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Assertive Passive and Aggressive Behavior

Assertive behavior involves standing up for your rights while respecting the rights of others, resulting in a win-win outcome. Passive behavior means giving up your own rights and deferring to others, resulting in you losing and the other winning. Aggressive behavior stands up for your rights without regard for others, resulting in you winning and the other losing. Passive-aggressive behavior acts out aggressive impulses indirectly and manipulatively to control or punish others.

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Assertive Passive and Aggressive Behavior

Assertive behavior involves standing up for your rights while respecting the rights of others, resulting in a win-win outcome. Passive behavior means giving up your own rights and deferring to others, resulting in you losing and the other winning. Aggressive behavior stands up for your rights without regard for others, resulting in you winning and the other losing. Passive-aggressive behavior acts out aggressive impulses indirectly and manipulatively to control or punish others.

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Assertive, Passive, and Aggressive Behavior

Assertive Behavior includes standing up for your rights without infringing on the rights of others. Assertive
behavior results in an “I win; you win” encounter. Assertion involves expressing beliefs, feelings, and
preferences in a way that is direct, honest, and appropriate and shows a high degree of respect for yourself
and the other.

Example: “When you talk, I can’t hear the movie. Please keep it down.”

Passive/Nonassertive Behavior is when someone gives up their own rights and (directly or indirectly) defers
to the rights of another person. Passive behavior results in an “I lose; you win” outcome. Passive behavior
includes violating y our own rights through inaction or by failing to express your thoughts, feelings, or desires.

Example: “We can do whatever you want. Your ideas are probably better than mine.”

Aggressive Behavior is when someone stands up for their own rights without regard for others. Aggressive
behavior results in an “I win; you lose” outcome. Aggression is self-expression that demands, attacks, or
humiliates other people, generaly in a way which shows lack of respect for others.

Example: “Hey, I’m in a hurry. Get out of my way.”

Passive-Aggressive Behavior occurs when someone acts out aggressive impulses in an indirect way. When
people act passive-aggressively, they attempt to get what they need or want indirectly or manipulatively.
Passive-aggressive behavior is an indirect attempt to control or punish others.

Example: “I’m sorry I’m so late. I didn’t realize this was such a big deal.” “Oh, don’t bother, I’ll have to do it
myself.”

Assertive Behavior is:

 Self-expressive  Verbal – including feelings, thoughts,


 Honest desires, rights, facts, opinions
 Respectful of the rights of others  Non-verbal – eye contact, voice posture,
 Direct and firm facial, gestures, timing
 Socially responsible  Appropriate for the person, culture and
 Learned, rather than inborn situation
 Equalizing – benefiting self and other

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