50 Ways To Show Her You Love Her

Misunderstandings are the biggest problem in most relationships. Sometimes it can be solved
easily, you just don’t know what it is exactly. It could be that she doesn’t feel loved.

When you love someone, you can easily take it for granted. But love is not something to think
lightly about. It’s one of the most important things in life, because every other aspect is touched
by it.

But how do you show it? It may not come easy to everyone. Appreciating a person can be done
in many ways. So I will help you on your way. Here are 50 ways to show her you really do love
her:

1. Talk respectfully. Don’t make her feel like she is less important.
2. Listen to her. Not just to the words she’s saying but to the feeling she tries to express.
3. Compliment her. Be specific, so she knows you really mean it.
4. Try to show interest in things she enjoys. Does she like cooking? Help her! Does she
like sports? Play it with her! Does she like art? Watch it with her!
5. Consider her opinion before making a decision. Ask her what she thinks and honestly
consider it.
6. Be forgiving. There is no better way to love someone than to openly forgive and forget.
Holding a grudge will not improve your relationship.
7. Plan a small trip. Take her to a place where you can spend quality time.
8. Set goals together. If you know from each other what you are working toward, it is
easier to support each other. Also, having goals together will bring you closer.
9. Admit your mistakes. Being open and honest, showing that you too are imperfect will
make her feel closer to you.
10. Have her back. If you get in a situation where you have to choose between your wife
and others, choose her. Especially when it is a situation with your family. She already
feels like she took you away from them, she needs to feel that you don’t hold that against
her.
11. Give her a mini massage, like a back-rub. Who doesn’t enjoy attention like that?
12. If she’s not feeling well, even just a headache, make sure you help her out as much
as possible. She takes care of you all the time, so show her you appreciate that by taking
care of her.
13. When she asks you to help out with something, don’t respond annoyed. Show her
you don’t mind giving a hand. She doesn’t enjoy everything she needs to do either, but
someone has to do it.
14. When you discus a serious subject, don’t go off joking around. Peacefully listen and
talk.
15. When having a conversation, look her in the eye. Show her that you are listening.
Don’t get distracted.
16. Spend as much time as possible with her. She wants to feel like she is the most
important person in the world to you. Spending time is the number one thing you do with
the number one person in your life.
17. Put effort into looking good. Workout, shave, shower, put on some deodorant.
Whatever makes her feel attracted to you, do it.
18. Help out around the house, without special recognition! You don’t have to brag about
doing something that she does every day.
19. Be supportive. When she shows that something she wants to do means a lot to her,
support her. I wanted to be a writer and told my husband, and see where I am today,
writing!
20. If she says something is bothering her, don’t ignore it. Talk about it. Small things that
stay on your mind, will grow into big things that are hard to solve.
21. Work on yourself. Everyone changes over time. When she mentions some behavior that
she doesn’t appreciate, show her you are trying to improve on it.
22. Surprise her. Give her a lovely card or letter. Show up with flowers. Buy her that
bracelet she wanted. Anything small is good. It doesn’t have to be expensive either.
Surprises are what keep your relationship alive.
23. When in a relaxed state, make her comfortable. For example, when watching tv, sit
close and cuddle her or hold her hand.
24. Let her know you think of her when you are not together, by texting or calling.
25. Be pro-active. If she notices that you are trying the best you can at all times, she will
respect you for that.
26. Show affection in public. Hold her hand, give her a kiss, hug her. Don’t be ashamed or
afraid to show her you love her, even when people can see it.
27. Are you going to be later than expected? Let her know! She won’t feel important if you
won’t even let her know that you’re late.
28. Ask her what she’s insecure about. If you want to be the hero who helps her out, you
should have an idea what’s she’s afraid of. There are a lot of unstable factors in life, so
maybe you can help her with things like a job, place to live or even just letting her know
she is important.
29. Refuse to compare her to others. She is your number one! Why even start to compare?
She has to be the only one you care about.
30. When you started to fall in love, you were dating. Why change what’s good? Take her
out on dates to stay in love!
31. She probably makes dinner for you every night… Why not let her relax while you
clean up afterwards? Or better, make dinner once in a while.
32. If she’s feeling discouraged or hurt, hold her and tell her you love and care for her.
She just needs to feel you are there for her at the times she needs you the most.
33. Brag about her. When she’s around, and when she’s not around. Brag about her. Too
many people talk negatively. You chose her, so brag about her.
34. Let her be free to say what’s on her mind. When she speaks from the heart, don’t tell
her her feelings aren’t important or dumb.
35. Explore who she is. Try to know more about her. Talk about every subject you can think
about. See what her viewpoint is on the deeper things in life. Ask as many questions as
you can come up with.
 36. Don’t make her feel guilty. Don’t put your problems on her. If you have a problem, talk
about it patiently.
37. Make her something. Don’t just buy gifts, create them. Maybe you can make a journal
about your relationship, noting down all the important things that happened and adding
little memories to cherish.
38. Take pictures with her. Ladies take a lot of pictures but they don’t have the same
meaning as when you do it. Try to make a picture every time you’re together, that’s a
way to capture a precious moment.
39. When you’re around each other a lot, you have to deal with a lot of serious matters.
Try to add in a little bit of fun by making a joke or tickling her. (Know when to stop,
because you don’t want to annoy her.)
40. Call her cute names. You don’t want to sound like a businessman by just using her
name. But always using the same nickname can also get boring, so mix it up.
41. Be strong enough to let her help you. When it comes to emotional things, you may need
a little help. Let her help you. It’ll show trust and love.
42. Don’t give love to expect it back. Don’t show her you care just to get it back. Give
freely.
43. Don’t see her as weak, but as precious. Women are usually more emotional than men.
But that is not weak. She has to be the most important thing in your life. How can she be
important if you look down on her? She is precious.
44. Don’t just appreciate how she looks, also love her personality. If she knows you
appreciate her for who she is and not just what she looks like, she will feel more love and
appreciate you more.
45. Realize that she is like a gift. Every day of your life with her, remember that she’s a gift
in your life. You could be alone, taking care of yourself, but remember she’s there to take
care of you too. Don’t take her for granted.
46. Do what you say. When you agree on something, follow through. It may not be the
easiest for you, but really do the best you can to do as you agreed on.
47. Celebrate accomplishments. Don’t say ‘cool’ and keep on living life. If she did
something she’s proud of or you’re proud of, let her know. Get a bottle of wine or get a
little something to celebrate.
48. Find out what she likes in bed and do that.
49. Leave little notes around the house, with sweet messages, so every time she enters a
room or uses a different appliance around the house, she has a little surprise. (I got
this tip from my husband, who did this when I was feeling down. Made me feel
amazing!)
50. Tell her you love her! You can never say it often enough. Keep reminding her every
day, hour, minute, that you love her!

And of course, almost everything on this list can be ways to show him you love him too!