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Media BLOCK INTRODUCTION (BLOCK 6)
The Block six of this Course is titled as “Gender, Representation and Media”.
The Block consists of three Units. The first Unit in this Block is Unit 13. It is
titled as “Language and Gender”. Language plays a significant role in representing
gender in the media. The objectives of Unit 13 are to familiarise the learners
with the relationship between language and gender in literature and daily life
and how language emerged as gender specific. The awareness about concepts of
sex and gender has already been dealt with elaborately in Unit 1 (Block 1) of this
Course. The author of the Unit reiterated the concepts of sex and gender in Unit
13. After explaining the concepts of sex and gender, the author explains a few
terms like gender boundaries, gender identity, gender stereotypes and gender
ideology. The existing traits of female and male are given in the Unit. Scholars
studied and explained the differences in the usage of language by male and female.
This is explained in the Unit. The Unit also details the factors influencing the use
of language from gender perspective. Gender differences in vocabulary, usage
of interrogative sentence by women and the practice of imperative sentence by
men, attitudes, nonverbal languages, difference in choosing language, reasons
behind differences are also explained in the Unit. Unit 14 of this Course is “Gender
and Media”. The Unit begins as: ‘What is media?’ After elaborate explanation
about media, the classification of media is given. Each type of media is explained
clearly. And the following sections in the Unit are about media and society and
media and women. We hope learners will get an idea about the media and gender
after reading Unit 14. Unit 15 of this Block is “Reading and Visualizing Gender”.
The Unit introduces the concepts of close reading, visualizing and representation.
It discusses the significance of gender specific reading to understand the influence
of culture in the expressions. Scholars also specifically make the points for the
use of words by women and men writers. The Unit clearly defines reading,
visualizing and expressions with examples. The Unit 15 is final Unit of this
Block and the Course. As we pointed out in the course introduction, the aim of
the Course is to create awareness among learners on gender issues to create
gender just society. After introducing gender issues prevailing in the society, the
Course provides a few suggestions as way forward to bring changes at individual
and societal level to form a gender just society.
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UNIT 13 GENDER AND LANGUAGE
Structure
13.1 Introduction
13.2 Objectives
13.3 Gendering the Language
13.4 Sex Versus Gender
13.4.1 Sex
13.4.2 Gender
13.4.3 Socio-cultural Training
13.5 Some Terms to be Understood
13.5.1 Gender Boundaries
13.5.2 Gender Identity
13.5.3 Gender Stereotype
13.5.4 Gender Ideology
13.6 Male and Female Traits
13.7 Male-Female Difference in the Use of Language
13.8 Is Language Sexist?
13.9 Factors Influencing Language
13.9.1 Biological Factors
13.9.2 Cultural Factors
13.9.3 Examples from Literature
13.9.4 Power and Domination Factor
13.10 Gender Difference in Vocabulary
13.11 Interrogative Sentences
13.12 Imperative Sentences
13.13 Difference in Attitude towards Language
13.14 Difference in Non-verbal Language
13.15 Difference in Choosing Topics
13.16 Reasons behind These Differences
13.16.1 Different Psychology
13.16.2 Different Social Status
13.16.3 Different Social Roles
13.17 Summing Up
13.18 Key Words
13.19 References
13.20 Suggested Reading
13.21 Unit End Questions
13.1 INTRODUCTION
Students, we shall begin this unit with a small story. A professor at a university
in America gave an interesting exercise to his students, to make a list of words
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The result showed that male students listed words denoting travel, adventure,
sports, business, economics, politics and outdoor life; in brief, their preference
was for the abstract; while the women candidates preferred words for beauty,
colors, fragrance, friendship, food items and domestic life, in brief they were
inclined towards the concrete and the ornamental. This simple exercise speaks
volumes for the difference in the usage of language by men and women.
Looking around, you too may have noticed that men and women use language
differently while communicating. That is to say, their preference for words,
emphasis, pronunciations and intonations are markedly different. Have you ever
wondered why? Just because of gender difference. Or take another example.
You may have heard someone saying to a female colleague, “Oh, Tanu, you
should have been more assertive to get your point home.” Obviously, Tanu lacks
assertiveness. Why? Because she has been brought up that way!
This brings us to our topic, ‘Gender and Language’. Let us study in this Unit
how the relation between the two – gender and language – works in life and
literature. How gender influences language and how language emerges as gender-
specific.
