Kristjansson, Friendship Phronesis One Thought Too Many
Kristjansson, Friendship Phronesis One Thought Too Many
1. Introduction
1
Aristotle, Nicomachean Ethics, trans. T. Irwin (Indianapolis: Hackett
Publishing, 1985), 207 [1155a5–6].
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K. Kristjánsson, Virtuous Emotions (Oxford: Oxford University
Press, 2018).
7
Op. cit. note 1, 207 [1155a1–2].
8
See e.g. R. F. Card, ‘Consequentialism, Teleology, and the New
Friendship Critique’, Pacific Philosophical Quarterly 85 (2004): 149–172,
p. 149, although Card refrains from categorising virtue ethics as a ‘theory’.
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10
Contra e.g. A. Nehamas, On Friendship (New York: Basic Books,
2016).
11
K. Kristjánsson, ‘Ten un-Aristotelian Reasons for the Instability of
Aristotelian Character Friendships’, Journal for the Theory of Social
Behaviour 49 (2019): 40–58.
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12
Op. cit. note 3, 14, my italics; cf. M. Bernstein, ‘Friends without
Favouritism’, Journal of Value Inquiry 41 (2007): 59–76, 67–68.
13
Op. cit. note 3, 11.
14
S. Wolf,‘“One Thought too Many”: Love, Morality, and the
Ordering of Commitment, in U. Heuer and G. Lang (eds.), Luck, Value,
and Commitment: Themes from the Ethics of Bernard Williams (Oxford:
Oxford University Press, 2012): 71–92, 74.
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15
See e.g. P. Railton’s classic piece, ‘Alienation, Consequentialism, and
the Demands of Morality’, Philosophy and Public Affairs 13 (1984):
134–171.
16
See e.g. E. Conee, ‘Friendship and Consequentialism’, Australasian
Journal of Philosophy 79 (2001): 161–179; Bernstein op. cit. note 12.
17
O. Flanagan, Varieties of Moral Personality: Ethics and Psychological
Realism (Cambridge, MA: Harvard University Press, 1991), 32.
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18
See e.g. E. Telfer, ‘Friendship’, Proceedings of the Aristotelian Society
71 (1970–1971), 223–241, 235.
19
D. Lyons, Forms and Limits of Utilitarianism (Oxford: Oxford
University Press, 1965).
20
Conee op. cit. note 16, 178–179.
21
P. Railton, ‘Intuitive Guidance: Emotion, Information and
Experience’, in M. E. P. Seligman, P. Railton, R. F. Baumeister and
C. Sripade (eds.), Homo Prospectus (Oxford: Oxford University Press,
2016): 33–85, 45–46.
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to this being the sort of situation that calls for a certain reaction,
without the need for further deliberation at the time of action –
because perception happens before deliberation and preempts it.
On this reading, there does not seem to be any danger of phronesis im-
porting ‘one thought too many’. However, this reading does not show
virtue ethics to be superior to simple act utilitarianism in this respect,
provided we grant that the psychological thesis suggested in the pre-
ceding paragraph may also save act utilitarianism from the problem of
alienation.
What seems to be too good to be true is usually too good to be true.
The whole problem to which Williams alerted us seems to have dis-
appeared, simply because initial credibility has been granted to the
standard interpretation of his argument. Yet on that interpretation
the argument bewilders rather than enthralls, in particular if it is
meant to point towards the superiority of virtue ethics as a moral
theory. Snatching potential defeat from the jaws of victory, Wolf ex-
plains well, in an intriguing paper, the extent to which the standard
interpretation defangs Williams’s argument. Williams’s intention
was much more radical that standardly acknowledged: namely, not
only to show that reflecting on what to do, at the moment of action,
in cases involving friend–stranger conflicts, is psychologically impos-
sible, in the sense of being self-alienating, but rather that any reflec-
tions on the possibility of betraying the friend will be self-alienating,
even if engaged in ‘off stage’: be it prospectively, to prepare oneself for
proper decision making at the time of action, or retrospectively, to
justify to oneself what one has done. Removing the deliberations
from the emotionally charged scene of the action does not rescue
the extra thought from being one thought too many.22
On this radical interpretation, there is no way in which the strategy
invoked above can rescue consequentialism because it is impossible to
ask the consequentialist to hold all considerations regarding the
utility of prioritising friends over strangers (or vice versa) in abey-
ance, not only during but also before and after the relevant event.
