Funeral Manual
Funeral Manual
Masonic Funerals
and
Evening Memorial Services
as prescribed by the
of VIRGINIA
2002
Instructions Governing
Masonic Funerals
and
Evening Memorial Services
as prescribed by the
of VIRGINIA
2002
Instructions Governing
Masonic Funerals and
Evening Memorial
Services
A Lodge in the unavoidable absence of its Worshipful
Master and Wardens, may be opened by a Past Master or Past
Warden of the Lodge, or in their absence, by any Past Master
or Past Warden affiliated with any Lodge in Virginia, A.F. &
A.M., for the purpose of burying a deceased Brother or holding
an Evening Memorial Service. The same permission also
applies to the convening of a Lodge of Sorrow previously
opened by the Master of the Lodge.
It is not proper or regular for the Master of a Lodge or his
designee to perform the burial service or either of the Evening
Memorial Services without opening a Master Masons’ Lodge or
convening a Lodge of Sorrow.
Only deceased Master Masons, in good standing, are entitled
to a Masonic burial or Evening Memorial Service. Non-
affiliation disqualifies a Brother from receiving a Masonic
burial or Evening Memorial Service.
Only Master Masons, in good standing, can participate in a
Masonic Burial Service or Evening Memorial Service.
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the funeral director if the Lodge does not possess one of its
own.
At the Graveside Service, the White Leather Apron is to be
placed directly on the head of the casket by the one conducting
the service. It is suggested that two small pieces of double-
backed tape be placed on the back of the Apron to prevent wind
from blowing it from the casket.
At either Evening Memorial Service, the White Leather
Apron is to be placed on the edge of the casket, nearest the
person conducting the service.
At either Evening Memorial Service, when the body or ashes
is not present, a table shall be placed near the person
conducting the service. A flower, vase, or picture of the
deceased shall be placed on the table prior to the service. The
White Leather Apron will be placed on the table by the person
conducting the service.
At both the Graveside Service and either of the Evening
Memorial Services, the White Glove and the Evergreen are to
be placed on the Apron.
The Brethren do not deposit or drop a Sprig of Evergreen in
the grave or on the casket.
The Tiler will stand to the right and back of the Wardens at
either the Graveside or Evening Memorial Service WITHOUT
his sword and does participate in giving the “Grand Honors.”
The oldest member (if practical) of the Lodge, carrying the
Holy Bible, Square and Compasses, standing at the foot of the
casket or table and in front of the Senior Warden, (at either the
Graveside or Evening Memorial Service), will hold the Holy
Bible, Square and Compasses at all times and will not
participate in giving the “Grand Honors.”
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GRAVESIDE SERVICES
THE MASONIC FUNERAL SERVICE
If Lodge of Sorrow Has Not Been Opened
The Brethren being assembled at the Lodge room, the
presiding Officer opens a Master Masons’ Lodge in Due and
Ancient Form and having stated the purpose of the meeting,
gives the Brethren strict charge upon their deportment during
the procession and ceremonies. The Lodge will then proceed, in
a body (if possible) to the funeral home, Chapel, Church, home
of the deceased Brother or place of interment—See diagram
under “Order of Procession.”
ORDER OF PROCESSION
MARSHAL
MASTER MASONS
PAST MASTERS
TILER
STEWARDS
TREASURER SECRETARY
CHAPLAIN
THE MASTER
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OPENING
Worshipful Master:
Brethren, we will now proceed to open a Lodge of Sorrow.
(Three raps.) Let us pray.
Chaplain:
Grand Architect of the Universe, we of the Masonic
Fraternity, having dedicated our lives to the formation of true
living stones for Thy Temple, ask Thy blessing on our work
that we may be better enabled to serve Thee. May we always
work according to Thy grand design. (Response) So mote it
be.—Amen.
Worshipful Master:
Brother Senior Warden, it is my order that a Lodge of
Sorrow be now opened for the purpose of paying the last tribute
of respect to those Brethren of this Lodge whom death will take
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Senior Warden:
Brother Junior Warden, it is the order of the Worshipful
Master that a Lodge of Sorrow be now opened for the purpose
of paying the last tribute of respect to those Brethren of this
Lodge whom death will take from us and for honoring those
members of other Lodges as an act of courtesy when so
requested. This you will report to the Brethren that they having
due notice thereof may govern themselves accordingly.
Junior Warden:
Brethren, take due notice thereof and let it be accordingly so
done.
