Living with Siva

Chapter Forty-Eight
Siva’s Monastics

Monday
LESSON 330
Monastic
Communities

Monks of every Hindu order are guided and guarded by unseen beings who look after their lives
as if they were their own. Families are blessed who share in and support the renunciation of
their sons born through them to perform a greater dharma than the gṛihastha life could ever
offer. It is the monastic communities worldwide, of all religions, that sustain sanity on this
planet. It is the monks living up to their vows who sustain the vibration of law and order in the
communities and nations of the world. This is how the devonic world sees each monastic
community worldwide. This is how it is and should always be. This is how humanity balances
out its experiential karmas and avoids destroying itself as it passes through the darkness of the
Kali Yuga. The monastic communities that surround the planet, fulfilling their dharma,
compensate for the adharma that is so prevalent, thus ensuring that humanity does not self-
destruct in these trying times. We must, for the sake of clarity, state here that monastic
communities are either strictly male or strictly female. Coed mixed-group āśramas are not
monastic communities, but classed traditionally as communes.

Our Holy Orders of Sannyāsa introduce monastic life in the following passages: “The two
fundamental objectives of sannyāsa, renunciation, are to promote the spiritual progress of the
individual, bringing him into God Realization, and to protect and perpetuate the religion.
Renunciation and asceticism have been an integral component of Hindu culture from the
earliest days, the most highly esteemed path of the Sanātana Dharma. Sannyāsa life has both
an individual and a universal objective. At the individual level, it is a life of selflessness in which
the sannyāsin has made the supreme sacrifice of renouncing all personal ambition, all
involvement in worldly matters, that he might direct his consciousness and energies fully
toward God Śiva. Guided by the satguru along the sādhana mārga, he unfolds through the years
into deeper and deeper realizations. Ultimately, if he persists, he comes into direct knowing of
Paraśiva, transcendent Reality. At the universal level, the sannyāsins foster the entire religion
by preserving the truths of the Sanātana Dharma. Competent swāmīs are the teachers, the
theologians, the exemplars of their faith, the torchbearers lighting the way for all. Paramaguru
Sage Yogaswami sang: ‘Hail, O sannyāsin, thou who know’st no guile! Establish in thy heart and
worship there the Taintless One—Pañchākshara’s inmost core. Thou that regard’st all others as
thyself—who in this world can be compared with thee?’

Tuesday
LESSON 331
The Mission
Of the Mission
A legacy of devas from the entire paramparā accompanies our monastic order, providing silent,
unseen inner guidance and protection for old and young alike. As long as at least one person
within the entire group of maṭhavāsis is going into and coming out of Paraśiva once a day, the
doorway to the Third World remains open to the hereditary entourage of devonic forces that
has been building up for over two thousand years. This is because the brahmarandhra, the door
of Brahm at the top of the head, remains open when Paraśiva is daily experienced within a
maṭhavāsi community. It could be within the oldest monk or within the youngest. This great
realization occurring time and time again within someone day after day keeps the door of
Brahm open for the entire prāṇa chakravāla of monastics, keeping vibrantly strong the inner,
actinic connection with all gurus of our paramparā, as well as with other sādhus, ṛishis and
saints who have reached these same attainments, and with the sapta ṛishis themselves who
guide our order from deep within the inner lokas.

My Śaiva swāmīs, or Nātha swāmīs, are distinguished by their orange robes, gold Nātha earrings
and three strands of rudrāksha beads. They are the Saiva Siddhanta Yoga Order, known as the
Saiva Swami Sangam when they gather in ecclesiastical conclave. The saṅgam does not follow
the protocol of unanimous decision. Rather, it works in intuitive one-mindedness to carry out
instructions from the Kailāsa Pīṭham, our spiritual seat of authority, to better the Śaivite mission
and the individuals dedicated to its success.

These sannyāsins are not “ooked upon as individuals so much as an integrated council,
assembled and working in unison to perform a holy work as Sivanadiyars, servants of God Śiva.
Guided by the satguru, the Saiva Swami Sangam forms the ecclesiastical body of our Hindu
Church which works in a humble way to protect the purity of the faith among all Hindu sects,
through inspiring publications and other means of encouragement. Specifically, our order’s
mission is to protect, preserve and promote the Śaivite Hindu religion as embodied in the Tamil
culture, traditions and scriptures of South India and Sri Lanka.