13.2 OBJECTIVES
After completing this Unit, you will be able to:
Define the concepts of sex and gender;
Describe gender differences in language use;
Demonstrate the relationship between gender and language;
Analyze gender boundaries and social expectations to use language as per
socio-cultural norms; and
Distinguish masculine and feminine traits and analysis of the causes of the
difference.
Gender issues and language issues are interconnected. Since the time women’s
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studies have become important interdisciplinary academic fields. Language Gender and Language
reflects existing social reality. Socio-linguistic and feminist scholars are examining
how language upholds, supports or devalues women; how it shapes the social
and cultural contexts and how it is shaped by these contexts; and what measures
can be taken to change the social perception of gender.
To understand the role language plays in gender studies, we must first understand
the meaning of some of the key terms like ‘sex’ and ‘gender’.
13.4.1 Sex
We generally associate the term ‘Sex’ with the biological self.
13.4.2 Gender
Gender is a socio-cultural construct. This means that the process of social training
starts after birth as the family takes charge of bringing it up. A boy or a girl is
brought up according to the socio-cultural norms of his/her society and with the
passage of time he/she acquires traits that are expected of a man or a woman of
that group. Thus, the idea of gender can change with social changes though sex
remains the same.
Do you know what the feminist writer Simone Beauvoir said? She wrote, “One
is not born, but rather becomes a woman.” We take a few examples to understand
the meaning of this sentence. As soon as a child is born, we ask “boy?” or “girl?”
We do not refer to the gender of the new-born; we refer to its sex. We do not say
“What is its gender”? That would be incorrect. Later the child acquires the traits
of a girl or a boy and starts behaving accordingly. This is because of training in
social and cultural norms.
1) Do men and women speak different languages? The answer is No and yes.
No, because it is the same language they speak. In this case, let us say
English. Yes, because their phrases, expressions and intonations are so
different that they appear to be speaking different languages.
2) Do they use language differently? Yes. Otto Jespersen, in his book Language:
Its Nature, Development and Origin observes that men have many
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the other hand, women have words and phrases which men know of but Gender and Language
never use for fear of being scorned at. That is the reason the language of
men and women appears different.
3) Is there gender bias in English language? Yes. This bias is obvious in the
manner in which language uses women. Women are ignored when words
such as ‘he’ or ‘man’ signify women too. For example, “everyone must do
his duty.” Here the pronoun ‘his’ denotes woman also. “Man is mortal.” In
this sentence ‘man’ also means ‘woman’. In both these sentences her
presence is ignored. These are known as ‘masculine generics’ and are widely
accepted. Language also defines women’s status vis-à-vis men’s and by
inference gives them secondary position. Let us look at the titles of respect,
Mrs or Miss. These terms show the presence/absence of man in a woman’s
life whereas the appellation Mr is independent and does not need woman’s
presence. Feminine nouns of some words are derogatory like ‘dog-bitch’,
‘wizard-witch’. Similarly, words like ‘lady doctor’, ‘lady lecturer’ specify
gender unnecessarily. Terms of endearment used by men for women like
‘chick’ or ‘babe’ highlight how language devalues women. Have you read
Henrik Ibsen’s play A Doll’s House? In it a reader comes across many terms
of endearment that Nora’s husband uses for her to show his love.
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13.9.1 Biological Factors
The biological factor can be studies from three angles – voice, phonology and
intonation.
Voice: Women have a thin voice as compared to men’s gruff voice and their
voice-frequency is almost twice as high as that of men. Psychologists say that
speaking in high-pitched voice is their physical limitation but socially it is
associated with their timidity.
Intonations: There are two types of basic intonations – rising intonation and
falling intonation. Women usually answer a question with rising intonation which
suggests their docility and gentleness, besides lack of self-confidence.
As per the expectations of their sub-culture women use language that is not
aggressive or adventurous. In larger groups they remain silent but speak in smaller
groups. Their conversation aims to build friendship, loyalty, equality and such
other traits. They usually speak of simple domestic or personal matters which
men consider ridiculous. On the contrary, men choose to work in larger groups.