Worshipful Master:
Brethren, let us apply the symbolic tools of Masonry to our
daily lives that we may be tried and found to be true as living
stones and thus render ourselves worthy for that house not made
with hands, eternal in the heavens. Accordingly I declare this
Lodge of Sorrow open, to remain open until my successor shall
have been duly elected; and to be closed as my last order of
business as Worshipful Master of this Lodge. (One rap) Brother
Junior Deacon, inform the Tiler.
Junior Deacon:
Brother Tiler, the Lodge of Sorrow is now open.
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CLOSING
The Worshipful Master of any Virginia Lodge shall at the
end of the term for which he was elected (the last stated
communication of his term) close the Lodge of Sorrow, which
has previously been opened during his tenure as Worshipful
Master.
Worshipful Master:
Brethren, we will now proceed to close this Lodge of Sorrow.
(Three raps) Let us pray.
Chaplain:
Great Architect of the Universe, while we mourn the passing
of our departed Brethren, let us learn well the lessons of death.
Make us aware that time is passing swiftly and this separation
from our departed Brethren is of short duration. Let the loss that
we have sustained increase our affections for those who are yet
spared. (Response) So mote it be.—Amen.
Worshipful Master:
Brother Senior Warden, it is my order that the labors of this
Lodge of Sorrow be now ended, to be resumed at the will and
pleasure of the incoming Master and his Officers. This you will
communicate to the Junior Warden in the South that the Brethren
having due notice thereof may govern themselves accordingly.
Senior Warden:
Brother Junior Warden, it is the order of the Worshipful
Master that the labors of this Lodge of Sorrow be now ended, to
be resumed at the will and pleasure of the incoming Master and
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his officers. This you will report to the Brethren that they,
having due notice thereof, may govern themselves accordingly.
Junior Warden:
Brethren, take due notice thereof and let it be accordingly so
done.
Worshipful Master:
Brethren, may we be ever aware of our approaching fate as
this alone can bring seemingly major crises into proper
prospective, thereby creating that attitude of peace and harmony
for which we strive. Accordingly I declare this Lodge of Sorrow
closed. (One rap) Brother Junior Deacon, inform the Tiler.
Junior Deacon:
Brother Tiler, the Lodge of Sorrow is now closed.
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Senior Warden:
Low Twelve! The sun has set over the graves of our beloved
Brethren who have laid aside the working tools of life,
Worshipful.
Worshipful Master:
Brother Junior Warden, whither shall we look?
Junior Warden:
Toward the East, where the rising sun, the Glory of the Lord
reminds us of that which was lost, and is found with God, with
Whom do live the spirits of just men made perfect, Worshipful.
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Response:
So mote it be. (one rap)
Worshipful Master:
Brother Senior Warden, what solemn duty should we now
perform.
Senior Warden:
We should recall in loving remembrance the names of all the
Brethren who have passed to higher service above, Worshipful.
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Worshipful Master:
Brother Secretary, you will advance to the Altar and there
read the names of all of the Brethren who, since our last
Memorial Service, have finished their earthly pilgrimage and
entered into eternal rest. (three raps)
The Lodge stands with right hands over the heart while the names
are read.
Worshipful Master:
Brethren, let us bow our heads in silent reverence to the
memory of these, our departed Brethren.
(During this period of reading and silent reverence, the lights of the
Lodge should be lowered. At the sound of the gavel, the Brethren will
be seated and the lights raised to full brilliance again.)
Scripture Reading:
(Suggested passages—Psalm 23 or 121: Ecclesiastes 12:1-7)
Hymn:
O God Our Help in Ages Past
Address:
A Memorial Address may be delivered, if desired.
Worshipful Master:
Brother Chaplain, you will advance to the Altar and there
offer up the prayers of Commemoration and Dedication. (three
raps)
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PRAYER OF COMMEMORATION
Chaplain:
Almighty God, with whom do live the spirits of them that
depart hence in the Lord, and with Whom the souls of the
faithful, after they are delivered from the burden of the flesh,
are in joy and felicity; we praise and magnify Thy Holy Name
for all Thy servants who have finished their course and kept the
faith, beseeching Thee that it may please Thee, of Thy gracious
goodness, shortly to accomplish the number of Thine elect, and
to hasten Thy kingdom, that we, with all those that are departed
in the true faith of Thy Holy Name, may have our perfect
consummation and bliss, both in body and soul, in Thy eternal
and everlasting glory. Hear our prayer, O God, and let our cry
come unto Thee.—Amen.