Our monastic order follows the cenobitic pattern in which monastics live in community and
work together toward common objectives. Sannyāsins of this order are not wandering sādhus
or silent contemplatives, known as anchorites, rather they are members of a brotherhood
working closely and industriously with their satguru and with their brother monastics. At the
time of sannyāsa dīkshā, each has accepted the mission of the Kailāsa Paramparā as his own: to
protect and perpetuate Śaivism; to serve Hindus the world over; to provide, teach and
disseminate scripture, religious literature and practical instruction; to promote temple
construction and to exemplify the dignity and enlightenment of our Nandinātha Sampradāya.
Living under lifetime vows of renunciation, humility, purity, confidence and obedience, these
sannyāsins are bound to fulfill their unique role in the Śaiva culture of religious exemplars and
staunch defenders of the faith. Their ideal is to balance outward service (Sivathondu) and
inward contemplation-realization (Śivajñāna) for a rich, fulfilling and useful life.
There are two other groups of monks within our monasteries: the yellow-robed yogī tapasvins
and the white-robed sādhakas, living under renewable two-year vows of humility, purity,
confidence and obedience.

Wednesday
LESSON 332
An Order of
Renunciates

Sannyāsa is the life, way and traditions of those who have irrevocably renounced duties and
obligations of the householder path, including personal property, wealth, ambitions, social
position and family ties, in favor of the full-time monastic quest for divine awakening, Self
Realization and spiritual upliftment of humanity. Traditionally, and in our order, this dharma is
available to men under age twenty-five who meet certain strict qualifications. Some orders are
more lenient and accept men into sannyāsa after age twenty-five. The rules pertaining to
homeless anchorites are, for obvious reasons, more lenient. Other orders will accept widowers,
and a few initiate women, though Hindu custom prefers that women who wish to follow the
monastic path take simple vows of brahmacharya and not take sannyāsa.

Women in today’s liberal Hindu orders who do take sannyāsa should wear white. Women
donning orange robes is a new, very new, fashion. My perception over the past decades is that
this generally does not work out well in the long run. Those women of history who have been
recognized and honored as celibate seekers, as great souls, even as gurus, have worn the color
white. This was then and is still the order of the day and will be far into the future for many
very good esoteric reasons.

The householder naturally comes into the sannyāsa āśrama, stage of withdrawal, at age
seventy-two, having lived through life’s three prior stages: student (brahmacharya),
householder (gṛihastha) and elder advisor (vāṇaprastha). This fourth stage is a time of turning
inward, devoting oneself more fully to worship, introspection, scriptural study and meditation.
This step for householder men and women may be ritually acknowledged in a home blessing
but is not in any way construed as sannyāsa dīkshā, which is a monastic initiation. While
traditions vary, after commencing the fourth stage of life, the elder husband and wife, now as
brother and sister, turn more fully to religious pursuits while continuing their associations with
the family, though they may seek accommodations that offer more privacy for their
meditations and worship.

An elder man whose wife has passed on and whose children are grown may upon reaching age
seventy-two take up the mendicant life fully and then diligently pursue his spiritual sādhana in a
state of genuine renunciation and not in the midst of his relatives. This is expressed in sūtra
210: “Śiva’s unmarried men and widowers may renounce the world after age seventy-two,
severing all ties with their community and living as unordained, self-declared sannyāsins among
the holy monks of India.” Sannyāsins who were formerly married are not generally afforded the
same respect as sannyāsins who never entered the family dharma.
Though it is sometimes done, it must be noted that it is against dharma for a householder to
abandon his wife and children on the pretext of renouncing the world. Becoming a self-declared
sannyāsin after age seventy-two is also not traditional, for one who has been divorced and
whose former spouse is still living. Marriage is a lifetime commitment, and once taken cannot
be rescinded.

Thursday
LESSON 333
Disciplined
Leadership

Monastics are the religious leaders of Hinduism. Continuing this noble renunciate monastic
tradition is essential for the perpetuation of the faith. Therefore, when a young boy expresses
the desire to become a monk, parents should never discourage that inclination, but strongly
encourage it in all ways. It is a great blessing for the family to have a son become a sannyāsin.
Each father should guide his sons who express an inclination toward monastic life into learning
more of sannyāsa by teaching them of the lives of great yogīs and swāmīs, encouraging them in
the arts of meditation, haṭha yoga and personal purity, having them read and study the Vedas,
and bringing them to receive the darśana and advice of the satguru and swāmīs whenever
possible. They regard any son destined for the monastery not as their own child, but as the
satguru’s spiritual progeny in their trusted care. They work closely with the satguru in guiding
his training so as to cultivate skills and character traits that will enhance his future as a
monastic. Many devout families seek to birth a son for the monastery. Prior to conception, they
mix with the swāmīs and pray to the Gods to bring through a soul destined to perpetuate the
holy lineage.

