LESSON 2: To Buy or Not To Buy That Is The Question!
LESSON 2: To Buy or Not To Buy That Is The Question!
INTRODUCTION
We are living in a world of sale and shopping spree. We are given a wide array of products to purchase
and almost everywhere, we find promotions of different products. Part of us wants to have that products.
Our wanting to have and possess has a connection with another aspect of our self --- the MATERIAL
SELF.
1. Its constituents.
the material self
the social self
the pure ego
2. The feelings and emotions they arouse --- self-feelings.
3. The actions to which they prompt, self-seeking and self-prevention.
MATERIAL SELF
The material self is primarily about: our bodies, clothes, immediate family, and home.
A. Body
The inner part of our material self.
We are directly attached to commodities that we cannot live without.
We strive hard to make sure that our body functions well and good.
B. Clothes
Placed in the second hierarchy of material self.
Clothing is a form of self-expression.
According to Lotze, “any time we bring an object into the surface of our body, we invest that
object into the consciousness of our personal existence taking in its contours to be our own and
making it part of the self."
C. Immediate Family
Our parents and siblings hold another part of our self.
We see them as the nearest replica of our self.
D. Home
It is where our heart is.
The earliest nest of our Selfhood.
POSSESSIONS
As James (1890) described self: “a man's self is the sum total of all what he CAN call his.”
Russel Belk (1988) posits that, “we regard our possessions as part of ourselves. We are what we have
and what we possess.”
Possession then become a part or an extension of our self.
The possessions that we clearly have tell something about who we are, our self-concept and even our
future.