That simply goes against the grain of the very idea of consequentialist
calculations of the overall good. There must be a time in which those
can be engaged in, no holds barred. The radical interpretation also
brings home to us, much more so than the standard interpretation,
the sense of ‘moral schizophrenia’ that Stocker23 famously attributed
to the endorsement of the two competing moral theories of the day:
22
Op. cit. note 14.
23
M. Stocker, ‘The Schizophrenia of Modern Ethical Theories’,
Journal of Philosophy 73 (1976): 453–466.
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the sense that those theories propose determinable methods for con-
sidering when goods like deep friendship ought to be outweighed by
more general requirements of duty or the overall good.24 However,
this creates a schizophrenia in the psychology of the normal moral
agent to the extent that what she is meant to value and calculate as
valuable jars with what in fact moves her most. Notably, the radical
interpretation also casts serious doubts on the facility of
Aristotelian virtue ethics to escape from the clutches of Williams’s ar-
gument, for phronesis is surely presented by Aristotle as a method of
moral deliberation, and a determinable one at that, although admit-
tedly not codifiable in exactly the same sense as the utility calculus
or the categorical imperative (see further in Section 3).
The radical interpretation of Williams’s argument presents us with
the following dilemma, given the aim of the present article. Either we
accept the argument with respect to phronesis, but then we implicitly
concede that every extra thought of the kind envisaged above will
count as one thought too many, and that seems to do away with phron-
esis altogether (unless we understand phronesis as some sort of intui-
tive artistry, outstripping conscious thought, but that is a misguided
understanding of phronesis, as I argue in Section 3). Or we reject the
argument with respect to phronesis, but then we need to show either
that phronesis does not import an extra thought into the decision-
making process (which I think is impossible), or that although phron-
esis imports an extra thought qua filter, it is not one thought too many
for some substantive reasons and hence the ‘filter’ is not ‘fetishising’
in the same way as, say, the utility calculus.
While I propose to go down the second avenue in Section 4, we can
safely conclude at this juncture that there are no obvious escape routes
in Williams’s argument (on the radical interpretation) that would
prevent Aristotelian virtue ethics from potentially being sent to the
gallows along with the other two dominant moral theories.
However, before that sentence phronesis needs a fair and thorough
hearing.
The important role that the intellectual virtue of phronesis plays in all
Aristotelian or quasi-Aristotelian forms of virtue ethics was noted in
Section 1. In order to answer the question of whether phronesis
24
Cf. S. Woodcock, ‘Moral Schizophrenia and the Paradox of
Friendship’, Utilitas 22 (2010): 1–25, 14.
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25
Cf. D. Cocking and J. Kennett, ‘Friendship and Moral Danger’,
Journal of Philosophy 97 (2000): 278–296; Cicero, How to Be a Friend,
trans. P. Freeman (Princeton: Princeton University Press, 2018), 35 and 45.
26
See K. Kristjánsson, Aristotle, Emotions and Education (Aldershot:
Ashgate/Routledge, 2007), chap. 11.
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27
Op. cit. note 1, 153, 154, 159, 164, 171 [1140a26–29, 1140b4–6,
1141b30–31, 1143a8–9, 1144b30–32].
28
J. P. Brienza, F. Y. H. Kung, H. C. Santos, D. R. Bobocel and
I. Grossmann, ‘Wisdom, Bias, and Balance: Toward a Process-Sensitive
Measurement of Wisdom-Related Cognition’, Journal of Personality and
Social Psychology 115 (2018): 1093–1126.
29
See I. Grossman, ‘Wisdom in Context’, Perspectives on Psychological
Science 12 (2017): 233–257.
30
C. Darnell, L. Gulliford, K. Kristjánsson and P. Panos, ‘Phronesis
and the Knowledge–Action Gap in Moral Psychology and Moral
Education: A New Synthesis?’ Human Development 62 (2019): 101–129.
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31
See further in ibid.