Once a brahmachārī has entered the monastery under vows, he is a very special person living a
very special life. He should be treated by everyone, including his own family, as a holy person.
He now stands apart from family and former friends. Parents when visiting respect his chosen
path and keep family problems from his knowledge. They exclude him from news of marriages,
divorces, illness, deaths and other householder events. They should show great interest in what
he is learning and speak of high philosophical matters.

A life of discipline is not an easy life, but it is a joyous one, with many soul-satisfying rewards.
Monastics follow their rigorous twenty-four-hour protocol even in their dreams. Those who are
born to perform this service are to be respected and not distracted by family pulls or the
desires of former friends. They should be tested, yes, in their beginning years, to be assured
that their commitment is firm, their energies secure and their loyalties well understood.
Traditionally, at this time family and friends play an important role by bringing temptations to
them and valid reasons why they should renounce renunciation. But when their robes turn to
yellow or when in white the rudrāksha beads are worn, their path is clear and a new protocol
on both sides must be firmly kept. All relationships have now changed.
The power of brahmacharya makes the monks very magnetic, and the temples they serve in
powerful. Monastics are therefore careful to keep their distance and not become involved with
devotees who attend the temples. In turn, the cultured devotees keep a respectful distance
from the monks—physically, emotionally and psychically, not even thinking of them, let alone
psychically pulling on them, even in their dreams. Nothing should happen to distract a monk
from his chosen path. This code of nonintervention is even more strict for the monk’s parents,
who share in his renunciation of worldly life for the life of selfless service to the Sanātana
Dharma.

Friday
LESSON 334
The Ideals
Of Sannyāsa

The Śaiva sannyāsin states at the time of his initiation, “All that I have and all that I am I now
give unto my God, my Gods and my guru. I have no family except the Divine Father Śiva and
Mother Śakti who dwell in Kailāsa, and on Earth the saṅgam of Śaivite devotees.” This is the
ideal of not only the swāmī, but of all monastics. Therefore, a state of aloofness from blood ties
must be maintained on the part of each monastic. This is reflected in the protocol of the monk’s
not referring to relatives as “my father,” “my brother,” “my mother,” but by formal, impersonal
names and common courtesy titles, such as Mr. Sivanesan, etc. This is an affectionate
detachment, a lovingly detached attitude, from the gṛihastha community. It is a detachment
from joint or extended family, which includes former friends, seeing guru as mother and father,
and fellow monastics as family, aadheenam devas as dear relatives, and Gods as close, not far
away. Each family learns to respect this renunciate attitude. This is the fabric of monastic life,
both for sannyāsins and postulants, for in our community, all monastics are on the path of
renunciation. Some have received sannyāsa dīkshā and others are preparing for it by fully living
the life of the one who has renounced the world in one-pointed quest for service and God
Realization. Because training must be given when the nature is still young and pliable, I do not
accept candidates for monastic life who are over the age of twenty-five.

All must always remember that it is a family’s greatest blessing for a son to become a
sannyāsin. But a word of caution must follow. Though a young man may be raised and trained
to one day become a monastic, it is he himself who must have the burning desire for ultimate,
transcendent realization of Paraśiva. It is he who must have a heart full of selfless service and
vairāgya, the spirit of renunciation. It is he who must have the prārabdha karmas that would
allow him to be the ideal sannyāsin his parents would hope for. Becoming a monk is not simply
a matter of moving from his family home into a monastery. Various tests must be met and
passed. The entire monastic community has to be convinced of the young man’s sincerity and
strengthened by his presence. Such potential sannyāsins are watched closely and expected to
dissociate themselves from gṛihastha impulses such as claiming “my things, my space, my
career, my advancement and my exclusive duties.” They are examined for the qualities of true
sannyāsa, tested often as to their flexibility, their ability to instantly renounce attachment to
position and job security without residual resentments, the fluidness to release awareness and
move transparently from one area to the next as needs arise.

How does a monastic serve his guru in daily life? He must take every opportunity to be open. At
the first level, that of a young aspirant, the mom and dad give him over and say, “The guru is
now your mother and father. Go and be with him.” Then it is up to the young man to think of
his guru as mother and father and not think of them as his parents anymore. That is what they
expect. They are thrilled that they could produce a son who could be a spiritual man, thrilled
that their son might be accepted. The next step is on the part of the son himself. In living in the
āśrama the son only sees the guru in his mind. He doesn’t see anybody else. When he starts
seeing others, finding fault and liking some more than others, that’s when the trouble begins.
Rather, he serves the guru’s mission exclusively, in his whole mind, even while he is working
with others. He treats everyone equally, with kindly, affectionate detachment. He fulfills each
duty wholeheartedly and harbors no preferences for one type of service over another. He
doesn’t use the facility as a trade school to improve his skills, just in case monastic life doesn’t
work out. Finally he attracts the guru’s attention, and the third stage begins. He is given special
small tasks to accomplish by the satguru, and when successful given larger and more difficult
tasks, as the guru guides him in strengthening his willpower. From that point on, his life unfolds
from stage to stage as he purifies himself and brings forth his Divinity in his service and striving.

