A Daily Dose of Sanity
A Daily Dose of Sanity
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Blink!
And lighten up!
The Voice
That keeps knocking. “Acts of genius are less a matter of doing, and more a matter of allowing. Less
trying, more flowing. Less forcing, more being. You quit being the doer and you
Replicate Yourself
Not someone else. become the vessel.”
Go For the Light Inside ~ Alan Cohen from A Daily Dose of Sanity
Not your name in lights.
This is the third Note on one of Alan Cohen’s books and it won’t be the last.
Inner Fan Clubs
vs. Inner critics. As I’ve mentioned in the Notes on Why Your Life Sucks (and What You Can Do About It) and
Angry? Relax into Wealth, Alan has become one of my favorite writers and people!
What are you afraid of?
He’s awesome. And so are his books.
Mastering Love
Starts within. This one, A Daily Dose of Sanity, is precisely what the sub-title promises: “A Five-Minute Soul
Riddikulus! Recharge for Every Day of the Year.”
Boggarts begone!
If you’re into more wisdom and less time you’ll love the book. (Amazon it here.)
Bamboo & You
Embrace the seasons and grow. For now, let’s jump in with a quick peek at a few of my favorite Big Ideas!
BEING IN INTEGRITY
“I have a very simple definition of integrity: you are in integrity when what you are doing on the
outside matches who you are on the inside. I respect people who live unapologetically. I know
people who do things I do not agree with or would not do myself, but I honor them for being 100
percent who they are. They are in integrity.”
See the Notes on The Book of Understanding where he tells us: “When you are total, it is good;
and when you are divided, it is evil. Divided you suffer; united, you dance, you sing, you
celebrate.”
And: “It is not a question of which part you follow, it is a question of whether you go totally
into it or not. To be total in your action brings joy. Even an ordinary, trivial action done with
total intensity brings a glow to your being, a fulfillment, a fullness, a deep contentment. And
anything done halfheartedly, however good the thing may be, is going to bring misery.”
Buddha echoes this goodness. He tells us: “If anything is worth doing, do it with all your heart.”
BLINK!
“My friend Ernie and I were granted an audience with the revered Swami Satchidananda, an
enlightened yogi who introduced spiritual practices to America beginning in the 1960s. He
opened the legendary Woodstock music festival with his invocation. My friend and I were
ushered to the swami’s inner chamber and seated before him. At that time, Ernie liked to make
deep, heartfelt eye contact with people and he did his best to peer into the swami’s soul. After
a few minutes of our conversation, the swami turned to me and asked, “Why is this guy staring
at me?” We all broke into laughter, including the swami’s very serious disciples. It was truly a
moment of enlightenment!”
That’s hilarious.
I don’t know about you, but the “unblinking ones” (as Alexandra and I like to call them) freak us
out a bit. :)
I’m all about intimacy but, as Michaela Boehm describes in her Art of Intimacy class at the
en*theos Academy, locking someone into your penetrating, unblinking gaze isn’t intimacy—it’s
more like walking up to someone you’ve never met and shoving your hands in their pants.
True intimacy involves respecting social norms and healthy boundaries while allowing a true
connection to form over time rather than trying to prove your spiritual superiority through
unblinking stares.
Ah...
Here’s to blinking normally and not taking ourselves *that* seriously as we lighten up and enjoy
the ride!
P.S. Swami Satchidananda is amazing. Check out the Notes on The Golden Present for some of
his wisdom goodness!
~ Attributed to Empedocles Here’s how Joseph Campbell puts it: “To refuse the call means stagnation. What you don’t
experience positively you will experience negatively.”
And, Jesus says this: “If you bring forth what is inside you, what you bring forth will save you.
If you don’t bring forth what is inside you, what you don’t bring forth will destroy you.”
* knock knock *
Time to answer. :)
work on it.” This brilliant answer contains the wisdom of a lifetime! If you are trying to imitate someone
~ W. Clement Stone else’s greatness, you have missed the point of greatness. The secret is to find your own unique
style and talents and bring them forth. No one has ever attained mastery by replicating another.
The truly great simply replicate themselves.”
Amen to that.
In his must-read classic, Self-Reliance, which is pretty much an ode to this Big Idea, Emerson
tells us: “Insist on yourself; never imitate. Your own gift you can present every moment with
the cumulative force of a whole life’s cultivation; but of the adopted talent of another, you have
only an extemporaneous, half possession. That which each can do best, none but his Maker can
teach him. No man yet knows what it is, nor can, till that person has exhibited it. Where is the
master who could have taught Shakespeare? Where is the master who could have instructed
Franklin, or Washington, or Bacon, or Newton? Every great man is a unique. The Scipionism
of Scipio is precisely that part he could not borrow. Shakespeare will never be made by the
study of Shakespeare. Do that which is assigned to you, and you cannot hope too much or dare
too much.”
