Marriage of Parties
Marriage of Parties
Dr. SangitaLaha
ABSTRACT
In India, there exists only one kind of relationship between an unrelated couple of a male and
female and that is “Marriage”.Marriage, also called as matrimony or wedlock, is a
socially/ritually recognized union or contract between spouses that establishes certain rights and
legal obligations towards each other. Marriage is more of a sacrament and a divine concept and
has been practiced since ages. But for number of reasons, this concept is losing its divineness.
Love cannot be the only reason to marry. Sometimesin arranged marriages couples do get
married but have no compatibility and marriage becomes more or less a compromise. While the
institution of marriage promotes adjustment; the foundation of live in relationships is individual
freedom. Times are changing and we are in the twenty first century. Traditional forms of
relationships and institutions are slowly losing their foothold. No more are the notions of
celibacy until marriage or even marriage as prevalent as they were. Women and men are slowly
embracing other, non-conventional, non-traditional forms of relationships, most of which are still
seen as a freak concept b mostly by the older generation, but also a surprising amount of younger
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generation. As is the case with most new things, it is seen with fear and is not really understood.
As an example of this, we can see the paranoia and misconceptions around live in relationships.
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The Fundamental right under Article 21 of the Constitution of India grants to all its citizens
“right to life and personal liberty” which means that one is free to live the way one wants. Live
in relationship may be immoral in the eyes of the conservative Indian society but it
is not “illegal” in the eyes of law. Indian judiciary is neither expressly encouraging nor
prohibiting such kind of live-in-relationships in India. The judiciary is only rendering justice in
accordance with law in a particular case. The main concern of the judiciary is to prevent the
miscarriage of justice. The judiciary in deciding the cases keeps in mind the social mores and
constitutional values.
The first case in which the Supreme Court of India first recognized the live in relationship as a
valid marriage was that of Badri Prasad vs. Dy. Director of Consolidationi, in which the Court
gave legal validity to the a 50 year live in relationship of a couple.
The Allahabad High Curt again recognized the concept of live in relationship in the case of
PayalKatara vs. Superintendent, NariNiketanand othersii, wherein it held that live in
relationship is not illegal. The Court said that a man and a woman can live together as per their
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wish even without getting married. It further said that it may be immoral for the society but is not
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illegal.
Again in the case of Patel and Othersiii, the Supreme Court has held that live in relationship
between two adults without marriage cannot be construed as an offence. It further held that there
4. Domestic relationship between an unmarried adult female and a married male, entered
unknowingly
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The status of the female partner remains vulnerable in a live in relationship given the fact she is
exploited emotionally and physically during the relationship. Different court judgments have
discussed on different disputes pertaining to live-in relationships.TheDomestic Violence Act
provides protection to the woman if the relationship is “in the nature of marriage”. First time by
Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act, 2005 the legislator has accepted live in
relationship by giving those female who are not formally married, but are living with a male
person in a relationship, which is in the nature of marriage, also akin to wife, though not
equivalent to wife. This proviso, therefore, caters for wife or a female in a live in relationship.
Live-in relationships are now considered at par with marriage under a new Indian law pertaining
to domestic violence. The provisions of the Domestic Violence Act, 2005 are now extended to
those who are in live-in relationships as well. The amendments intend to protect the victims of
domestic abuse in live-in relationships. Section 2 (g) of the aforementioned Act provides that a
relationship between two individuals who live together or have lived together in the past is
considered as a domestic relationship. A woman who is in a live-in relationship can seek legal
relief against her partner in case of abuse and harassment. Further, the new law also protects
Indian women who are trapped in fraudulent or invalid marriages.
In June, 2008, The National Commission for Women recommended to Ministry of Women and
Child Development made suggestion to include live in female partners for the right of
maintenance under Section 125 of Code of Criminal Procedure. This view was supported by the
judgment in AbhijitBhikasethAuti v. State Of Maharashtra andOthersviii.The positive opinion
in favour of live in relationship was also seconded by Maharashtra Government in October, 2008
when it accepted the proposal made by Malimath Committee and Law Commission of India
which suggested that if a woman has been in a live-in relationship for considerably long time,
she ought to enjoy the legal status as given to wife. However, recently it was observed that it is
divorced wife who is treated as a wife in context of Section 125 of Code of Criminal Procedure
and if a person has not even been married i.e. the case of live in partners, they cannot be
divorced, and hence cannot claim maintenance under Section 125 of Code of Criminal
Procedure.
