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Introduction
The relationship between friendship and politics in medieval Europe can appear to be
fundamentally different from that experienced in modern societies. Friendship has, for some
time, been recognised by medievalists as having an integral place in the formation of social bonds
and political groupings and as contributing to the creation and maintenance of political order (see
Althoff 1990; Le Jan 1995; Mullett 1997; Haseldine ed. 1999). While this has parallels with
emerging research into political friendship in modern societies, the ideology of friendship in the
Middle Ages and its perceived ethical relation to politics were very different. We are also only
just beginning to understand the nature of the structures created by friendship bonds and their
practical impacts on political activity in the Middle Ages. This paper proposes a model for
political friendship as it functioned in the European Middle Ages, as this is emerging from current
research into friendship networks, which, it is hoped, might stand as a basis for comparison with
friendship structures and modes observed in other periods and regions, contributing thereby to the
longer history of the experience of friendship and politics currently being developed through an
increasing number of inter-disciplinary and multi-period projects and publications (see Classen
and Sandidge eds. 2010; Descharmes et al. eds. 2011). This is distinct from the study of the
theoretical and literary tradition of medieval friendship and from that of particular relationships
and their emotional content, related but separate areas which have generated extensive literatures.
This paper will assess some of the methods developed by medievalists to analyse friendship
structures and will also suggest that the apparent radical discontinuities between pre-modern and
modern experiences may relate more to changes in the articulation of idealised friendship and its
ethical framing than to fundamentally different experiences of friendly bonds in practice.
furthered positive moral ends in society, were held to be unchanging and, as divinely inspired
bonds among the virtuous, could exist independently of, or predate, personal acquaintance (see
Haseldine 1994; Goetz 1999). Thus, for example, in the Middle Ages professions of friendship to
virtuous strangers in letters were not uncommon and friendships between individuals and
institutions were routine; at the same time betrayals of common interests were held to show that a
supposedly true friendship had been false all along (Haseldine ed. 1999, pp.xvii-xviii; cf. Saurette
2010a, p.293). Emotional compatibility was something which true and false friendship could
share equally and was not diagnostic of a 'genuine' relationship. This means that the sources tend
to conceal the different origins of friendship relationships, articulating them all in similar ideal
terms and thus making it difficult to detect different degrees of affection or acquaintance behind
formally professed friendships. While, therefore, there was an acknowledgement of profound
tensions between ideal and real friendships, these were very different from those which concern
modern theorists, such as favouritism or nepotism.
Recently, students of modern society have sought to understand friendships in politics
either in a more positive ethical light or from an analytically neutral position, developing models
of embeddedness, trust and social capital to accord friendship an integral and structuring, rather
than a marginal and corrupting, role in professional, social and political relationships, and
questioning modern assumptions about the essentially 'private' nature of friendship or the
existence of a 'pure' or 'genuine' sphere of personal bonds separately from other social or political
contexts (see Lyon, Möllering and Saunders eds. 2012; Castigilione, Van Deth and Wolleb eds.
2008). Friendship is increasingly seen as an important part of our understanding of the political
in many modern contexts (for a recent critique and references, see Devere 2011). Medievalists
have had, in some ways, to approach the question from the opposite direction, using sources
which articulate friendship as an inherently political phenomenon, transcending, sublimating or
existing outside personal relationships.
human emotions, an argument which was also related in part to important debates over the
medieval origins of Western individualism (McGuire 1988). Unlike Southern, McGuire did seek
to identify personal emotional bonds and feelings on the basis of the language used; he also
identified such relationships as genuine, in contrast to the instrumental relationships, lacking
emotional content, which were also evident in the sources and whereby writers sought material
aid or advantage. These are categories which, as noted above, are not explicitly recognised in
medieval theory, although this in itself does not argue against our ability to detect such
relationships, and the concepts of 'affective' and 'instrumental' friendships were to become an
important part of the analysis of medieval friendship. In effect, while Southern had concluded
that affective relationships were not semantically distinguished from other types in the written
sources, McGuire sought to show that they could be. Such linguistic or semantic approaches,
exploring the degree to which it is possible to determine genuine emotion or personal feelings in
the light of linguistic and genre conventions, have been refined and developed as researchers have
attempted to further our understanding of the relationship between language and affectivity (e.g.
