Abigailism Dag Heward Mills PDF
Abigailism Dag Heward Mills PDF
The Burden of
Leading People
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However, he had a difficult time handling
them. The job that Moses did is the job that all
pastors have to do. God graciously gave Moses
spectacular and sensational miracles. These
signs and wonders helped to establish his
authority over God's flock. In spite of this, the
burden of leading the people was very heavy on
Moses. The Bible calls it a burden - and that is
what it is!
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They grow to a point but can grow no further,
because they fail to share the burden of ministry.
A balanced church is one that has people of all
sorts within it; the young, the old, educated and
uneducated, rich and poor, male and female.
Every pastor will fall into one of these categories.
It must be your goal to incorporate all sections
of the church to help in the development and
growth of the ministry. In other words, all sorts
must be drafted in, to share the burden. You will
find that the category of people you have written
off, as far as ministry is concerned, would be able
to contribute greatly to the ministry.
I notice that most churches exclude the
educated and rich from involvement in ministry.
Usually, the rich are only expected to contribute
money to the church. Similarly, the educated are
just expected to improve the cosmetic image of
the church. However, I have found both of these
groups of people to be very productive and useful
spiritually. I have many medical doctors,
specialists, lecturers, architects, and engineers,
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who are all serving as lay pastors. These lay
pastors are sharing the burden of ministry
alongside me. The burden of the ministry
cannot be borne by one person. It is simply
impossible. From today, if you want to have a
greater ministry than what you currently have,
learn to share the burden.
Sometimes, people do not share the burden
because they want to take all of the glory for
themselves. They want people to feel that they
are the only ones with a supernatural gift. They
want people to show appreciation to them alone.
Others are afraid of rebellion in the camp.
How common is the story of associate pastors
rebelling. Many senior pastors fear their
assistants will outshine them one day. Fear not,
only believe! You cannot expand without
trusting people. The work is so great that you
will never ever be able to do it all alone. There
is too much space in the sky for two birds to
collide.
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Chapter 2
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When something minute goes wrong, you may
be surprised at the actions of people you have
ministered to. Many easily forget what you have
done for them. This is because the things a pastor
does are often not physically tangible, but
spiritual. Most tend to think that the pastor has
done nothing for them. Others go a step further
and commit evil towards you after you have been
a blessing to them. Don't be shocked! The
prophet Jeremiah experienced the same thing
from his people. He said,
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Dear friend, do not be surprised! Do not
expect gratitude from man; expect your rewards
from God. Hezekiah was blessed. But he did not
"render again". That means he did not show
gratitude for all the blessings he had received.
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You are not greater than your master Jesus!
The fact that someone may one day betray you,
may make it very difficult for you to happily
interact and flow with the people. Look closely
at the ministry of any great man of God. You will
discover that they have all had their fair share of
traitors. All of this contributes to the burden and
difficulty of ministry.
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I have experienced wickedness from people
who have lifted themselves up to fight and
oppose me. There are times when my ministry
and very existence have become a source of work
for such wicked individuals; their work being
fighting, slandering and opposing. Without my
existence, I think some people may not even have
a job to do!
If you are not resolute in ministry, you could
easily decide to leave these harassments behind
and move on to a more peaceful existence in
some secular job.
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preparation meant nothing to him. He just
abandoned ship without notice. These
experiences are all part of the ministry.
Abandonment also occurred under the ministry
of Apostle Paul.
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Miriam and Aaron (the closest assistants and
closest relatives) were now speaking against
Moses. They most probably said things like,
"God also speaks by us," and "Are you the only
one?" With time, familiarity creeps in and people
now consider you as an equal. They tend to
think, "We can all do it. What's the big deal?
You are no different from us!"
This is unfortunate, but real. People easily
take you for granted. They murmur and
complain against you, forgetting all that you have
done for them. When they lose their temper, you
will find church members speaking to you as they
would to a little child.
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She started, "Pastor, you know something? I
felt I should tell you that you remind me of my
father."
"Oh really?" the pastor responded.
She continued, "He was so full of himself and
so are you!"
The pastor was taken aback but he had to
smile and continue as though he had received a
compliment. The church member was telling the
pastor exactly what she thought of him.
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6. People are disobedient and rebellious.
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Sometimes, people do not understand the
Word. Often they do not understand why you
have to do fund-raising. Consequently, many do
not respond by giving. Many times, I have to
explain that they are giving to build a nice church
where they can have their weddings, baby
dedications and other ceremonies.
Leading people who have all the above
characteristics: ungratefulness, disloyalty, etc., is
a major task.
One person cannot do it alone. The burden
must be shared with others. Sharing the burden
is hard work. The people will be angry with you
for trying to help them. People need help but
when you try to give it to them, they attack you.
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Chapter 3
Distributing the
Burden
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We have several hundred pastors and trainee
pastors within the ministry. Over ninety-five per
cent of them are unpaid lay people. The use of
lay people is the secret to unlimited expansion
of the church.
There are those who think that lay people
cannot do much of the ministry work. Do not be
deceived - the opposite is true! Lay workers
often do more ministry work than full-time staff.
The reason is simple. The sheep who you have
to minister to are at work from nine to five in the
day and are only free in the evenings and at
weekends.
Stop Pretending…
Both full-time and part-time pastors have to
wait until this period to have access to the sheep.
What do full-time pastors do during the day?
Many of them pretend to be working in the office
behind a desk, but in reality, they are doing
nothing at all!
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Pastors instruct their members to have their
"quiet times" at home. However, they come to
the office to read their Bibles and pray behind
their desks! (The pastor should have his devotion
time at home just like his members).
Sitting behind a desk does not mean that you
are working. A pastor is neither a banker nor an
accountant. He is a shepherd. Shepherds must
be in the fields moving amongst the sheep and
ministering to them.
Let the pastors do pastoral work, and let the
secular people do their work. Lay people can
join the pastors to share the burden of the people.
Let your lay people know that they are called to
share the burden of ministry with you. They will
share the burden on earth and they will share the
burden of accounting for the sheep in Heaven.
What is the burden on earth? It is the burden of
praying, visiting, counselling and interacting
with the sheep. What is the burden in Heaven? It
is the burden of answering for each and every
soul that God gave to you.
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The burden of leading sheep cannot be borne
by one person or just a few people who
supposedly have a "call". The burden of
accounting for hundreds of different people
cannot be borne by one person. When I stand
before the judgement seat and God asks me about
some souls in Canada, I intend to mention the
name of the pastor there and ask the Lord to
inquire from him. When the Lord asks me about
some souls in Navrongo, in the north of Ghana, I
will immediately tell the Lord, "Please ask my
dear pastor who is in charge of that branch." It is
impossible for one person to answer for such a
large burden of souls.
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motto should be, "Of all that you have given me,
I have lost none!" (John 6:39, John 17:12; and
John 18:9)
Moses was breaking down under the burden of
leading the entire flock. God saw this and
decided to take of the "spirit" that was on Moses
and put it on the seventy leaders "to bear the
burden" with him.
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proud of these student ministers because of the
great job that they have done on their respective
campuses. I don't have to rush to any of the
university every Sunday morning to minister the
Word. Ordinary saints should please join in and
work together.
The saints must be perfected (prepared,
trained) to do the work of the ministry. Ordinary
saints can do the work.
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