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32
D. Kaspar, ‘How We Decide in Moral Situations’, Philosophy 90
(2015): 59–81.
33
J. Dunne, Back to the Rough Ground: ‘Phronesis’ and ‘Techné’ in
Modern Pilosophy and in Aristotle (Notre Dame: University of Notre
Dame Press, 1993).
34
Op. cit. note 26, chap. 11.
35
Op. cit. note 33, 157.
36
Ibid., 311.
37
Ibid., 314.
38
Ibid., 280, 293, 297 and 361.
39
Op. cit. note 1, 160–161 [1142a12–30].
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40
Ibid., 243 [1165a35].
41
See e.g. J. Haidt, ‘The Emotional Dog and its Rational Tail: A Social
Intuitionist Approach to Moral Judgment’, Psychological Review 108
(2001): 814–834.
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49
Op. cit. note 1, 168, 171–172 [1144a6–9, 1145a4–6].
50
Ibid., 39–40, 168–169 [1105a28–32, 1144a13–22].
51
T. H. Irwin, ‘Aristotle on Reason, Desire, and Virtue’, Journal of
Philosophy 72 (1975): 567–578, 571.
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52
Op. cit. note 2, 503.
53
J. S. Mill, Utilitarianism (Oxford: Oxford University Press, 1998).
54
K. Kristjánsson, Justice and Desert-Based Emotions (Aldershot:
Ashgate/Routledge, 2006), 146–148.
55
Op. cit. note 2, 484.
56
Op. cit. note 8, 157.
57
Cicero op. cit. note 25, 35.
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the claims that a friend can have on us, versus a virtuous non-friend,
and his conclusion is that if the friend is just a utility friend, then her
claims on us are strictly limited, whereas the issue becomes more
complicated if the clash is between the claims of a character friend
and another ‘virtuous man’, for the former is then also, ex hypothesi,
virtuous. The overall conclusion seems to be that this has to be as-
sessed on a case-by-case basis but, in any case, simply ditching
agent-neutrality and giving everything spontaneously to the friend
is what only ‘good-for-nothing people’ do.61
These Aristotelian considerations are far removed from the roman-
ticised view of friendship as based on spontaneous preferential treat-
ment that Bernstein,62 for one, attributes to Williams. There is no
hint in Aristotle of an aestheticised view of friendship as lying
beyond the limits of moral justification (as e.g. espoused by
Nehamas63) and beyond the scope of phronesis. The idea that the
non-reflective partiality of friendship holds the key to how phronesis
escapes the thrust of Williams’s argument seems to be a non-
starter. To Williams’s credit, that idea is not his in the first place,
for he explicitly admits that the notion of an attachment to a particu-
lar person as a psychological integrity-grounding project, in his
sense, protected by a categorical desire, would have appeared ‘mys-
terious or even sinister’ to Aristotle.64
(4) ‘The uniqueness of phronesis as a filter vis-à-vis the utility cal-
culus is that it does not require the maximisation of value. That re-
quirement is the main reason why consequentialism imports one
thought too many. Hence, this criticism does not hit at phronesis-
guided reflections on what friendship requires in particular cases.’
To be sure, although Aristotle places fairly strict moral constraints
on the scope of agent-relativity that virtue ethics affords us, there is
no hint of the idea of maximisation in his ethics. That is not to say
that moral value comes without any quantification, for generally
speaking, ‘the greatest virtues are necessarily those most useful to
others’, such as justice and courage.65 Yet virtue comes to us indi-
viduality-adjusted according to Aristotle. There is no description of
an individual’s virtue repertoire available to us that abstracts from
its instantiation in that person in all her psycho-social uniqueness.
61
Op. cit. note 5, 431–433 [1244a1–19].
62
Bernstein op. cit. note 12.
63
Op. cit. note 10.
64
Op. cit. note 3, 15–16.
65
Aristotle, On Rhetoric, trans. G. A. Kennedy (Oxford: Oxford
University Press, 2007), 76 [1366b3–6].
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Some of the well-known things that Aristotle says about the golden
mean of action and emotion may seem to indicate that there is an
ideal imitable agent whose virtue consists in hitting this mean accur-
ately on each occasion. However, on closer inspection, there is no
unique blueprint of the perfectly virtuous person per se to aim for.