Canatella 2007; DeMayo 2007).
By contrast, C. Stephen Jaeger identified friendship as part of a wider tradition of love
which was primarily public, was related to outward behaviour rather than inner feelings, was
ethical not romantic, and had a social function in relation to honour and reputation. This
'ennobling love' existed distinctly from ideas about erotic or romantic love and dominated ancient
and medieval discourses, as romantic or erotic love dominates the modern (Jaeger 1999). Both
can be genuine and engage the emotions, and to take private emotional compatibility as definitive
of genuine love or friendship is not to recognise a universal human experience but to impose a
modern idealising discourse. Similarly, Gillian Knight's semantic analysis of one of the most
extensively studied and debated correspondences of the Middle Ages, that between Bernard of
Clairvaux, the leading spokesman of the Cistercian Order, and Peter the Venerable, abbot of
Cluny and head of Europe's largest monastic congregation, takes the letters not as simple
documents of a personal relationship but as strategic manipulations of the literary tradition of
friendship whereby public and institutional conflicts were mediated through a language of private
friendship (Knight 2002). The relations and rivalries between these two men and their orders
have long been seen as dominating the religious politics of the twelfth century and Knight's study
effectively countered the traditional view that this was simply a case of private or personal
feelings spilling out and influencing politics.
The concepts of instrumentality and affectivity have also been further refined. Historians
had tended not to use the original concept, developed in the transactional analysis approaches of
sociologists in the 1960s, which defined transactions between those involved in relationships as
either communicative (exchanges of information) or instrumental (exchanges of goods and
services), but rather to characterise whole relationships as affective or instrumental (an exception
is Mullett 1997). The notion of a purely affective sphere of friendship existing outside, or
independently of, other social contexts such as shared interest, common economic experience or
allegiance, had been questioned by sociologists since Granovetter's early, seminal studies of
embeddedness (e.g. Granovetter 1985). Nevertheless, the recognition that bonds which may
originate in 'instrumental' contexts, such as political allegiances or professional cooperation, can
engender genuine affections, has only recently begun to influence historical analyses of
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friendship (see Jaeger 1999; Saurette 2005; Haseldine 2011). The same point has been made
about exclusively or primarily textual relationships, such as exchanges of letters with little or no
basis in personal acquaintance (Saurette 2010b; cf. 'textual emotions' in Mullett 2003, p.72).
It has also been shown that not all affectionate or intimate relationships were described as
friendships in formal epistolary or diplomatic contexts, while many bonds which were not
personally close were so-described (Haseldine 2006, pp. 249-53; 2011, p.257). The evidence thus
indicates a more complex, non-exclusive dynamic between affectivity and instrumentality in
historically documented relationships. Furthermore, and as in any society, most individual
relationships were multiplex (e.g. Mullett 1988; 1997, pp.164-6), involving more than one source
of obligation, where, for example, kin might also be allies, while most networks of formal
friendship were also only one of a number of overlapping networks in which an individual or
institution might participate and which were often articulated in the same or similar language as
friendship (e.g. Ysebaert 2001, pp.436-51). These included patronage and kinship, but also very
important in relation to friendship were master-pupil or intellectual relationships (e.g. Mews and
Crossley eds. 2011; Grünbart 2005) and monastic confraternities, prayer associations and
commemoration agreements (e.g. Althoff 1992; Jamroziak 2005, pp.203-18).
