Why People Cyberbully and How To Prevent It
Why People Cyberbully and How To Prevent It
Bullying is an action of abusing others. This unethical action has now evolved
become a serious issue in our modern society where everyone now has social media
account such as Facebook, Twitter and Instagram. Nowadays, the most popular
platform for a person to cyberbully is by social media platform. All these social
platforms are free and easy for a person to create and run an account. This unlimited
access has given them a way to create a fake account with fake identity. Hence, this
paper is about how cyberbullying occurs in our modern society and three ways to
Anderson (2018), it is found that 59% of teenagers in U.S have been bullied of abused
online. Those teenagers also said that it is very problematic for people at their age. At
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the same time, most of the victims think that teachers, social media companies and
politicians are failing to acknowledge this problem. Other than that, Schneider, Smith
and O’Donnell (2013) have done a research on 25 areas in Boston and communities
there have reported that cyberbullying in high school is increasing steadily from 15%
in 2006 to 20% in 2010. While school bullying remains the same in the range of 26-
28% from 2006 to 2010. These reports are proof that cyberbullying act is rising.
2016, p.54), Cyberbully victims are experiencing a greater levels of depression than
offline bullying. Unlike school bullying, once the victim gets home they are safe from
the bullying for a day, but with cyberbullying the victim might continue to get verbal
abuse in a form of text messages or emails wherever they are. As can be viewed from
the above findings and reports, it can be seen that cyberbullying is rising and must be
Cyberbully could happen due to many causes. One of them is the cyberbullies
actions are motivated by anger and revenge towards someone. According to Gordon
(2019), the cyberbully feel justified in doing so because they want others to feel the
pain they have been through. They may be satisfied to cyberbully others because they
think it is a justification for what they have experienced before. In addition, bullying
other people makes them feel dominant and have power on somebody else. According
of students who cyberbully said that they do not feel guilty or embarrassed after the
bullying (Whitehead, 2018). This statistical evidence supported that heartless quality
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others because they think it is the only thing they can do to pay attention to themselves
because they need it most (Radwan, n.d). Furthermore, people feel that they are lonely
and try to attract as much attention as they can either in good or bad manner. In
general, people need other’s attention as a medium for them to find moral support and
sharing problems. They will react in a negative way to their attention if they do not
Other than that, cyberbullies also cave under peer pressure. According to
Gordon (2019), other people will most likely to pressure and encourage cyberbullying
to others. This may include encouraging them to join everything bad from online hate
lists to mean social media posts. Because a person wants to feel accepted and valued
by their friends, they will do anything include something they would not otherwise do.
They start bullying and joining a group of people who did because they do not want to
Children are scared if they do not join in spreading hate and mean words or make fun
of others, then they are the one who will receive that (Gordon, 2019).
it might not hurt people physically but online bully likes blackmailing or hate words can
affect people’s emotion and mental health. This problem will give big effects to the
bullies and victims. The victims of cyberbullying are most likely losing interest in
interacting with family and friends. They often feel that life is hopeless and
(Gordon, 2019).
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There are several solutions that are seem possible to solve the cyberbullying
problem from continuously happening in this world. The first possible solution to solve
legislation required every school district to develop anti-bullying policies. Any school
that implemented this policy needs to provide specific information for their students to
report and response to any cyberbullying acts”. As a result from the information given
on how to report and respond to cyberbullying, students could have the chance to
prevent the cyberbullying incidents from happening when they quickly report and
respond to it to the right authorities with proper way. Most schools that implemented
the anti-cyberbullying policies had informed their students the correct procedures for
this case, school is the main authority that should take action in implementing anti-
cyberbullying policies. Hence, school authority could teach their students and provide
full information on how to report and respond to cyberbullying through teachers and
staffs. Therefore, staff and teachers should be trained to help their students that are
facing cyberbullying. This can be seen like in Massachusetts, after the legislation had
been passed, some schools noted a rise in reports of cyberbullying that showed
the legislation, most schools had incorporated a brief training on cyberbullying into
cyberbullying that would increase public awareness about the harmful effects of this
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Cyber Threats and Harassment (PeopleACT), an initiative by the Malaysian Centre for
Constitutionalism and Human Rights (MCCHR) (Brown, 2017). In this modern world,
Internet could be one of the best platform to work on this campaign. It is not impossible
that every Internet user would have the chance to be exposed about this campaign
when they surf the Internet. Thereby, public would be more alert and aware about
cyberbullying from happening. According to Brown (2017), the goal of this campaign
is to raise awareness about the harmful effects of cyberbullying and the importance of
addition, to raise awareness through the project, PeopleACT has conducted year-
action for this campaign. The responsible organization could organise a program or
campaign that would help cyberbullying victims and create awareness among public
has leadership and character program that reach out to teenagers which would help
them to build character and avoid from being cyberbullied. People Against Cyber
Last but not least, parents should monitor the usage of Internet among their
children to make sure their children are not being cyberbullied or cyberbullying others.
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others and avoid themselves from cyberbullying another Internet user (Hinduja &
Patchin, 2014). Parents who monitor their children’s activities would influence their
children exploration on cyberspace to avoid their children from feel offended. Since
parents are not always available to monitor their children’s activities, they need to
cultivate a frank communication with the children so that the children will look for them
if they feel something unpleasant on Internet (Hinduja & Patchin, 2014). In all, parents
should play a main role in monitoring and exposing appropriate behaviour on Internet
to their children. Parents could teach the children some good manners when surfing
also could monitor their children’s Internet activities by using Parental Monitoring
software to make sure they are in safe condition. It is important that parents pay even
more attention to their child's devices usage to ensure that they have internalized the
lesson and act responsibly on an ongoing basis. The monitoring can be done using
2014).
From the three proposed solution, the best and most effective solution is
parents or adult should monitor the Internet usage of their children. Therefore, by
parents can know their children Internet activities. Hence, the inappropriate activity
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these tools, apps or services that parents can rely on in an attempt to keep their
children safe. Such controls enable parents, for instance, to prevent children from
Despite the parents being care about their child, the drawbacks of this solution is, it
may break the children’s trust towards their parents. Zaman and Nouwen (2016) stated
that the use of parental controls has repercussions that not only involve opportunities
with respect to children’s safety, but also threats that affect the trust relationship
between the parent and children. After all, we cannot be so sure that parental guidance
is the most effective ways among others solution, but it still a good way to reduce
cyberbullying among children. Most children are more likely to obey to their parents
All in all, this essay discusses how cyberbullying occur in our modern society
and three ways how to reduce it which are implementing an anti-cyberbullying policies
because they mainly use social media as a medium and social media is very common
among us. Hence, the possibilities are high for us or people around us to get
cyberbullied. Cyberbully can reach large audience and their action can go viral
cyberbully. The proposed solutions are there as a cleanser for a toxic behavior in our
modern society because bully can leave a bad effect on someone’s life. Therefore, we
hope that monitoring children’s activity on Internet can be applied quickly so that the
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