Saturday
LESSON 335
The Way of
Old Souls

Wouldn’t we have a wonderful world of living with Śiva if two thirds of the people on this
planet were spiritual lights and had nothing on their mind but to spread the dharma of right
thought, right speech and right action? It truly would be a global village, a haven, a wonderland.
But during this yuga, it may not be possible, because younger souls inhabit the planet in
abundance, and their only method of discipline among themselves is with the fist, the hatchet,
the whip and harsh, insulting words. In this way they accrue much karma to be worked out in
another birth. This makes a lot of sense for if they did not make new karma they would not
reincarnate and never become older souls. It is the tragedies, the hurts, the fears, the
arguments that remain unresolved that goad the young souls onward. They learn by their own
mistakes, but very slowly, taking the lessons out of their experiences and always blaming on
others what has happened to them. This and most of the above is how we come to distinguish
an old soul from one in the intermediate grade and those who are unverified.

The intermediate souls struggle with their emotions; they hurt themselves more than others.
Misunderstanding is not their enemy. It is their teacher of new discoverings. Theirs is the never-
ending search. Theirs is the never-ending, not-being-able-to-reach-the-end search. Unlike the
young souls, their desires are well-defined. Unlike the young souls, their intellection has some
development, maybe not keen but usable. For them, religion is an acceptable solution. They are
not superstitious, meaning believing in what they do not understand, as are the young souls.
They must be satisfied with adequate reasons of why, how and what the future holds. The
intermediate souls all have to learn not to drag the past through life with them in the form of
resentment, unforgivingness through unforgettability. This one lesson and this alone
distinguishes them from their older examples. But they do look to the older souls for help and
for solace, seeking to hold their hand, lean on their shoulder and share with them some of their
experiential burdens.

Taking up sannyāsa as a young man and fulfilling the goals and disciplines of monastic life is for
the older souls. These forgiving, intelligent beings rely on their memories of their past when
they were young souls. They rely on their memories of the past when they were intermediate
souls. They rely on their superconscious abilities to look through and see into every situation,
every happening, of past, present and future. Their test, their supreme test, is to balance their
inner and their outer life. So, they renounce the world, and in their renouncing, the world they
renounced renounces them. Their humanness is still there, their striving is still there, and their
seeking for elucidation is still there. But what is not there is the sense of their small self. The
sense of the little I’go. The sense of “me and mine” is replaced by “us” and “ours.”

Not all old souls are ready for holy orders of sannyāsa, but some of them are, and these rare
few have special qualities. Loyalty to their lineage is one of the most important, and another is
love in their will. This means that they do make happenings happen in the external world. They
do effect change, but they do not claim reward or recognition. They do not sulk if appreciation
is not forthcoming. They move on, ever impelled by their spirituality, that ever-moving force of
inspiration that does good rather than harm, that ever-moving spiritual force that quells the
external ego and gives credit to others. That rewarding ability to see into the future, prepare for
it and to guide others into it is theirs to develop.

Young souls merge with each other. Intermediate souls merge with projects and learning new
things, merging with the mind and the intellect. Older souls, seeking the Self beyond the mind,
merge with the Spirit and with things spiritual. For them, a pure and nearly perfect life calls.
They intuitively know that the profound merger of jīva in Śiva is no easy task, to be
accomplished in a weekend seminar or yoga class. So they go farther, they renounce, they take
up the ideals of the four Vedas—not to parrot them, but to live them, just as did the ṛishis of
yore. That leads to the path of the renouncer, to the sannyāsin in the Indian tradition.

Though it may not be your dharma to formally renounce the world, you can benefit your search
immensely by knowing how the great ones seek to live and respond to life. You can find ways in
the midst of your life to follow their example.