Historians have thus identified the language of friendship as evidence of effective bonds
in all of the different contexts in which it is encountered, and as a meaningful, not a clichéd or
empty, language simply because it does not reflect close personal intimacy. It has been seen to
function as a language of inclusion, articulating and promoting group or institutional identity in
ways which transcended simple instrumental strategies. The ethical norms it conveyed were in
effect internalised by actors and affected their actions and their emotions, forming a currency of
political discourse by which to critique behaviour and which was therefore effective beyond the
sphere of personal likings. This applied whether the ideals were honoured or betrayed in any
particular instances, and in this respect it functioned like other shared ideologies in other periods
(Haseldine 1994). Furthermore, if the language were empty, and its use transparent, it could not
have functioned socially in the specific ways evident in the sources, mediating honour and
prestige (Jaeger 1999, pp.19-24, 150-4). More recently, Marc Saurette has developed the idea of
affective strategies, manipulations, for political and institutional ends, of a love which was
grounded in an emotional engagement which was genuine but which arose from collective or
institutional identity, applying to the Cluniac monastic congregation Barbara Rosenwein's
concept of 'emotional communities' (Saurette 2005, pp.27-168; cf. Rosenwein 2002).
The medieval discourse of ideal friendship, then, cannot be dismissed as platitude; it
reflected the ways in which personal relations were seen to interact with politics. Spiritual and
idealised personal friendship is not in opposition to 'instrumental' forms but functioned to provide
the ideological underpinning or shared ethical understanding which allowed friendship to be used
in the pragmatic or consensus-building contexts in which we encounter it. Rather than affective
and instrumental friendships, it might be more accurate to distinguish 'formal' friendships, those
relationships explicitly described as friendships in the sources, from any 'informal' friendships
which we might detect from interpretation of the language – a distinction which would be based
on the ways in which relationships were described and publicly acknowledged by
contemporaries. This would also allow us to account for the greater complexity of actual as
opposed to theoretical friendships, as it could take account of the overlaps between the two
categories, whereby some ‘informal’ friends were also formally acknowledged and others
evidently were not (Haseldine 2006, pp.251-3). It would also allow us to determine the degree to
which affectionate relationships contributed to larger networks, and to identify which formally
acknowledged friendships were also based in emotional ties, even if, as recent network studies
suggest, these were a minority.
Meanwhile, the study of political friendship in the Middle Ages has grown rapidly. A
number of earlier contributions had identified circles of friendship as effective in promoting
political agendas at the highest levels (e.g. Robinson 1978; Feld 1985). In the 1990s friendship
became prominent in the debates about the nature of the 'state' in the Middle Ages. Older models
of medieval polities as comprising multiple dyadic bonds with few or no constitutional or
overarching legal structures – such as the 'feudal pyramid' of early twentieth-century English
historiography, the French 'mutation féodale', or the German Personenverbandsstaat – had
already given way to an appreciation of more complex corporate, collective and legal structures,
including friendship. Gerd Althoff’s analyses of gesture and ritual language in the
communication of power, and the Spielregeln ('rules of the game') which governed this process,
crucially identified friendship as one of a number of bonds employing ritual and gesture in
carefully rehearsed and performed acts of communication intended to convey unambiguous
messages to onlookers, and not unself-conscious actions revealing of individual psychologies. As
such friendship was constitutive of political order (Althoff 1990; 1999). There is now a well-
established historiography of political friendship for many regions and polities of medieval
Europe (e.g. Sigurðsson 1999; Garnier 2000; van Eickels 2002; Oschema 2011). Much of the
work in this area has promoted an approach to friendship as a separate category of social and
political relations, with its own distinct articulation, in contrast to a long tradition of
anthropological research, dating back as far as Mauss’s seminal essay on gift-exchange (Mauss
1923), which tended to see it as part of a matrix of inextricable and unself-conscious instrumental
exchanges constitutive of pre-market social organisation (see Konstan 1997, pp.3-6).