For example, emulousness is a virtue for young people whereas
adults do not need to emulate role models. Magnificence and magna-
nimity are virtues for people blessed with unusually abundant mater-
ial resources but not for ordinary folks. Temperance in eating is not
the same for Milo the athlete as for the university professor,
because what is intermediate in virtue is relative to the individual,
‘not in the object’.66 And, from an educational perspective, a
boxing instructor will not ‘impose the same way of fighting on every-
one’.67 There is thus no one best way across individuals to be, say, vir-
tuously generous as opposed to be being stingy or wasteful. It all
depends on your individual circumstance (are you poor or
wealthy?) and your own natural inclination towards either extreme,
away from which you should try to drag yourself – with the help of
friends. When I love the generosity of my friend, I do not love it as
matching well or less well the repeatable generosity of the perfectly
generous person, for there is no such generosity simpliciter. There
is an endless plurality of traits that all make the grade as virtuous gen-
erosity, as instantiated in different persons, and there is no way to
choose between them in ways that satisfies some ideal condition of
virtue-exposure maximisation.
The non-existence of a maximisation requirement (because there is
no common currency to maximise) gives us considerable leverage in
making wise phronetic choices regarding conflicting claims by differ-
ent friends, or friends and (virtuous) non-friends, and some may even
legitimately come down to mere tastes when there is no difference in
demonstrated levels of moral worth.
Out of all the responses canvassed so far, this one comes closest to
explaining the potential advantage of Aristotle-inspired virtue ethics,
in general, and its phronesis filter, in particular, in escaping the thrust
of Williams’s one-thought-too-many argument. Yet I am not con-
vinced that this response would have satisfied Williams himself,
given the radical (and probably accurate) interpretation of his argu-
ment explained in Section 2.
66
Op. cit. note 1, 43 [1106b1–7].
67
Ibid., 295 [1180b9–11].
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5. Concluding remarks
This article has explored the common assumption that there is some-
thing about Aristotle-inspired virtue ethics that makes it immune to
Williams’s infamous one-thought-too-many argument. I have shown
that the idea that virtue ethics has no filter, and hence imparts no
extra thought into the moral decision process, is untenable. The
reason is the simple one that Mill pointed out to us a long time ago:
‘There exists no moral system under which there do not arise un-
equivocal cases of conflicting obligations’.68 So far is it from being
true that Aristotle suggests an exception to this rule that he explicitly
provides us with a filter, called phronesis, to sort out how to strike a
morally justifiable balance between competing sources of intrinsic
value. To argue that this filter does not import an extra thought, it
would have to be shown that phronesis is an intuition pump, rather
than an intellectual virtue of adjudication and, furthermore, that
the intuition to favour friends trumps all other considerations.
However, neither happens to fit Aristotle’s system. In any event, it
is difficult to imagine Williams asking for blind attachment to friend-
ship, to which any extra thought would be inimical.
To escape Williams’s curse, the only remaining way is to argue that
the extra thought required by virtue ethics is not ‘one thought too
many’. The presumed advantage of virtue ethics must, in other
words, lie in the content of its filter rather than the filter’s non-exist-
ence. The article closed with an attempt to show that, contra deontol-
ogy, the friendship motivation in virtue ethics is derived from the
moral virtue, not the intellectual filter, and, contra consequentialism,
phronesis does not require the maximisation of value. This argument
goes some distance in shielding phronesis from Williams’s complaint.
Yet the work that still remains for phronesis to do, and the way it is
meant to do it, would probably still count as a fetish on Williams’s
understanding, as well as falling under Stocker’s sarcastic description
of decision filters as ‘mental alarm clocks’.69 So there is no way to
avoid a substantive disagreement between a neo-Aristotelian, such
as the present author, and Williams on what exactly counts as one
thought too many.
I happen to agree with Woodcock70 that balancing our broad
ethical obligations with authentic personal motives is bound to
remain a non-trivial psychological challenge for any moderately
68
Op. cit. note 53, 71.
69
Op. cit. note 23, 458.
70
Op. cit. note 24.
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