They want power, control and status. They like to compete and win; and they
dominate the conversation. These cultural differences in the male and female
groups lead to the different ways in which they converse.
i) Color words: Women use color words like blue and lavender and azure
more frequently but men would not.
ii) Adjectives: Women use adjectives such as adorable, charming, lovely more
often. When a woman leaves a restaurant, she will remark, “It is a gorgeous
meal.” If a man wants to express the same idea, he will use the word “good”.
Using more adjectives to express their feelings or to describe things is
because women are sensitive to the environment.
iii) Adverbs: Women tend to use adverbs like pretty, terribly, vastly, quietly
etc more freely than men do. Men, on the contrary use, really, very, utterly.
In 1992 Jesperson found that women like to use so quite regularly. Like
“She is so pretty” or “The play was so interesting.”
iv) Swear words and Expletives: Swear words are considered dirty and
impolite and women do not use these like damn, shit, hell. Women pay
more attention to their manners and social propriety. In order to express
their sudden and deep feelings they may say, O God!, oh dear or dear me!
Let us examine the following example:
Woman: Dear me! Are we going to be late again!
Man: Shit! The train on the platform and we have to run.
v) Modulation: When a woman talks, she often takes what others think into
consideration. She uses tag questions such as, “It is cold, isn’t it?”and hedges
like well, you know... I think... I suppose, .... kind of,.... may be I am wrong
but...
13.17 SUMMING UP
In this unit our focus has been on gender and language and how each influences
the other. This lesson prepares us to understand the socio-cultural side of gender
and paves the way for gender study. We have studied following aspects:
Language has a great connection with society, so if change in social structure
takes place, language use will also change.
The male language and the female language are different in emphasis,
vocabulary and presentation. We have studied the difference as well as the
reasons for it.
With the development of new ideas and feminist theories, the strict rules
governing women are changing in many parts of the world. Rules prescribed
for men and women are also changing.
Consequently, women do not consider it wrong to assert themselves and
men too are comfortable to let women have their say. Women are becoming
more confident and assertive; young women are especially in the forefront
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but it is also connected with their education and profession, young women
getting into high-paid jobs are finding it perfectly acceptable to use language
freely.
13.19 REFERENCES
Beauvoir, Simone de. The Second Sex. (1949/1970) Trans. H.M. Parshley. New
York; Knoff.
Lee, Harper. To Kill a Mocking Bird (1960/2006) New York: HarperCollins.
Golding William. The Lord of the Flies (1960) London: Faber& Faber.
Jespersen, Otto (1922/2013). Language: Its Nature, Development and Origin.
London: G. Allen and Unwin.
14.1 INTRODUCTION
Mass media in its various forms have become an integral part of our lives. The
issues related to media, identity and gender are integral to the discipline of media
and Gender studies. The reason is the popularity and diversity of media as a
source of mass consumption and its influence on constructing ideas and generating
debates. The media scene in India has expanded in the(unnecessary) recent times
as there is a plethora of media choices available to the audiences. The media
structures and systems have also undergone a sea change with privatization and
globalization. These developments influence media projections and
representations of various issues – gender representation is a major concern -
what media portrays gets assimilated into the minds of the audience and influences
them in various ways. In this unit we shall discuss the role of media and its
representation of gender.
14.2 OBJECTIVES
After completing this Unit, you will be able to:
Describe the word ‘Mass Media’;
Explain how media influence us; and
Explain the role of media in representation of genders
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In more recent times, the influence of media on society has expanded
exponentially and into ever diversified forms. Media has the potential to play an
active part in shaping and framing our perception of the world, and indeed in
affecting the nature of that world.
Thus media refers to the means of delivering and receiving data or information.
In other words, media is a form of dispensing information. The term is also
commonly used in place of mass media or news media. Media consists of the
various means by which information reaches large numbers of people, such as
television, radio, movies, newspapers, and the Internet.
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Street Theatre is another form of traditional media which is being used widely to
propagate socio political messages and to create awareness for social issues.
Street plays are short, direct, loud, and over expressive since they perform in
places where there are huge crowds. They are known to propagate strong message
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towards a certain matter.
One of the chief characteristics of Print media is that they offer extensive news
coverage and in depth treatment of themes. They provide a large variety of
coverage, through different kinds of writings than any other media in India. The
main weakness of the print media is that they can be read only by literates.
Radio
One of the most dramatic developments of the 20th century has been the invention
of the radio waves. Radio has become a means of communication of unparalleled
immediacy, intimacy and power as it is highly effective and found everywhere.