In 2005 Margaret Mullett, whose early work had proposed a fundamental re-evaluation of
friendship in the Byzantine Empire (Mullett 1988), identified a 'new agenda' emerging in
medieval studies, concerned with the structural role of friendship in the formation of networks of
allegiance and shared interest (Mullett 2005). The studies associated with this approach (see
below, Analyzing medieval friendship networks p. 8-15), in some cases themselves inspired
directly by Mullett's methods, have sought to understand the processes of network formation and
its impact on routine political activity beyond the high political or diplomatic sphere. A primary
concern has been to interpret the language of friendship used in the sources by correlating it to the
social, personal, institutional and political contexts in which it was deployed. Such studies to date
have focussed on leading members of the monastic orders or of ecclesiastical élites, where the
documentation is fullest, and especially on letter collections. A key feature of these approaches
has been to attempt the analysis of whole networks and routine relations rather than to focus on
the much smaller number of very well-documented relationships evidenced in richly expressive
but atypical sources which have provided much of the evidence for the ideals of friendship.
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iii) References to, or invocations of, friendship are often governed by genre
conventions which must be taken into account in assessing the nature of the
relationships concerned. Letters again have posed particular problems: for example,
a profession of friendship to a stranger by letter may be only a conventional
accompaniment to a request for aid. Letter writing was also considered one of the
formal rhetorical arts and was the subject of expository manuals which included
model letters for different occasions; the ways in which writers used such manuals,
and indeed the whole question of the influence and spread of this, the ars dictaminis
(or dictamen), has yet to be fully explored (Ysebaert 2005, pp.296-300).
Consequently, the study of epistolography, a well-developed field in its own right,
has also become a central concern for the study of medieval friendship, and its
relation to friendship has been discussed in detail (see Knight 2002, pp.1-23;
Ysebaert 2009).
For these reasons, the sources tend to stress ‘formal’ rather than ‘informal’
friendships, preserving selected examples of exemplary relationships, with reference
to ideal friendship, and with the reputation of the author in mind. Friendships with
virtuous strangers, for example, were often prioritised, and there is even one possible
example of a posthumously invented friendship, that between Bernard of Clairvaux
and one of his later biographers, where a forged letter may have been inserted into
Bernard’s letter collection after his death to enhance the biographer's credentials and
authenticate his testimony (Bredero 1996, pp.102-118).
iv) The loss of sources over time has obviously left considerable gaps in the record.
More importantly, we cannot assume that texts composed by more influential figures
stood a better chance of survival – chronicles, histories and the letters of even very
important actors were often preserved in single or few manuscript copies and many
non-extant sources are recorded in medieval and later library lists. The lost letter
collection of Aelred of Rievaulx is an example, and we now have scant evidence of
the friendship circle of one of the most influential medieval theorists of friendship.
The medieval evidence thus presents, firstly, a number of problems related to incomplete data,
and secondly, a particular problem of basic definition. Medievalists have in response developed a
two-part methodology comprising, as expounded by Mullett, firstly the detection of relationship
and secondly the detection of network (Mullett 2003; cf. 1988, pp.21-2). The first of these
attempts to establish a working definition of friendship as it occurs in the sources, the second to
analyse the structures and networks created by these bonds. These two stages are postulated to be
logically sequential on the grounds that it is not possible to evaluate networks of friendship
unless we understand to what sorts of relationship the terms we translate as 'friendship' refer.
or whether evidence for them can be taken as evidence of an acknowledged bond of friendship
when they occur in the sources with no associated vocabulary of friendship. It is thus not
possible to take as a starting point a coherent definition of friendship as defined by the researcher
according to a particular model. Rather, the individual terms, activities and exchanges associated
with those relationships which are termed friendships in the sources must be identified and
correlated to build up a working knowledge of what the relationship involved in practice.
This method can employ both evidence internal to the sources, such as references to gift
exchange or claims for material support made explicitly in the name of friendship, and external
evidence, where there is, for example, evidence in one context of political cooperation between
individuals who are elsewhere, or at other times, described as friends or refer to one another as
friends. In addition, factors such as common institutional affiliations (membership of the same
monastic community or order, for example), relative social status, and evidence for frequency of
personal contact or proximity must be taken into account where the evidence permits. It is
critical that no presumptions about the possible emotional basis of the relationships be made at
this stage as this would create a circular argument for the reasons set out above. The key to
defining friendship lies in tracing the complex connections between the use of the vocabulary of
friendship, the attributes of the relationship, including the obligations, activities and exchanges
associated with it, and the types of persons or institutions typically included. Once a practical
definition of friendship as it was used has been established it should then be possible to analyse
the networks and structures created by such bonds.
