You Always Have A Choice
You Always Have A Choice
Life is all about choices. Everyday you’ll be confronted with the choices which will
require you to make decisions. There are simple ordinary choices like, where are we going to
eat, which group of friends to join, where to hangout, or what time to head for home. You have
a choice to be whatever you want like to be helpful to those who are in need, to accept or
refuse things, or to be someone whom others respect and trust.
As what Robert F. Benet says, “Your life is the sum result of all the choices you make.
Both consciously and unconsciously. If you control of all aspects of your life. You can k find the
freedom that comes from being in charge of yourself.” Simple enough right? It doesn’t take any
unusual event to make a choice.
Sometimes when we are making a choice we consider the opinions of people around us.
By simply listening to them we can get ideas that can help us in making choices to a certain
things or situation. Filipinos are mostly up to that, they get the opinions of others to select the
best among the choices. Even you cannot deny that there comes a time that you also consider
the opinions of others like your siblings, friends, and certain relatives before taking the risk.
In making choice, we should always remember that our parents are always one of the
great advisers, because a parent knows best, they always make things that are best for us.
When happened, on a conflict situation the first people who comfort us are our parents. They
are always there in our sides in times that we needed them. They’re guiding to make a better
choice for ourselves. It’s their duty to help us in making a right choice to make our future a
better one.
Sometimes choices are in between our heart and mind. When we are making choices
there is a time that our heart and mind contradicts with each other. Some peoples says that
heart knows best the same with our brains or minds, they says that our mind is the one that
dictates us, and lead the heart because according to them, the brain is the upper portion than
the heart. But whatever it is, it’s still depends on us on who we will follow.
The choices we make everyday will eventually determine how will we accomplish or
overcome each and every task or challenge that we encounters. But since all of us are full of
hopes and dreams, it is impossible for us to not accomplish our tasks. It depends on how big
our courage and trust in our selves. That’s why owning up to mistakes and learning from them
is important. If you don’t want things to turn out badly, you have to consider what you can do
to make things right.
In making some choices is difficult. Just like tour making a decision for your future. I
know it’s hard to make a choice because sometimes you need to between those best things in
your life. Before choosing, you must know its consequences first. What are the effects of it on
you, or on the people that surrounded you. So, be WISE in choosing what’s best for you and for
everybody.
Everybody has a choice. You can be angry and live with a dull ache at your nape or you
can choose to be happy, feel good about yourself and make others around feel good as well.
However always remember even that even if you are free to make your own choices, you
should also be responsible for the consequences of the decisions you make. Remember
spiderman? He said it himself. ”With great power comes great responsibility.”