Radio broadcasting in its reach, power and impact, constitutes the most significant
medium of mass communication. Radio has an inherent advantage to overcome
three major hurdles to meaningful communications- such as mass illiteracy, lack
of efficient means to reach the remote places and poverty which prevents access
to mass media.
Cinema
Cinema is the Latin spelling of the Greek word ‘kinema’, meaning “a motion.”
Indian film industry is considered a huge film industry in terms of production.
Indian cinema is a popular mode of entertainment for all. Digitalization is
considered to be the next best thing for Indian Cinema and it is in a position to
exploit the technology in all aspects: building capacity, content creation,
processing, management and distribution of the digital content in various formats
and sources. Indian Films have gone beyond the geographical boundaries. They
have come out of the epoch of love and fantasy and learnt to work on experimental
plots. The effect of globalization of Indian cinema is applicable not only to the
Bollywood (colloquial) films, but also to the regional film industries of the country.
Many Indian films are not only making more money outside the home market
but also attracting foreign producers and directors to the industry.
Television
In 1926, Scottish television pioneer John Logie Baird (1888-1946) demonstrated
the first television system since then Television has played a very important role
in our lives. Television is considered one of the greatest inventions of man. It is
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a multi-media system predominated by the visual medium. T.V can transport the Gender and Media
viewers to the actual scene of action to see things as they happen. Having a
television set in the home has become very essential in today’s society. We depend
on it to entertain us with its sitcoms and to inform us about current world issues.
A T.V broadcast directly affects two senses simultaneously i.e those of hearing
and seeing. It is more effective than radio because of its visual components which
has a greater influence on the minds of the viewers.
With the help of satellite technology, T.V has reached all corners of the globe.
According to Marshall Mc.Luhan the T.V has turned the world into a global
village in which ideas, information and images can be exchanged with people
spread all over the globe. Television is a medium of immediacy as it captures
images of events as they are happening, that is why we have headlines like
‘breaking news’ that present events exactly as they are unfolding, hence, T.V is
also called the medium of ‘here and now’.
Modern media transmits signals instantly from one source to any destination in
the whole globe by modern electronic technology. The new communication
technologies are based on 5A’a “Anyone can transfer any information at any
time at any place to anyone”. The media or the global media are capable of a
much higher degree of interactivity than those offered by traditional
communication technology. The use of computers in one form or the other is an
integral part of most of the modern communication technologies.
Check Your Progress Exercise
Note :
i) Use the space given below to answer the questions.
ii) Compare your answer with the course material of this unit.
1) List different categories of media
2) Write short note on “New Media”.
Books once were supremely influential because they came first before newspapers,
magazines, radio or television. Newspapers and magazines became great
influencers after they were developed. Sound recordings and film were and still
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suffering and relief, sexuality and violence, celebrity, and much more. New and
influential media-distribution channels have appeared in the 21st century.
Delivered via the World Wide Web across the Internet, we are influenced daily
by blogs, wikis, social networks, virtual worlds and myriad forms of content
sharing.
The media permeates almost every part of our lives. Whether it’s TV news, web
content, books or anything in between, the information we receive from the media
plays a major role in everyone’s everyday life. Something this large and ubiquitous
is bound to. The impact of media on the society extends to both social and political
sectors. There are a variety of elements in each and media touches on both sectors
and each element. Media has both positive and negative effects on society
The major areas of negative effects of media are presented here: Invasion of
privacy; perversion of truth by electronic trickery; violation of security
(Governmental and institutional); Impact on the democratic process; Isolation
of people; and Information overload.
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14.6.2 Gender and Print Media Gender and Media
Women’s empowerment should bring about a situation where women can use
their fullest potential and capacity to construct a better human society for all and
media has a critical role to play in responding to these processes. Media
commitment and support are seen as necessary for effecting social reform and
initiating various movements towards achieving a better quality of life for women.
Most of the soaps shown in Indian television are sexist. Even the so called
matriarch (supposedly the head of the home) shown in some of the TV soaps
victimizing the younger daughters and ‘bahus’ (daughters in laws) of the house
and teaching them how to be ‘good’.