—> Do that which is assigned to you, and you cannot hope too much or dare too much.
Wow.
Leo Buscaglia (see Notes on Love) puts it this way: “You are the best you. You will always be the
second best anyone else.”
Being total?
Replicating yourself?
Those who live to see their name in lights usually miss the light within themselves. They place
fame and glory at the top of the ladder of success and overlook personal satisfaction and creative
expression. People who sweat to become stars rarely do, while those who live to share their gifts
and enjoy the ride often find their way to the upper echelons of success.”
This is amazing: “Those who live to see their name in lights usually miss the light within
themselves.”
creative self-expression the Perhaps most tragically, you’re also less likely to ever discover and live with abiding happiness.
platform for your vocation
It’s the whole intrinsic vs. extrinsic dealio we come back to again and again.
rather than ambition for
glory.” Science *unequivocally* shows us that those who go after the fame/wealth/beauty and other
EXTERNAL markers of success are significantly less psychologically stable than those who
~ Alan Cohen
focus on deeper relationships, personal growth, making a contribution and simply expressing
themselves authentically—the INTRINSIC stuff we want to pay attention to that leads to
fulfilment.
Yah?
P.S. This wisdom from Howard Thurman is good to keep in mind as well: “Don’t ask yourself
what the world needs. Ask yourself what makes you come alive and then go do that. Because
what the world needs is people who have come alive.”
Love that.
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With that out of the way, it’s time to promote your inner fan club to the most important job in
your head!
That’s powerful.
Odds are the inner critic is running the show and creating compelling visuals of all the things
that will go wrong in your life. That fear bubbles up in anger (usually about something unrelated
MASTERING LOVE
“Psychic self-injury is neither heroic nor practical. You cannot say that you have mastered love
until you include yourself in its embrace. If you make everyone in your life happy but yourself,
you have missed the point of living and loving. Self-honoring is the beginning of true service.
When you practice self-nurturing, others around you will catch the energy and you will create a
wave of well-being that far supersedes the illusory benefits of self-sacrifice.
Do not do anything to yourself that you would not wish on anyone else. Instead, do everything
for yourself that you would do to make others happy ... and the world will be a happier place for
everyone.”
Reminds me of Ayn Rand’s gem that we cannot say “I love you” until we can say the “I.”
Tal Ben-Shahar echoes this wisdom in his great book The Pursuit of Perfect (see Notes) where
he tells us: “Why the double standard, the generosity toward our neighbor and the miserliness
where we ourselves are concerned? And so I propose that we add a new rule, which we can
call the Platinum Rule, to our moral code: ‘Do not do unto yourself what you would not do unto
others.’”
I love that.
—> The Platinum Rule: “Do not do unto yourself what you would not do unto others.”
Tal also tells us: “When the Dalai Lama was then asked to clarify whether indeed the object of
compassion may be the self, he responded: ‘Yourself first, and then in a more advanced way
the aspiration will embrace others. In a way, high levels of compassion are nothing but an
advanced state of that self-interest. That’s why it is hard for people who have a strong sense
of self-hatred to have genuine compassion toward others. There is no anchor, no basis to start
from.’”
Here’s to including ourselves in our loving embrace and remembering to rock The Platinum Rule
as we remember to love ourselves first!!
P.S. How can you do that a little more today? (And tomorrow? And... :)
RIDDIKULUS!
“The film Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban depicts a group of young wizards in
training standing before an imposing armoire—a boggart box—which contains terrifying shape-
shifters assuming the form of whatever a person fears the most. Luckily, instructs Professor
Lupin, a very simple charm exists to repel a boggart: “Riddikulus!” After the students practice
the chant, the professor explains that what really finishes a boggart off is laughter. One by one
the boggarts come forth, and when the students proclaim them “Riddikulus!” and laugh at them,
they shrink to humorous, nonthreatening forms.
Time to grab your wand and get your inner wizard on with your “Riddikulus!” charm, eh? :)
Seriously.
Try it the next time you’re getting harassed by your inner gremlins.
~ Source Unknown One of the clever adaptive qualities of bamboo is that it grows its leaves in the summer and its
roots in the winter. It takes advantage of each season, and while it appears dormant, it is not.
The roots grown in winter prepare for rapid branch and leaf development in summer.
We, too, go through seasons, all of which afford us opportunities for different kinds of growth.
In a prosperous economic season, there is a lot of building and external expansion. When
an economic winter comes, with little activity in the outer world, that is the time for inner
deepening.”
If so, remember that we all go through seasons and be like the bamboo and take advantage of
every season as you develop your roots and get ready for your next phase of rockin’ it!!
Brian Johnson,
Chief Philosopher
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