These two stages, the detection of relationship and the detection of network, in effect
correspond to the distinction which social network analysts have established between variable
analysis using attribute data in the first instance and network analysis using relational data in the
second (Scott 2000 is the best account of network-analytical methodology in non-mathematical
terms; see also Wasserman and Faust 1994). In relation to the first stage, the detection of
relationship, it may seem counter-intuitive that what is involved is attribute, not relational, data
since what we are attempting to define is a relationship. Nevertheless, the data involved is
attribute data because its data set comprises attributes of individual relationships and not whole,
pre-defined relationships, and the method seeks to establish the nature of a relationship
(friendship) on the basis of its constituent attributes and not to analyse patterns of relationships.
It is, in effect, a special case of attribute data, where the data (the obligations, exchanges and
other phenomena associated with the language of friendship) are all attributes of the relationships
and it is thus, in the terms of network analysis, the relationships themselves which are the objects
of the attributes, or the cases, where the attributes are the variables (cf. Scott 2000, pp.2-5).
This stage of the detection of relationship is necessary because of the lack of a secure and
coherent definition of friendship in the sources, as noted above, which could form the basis for
the collection of relational data (or, to put it again in network-analytical terminology, because
direct sociometric choice data (Scott 2000, p.42) is not available from medieval sources). If this
method eventually permits a working definition of friendship, or of formal friendship, then it
should be possible, as a next stage, to move on to construct a relational data set in which
friendship, defined thereby and thus able to be treated as one distinct type of relationship, could
be included alongside other relationships, such as patronage, kinship, allegiance, confraternity
and so forth, and the patterns and structures of these relationships investigated using network-
analytical techniques.
Finally, some of the standard manipulations of relational data, using what are termed
adjacency matrices (Scott 2000, pp.38-49), could also resolve the key questions noted above, of
multiplex relationships and of multiple networks, which are very difficult to assess discursively.
Thus we could determine the degree to which friends in general tended also to be bound
simultaneously by other ties, by deriving case-by-case matrices. Such matrices would present all
of the possible relationships and, for each relationship, the numbers of pairs of actors who were
involved both in that relationship and, by turn, in each of the other types of relationship. This
would tell us which types of relationship were commonly held simultaneously and which were
more commonly mutually exclusive, whether, for example, it was either common or rare for kin
also to be formal friends, or allies, or for allies also to be kin, and so forth. We could also
determine the ways in which individual actors' different networking activities intersected or were
interdependent, by deriving affiliation-by-affiliation matrices. Here the matrices would present
all of the individual actors and allow the researcher to determine how many different relationships
each pair shared, for example, whether most friends or only a few were also allies, or were also
both allies and kin, or simultaneously allies, kin and confrères, etc., and how common such
multiple bonds were. This could tell us the degree to which actors built up their networks in
separate or in overlapping circles of acquaintance and would give a far more precise idea of the
relative importance and function of friendship within an actor's full range of social and political
relations.
In fact, the first major attempt systematically to detect medieval relationships used
transactional content analysis, long-established in the study of modern friendships before the
development of the social network analytical methods described by Scott (Mullett 1997, applying
the methods expounded in the seminal Boissevain 1974). However, both approaches, critically,
avoid assigning relationships to pre-existing categories such as 'true' or 'false' or 'affective' or
'instrumental', looking instead for patterns of actions and language which can be seen to constitute
similar relationships. Something similar to the use of variable analysis of attribute data to define
relationships, followed by assessments of the patterns of the relationships so-revealed, has
underpinned a number of recent studies. The first of this type, all using letter collections,
proposed and correlated various measures such as relative social status, geographical location,
and choice of vocabulary (McLoughlin 1990), types of epistolary relationship, and letter function
(Haseldine 1994), and types of relationships ('genres de relation') between correspondents or third
parties named in letters (Ysebaert 2001). These studies, each of which applied some of the same
measures used in the preceding ones for the most direct comparisons, were followed by others
using further correlations of language use, letter function and social context (e.g. Saurette 2005;
2010a; Haseldine 2006; 2011). One important finding of these studies has been that the use of the
vocabulary of friendship can often be determined not by the nature of the underlying relationship
between the correspondents but rather by the function of the letter, making the detection of
relationship yet more complex.