PRAYER OF DEDICATION
Almighty Father, by Whose grace we have life and in Whose
light we see light, mercifully grant that this hour of memory
may be a mount of vision, from which new light shall fall upon
our fleeting days; that we may think of our lives as sent from
Thee, on Thy Errand for service Thou has appointed.
Reverently, O God, we give ourselves to Thee in new
dedication.
Fill our minds with light and our hearts with love, that we
may serve Thee with patient faith and joyous confidence. Build
our lives into Thy Temple of spiritual fellowship and keep us as
Brethren steadfast in that fellowship.
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Make our days bright with Thy presence, rich in the fruits of
the spirit and tender in human ministry, that our lives may be
fragrant with happiness.
Use as Thou wilt, our hands to do Thy work, our lips to
speak Thy truth, our lives to be gospels of Thy love and mercy;
and to Thee be honor and glory, thanksgiving and adoration,
world without end.— Amen.
BENEDICTION
Chaplain:
The Lord bless us, and keep us. The Lord make his face to
shine upon us and be gracious to us. The Lord lift up His
countenance upon us, and give us peace, both now and
evermore.
ORDER OF PROCESSION
THE MASONIC FUNERAL SERVICE
(Graveside)
All will wear Masonic Aprons and white gloves.
At the cemetery the Marshal instructs the Brethren to form lines beginning at the
rear of the Funeral Coach allowing room to remove the casket. Note: Figure 1
presumes a grave site to the right of the funeral coach. The lines would be formed
appropriately for a grave site to the left.
(GRAVE SITE)
TL♦
MM♦ ♦MM
MM♦ ♦MM
PM♦ ♦PM
PM♦ ♦PM
JS♦ ♦SS
SEC♦ ♦TR
JW♦ ♦SW
GL♦ ♦SD
ML♦ ♦WM
CH♦ ♦JD
PB PB PB
Funeral Casket
Coach
PB PB PB
FIGURE 1
As the pallbearers and casket pass through the lines (above) the procession forms
(see Figure 2). The procession of Lodge officers and Brethren follow the casket to
the grave site.
PB PB PB
MM MM PM PM JS SEC JW JD Casket Grave
TILER GL ML CH WM Site
MM MM PM PM SS TR SW SD PB PB PB
FIGURE 2
The Brethren and Officers will form at the grave site (see Figure 3) for the service.
The Bearer of the Great Lights will not participate in Grand Honors.
♦MM ♦MM
JD♦ H F ♦JW ♦SEC ♦JS ♦TILER
WM♦ E O ♦GL
SD♦ A O ♦SW ♦TR ♦SS ♦ML
CH♦ D T ♦MM ♦MM
♦PM ♦PM
FIGURE 3
At the conclusion of the service all will remain quietly in place until the family
members have departed the grave site.
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IN LODGE
Master:
What man is he that liveth and shall not see death? Shall he
deliver his soul from the hand of the grave?
Response:
Man walketh in a vain shadow; he heapeth up riches, and
cannot tell who shall gather them.
Master:
When he dieth, he shall carry nothing away; his glory shall
not descend after him.
Response:
Naked he came into the world, and naked he must return.
Master:
The Lord gave and the Lord hath taken away, blessed be the
name of the Lord.
Let us live and die like the righteous, that our last end may
be like his.
Response:
God is our God forever and ever; he will be our guide unto
death.
The Master then has the name, age, and day of death of the
deceased recorded upon the Roll, and says:
Master:
Almighty Father! In Thy hands we leave with humble
submission the soul of our deceased Brother.
ALL:
The will of God is accomplished! So mote it be—Amen.
(The Master then instructs the Secretary to deposit the Roll in the
Archives and repeats the following prayer.)
Master:
Most glorious God! Author of all good, and giver of all
mercy, pour down Thy blessings upon us, and strengthen our
solemn engagements with the ties of sincere affection. May the
present instance of mortality remind us of our approaching fate,
and draw our attention towards Thee, the only refuge in time of
need! That when the awful moment shall arrive that we are
about to quit this transitory scene, the enlivening prospects of
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Thy mercy may dispel the gloom of death; and after our
departure hence in peace, and in Thy favor, may we be
received into Thine everlasting kingdom, to enjoy, in union
with the souls of our departed friends, the just rewards of a
pious and virtuous life.—Amen!
but, while time and opportunity permit, seek to prepare for our
great change.