Sex stereotyping is also very much evident in television portrayal of men and
women in their appointed roles. Invariably, masculine personality attributes are
emphasized and women in the world of television are presented in the role of
domestic help, a wife, a mother etc and similar nurturing and care-giving roles
and they are portrayed as submissive and engrossed in common family affection
and duties. As against this, men are depicted as employed, competitive. Women
shown in similar competing roles with men are far less in number and are
considered to be oddities and deviations from norm, trait wise though there is a
stereotypical portrayal of women being congenitally much more than men. Even
when women are presented as power holders, the patriarchal context is
unmistakably present. The attributes of power and aggressiveness is portrayed
as something unnatural to a women and a challenge to the male ego. In families
in which the gender roles are largely traditional, television may tend to serve to
reinforce such gender roles. In this way television certainly plays a role in the
construction of gender roles.
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14.6.4 Gender Roles in Advertisements
Advertisements are yet another prominent and integral part of television viewing.
Due to its persuasive power, advertising is the best known and most widely
discussed form of promotion. Advertising persuades and motivates consumer
about the advertised products, service or ideas. Advertising plays an important
role in persuading the public to change their attitudes towards a product, service
or idea. The constant flow of advertising images of gender, types of persons,
social classes, and other groups influence our social learning process.
In the world of advertising, men and women have consistently been portrayed in
stereotypical ways. Men are portrayed as more autonomous than women, with
men portrayed in many different occupations as compared to women being shown
as housewives and mothers. Men were far more likely to advertise vehicles, or
business products, job website while women were found mostly in advertisements
for domestic products. Some common sights of women as seen in advertisements
show them cooking in the kitchen, washing bucketful of clothes bandaging
wounds of their husbands and children. Men were far more likely to be shown
outdoors or in business settings while women were shown primarily in domestic
settings.
Fair complexion, tall, slim and beautiful looking women are the ideal ones and
dark complexion is propagated as a major hindrance for self development even
marriage. Utmost care is taken to manipulate the minds of young women that
overweight, dark complexion are the disqualification for their self development.
Fairness cream and beauty soap, shower? promises to make their dreams come
true.
The narratives of Hindi cinema have undoubtedly been male dominated and male
centric. Themes have been explored from the male audience’s point of view. The
heroine is always secondary to the hero. Her role is charted out in context of any
male character which is central to the script. It may be the hero, the villain, the
father, the boss, an elderly male figure etc. She is devoid of any independent
existence and her journey throughout the film is explored in relation to the male
character. This kind of straight-jacketing limits the women’s role to providing
glamour, relief, respite and entertainment.
During 70s actors like Jaya Bachchan, Smita Patil and Shabana Azmi stripped
glamour off the female lead’s character and played roles that were as important
as that of the hero. Some contemporary films like Chameli (2003), Cheeni Kum
(2007), Paa (2009), Ishqiya (2010), No One Killed Jessica (2011), Dirty Picture
(2011), Queen (2014), Mary Kom (2014) have pictured extraordinary themes
and portrayed women as central to the story line. These films have forced creators
to take a fresh look at the different roles played by women and introspect upon
the kind of typecasting that was being perpetuated earlier.
14.7 SUMMING UP
We have understood that the issues of media, identity and gender are integral to
the discipline of media and Gender studies. The reason is the popularity and
diversity of media as source of mass consumption and its influence on constructing
ideas and generating debates. The media scene in India has expanded in the
recent times as there is a plethora of media choices available to the audiences.
The media structures and systems have also undergone a sea change with
privatization and globalization. These developments are bound to affect the
manner in which media scrutinizes and covers any issue – gender being an
important one. Over a period of time all forms of media has gender component
in it. What media portrays goes deep into the subconscious and unconscious
mind of people and influences audience in various ways.
Women are shown as playing a secondary and passive role in various programmes,
T.V Soaps and films. The reality reconstructed by the media, does not match the
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real women and those presented over the medium of television which is perplexing
and disquieting at the very least. Television programming doesn’t include the
image of the working class woman. Media in its myriad forms needs to create
space for more progressive representations of women to do justice to women
and their role in the society. Indian society is in a state of transition where it is
important that media in its various forms narrate/depict positive images of
articulation, agency and empowerment.
14.9 REFERENCES
McQuial, Denis (1994). Mass Communication Theory: An introduction. London:
Sage Publications.
