Buildings Have Sex Too
Buildings Have Sex Too
ARCH 47
Term Paper
The question is not whether buildings were conceived based on human sexuality,
it is the why and the how. In today’s world, much of the architecture stems from the
primitive hut era. An era where humans sought practical and simplistic sources to draw
concepts from. Due to the primitive human’s reclusiveness nature –anatomical and
biological needs – became their main reference. At the heart of all human need is the
procreation. Naturally, the primitive humans were inspired by human sexuality, especially
sexuality – specifically male sexuality – remains erect on the foundations of most works
of architecture. In his book ‘Building Sex’, Aaron Betsky, defines most structures as
prisons of “Femininity and the façades of masculinity” (xix) due to masculine dominance
façade, separation of spaces and voids in the interior, ornamentation, as well as, city
planning.
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As with any creator the humans created the world they live in in their own image.
The primitive architect designed and built according to its perception of how they were
embodied within their own habitat. Hence, the primitive man created a world – omitting
the presence of any other sex –fit for men; instinctively, they used the most important
element of their environment as a source of inspiration: the male sex organ. Psychiatrist
Erik Erikson notes: “In the male, an external organ, erectable and intrusive in character,
serving the channelization of mobile sperm cells: internal organs in the female, with
vestibular access, leading to statically expectant ova." (3) It is understandable why many
of primitive structures have been erected like shafts. The best instances of these
structures would be monoliths that have been extruded from the ground in ancient times
known as Menhir. The images below demonstrate a perfect example of how architecture
has evolved less in design concept and more in materials and construction technology.
The following structures are millennia apart, yet the resemblance is uncanny – they are
The way nature has evolved to work is somewhat similar to the female sexual
organ rather than that of the male. The womb, an organ that is naturally enclosed and
seeks to nurture. It is literally an incubation chamber that allows for the evolution of a
species. Whereas the penis is a protruding organ that ejaculates further than its physical
reach; always seeking to extend outwards – like a mechanical tool. Essentially, the womb
creates an interior space where the purpose is to nurture and nourish the occupant.
In some vicarious way, the sexuality of the architect shapes all our cities. In an
overview of the world of architecture today, it is easy to spot the gender on any erected
structure. Winston Churchill once said: “We shape our buildings and our buildings shape
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us,” in this case it is the sexuality of the architect that shapes buildings; those buildings in
turn shape cities – societies. This could possibly be the very reason for the divide between
the spaces and the sexes. For instance, the home – much like the womb is a place of
nurture and protection - the hearth that was at the epicenter of social life in the hut era. In
the evolved man’s architecture history, one can see that hearth has been translated into
the kitchen. Purposed to bring together or have people circle around the dinner table.
With the design concept that best would represent the female of our species. Excluding
her from all design aspects related to the shell she dwells within. women would only make
sense to be more undulating and curved, almost as if it is wrapping around the habitant
in a masculine façade.
Children of the male sex tend to be architects of their own worlds. As soon as they
understand what there is to expect in various spaces of their house, boys would start
building their own dwellings; in forms of castles, hideouts, and caves. Aaron Betsky
describes this manifestation as boys deviating from their “Maternal embrace” (4) in order
to dominate the world they play in. As for the girls, the experience is completely different
in that they are looking to recreate a nurturing and safe interior space. They start by
reinforcing the bond that they have with their mother and recreating it into their own
relationships as well. The girl “Makes a domestic universe” living in what is a mere “Mirror
This evokes the idea that girls maybe more related to nature than boys are due to
her ability to give birth – make life. In the book ‘Building Sex’, Camilia Paglia argues that
man is the artificial being trying to recreate nature in his own image.; This is given to the
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fact that men fear all that is natural about women. They fear the wild chthonic abilities of
nature, which can destruct all the sophisticated manmade erections regardless of their
size; the remnants of Pompei are a perfect example among a plethora of other instances
we have had in recent history. To that effect, Arron Betsky writes: “The foundation of
human culture is a porous circle marked out in the landscape that turns the continuum of
There has always been a search for compromise – a middle ground. In this age of
neutrality and wokeness we have tried impartiality and detachment from biology and in
some cases science all together. However, the primitive ancestors came up with a middle
ground – in the most literal of forms: The Mandala! A depiction which commemorates the
idea of the campground in the form of the “Sacred symbol.” Based on the Ancient History
Encyclopedia: “The word mandala is a Sanskrit term that means ‘circle’ or ‘discoid object’.
of the universe;” in reality it represents the core idea behind the campground – the sacred
hearth at the center of the symbol – in various cultures the center was exchanged with
deities.
MANDALA MANDALA
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This mandala like ground is not vertical like the shaft of the penis, nor does it hide
an entrance into a void like that of a vagina. Hence, “there is no inside or outside” for
there to be any correlation between the male or the female; there is no abject division
between the behaviors and placements of the sexes. Albeit the campground form that
creates no division between the sexes, “Some anthropologists have argued”, due to child
rearing and feeding, this was the birthplace of architecture and matriarchy. In short, the
mandala overthrows the power balance and brings it closer to the hearth. It does not call
for a conqueror, it requires a nurturer. Therefore, even though it might not physically
The mandala is a historic artifact that best represents the initial stages of
architecture before it was divided among the sexes. Gottfried Semper notes: "The
beginning of buildings [architecture] coincides with the beginning of textiles." There were
primitive and savage tribes who appear to understand how clothing or covering one’s own
body worked. They applied that same technique to "Covering their encampments"; this
called for the developments of techniques such as spinning plaiting and weaving or
furnishing. For instance, the tent of nomads who were used to being mobile and migrating
from point to point based on their natures climactic changes was an architecture that
made a mesh of both the penis and the womb. it was neither a projection nor an enclosure
- it was both. It also blended the natural landscape with the manmade partition. In its
primitive form, it was not a dividing wall between the sexes, it was only inhibiting nature
from intruding in human space. (p14) It has the shape of an inverted loose basket with
the projection of a pole holding it up. In its entirety – if seen at a section – resembles
something more natural than before: the penetration of a penis into a vagina.