A particular problem for network analysis in this area is that the nature of most medieval
sources affects the completeness of the relational data which can be derived even more so than
that of the attribute data. Most medieval sources are so constructed that they produce evidence
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which is, in network-analytical terms, ego-centred: letter collections, for example, are almost
always collections of senders' letters, in many cases lacking replies or letters received, while
histories and chronicles often focus on the interests of one community or individual and were
often the products of particular institutions whose interests they also promoted. Another problem
is that of what we might term 'silent actors': there is evidence that friendship bonds were often
only invoked in writing in times of need or crisis, suggesting that many more, if not most, actual
friendships have gone unrecorded, while those living in close proximity may also have cultivated
many more friendships without producing written records. As a result, we cannot see networks of
potential communication channels, only those (and indeed only a few of those) which were
actually acted upon. Thus, whole network data is usually unattainable and this limits our ability
to analyse certain structural features of networks, such as cliques and clusters or density and
centralisation, which are important in social network analysis (Mullett 1997, pp.163-72).
There have to date been relatively few applications of network analysis using relational
data, as opposed to qualitative descriptions of circles or groups of friends, in medieval studies.
Mullett's use of transactional content analysis, with the associated conceptual vocabulary of zones
and orders of relationship, was pioneering (Mullett 1997), and Grünbart has presented some
sociometric star analyses of Byzantine letter collections, revealing the importance of teacher-
pupil relationships and of literary patronage in Byzantine political culture and noting the
possibilities for further comparative analyses of similar collections (Grünbart 2005). There have
been a number of analyses and descriptions of networks outside the ambit of friendship (mostly
concerning patronage) which there is not space to list here, but the best discussion and example of
network analysis, including the application of UCINET, the most effective software programme
available for use by non-mathematicians, using pre-modern sources, although not specifically
concerned with friendship, is Giovanni Ruffini's study of the Oxyrhyncos papyri and related
material (Ruffini 2008).
A provisional model
Research on friendship networks is thus emerging as a field distinct from the related studies of the
literary tradition of friendship, of diplomatic friendship, and of particular relationships and their
emotional content, and is characterised by attempts to analyse language use and practical
interactions across whole networks. This has begun to reveal a number of features of friendship
as a distinct category of social and political relations. These can conveniently be discussed in
terms of i) source-critical, genre and semantic considerations; ii) the choice of friends; iii)
practicalities of friendship relationships; iv) the broader purposes of the cultivation of friendships;
and v) networks and structures.
(e.g. Robinson 1978; Feld 1985; Saurette 2005, pp.27-54; 2010a). Letters of
conversion or vocation are a case in point, where ostensibly private friendly letters
exhorting monastic vocations or offering support in spiritual crises functioned to
promote the claims and ideals of a particular monastic order in a period of intense
competition among the orders (Knight 1997; Haseldine 2011). In some cases the
use of the vocabulary of friendship was restricted to very specific contexts to the
exclusion of others: in the case of Bernard of Clairvaux, for example, these
included appeals to the papacy, the promotion of monastic reform agendas and
literary production concerned with the projection of institutional ideals, while
many vital institutional and personal supporters were not addressed as friends
(Haseldine 2006).
Institutional friendships also functioned locally to mediate relations
between religious institutions and the lay nobility, bridging lay-religious divisions
under a language of Christian harmony and facilitating the mutual exchange of
benefits (Saurette 2010a, p.305; cf. Jamroziak 2005, pp.131-202).