Section 125 Cr.P.C. provides for giving maintenance to the wife and some other relatives. The
word `wife' has been defined in Explanation (b) to Section 125(1) of the Cr.P.C. as follows;
“Wife includes a woman who has been divorced by, or has obtained a divorce from, her
husband and has not remarried.”It was stated, “Law inclines in the interest of legitimacy and
thumbs down „whoreson‟ or „fruit of adultery.” Four important grounds are laid for live-in
relationship to be recognized as a relationship in the nature of Marriage. When a live-in partner
satisfies these four conditions in addition to living together under one roof, only then a deserted
woman can seek Maintenance. This judgement is drawn the Ruling of a California Court in the
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In the Act of 2005, the Parliament has taken notice of a new social phenomenon which has
emerged in our country known as live-in relationship. This new relationship is still rare in our
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country, and is sometimes found in big urban cities in India, but it is very common in North
America and Europe. It has been commented upon by Supreme Court in the case of S. Khushboo
vs. Kanniammal&Anr)xi.
But at the same time the court has considered important to protect child rights in particular in
live-in relationships. In January 2008, a Supreme Court bench that was headed by Justice
ArijitPasayat held that children who are born out of live-in relationships will not be considered
illegitimate.In August 2010, the Supreme Court held that a live-in relationship that has existed
for a long time will be considered a marriage and that the children born to such a couple will not
be illegitimate. Justice P Sathasivam and Justice BS Chauhan of the Supreme Court passed this
judgment and it will have strong legal implications on disputes relating to the legitimacy of
children who are born to live-in partners.xii
INTERNATIONAL SCENARIO
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Prior to 1970, live-in relationship i.e. Cohabitation was illegal in US, but went on to gain status
as a Common Law, subject to certain requirements prescribed under law. The American legal
history is a witness to several consensual sex legislations, which paved the way for living
together contracts and their cousins, the "prenuptial agreements".
In Trimble v. Gordonxv, the court held that a signed statement establishing paternity of a child
born out of wedlock is adequate protection of the child's inheritance rights.
In Braschi v. Stahl Associatesxvi, New York State's highest court found the term family should
be construed broadly and should encompass contemporary realities, including unmarried adult
partners in a long-term, committed relationship that shows mutual sharing of the mundane tasks
of everyday life.
Since the 1980s, a growing number of states and municipalities have passed laws allowing
unmarried couples, both heterosexual and homosexual, to register as domestic partners. Some
cities have established a domestic partner registry, while others extend certain benefits to
domestic partners even if the city does not provide a registry. In the USA, the proportion of
births outside of marriage has risen to almost 40 percent, according to recent federal data.
Couples can agree to a Cohabitation Agreement, which outlines their financial responsibilities
towards each other as well as remedies for a split
Some states have common-law marriage laws. These refer to legal marriage by default due to an
unmarried couple‟s actions. These normally involve living together for more than a year and
presenting themselves to the outside world as husband and wife.The country hasinstitutionalized
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cohabitation by giving cohabiters essentially the same rights and obligations as married couples,
a situation similar to Sweden and Denmark
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Canada:
In Canada, cohabitation is officially recognized as “common law marriage”. In a lot of cases, the
federal law of the country grants common law couples the same rights as married couples. All
France:
In France, a pacte civil de solidarité or a civil pact of solidarity commonly known as a PACS, is
a form of civil union between two adults (same-sex or opposite-sex) for organising their joint
life. It brings rights and responsibilities, but less so than marriage. From a legal standpoint, a
PACS is a contract drawn up between the two individuals, which is stamped and registered by
the clerk of the court. Since 2006, individuals who have registered a PACS are no longer
considered single in terms of their marital status. Their birth records will be amended to show
their status as pacsé (in a PACS) as well.
