
after time and expecting a different outcome each time is a first definition
of madness.
And if you fail to SUCCEED, then celebrate small wins (because
they will always be there) and keep trying, keep working, and think about
which of the other 14 areas you needed to work at.
it includes looking after your family and those around you and finding
equal space in your life for all things.
So, read on. Challenge your mind to think creatively about how you
can embed these ideas into your everyday thinking, thinking that will
help you to define your vision and identify your product, price it cor-
rectly, take it to market, get business, make a profit, keep your customers
wanting more, motivate and inspire your staff, delight your suppliers,
reward your stakeholders and your loved ones, and give yourself a sense
of satisfaction and delight in who you are and what you have achieved.
Our Methods
Throughout these books, we employ some old techniques tried and
tested since the ancient Greeks and developed further by a multitude
of respected gurus, psychologists, organizational development theorists,
coaches, management consultants, and successful businessmen and
women from around the world. But we also give you new ideas and our
latest thinking on some blended approaches which we have used and
which we know work. We will give you war stories of where things didn’t
work and companies got it so wrong—and compare these to where they
got it so right and share that best practices with you, giving you the best
chance to set up and run your business or team successfully. We will
introduce you to some models to help you conceptualize some of the
more important areas.
How you use this series of books is up to you. You can read the books
cover-to-cover in chapter order or jump directly to the area where you
need help today and use it as a standalone chapter without the rest of the
book(s) holding you! So, if you just want to target specific areas, then of
course you can.
We hope very much that you enjoy “BLOOD, SWEAT, and TEARS”
and that you can use it to fuel a wonderful success story.
T Is for Training
Are You Training the Right People
in the Right Way?
“Train People so they can leave—treat them so they don’t want to!”
—Richard Branson
People are hard wired to learn. We learn from the day we are born.
Shaping what we learn turns us into the people we are today, and focused
learning trains us to cope with situations and events and allows us to do
things better, faster, and with more success.Training people at work is
all about teaching, coaching, facilitating, and sharing the best ways to
do something in a way that allows them to be at their best and to fulfil
their potential. It also includes showing others the skills and behaviors
needed to carry out tasks or behave in a certain way, so that another
person can then do it for themselves without you.
Many companies throw money at training and tick the box that says
training delivered, then sit back and wait for an improvement to happen,
but that is not how training works. Training should not be viewed as some-
thing that is done to your employees, but rather should be viewed as devel-
oping a growth mindset culture of continuous performance improvement,
learning, and self-development. Doing this motivates staff, keeps them with
you longer, makes them more productive, and they will go the extra mile
for you if you invest in them. In thinking about your training strategy, it’s
worth bearing in mind the 70-20-10 principle. This is a view that training
should be 70 percent experiential, 20 percent social learning from peers,
and 10 percent formal training, most of which is likely to be externally
delivered. In other words, for best results, you need a mixed approach.
A training strategy involves the systematic training and improvement of
people within the organization so that they, and the company, can achieve
their objectives and both personal and corporate goals. Training strategies
vary according to requirements, but important components include:
Plus, of course, how much money are you prepared to put in?
*
Actually, we believe that you can measure these things, but that would
take us to a depth of discussion that is beyond the scope of this book. If
you are seeking a good book on the power of happiness, then we suggest
you read Flow: The Psychology of Happiness by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi.
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• How?
• When will it be complete?
• How will the training be evaluated? What will be the impact on
the business and what will be the RoI?
1
Forbes—Josh Bersin 4th Feb. 2014 www.forbes.com
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2
https://www.thebalance.com
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3
Deloitte study 2015/16—www2.deloitte.com millennial survey
4
Success Profile 2016 http://www.ddiworld.com/products/success-profiles
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• By profiling staff before joining to see how closely they match your
values.
• By profiling new job roles before they are filled to suggest best
behavioral fit.
• By giving all staff a model of behavior with common language
and a tool they can all use to understand themselves and others in
minutes, meaning they can relate to colleagues and customers in
seconds and better deal with stress, pressure, and conflict.
• By enabling managers to talk to their staff in their language to
motivate them better.
• By allowing staff to relate to customers and pick up on upsell
opportunities.
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The key thing with training is that whatever you chose to “impose”
from the center, you must also allow people to pursue their own goals.
You must allow them to maintain a growth mindset where the phase
“I can’t” is soon overcome. Whatever method you use, once you have
established the training needs of a person or a group of people, you have
the responsibility to then deliver that solution through:
1. Learning on the job from others who are great at their jobs—
mentoring and teamwork. How do others do it and can they show
me? Who are your champions? May not be managers and leaders.
2. Learning from online materials; written, spoken, and video, CD ROMs,
and books; both e-books and hard copies based on the preference of
the learners. Take a learning styles survey at www.evaluationstore.com
to find your learning style. Most people enjoy watching media, listen-
ing to, or reading something about their jobs or area of interest. Plus,
this is cheaper and can be done in the employees’ own time.
3. Learning with support from a coach who watches you work and
gives you feedback on your style, behaviors, and techniques and
helps you to make small improvements. Like making a more
impactful presentation by him/her watching you and directing the
way you might do it differently, change your voice pitch, tone, or
volume, restructure it, use more pictures, be more animated, etc.
The most expensive, but in our opinion the best and most effective,
training is 121.