Realize that the sannyāsins, the sādhus and the host of nameless mendicants from the
traditional orders of Hinduism do have built within them the spiritual, social, cultural structure
that has survived siege and pestilence within the countries they serve. But most importantly,
these three million soldiers of the within have survived the siege of their lower self, the
pestilence of their own mind, and risen above to the heights. This book, Living with Śiva,
contains within it the wisdom which, once read and understood, becomes knowledge to make
the conquest of all conquests, the victory over the instinctive-intellectual mind and all that it
contains. All this and more is summed up so eloquently in the “Song of the Sannyāsin in
Sunday’s lesson, a stirring poem by Srila Sri Swami Vivekananda Maharaj (1863-1902),
composed in July, 1885, at Thousand Island Park, New York. I advise my monastic followers to
live it, just live it, and try to fulfill in your life these high ideals. To all readers of this book, I say,
proceed with confidence along the path of sādhana, through which dancing with Śiva, living
with Śiva and merging with Śiva is assured and certain. That’s the way it is, and that is the way it
is.

Sunday
LESSON 336
Song of the Sannyāsin

Wake up the note! the song that had its birth

Far off, where worldly taint could never reach,
In mountain caves and glades of forest deep,
Whose calm no sigh for lust or wealth or fame
Could ever dare to break; where rolled the stream
Of knowledge, truth and bliss that follows both.
Sing high that note, sannyāsin bold! Say
“Om Tat Sat, Om!”

Strike off thy fetters! bonds that bind thee down,

Of shining gold, or darker, baser ore—
Love, hate; good, bad; and all the dual throng.
Know slave is slave, caressed or whipped, not free;
For fetters, though of gold, are not less strong to bind.
Then off with them, sannyāsin bold! Say
“Om Tat Sat, Om!”

Let darkness go; the will-o’-the-wisp that leads

With blinking light to pile more gloom on gloom.
This thirst for life forever quench; it drags
From birth to death, and death to birth, the soul.
He conquers all who conquers self.
Know this and never yield, sannyāsin bold! Say
“Om Tat Sat, Om!”

Who sows must reap,” they say, “and cause must bring
The sure effect: good, good; bad, bad; and none
Escapes the law. But whoso wears a form
Must wear the chain.” Too true; but far beyond
Both name and form is ātman, ever free.
Know thou art That, sannyāsin bold! Say
“Om Tat Sat, Om!”

They know not truth who dream such vacant dreams

As father, mother, children, wife and friend.
The sexless Self—whose father He? whose child?
Whose friend, whose foe, is He who is but One?
The Self is all in all—none else exists;
And thou art That, sannyāsin bold! Say
“Om Tat Sat, Om!”

There is but One: the Free, the Knower, Self,

Without a name, without a form or stain.
In Him is māyā, dreaming all this dream.
The Witness, He appears as nature, soul.
Know thou art That, sannyāsin bold! Say
“Om Tat Sat, Om!”

Where seekest thou? That freedom, friend, this world

Nor that can give. In books and temples, vain
Thy search. Thine only is the hand that holds
The rope that drags thee on. Then cease lament.
Let go thy hold, sannyāsin bold! Say
“Om Tat Sat, Om!”

Say, “Peace to all. From me no danger be

To aught that lives. In those that dwell on high,
In those that lowly creep—I am the Self in all!
All life, both here and there, do I renounce,
All heavens and earths and hells, all hopes and fears.”
Thus cut thy bonds, sannyāsin bold! Say
“Om Tat Sat, Om!”

Heed then no more how body lives or goes.

Its task is done: let karma float it down.
Let one put garlands on, another kick
This frame: say naught. No praise or blame can be
Where praiser, praised, and blamer, blamed, are one.
Thus be thou calm, sannyāsin bold! Say
“Om Tat Sat, Om!”

Truth never comes where lust and fame and greed

Of gain reside. No man who thinks of woman
As his wife can ever perfect be;
Nor he who owns the least of things, nor he
Whom anger Chains, can ever pass through māyā’s gates.
So, give these up, sannyāsin bold! Say
“Om Tat Sat, Om!”

Have thou no home. What home can hold thee, friend?

The sky thy roof, the grass thy bed, and food
What chance may bring—well cooked or ill, judge not.
No food or drink can taint that noble Self
Which knows Itself. Like rolling river free
Thou ever be, sannyāsin bold! Say
“Om Tat Sat, Om!”

Few only know the truth. The rest will hate

And laugh at thee, great one; but pay no heed.
Go thou, the free, from place to place, and help
Them out of darkness, māyā’s veil. Without
The fear of pain or search for pleasure, go
Beyond them both, sannyāsin bold! Say
“Om Tat Sat, Om!”

Thus day by day, till karma’s power’s spent,

Release the soul forever. No more is birth,
Nor I, nor thou, nor God, nor man. The “I”
Has All become, the All is “I” and Bliss.
Know thou art That, sannyāsin bold! Say
“Om Tat Sat, Om!”