Feelings Are Suffering
Feelings Are Suffering
The very first step that one should make is to learn how not to crave the cessation of suffering. At first
glance this might seem simple, but actually it is not so straightforward at all; for we cannot assume that an
untrained, ordinary person even knows what truly suffering is.
In order to know dukkha it is not enough just to suffer. To know dukkha, one has to recognize, within
the present experience, what is and what is not necessary. The point is that, in the experience of pain, certain
aspects are inevitable, while others, are not. In different words - the 'painfulness' of pain is suffering and not the
pain itself.
Let us get back to the opening statement that one should not crave the cessation of suffering; why is
that essential? The immediate reason of our suffering, as the Buddha tells us, is our craving or taṇha. It is
because of taṇha that our experience of pain is painful. This applies to the other two kinds of feeling too. Thus,
we can say, that it is because of craving that feelings are dukkha. In the first type, unpleasant feeling, craving
for the cessation of that feeling causes one to suffer: the painful feeling is present there, directly opposed to one's
desire for it to not-be, to disappear. In this way a discrepancy is created, a discrepancy which is nothing but
dukkha. In the second type, pleasant feeling, craving for more of that feeling is manifested, thus the actual
pleasant feeling appears as unpleasant, when attended from the direction of that increased pleasure which is
craved for. The present feeling of pleasure becomes inadequate, a lack which needs to be satisfied. Again, the
discrepancy arises, which one tries to overcome by a further pursuit of various things in the world which, will
intensify his pleasure further. One hopes that such attempt will 'fill the gap' within, but needless to say, that is
impossible since the discrepancy is actually being constantly generated by the presence of taṇha, and not by the
various objects in the world.
When it comes to third type, neither-pleasant-nor-unpleasant feelings (i.e. neutral), suffering is experienced as a
result of one craving for feelings themselves, since neutral feeling is not recognized at all:
So, to summarize, one's experience of pain is not the reason for one's suffering. It is rather the presence of
craving, in one's experience, that suffering is there. As long as this remains the case, one will be a “victim” of
one's own feelings, be they pleasant, unpleasant or neutral.