4. Attending training courses, college, universities, and business
schools etc., here you have a whole industry at your feet and an
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Learning Online
In recent years, there has been a massive growth in online learning, with
much content being “gamified” to make it more engaging. The main attrac-
tion for this is the low cost with which these packages can be sustained, and
without doubt there is some excellent content being built and larger compa-
nies are offering certain standard packages online. Very often, these include
mandatory courses central to the businesses’ key activities. For instance, if
you join a construction company, you might well be offered online training
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Getting support from a coach is, in our opinion, unparalleled and power-
ful. The great benefit of coaching is that you are very likely to see quick,
positive results as an outcome. This is because coaching is participative, and
people tend to learn and adopt new habits more easily when they are actively
engaged in the learning process. It is also very personal and goes deep. As
soon as a coaching session ends, you can implement a new practice. Coach-
ing is very similar to learning on the job, but we feel it is more likely to
be a behavioral change rather than getting better at a task. In the busi-
ness world, there is executive coaching and life coaching which is about
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an introductory session to see if that chemistry is right. After all, they don’t
want to be seated there in a rapport vacuum any more than you do. You’ll
also need to decide what form of accreditation you want to see from your
coach. Some are academically qualified and might lack the business skills
you seek. Others might be too commercially focused and not academic
enough. It’s a personal thing. And one last thing on coaching. Coaching
is not therapy (although some people can experience it as such). Your
coach is there to support you in your work-based learning. From time to
time, this will involve crossing the threshold into your private life, but a
good coach should know how far that conversation should be allowed to
go. If you need a therapist or if you think you are ill, seek a specialist and
not a coach.
and why they learn, and how this happens. A successful group will offer a
good balance of pressure, respect, support, and direction, building on its
own uniqueness, both real and perceived, to encourage members to try
out new ideas, provide suitable feedback—negative if necessary—to keep
its members on track to achieve their prestated aims. Individuals may also
build a useful peer network that they will continue to draw upon after the
learning has been completed.
SML can take place without the learner leaving the workplace, bring-
ing the learning contract directly into contact with the “real” organization
and working environment. This reality gives authenticity to the learn-
ing process and thus the individual’s job development and learning path
become inexorably intertwined.
Reflection in this way involves linking a current experience to previous
learnings (a process called scaffolding), drawing forth cognitive and emo-
tional information from several sources. To reflect, we must act upon and
process the information, synthesizing and evaluating the data. In the end,
reflecting also means applying what we’ve learned to contexts beyond the
original situations in which we learned something.
are effective. You don’t need a big budget, but to get value from these ses-
sions you are well advised to employ a specialist facilitator who will hold
the boundaries and encourage contribution. Sharing best practice is as
old as civilization itself. Consider the following story of Ugg and Thugg.
The Neanderthals sat huddled around the fire. The soft orange light
reflected from the walls of the large cave in which they were gathered,
giving an eerie light to proceedings. From the walls of the cave the dull
handprints and paintings of the top mammoth hunters from all ancestry
hung over the group, reminding them of just why they were here.
Ugg grunted first. He grunted of how he and his team of hunters
had worked all day to corner the great mammoth whose carcass now
filled their bellies. It was the first time they’d eaten mammoth in many
moons. The other hunters sat and listened as Ugg told the tale of how he,
newly returned to the community from sabbatical work with the tribe
on the other side of the stream, demonstrated how he had used his new
“cat-a-pult” process to maximum effect to bring down the giant beast.
They listened in awe. “Cat-a-pult.” What a strange device. The hunters
glanced uneasily at each other as Ugg handed round the new device for
them all to look at. They poked it and grunted excitedly.
The mighty Thugg grunted back loudly. He queried Ugg on his
exploits. What was this weird-looking “cat-a-pult” device that Ugg had
used? How had it made him approach the hunt in a different and more
successful way? What lessons could he share? Could Ugg show them all
how to use it?
Ugg shifted uncomfortably in his loincloth and picked a gristly piece
of mammoth flesh from between his few remaining teeth. Thugg was a
powerful caveman who certainly knew what he was grunting about. He’d
been the community’s most successful mammoth bagger of recent times.
What he didn’t know about mammoth bagging could be smeared on the
walls of the largest cavern in the valley. Why should he be interested in
what Ugg had to say? Didn’t he know it all already?
But thanks to his ever-growing prefrontal cortex, Thugg knew that he
could learn from Ugg. Ugg had been to the wacky tribe across the stream,
he’d seen how they used that new-fangled catapult thing-a-ma-jig, and he’d
brought that knowhow back to the group. Sending him there had been
worthwhile after all. If the hunters whose faces he could see now in the dim
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glow of the fire could master this new technology, then there was hope for
the tribe after all. If they could share Ugg’s expertise, then this community
could be the greatest mammoth bagging group of all time, securing complete
market domination within even the shortest planning horizon . . . maybe they
could make a better catapult capable of bringing down even bigger mam-
moths . . . profits would soar, and he might get promotion to the Board . . .
You get the message.
Working and talking together to share new and best practices isn’t
new. Ugg and Thugg did it as part of an intuitive process millions of years
ago. That intuition remains strong with us today. We know it makes sense
to share our stories and new ways of working with our colleagues and yet
so few of us manage to squeeze in any time to do this. Result? Our mam-
moth bagging techniques are outdated, impractical, and we are seldom
at our best. In short, we are not all using the catapult. The moral of the
story? Schedule time for your team to come together to share stories. By
sharing experiences, they will share new thinking, generate new ideas, and
will soon be sharing best practice.
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