Phillippines:
In Philippines, live in relationship couple‟s right to each other‟s property is governed by co-
ownership rule. Article 147, of the Family Code, Philippines provides that when a man and a
woman who are capacitated to marry each other, live exclusively with each other as husband and
wife without the benefit of marriage or under a void marriage, their wages and salaries shall be
owned by them in equal shares and the property acquired by both of them through their work or
industry shall be governed by the rules on co-ownership. It mainly concerns itself with properties
acquired through their actual joint contribution, which could be money, property or industry
owned by them in common. The Family Code expressly governs the property of persons
cohabiting without the benefit of marriage. It is required, however, that both must be capacitated,
or have no legal impediment, to marry each other.xvii
United Kingdom:
In United Kingdom, both parents are financially responsible for the children whether they were
married, co-habiting or separated. Parents do not generally have the inheritance rights over each
other‟s property unless they are in the Will. This, however, can be contested. Live-in couples are
not legally obliged to support each other financially even if they are sharing a house or raising a
family together. Unlike married couples, they are not entitled to receive Maintenance from their
partners even if they have lived together for a number of years or given up their career to look
after the home and children. An unmarried couple can formalise aspects of their status by
drawing up a cohabitation contract or living together agreement, which outlines the rights and
obligations of the partners toward each other. The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender
(LGBT) community which doesn‟t have marriage rights can enter into a civil partnership. Every
child born to a married woman is assumed to be her husband‟s child and both have parental
responsibility whereas in the case of a live in relationship, the unmarried mother or father has
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responsibility of a child but can enter into a parental responsibility agreement with the partner for
shared responsibility. Both married and cohabitating couples can apply to adopt a child jointly.
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With regard to inheritance, even if there is no will, the child of unmarried or married parents has
a legal right to inherit form both parents and families of both parents. If either married partner
dies without making a will, the other will inherit all or some of the estate whereas in case of
cohabitating couples if one partner dies without leaving a will, the surviving partner will not
Scotland:
The live in relation were conferred legal sanctity in Scotland under Family Law (Scotland) Act
2006. Section 25 (2) of the Act postulates that a court of law can consider aperson as a co-
habitant of another by checking on three factors, namely,
Ireland:
Even though living together is legally recognized in Ireland, public opinions are strictly against a
new legislation that aims to facilitate legal rights for “separated” cohabitating couples to demand
maintenance and/or share their property with the financially dependent partners. The legislation
is applicable to same sex unmarried couples as well as couples from opposite sexes, provided
they have been cohabitating for at least 3 years (or 2 years if they have children). The
government, with this new legislation, plans to fetch financial and legal protection for financially
dependent and vulnerable cohabitants in the event of break up or death.
Australia:
The Family LawAct of Australia states that a “de facto relationship” can existbetween two
people of different or of the same sex and that a person can be in a de-factorelationship even if
legally married to another person or in a defacto relationship withsomeone else.
China:
In China, there is no legal procedure required to end a live-in-relationship. Children born out to
wedlock have equal rights to those born to parents who are married. Contracts are made between
couples in a live-in relationship.
CONCLUSION
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Live in relationship has always been the focus of debates and discussions as it ischallenging our
fundamental societal system. To encourage marriages, Government hasreserved many rights for
the married people. Although live in relationship is not considered as an offense but there is no
law until the date that prohibits this kind of relationship. Courts often refused to make any kind
of obligatory agreements between these unmarried couples asthis could go against the public
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ENDNOTES
i
AIR 1978 SC 1557.
ii
2001(3) AWC 1778.
iii
2006 (8) SCC 726.
iv
2008(4) SCC 520.
v
JT 2010 (4) SC 478.
vi
(1928) MLJ 388 PC
vii
AIR 2009 (NOC) 808 (Bom).
viii
AIR 2009 (NOC) 808 (Bom).
ix
146 (2008) DLT 445 (DB).
x
AIR 2011 SC 479.
xi
2010 (5) SCC 600 vide para 31.
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18 Cal.3d 660 (1976).
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