Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy
Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy
Behavior Therapy
Principles
Techniques
Effectiveness
Finding a therapist
Takeaway
What is rational emotive
therapy?
Rational emotive behavior therapy (REBT) is a type of therapy introduced
by Albert Ellis in the 1950s. It’s an approach that helps you identify
irrational beliefs and negative thought patterns that may lead to emotional
or behavioral issues.
Once you’ve identified these patterns, a therapist will help you develop
strategies to replace them with more rational thought patterns.
REBT can be particularly helpful for people living with a variety of issues,
including:
depression
anxiety
addictive behaviors
phobias
overwhelming feelings of anger, guilt, or rage
procrastination
disordered eating habits
aggression
sleep problems
Read on to learn more about REBT, including its core principles and
effectiveness.
Imagine you’ve texted someone you’ve been dating for a month. You see
they’ve read the message, but several hours pass with no reply. By the
next day, they still haven’t replied. You might start to think that they’re
ignoring you because they don’t want to see you.
You might also tell yourself that you did something wrong when you last
saw them, you may then tell yourself that relationships never work out and
that you will be alone for the rest of your life.
Here’s how this example illustrates the core principles — called the ABCs
— of REBT:
In this scenario, REBT would focus on helping you to reframe how you
think about why the person didn’t respond. Maybe they were busy or simply
forgot to respond. Or maybe they aren’t interested in meeting you again; if
so, that doesn’t mean there’s something wrong with you or that you will
spend the rest of your life alone.
Problem-solving techniques
problem-solving skills
assertiveness
social skills
decision-making skills
conflict resolution skills
Coping techniques
relaxation
hypnosis
meditation
Regardless of the techniques they use, your therapist will also likely give
you some work to do on your own between sessions. This gives you a
chance to apply the skills you learn in a session to your daily lie. For
example, they might have you write down how you feel after experiencing
something that usually makes you feel anxious and think about how your
response made you feel.
How does REBT compare to
CBT?
There’s some debate among experts about the relationship between REBT
and cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT). Some see REBT as a type of REBT,
while others argue that they’re two very distinct approaches.
While CBT and REBT are based on similar principles, they have several
key differences. Both approaches work to help you accept and change
irrational thoughts that cause distress. But REBT places a little more
emphasis on the acceptance part.
Keep in mind that people respond differently to all types of therapy. What
works for one person may not work for you.
It might also help to determine how much you can realistically spend per
session. Some therapists might not take insurance, but many offer sliding-
scale fees or low-cost options. This is a common conversation for a
therapist to have with a potential client, so don’t feel uncomfortable asking
about cost. Learn more about finding affordable therapy.
If you live in the United States, you can find psychologists in your area here.
When calling potential therapists, give them a brief idea of what you’re
looking to get out of therapy and ask if they have any experience with
REBT. If they sound promising, make an appointment.
Don’t be discouraged if you find that they aren’t a good fit during your first
session. Some people need to see a few therapists before they find the
right one.
Here are six other questions to ask yourself after that first appointment.
The bottom line
REBT is a type of therapy that can help with a range of mental health
conditions. It’s similar to CBT, but there are some key differences between
the two. If you’re looking to reframe some of your thought patterns, REBT
may be a good approach to try.
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