Thompson, John B. (1995). The Media and Modernity: A Social Theory of the
Media. Stanford: Stanford University Press
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UNIT 15 READING AND VISUALIZING
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Structure
15.1 Introduction
15.2 Objectives
15.3 Understanding the Terms
15.3.1 Words and their Connotation and Denotation
15.3.2 Close Reading
15.3.3 False Individuality
15.3.4 What is visualizing?
15.3.5 Reading Silence
15.4 Why Women’s Language?
15.5 What is Representation?
15.5.1 Representation of Women in Media and Literature
15.5.2 Representation as Social reality
15.5.3 Self and Other
15.6 The Right to Represent
15.7 How Women Represent Themselves?
15.8 The Problem of Misrepresentation
15.9 Challenges to Victimization
15.10 Summing Up
15.11 Key Words
15.12 Suggested Readings
15.13 Unit End Questions
15.1 INTRODUCTION
In Unit 13 we examined the relation between gender and language and discussed
how the two are mutually dependent. We also focused on the different modes to
know how men and women communicate effectively when most of their ways of
communication are directly opposite. This led us to discuss various social and
cultural factors that influence language. Unit 14 has equipped us to understand
the difference between male language and female language and think of the
possibility of gender neutral language. In the present unit we shall see how to
give a gendered reading to literature and other life situations to visualize gender.
15.2 OBJECTIVES
After completing this Unit, you will be able to:
Explain concepts of close reading, visualizing and representation;
the need to give gender-specific reading so as to examine how cultural factors
are linked to emotional expressions; and also to our understanding;
how and where men and women writers differ in their choice of words,
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or a media report or TV show or Ad. Concomitantly, we shall be equipped
to understand the gendered use of language
For example, a male character in a story or play or novel calls a woman babe.
‘Babe’ is a diminutive word. A ‘baby’ or ‘babe’ is small, helpless and dependent.
There is no doubt that this is a term of endearment but it reduces a woman to a
non-entity. It displays the authority of the man and in its ultimate analysis, it
speaks of male domination. Till recently, women did not object to this appellation
because it was considered a flattering personal compliment. But when feminism
made women aware of the effect of language and the power-play, women realized
that this is not a compliment to their sex. They found it offensive and took objection
to it.
Likewise, words like queen, princess, honey, kitten, and doll are insulting and
women have started rejecting these as they are sex privatization
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encourage men to see women as helpless and dependent. The side-effect is: if
women are described only by such superficial attributes, conversely, men appear
more individual and strong on whom women depend.
Socially, women are expected to express their individuality through their physical
appearance or beauty or through carrying out gendered roles. They are thus
stereotyped as a class: they look alike, they think alike, and they are beautiful
but have no brains. Such socio-cultural parameters keep sex oppression going
on. The image becomes extension of oneself; it gets hard to distinguish the real
person from his latest image. Men see women not only as an image; but as an
image of sex appeal.
Look at some of the fairy tales. The story of Cinderella , for example. We all
have liked it since childhood but read it closely and you will realize that Cinderella
is beautiful but she is helpless; she has sex appeal but she is almost doll-like.
And she needs a prince to rescue her. Through fairy tales such as these we are
still taught that we are princesses, someday our prince will come, we will be
picked up, carried off to a palace to live happily ever after.
How would you visualize a girl or a woman? Probably, you will make a
stereotypical mental image: weak, submissive, emotional quiet, engaged in
household work, nurturing children, not much educated. How would you visualize
a boy or a man? The stereotypical picture is: aggressive, assertive, dominating,
loud, messy, scientific mind, outdoor life, interested in games and sports. These
mental images are socio-cultural and may be different in different cultures.
In many textbook images or magazine pictures we still find the father sitting
comfortably and reading a newspaper, while the mother slogging in the kitchen.
Here we can visualize that boys and men are presented as universal figures in
which women/girls are invisibly included. The image of the mother is reduced to
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personality; and thus shown to have no choice. This type of approach encodes
women’s fear of public spaces and men’s incompetence in household work.
Further, this has implications for division of labor: childcare and household work
is for women, public life is for men.
To explain what we said just now, we give you below two pictures. Look at them
and visualize the scene and interpret it with the tool of gender:
Picture 1. In this picture boys are doing all outdoor work, imitating their father.
Gender roles are all masculine.
Picture 2. Here girls are playing at household chores and imitating their mothers.
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even in schools. Usually, teachers also have patronizing attitudes toward girl
students; they give more space to boys. The girls’ performance in science subjects
are not as highly valued as the boys’, and this outlook can ultimately have
consequences for girls’ attitudes towards science.