Let us, while in this state of existence, support with
propriety the character of our profession, advert to the nature of
our solemn ties and pursue with assiduity the sacred tenets of
our order. Above all, let us seek the favor of the Eternal God,
whose goodness and power know no bounds, at whose bar of
Infinite Justice and Mercy we must all so soon appear.
Master:
May we be true and faithful, and may we live in love and die
in peace.
Response:
So mote it be.
Master:
May we profess what is good, and always act agreeable to
our profession.
Response:
So mote it be.
Master:
May the Lord bless us and prosper us, and may all our good
intentions be crowned with success.
Response:
So mote it be.
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Master:
Glory be to God in the highest; on earth peace and good will
toward men.
Response:
So mote it be, now, from henceforth, and forever—Amen!
Master:
This Lamb-Skin or White Leather Apron is an emblem of
Innocence, and the time-honored badge of a Free and Accepted
Mason—more ancient than the Golden Fleece or Roman Eagle;
more honorable than the Star and Garter, when worthily worn.
This emblem I now deposit (in the grave) (with the body) (with
the spirit) of our deceased Brother. By it we are reminded that
through the universal dominion of death our Brother has
finished his earthly labor, and that his account now rests with
his God.
GRAND HONORS
ALL:
“His Spirit to God—His memory in our hearts—His body to
the earth.” (three times)
Master:
In conformity to an ancient and honored custom of Free and
Accepted Masons, we have assembled here to offer to the
memory of our deceased Brother the last tribute of our
affections, thereby demonstrating the sincerity of our past
esteem, and our steadfast attachment to the principles of our
Order.
May we who survive him anticipate our approaching fate,
and be more strongly united in the ties of union and friendship,
that, during the short space allotted to our present existence, we
may wisely and usefully employ our time, and in the reciprocal
intercourse of kind and friendly acts promote the welfare and
happiness of each other.
The Master then, (strewing earth three times on the Coffin), says:
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Response:
So mote it be—Amen!
Response:
So mote it be—Amen!
BENEDICTION
“Into Thy hands and keeping, O Lord, we commit our
Brother and ourselves. May we receive light to guide us,
courage to support us and love to unite us, now and
forevermore. (Response) So mote it be.— Amen.”
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ORDER OF PROCESSION
(Evening Memorial Service)
MARSHAL
MASTER MASONS
PAST MASTERS
TILER
JS & SS
TREASURER & SECRETARY
SW & JW
GREAT LIGHTS
CHAPLAIN
JD-MASTER-SD
All will pass the casket from head to foot and follow directions of Marshal up to and including the
Bearer of the Great Lights.
The Tiler, Stewards, Secretary, Treasurer, Wardens and the Bearer of the Great Lights will position
themselves at the foot of the casket with the Great Lights in front of the Junior and Senior Wardens.
The Chaplain and the Deacons escorting the Worshipful Master will pass the casket from the foot to
the head and position themselves at the head of the casket. The Senior Deacon will be on the right of
the Worshipful Master, the Junior Deacon on the left of the Worshipful Master and the Chaplain to
the right of the Senior Deacon.
If it will not obstruct the view of anyone we will all remain standing during the entire service. If it
would obstruct the view of anyone we will be seated and arise at the direction of the Marshal who
will direct us to our seats.
At the conclusion of the service all will remain until the Worshipful Master has spoken to the widow
and or family. He will then lead us out in reverse order of the procession.
The Bearer of the Great Lights will not participate in Grand Honors.
H F
E O
A O
D T
JD♦ ♦JW ♦SEC ♦JS ♦TILER
WM♦ ♦GL
SD♦ ♦SW ♦TR ♦SS
CH♦
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ORDER OF PROCESSION
(Evening Memorial Service)
(Cremation or No Remains)
MARSHAL
MASTER MASONS
PAST MASTERS
TILER
JS & SS
TREASURER & SECRETARY
SW & JW
GREAT LIGHTS
CHAPLAIN
JD-MASTER-SD
In instances of cremation or there are no remains, a table should be provided to receive the Apron,
Glove and Evergreen.
All will pass the table from left to right (as if from head to foot of a casket) and follow directions of
the Marshal up to and including the Bearer of the Great Lights.
The Tiler, Stewards, Secretary, Treasurer, Wardens and the Bearer of the Great Lights will position
themselves at the right of the table (see diagram) with the Great Lights in front of the Junior and
Senior Wardens.