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In ‘Building Sex’, Elizabeth Weatherford describes the tent and pole shape of a
dwelling as “flexible with translucent light ... round, ovoid or conical, with no edges or
planes to interrupt the flow of space. Their size and shape maximize physical and
psychological contact among the dwellers.” Since the household of this type of dwelling
overflowed outward "into the outdoor space" it allowed for the inhabitants to expand their
Children were not prompted to stay with their parents, they could stay with any
elder of the camp regardless of their sexes; they were also not confined to one sex group.
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Women were part of the building process and not only its beneficiaries. To erect a dwelling
as such all the human power necessary was used at every stage - no order or hierarchy
of skillsets were implemented. the building and designing activity were in a way ritualistic,
hence part of everyone’s knowledge base and passed down as tradition from one to the
other. (p15)
Contrary to Elizabeth Weatherford, Abe Marc Antoine Laugier believed that the
primitive hut was the first human made enclosure. For him architecture only started at the
moment there was a roof in place. He did not accept other enclosed spaces as
architecture which was the "act of the willful imposition of order by a man" (p16) on his
dominion: nature and women. Clearly, he cares less about roofing and more about
submission. This idea only defines humans as a species looking to break from nature
without consideration for all the liens – food, protection, sex. It creates an abstract
foundation for architecture and today’s society, which explains why much of what we see
in the history of architecture seems to be disconnected with our species and out of place.
Historically, early civilizations had the divide in the sexes in such a manner that
cities were "warlike places of patriarchy" set out to dominate the world. At the bottom of
the Ziggurat in Ur were women used as "religious prostitutes" by the "mysoginist priests"
who in turn legitimized the power of the king, who was loyal only to the gods. These cities
were built in forms of fortresses from other dominant male kings serving a god. Hence, in
such cities one is bound to see the existence of structures built upwards towards the sky
(heavens) inching closer to the divine power of gods; or even machines that make god –
such as the pyramids, which were edifices that were supposed to turn a pharos into a
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deity. This was the case for cities of Mesopotamia from Ur in 2230 B.C. to Khorsabad -
almost a thousand years later. When myths about the chthonic women and subterranean
gods came about. However, this wasn't always the case. In 6000 B.C. Turkey, the Catal
Huyuk were nomadic building types that lacked the artificial higherarchy placed by male
dominance. The round city formed around the hearth or kitchen with no grand public
spaces and only an "accumulation of private spaces"; religion was domesticated, and
families gathered in a communal form of living. Another instance is the Knossos palace
city (municipality) where spaces were designed "with little regard for its exterior
appearance, for overall order, or for defense." It should be noted that both cities were
Marx believed the division between the sexes starts at the same point in history
when humans decided to separate themselves from nature through agriculture. When
humans became an agrarian civilization, they started cutting nature into territories and
stockpiling crops, in other words they "stratified space." This allowed for natural spaces
to dissolve underneath the manmade territories. In addition, crops started losing their
value to the "transformation wrought on them by human labor." Marx said that the value
of crop has transitioned from its source - land - into its stockpile. Hence breaking the
"flexible flow of nomadic landscape into flows of capital.” Friedrich Engels, also concurs
that the "emergence of this stratified space coincided with the submission of women to
history that sexes were divided when their common shared space – hearth or campfire –
was dissected into systematically by man’s obsession with his own sexuality and mortal
powers.
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Built in a country that had fallen to Pharaonic power after the demise of a few
queens, Egypt became the birthplace for these "ultimate expressions of power" in the
form of "useless monuments for the dead males.". These monuments were created in a
scale that benefited no man. It defied and denied any contact to its landscape or nature.
Its sole purpose was to replicate a "mental picture of perfection" for a man looking to
THE SPHINX
Similarly, in todays perverted architecture, we have CEO offices at the far end
bank,) or a tactical head quarter; in such places space is waste. And much like the ever-
watchful Sphinx, the tomb like offices of these CEO’s are watched over by a hybrid
monuments are watched over by none other than a half female - half animal creature:
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The Sphinx. A creature that embodies all that is mysterious about the female: “the powers
to menstruate and to give life. Its existence could also serve as a reminder for future
generations of kings and pharaohs that if not tamed, this creature could rule once
again!”(27)
On that note, it is almost anecdotal that in all of Egypt, the place of Queen
Hatshepsut (Circa 1480 B.C.) is the only one buried partially in a mountain. It is guarded
by hypostyle hall and has a urethra like ramp that goes deep into what can only be the
cervix of the tomb; it is literally where the mummified body of Queen Hatshepsut resides.
The tower is the most recurring symbol in architecture that demonstrates the
dominance of man over nature. The phallic structure comes in the form of silos,
from its habitat; stand out as the symbol of wealth accumulation and dominance. This has
been the case for centuries, however, today we know that our bodies are what we make
of them. Science has not made it easy to clearly distinguish between the differences of
men and women, especially in times where gender neutrality and queerness has found
its own place in society. It is potentially the prime time for the structures which bound us
to nature - earth - to represent values that bind us to society. A bathroom does not
instantly become gender neutral just because you have a sign on the door that says so.
It is truly gender neutral when the discriminations are taken out of its brick and mortar.