Check your Progress Exercise 1
1) What attributes would come to your mind while visualizing ‘mother’?
2) What is gender stereotyping? Give two examples – one male one female
stereotype
3) Write a note on Close Reading (50 words)
4) Fill in the Blanks:
i) Girls imitate their .... (mothers/fathers/ teachers)
ii) Boys like .... activities (indoor/homely/outdoor)
iii) Boys gender roles are .... (masculine/boyish/)
iv) False individuality hinders a girl’s development of .... personality (
real/ feminine/brain)
We need the term ‘women are writing’ if only to remind us of the social
conditioning and conditions under which women wrote and are still writing.
That women are viewed as being incessant ‘gossips’ or chatterers distract from
the fact that in the world of the written world they are silenced, censored,
persecuted and marginalized when they seek to go beyond the topics allocated to
them as ‘good’ women.
An example from literature can illustrate how language creates and sustains
gender. The dialogue below is from Shashi Deshpande’s novel The Dark Holds
No Terrors. A mother is addressing her seven year old daughter. The words are
simple but when you visualize gender role you find their real implications:
Mother: Don’t go out in the sun. You’ll get even darker.
Saru (daughter): Who cares?
M: We have to care if you don’t. We have to get you married.
S: I don’t want to get married
M: You can’t live forever with us.
S: Why not?
M: You Can’t.
S: And Dhruva? (her brother)
M: He’s different. He’s a boy.
Read this carefully and evaluate these words and see how harmful they are for
the little girl’s psyche. This brief conversation highlights the following issues:
Gender role: Marriage is a woman’s final destiny for which she is prepared
from her childhood. She has to be fair-skinned (this is society’s definition of the
masculine/feminine).
Gender stereotype: Saru cannot live with her parents; Dhruva can because he is
a boy.
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Gender stratification: Saru is ranked at a lower level vis-à-vis her brother. Reading and Visualizing
Gender
Gender ideology: Mother’s ideas and values legitimize sex role for her daughter;
she has to be pretty, fair, married.
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15.5.3 Self and Other
When there is ‘self’, there is the ‘other’. In literature, women have been treated
as objects rather than as subjects. As object one loses one’s individuality. One
becomes the ‘Other.’ Men are often portrayed as powerful and in control of things.
Man is the subject, the decision maker. Woman has a secondary position. In the
patriarchal system, man is in a speaking position, so he is the ‘self’, all those
about whom or for whom he speaks are the ‘other’. The speaker has the active
role and an element of control. Women are deprived of this central/active role
and are herefore, muted.
Just a few lines from a short story can illustrate how women express themselves
frankly: “For the past two days Khatija was living in unbearable pain. Even now
there were no sign of her giving birth to a baby. She tried to keep the pain to
herself as much as possible. At times, she felt like screaming but she was dreaded
by the thought that others might hear it.” (‘The Birth’ by Sarah Aboobacker).
This is a typical female experience and only a woman can give expression to it.
Analyzing literature, media and other fields to examine women’s representation
by both men and women is important to ensure in future a balanced picture of
power-relations.
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15.8 THE PROBLEM OF MISREPRESENTATION Gender
15.10 SUMMING UP
In this unit we have focused on language and gender from several angles.
The ability to use language, whether oral or written, is one of the most
important characteristics of human beings.
In analyzing language we go beyond the boundaries of grammatical analysis
of a text. We are aware of grammar but we see functions within the language
as it is spoken or written and also how words (language) function within
the context.
Focus is also on the social action of the language of the users communicating
in a particular social and cultural context.
We know by now that language is a tool. Not only that, it is a powerful and
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Gender, Representation and
Media 15.11 GLOSSARY
Gender Attribution: Gender attribution is a process. In this process, society
ascribes or assigns a sex or gender on to an individual with or without knowing
concretely what sex that person is or what gender they identify as.
Coates, J. and Cameron D. (eds.) (1998) Women and Their Speech Communities.
Longman: London and New York.
James, D., and Clarke S. (1993) ‘Women, Men and Interruptions A Critical
Review’, in Deborah Tannen (ed.) Gender and Conversational Interaction. Oxford
University Press: New York and Oxford.
Lakeoff, R. (1975) Language and a Woman’s Place. Harper and Rowe: New
York.
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