The Chaplain and the Deacons escorting the Worshipful Master will pass the table from right to left
and position themselves to the left of the table (see diagram). The Junior Deacon will be at the left of
the Worshipful Master, the Senior Deacon at the right of the Worshipful Master and the Chaplain to
the right of the Senior Deacon.
If it will not obstruct the view of anyone, we will all remain standing during the entire service. If it
would obstruct the view of anyone we will be seated and arise at the direction of the Marshal.
At the conclusion of the service, all will remain until the Worshipful Master has spoken to the
widow and or family. He will then lead us out in reverse order of the procession.
The Bearer of the Great Lights will not participate in Grand Honors.
Worshipful Master:
Friends and Brethren, we who are Masons have assembled on
this occasion to express our respect and esteem for our Brother
who has passed beyond our mortal sight and to share with those
near and dear to him our belief in the immortality of the soul.
In this time of sorrow, when we all need comfort and
consolation, let us turn reverently to God who, in the midst of
the trials and tribulations that are a part of life, can alone endue
us with that quietness of spirit and that peace of mind and heart
which the world can neither give nor take away. Let us pray.
Chaplain:
O God, our Father in Heaven; the giver of life and light and
love, our help and solace in times of trial and sorrow. Thou has
assured us that when we walk through the valley of the shadow
of death, Thou art with us. Thy rod and Thy staff comfort us.
Thou art our light and our salvation, our refuge and our strength
in time of trouble.
We thank Thee for the life of our Brother. We thank Thee
that he was one of our fellowship and that we were privileged to
labor with him in the mystic ties of brotherhood. We are grateful
to Thee for the memories of him which we shall carry always in
our hearts. We thank Thee for all that he has meant to those who
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were near and dear to him through the ties of family and
friendship.
Above all we are grateful to Thee for teaching us that, while
the body is mortal, the soul is immortal. Though the outward
form we knew and loved be removed from our sight, we have
the assurance that Thou has taken to Thyself his soul, which is
the enduring essence of life. This conviction Thou hast
implanted in us through Thy Holy Word, which is the Great
Light of Masonry.
We earnestly beseech Thee that this short time which we
spend together may renew and strengthen our convictions and
hope. Let Thy peace abide with us now and lead us ever in the
paths of righteousness. In Thy name we make our prayer.—
Amen.
Worshipful Master:
From time immemorial it has been the custom of Masons to
assemble with the family and friends of a departed Brother to
honor his memory and to voice our sympathy to those whom he
loved and who loved him. The message we bring is one of the
triumph of life over death, the victory of hope over despair.
Masonry has come down from the distant past. It uses the
tools of the builder’s trade as emblems and symbols to teach
Masons how to build character and moral stature. It teaches
service to God, to a Brother, and to all mankind. It seeks
constantly to build the temple of the soul and thus fit us for that
house not made with hands, eternal in the heavens. Masonry is a
fellowship that unites Masons in friendship and good will. It
teaches the spiritual values of life that lie beyond the physical
senses.
Masonry confronts the fact of death with the greater fact of
Faith in the immortality of the soul. Masons believe sincerely
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Secretary:
Here the Secretary of the Lodge should give the Masonic
biography of the Brother. When and in what Lodge he was made
a Master Mason; what offices, if any, he had held; and special
committee services he had rendered and such other items of
Masonic interest as might be appropriate.
Worshipful Master:
When our Brother labored with us in Masonic attire he wore
a white apron which he was taught is an emblem of innocence
and the badge of a Free and Accepted Mason. By it he was
constantly reminded of that purity of life and that rectitude of
conduct so necessary to his gaining admittance into the Celestial
Lodge above. He will now wear that apron forever as the
emblem of the virtues it represents.
(The Master holds up the apron by the two upper corners with the
flap toward him, and places it over the edge of the casket or on the
table.)
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And now to those who shared with our Brother the intimate
ties of family and friendship, we tender our affectionate
sympathy. Our hearts respond to your hearts in your hour of
grief. We trust that these affirmations of faith, in which our
Brother shared, may speak to you and inspire you to live with
hope and courage. May you always remember that the God and
Father of us all is a loving God, a compassionate God whose
ear is ever open to the cry of the distressed. Let us pray.
Chaplain:
Eternal and Everlasting God, we look to Thee in faith and
confidence, knowing that Thy love has power to bring comfort
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