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here friends no matter how many motivational videos you watch your motivation and excitement level will goes away
after some days and at the end you will again start doing things according to your habits as humans our creature of
habits and it is really difficult for us to change them but before that we should know what habits we have to change or
develop in ourselves because guiding our habits right can mean the difference between success and failure not only
in our personal lives but in our professional lives and in the communities we live in now. I am going to express my
views with you the seven habits that will make you a really effective person so let's begin habit number one be
proactive at a restaurant a cockroach came and sat on a lady she started screaming in fear with a panic face and
trembling voice she started jumping with both her hands trying to get rid of the cockroach her reaction was
contagious which made everyone in the group also panic the lady finally managed to push the cockroach away but it
jumbed on another girl in the mob now it was the turn of the other girl in the group to continue the drama the waiter
rushed forward for the rescue in the relay of throwing the cockroach next fell upon the waiter the waiter instead of
screaming or panicking stood firm composed himself and observed the behavior of the cockroach in his shirt when
he was confident enough he grabbed the cockroach with his finger and threw it out of the restaurant now we can
relate this story with the concept of proactive and reactive people here the waiter was a proactive person because
he did not reacted to the situation which came to him and like the ladies did but instead he handled it with proper
thinking and action there is a great difference between proactive and reactive people reactive people love to play
the blame game according to them all the problems happening to them are because of the government their boss or
other people etc according to them things are not in their control but in the hands of other people or circumstances
the thing the problem is out there but in reality that thought is the problem reactivity becomes a self-fulfilling
prophecy and reactive people feel increasingly victimized and out of control they usually say things like there is
nothing I can do that's just the way I am he makes me mad on the other hand proactive take the control of their
feelings in their own hand instead of giving someone else they take hundred percent responsibility for their actions
and behavior they don't blame the situation but rather think of solution instead so in order to be proactive you must
focus on the circle of influence that lies within a circle of concern in other way we must work on the stuff we can do
something about and not to focus on things we can't do anything about like the reactive people usually do habit
number to begin with the end in mind this habit is similar to the law I explained in my how to be powerful video now
imagine you are at a funeral but this one is different from any other funeral you have ever attended as you come to
know that this is actually your own funeral now stop and think what are the things you would really like others to say
about you or what would you like to say about yourself at that time for example do you want to be known as a good
friend then are you behaving as a good friend right now which will make your friends to say that do you want to be
remembered as a person who added a lot of value to the society and helped with many people in need if yes then are
you working on it right now are your actions aligned with the goals you want to accomplish ask yourself what are the
things that you definitely want to achieve before you die and start working on it don't just do things without any clue
of the end habit number three put first things first how many times we catch ourselves scrolling our Facebook feeds
watching YouTube videos or TV when we have a lot of other important things needed to be finished this is one of the
most common habit which wastes so much of our time and holds us back from going above the average it is simple
yet really too difficult to develop this habit but in order to manage yourself effectively we must put first things first we
must prioritize our day to day action based on what is the most important and not what is the most urgent all the
habits in this content are similar to each other so when you decide your end goals properly then work to complete
that goals you must put things which will help you to complete your main goal at first place now I let less important
things to keep you away from doing things which are of most importance time is very precious so be stingy with your
time rather than money habit number four think win-win suppose your thing of starting your own business you make a
plan thinking oil about your profits growth and create a product which is not that helpful to your customers but still
with your great marketing team and persuasion skills you sell it to a lot of people and start making profits now do you
think you will really make it big by doing this and get long-term results of course you won't because by doing this you
are creating a win-lose situation in order to make it big you should always think of a win-win outcome for everyone
you should think more about adding values and benefits that you can bring to your customers doing this will
automatically make your profits and hence yourself big I see a lot of people having mentality that in order for them to
win someone else has to lose which is called the scarcity mentality in other words which means if you get it I won't but
in reality that is plenty out here for everyone we just need to develop the mentality which is called the abundance
mentality and always try to create win-win outcome in any situation business or agreement for the best results habit
number 5 seek first to understand then to be understood let's say you go to an optometrist and tell him that you have
been trouble seeing clearly so he takes off his glasses hence them to you and says you should try these they have
been working for me for years so you put them on but it only makes the problem worse now what are the chances you
would go back to that optometrist yet in our everyday interactions with others we do the same thing we prescribe a
solution before we diagnose the problem clearly we start criticizing people without understanding the feelings we
focus on what the other people said and react thinking how can he say that when our main question should be why
did he said like that and what was the real feelings behind it so before you can offer advice suggest solutions or
effectively interact with another person in any way you must seek to deeply understand them and their perspective
through empathy dick listening you should not listen with the intent to reply but rather understand the most
important point is that the person should feel you understood when you will start doing this people will also start
understanding you habit number six synergy if you put two plants close together their roots will commingle and
improve the quality of the soil so that both plants will grow better then they would have on their own principle of
synergy encourages us to team up with people rather than fighting or trying to take each other down example there
was a tree with apples on it two men were trying to pick apples from it but they were too short to reach them so one
men got about the second and peeled all the apples this was the use of synergy like this example if we synergize with
people we can obtain better results increase our capabilities tremendously and have much better chances in
reaching our goals habit number seven sharpen the saw once a man was trying to cut down a tree but even after
putting a lot of effort he was not able to complete his task there was a lumberjack who was watching him and after
understanding his struggle he came to him and gave him an advice that he should first sharpen the saw as his saw
was not sharp enough to cut down the tree after listening this the man replied but that will take time now you might
find the reply stupid but we are also somewhat like this man only we can't take out 30 minutes from my day to exercise
so that we can have a good health we can't read a book for 15 minutes to improve our knowledge and then we
shamelessly complain that why we have such kind of a life habit number seven is focused on improving yourself or
taking time to sharpen the saw one of the best things you can do with your time is to spend it on improvising yourself
continuously to be effective we must devote our time in improving ourselves physically spiritually mentally and
socially which will help us to practice the remaining six habits as it surrounds all the other habits and make each one
possible by preserving and enhancing the greatest asset we have that is our self these concepts are taken from the
book seven Habits of Highly Effective People which is again one of my favorites hit like if you found the habits effect
to come into your views share to spread the knowledge and such Cripe for getting more habits that will help you to
become an effective person
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