Two themes emerge from this. Firstly, the use of friendly language and the cultivation or
invocation of friendships are determined by the purposes behind the communication – for
example, conflict resolution, forming bonds of common interest, exerting soft or diplomatic
power, or promoting institutional interests – and not by the nature of the underlying relationships.
No one type of relationship, intimacy, allegiance, institutional affiliation or any other sort, is
consistently included in or excluded from friendship, and with most authors only some intimates
are called friends, and then often in the same contexts as more distant acquaintances. Secondly,
the corporate nature of many friendships, and the many permutations of bonds between
communities and between communities and individuals, suggest that collective bonds were
integral to friendship not occasional exceptions or merely metaphorical extensions of friendly
language. No one type of bond, affectionate or pragmatic, personal or political, collective or
individual, is uniquely linked to formal friendship. Interpretations based primarily on any of
these cannot therefore satisfactorily account for the evidence without accepting large numbers of
exceptions and anomalies or by assuming that the language is being used arbitrarily.
Rather, this variety of bonds included under friendship can only be satisfactorily accounted
for when viewed from the perspective of the aims or purposes behind their cultivation. They all
seek to facilitate contact and to build groups of shared interest, either to overcome conflicts or to
promote institutional agendas. Friendship, comprising as it does many relationships originating
in many different contexts and encompassing very different degrees of acquaintance, can be
interpreted in a way which is both coherent and consistent with the evidence only if we can
account, rigorously and consistently, for this variety. One interpretive framework which offers
this possibility is trust. There have now been some important applications of this now well-
established interdisciplinary field to medieval history (see Schulte, Mostert and van Renswoude
eds. 2008), but not so far to network-analytical studies of friendship. Interpreting the activities
associated in the sources with friendship as strategies of trust-building offers an explanation
which is more consistent with the linguistic and contextual evidence than any other model.
Conclusions
Medievalists have identified friendship as a formal bond which functioned in group formation,
conflict resolution and diplomacy at individual and corporate levels. A lot has been established
about its cultivation, operation and impact, while less is known about the structures of the
networks themselves and their interconnections with other networks. Models of friendship based
on particular types of relationship, whether affectionate, spiritual, allegiance or any other, cannot
account coherently for the evidence of the incidence of friendship, but trust building offers an
explanatory framework which can accommodate this evidence, accounting for the range of
relationships accorded the status of friendships. This is specifically because it can account both
for the diverse social and emotional origins of the relationships and for their common functions
and the aims they promote.
What this language reflects is not a cynical or empty manipulation of 'genuine' personal bonds,
but rather an equally genuine and emotionally engaging type of relationship, but one which is
neither erotic nor romantic and which has been variously characterised as public, ethical, formal
or ennobling. While this coexisted with a human experience of romantic or affective friendship,
it was this other friendship which was the object of the dominant medieval ethical discourse.
Conversely, modern discourses have elevated the private and affectionate to the status of
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emotionally genuine and treated political friendship with suspicion. This has served to emphasise
discontinuities with pre-modern experience. In the modern context the recognition of a genuine
and emotionally engaging but political, not romantic, friendship is only now emerging in the
research literature. The two histories, of affectionate or romantic friendship and of political or
trust-building friendship, do not preclude one another but changes in the uses of language and in
the attribution of genuineness and falsity over time can obscure the common experiences behind
each. This is not to propose an artificial or exaggerated notion of continuity across very different
periods and cultures, but rather to suggest that a model of medieval friendship based on its
practicalities and functions, rather than its theoretical or ethical framing, can offer a more
promising basis for comparison with the sorts of modern social structures and networks now
being identified as, or associated with, friendship.
Note on Contributor
Julian Haseldine is Senior Lecturer in History at the University of Hull. His research interests
are in the cultural and religious history of Europe in the Central Middle Ages (11th to 13th
centuries). He has published a critical edition and translation of The Letters of Peter of Celle
(Oxford Medieval Texts, OUP, 2001), a leading figure in the religious establishment of twelfth-
century France - an important source for the culture of the Twelfth-Century Renaissance. He has
been involved in the study of medieval friendship networks and letters since 1993, and has
published widely in this field.
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