Even if we are not aware of the physical, intellectual and spiritual ties from our families and

ancestors, we are the perpetrator and carrier. It is easier and more comfortable to see our
similarities and inherited traits on a physical level. But it can be challenging to admit that
family ties, and especially our parents, have a great influence on our thinking and emotional
world. In addition, we have to cope with the effects of spiritual lessons that have been
created through our ancestors for lifetimes and which persist in us. We may have to carry
the karma they created and the crimes they committed. All of these can prevent us from
navigating our lives the way we want.

what we call family karma are unresolved knots and secrets that have lasted for generations.
these nodes are passed on both to our own lives and to future generations. For example,
your father, who did not get enough love from your grandfather and grew up in a cold
environment, will probably be deprived of showing the same love to his child. This emotional
trauma continues like a family legacy.

This emotional trauma can sometimes continue by changing shape. The interesting thing is
that we unwittingly continue the behaviors we see and criticize in our parents. This is
because energetic bonds in close relationships continue at a much deeper and energetic
level than we think. We enter into a vibrational relationship with our parents in such a way
that we become a mirror of what they project to us. Moreover, sometimes we don't even
have to meet them for this. They may not be alive or we may not be seeing them at all. Not
meeting them does not mean we can handle problems.
When we look at the spiritual level, we can list the basic features of family relationships that
need to be healed as follows.

1. We need to understand the spiritual nature of our relationship with parents.

We can think of life as a game plan that is especially shaped to learn spiritual lessons in the
best way. The difficulties in this game are always related to the spiritual lessons we must
learn. We continue to place difficulties in the spiritual lesson until we understand this lesson.
Perhaps the most important of these difficulties are those related to parents and spouses.
Childhood is a sensitive period in which we have to establish a dependent relationship. In
this period, it is often not possible to escape from the damage done. This situation makes it
necessary for us to definitely learn this lesson. We have to understand that the challenging
lessons from the family are lessons that need to be tackled in the first place. Moreover, we
must always remember that we chose this and that we accepted the difficulties our family
gave us on a spiritual level. We also have lessons with our spouse. for example, a betraying
spouse fully understands the importance of spiritual loyalty and honesty.

An emotionally oppressive mother is for us to learn to show love on a spiritual level without
being dependent. The first thing we need to find is the main title of the lesson. It is to
determine exactly what the node is. then finding the lesson you want to take at the spiritual
level only occurs when you are in acceptance with an open heart.

The task of resolving the trauma from the 2nd family is entirely yours.
Low-energy feedback such as revenge and repayment of what was done to you will never
work. this is because this type of behavior makes the knot worse, rather than loosening. In
addition, it can make our own family or marriage worse. so you must be determined to take
responsibility for what you are going through and cleanse this karma that comes from the
family. You will see that knots can be unraveled quickly when you intend to show the
necessary will for it. Since existence, by its very nature, intends to turn to the light, the
desire to heal is more than you might imagine.

3. Forgiving the mother is very, very important.

The mother is the first source of female energy that we encounter at the moment of birth.
female energy is an energy that nourishes, gives birth, warms, gives confidence, grows and
encompasses it with compassion. the mother is a being that does this unconditionally with
all her being. He is the only representative and source of all of these, even if he has not been
able to do so for various reasons. hence in the codes in our subconscious. Therefore, its
place and importance in the codes in our subconscious is both great and nothing else can
replace it. Also, the mother is the only way to be born and gain life energy. The privilege of
incarnation in the physical world is only possible with the acceptance of a mother. this alone
necessitates the healing of the relationship with the mother. Whether he is alive or not, you
should forgive your mother for her mistakes, either knowingly or unknowingly. If the
relationship with the mother is not healed, you may have to deal with lifelong insecurity and
inefficiency. their effects are big enough to bog down your whole life. the money you earn is
not enough, you never trust life and you always struggle with fears. With a lack of affection,
you believe that nobody loves you enough. It is not possible for you to move forward
without improving your subconscious bond with it.

4. Forgiving the father removes the obstacles that block your life.

the father is the source from which masculine energy flows to you at the moment it is born.
The masculine energy is an energy that supports, sheds light with its knowledge, protects,
inspires self-confidence and embraces it with courage. The father is an entity that we
become more aware of over time and deeply feel its presence and strength as we grow. The
physical absence of the father or a problematic relationship with the father manifests itself
as a blockage in all areas of our lives. We do not dare to change, and we always feel broken
and vulnerable to life. We may be attracted to partners who are abandoning, disrespectful
or disinterested. the gift of your father to come to life. If we do not fully appreciate it and do
not forgive him and constantly blame him, our life will come to a point and become blocked.
We cannot find the strength to open these blockages in us and we tend to hold our father
responsible for it.
We get caught in the cycle of blame and sacrifice. In order for life to flow and to get out of
the victim role, we need to forgive our brother and take him as it is. It is not possible for us
to move forward without improving our subconscious bond with it.

5. spouses bear the energetic imprint of the mother and father.

If we examine our partner objectively, we will see that his positive and negative features are
identified with our parents. Our emotional needs and pain in childhood cause us to attract
those kinds of people into our lives. Our spouses can sometimes enter our lives to solve the
emotional traumas that our parents cause us. Therefore, it is not healthy for us to establish a
deep-rooted relationship in our lives without resolving the emotional traumas of our
ancestors. It is possible for us to project the burdens and karmic knots from the family on
our children. However, in some cases, our spouses may enter our lives to offer us the
support we do not receive from our family, and this is reflected in our lives as a very positive
relationship. Or sometimes this knot can be seen in our children's lives by skipping a
generation. knots that we refuse to untie future generations

A HIGHLY EFFECTIVE PURIFICATION OPERATION

You can think of our work now in cycles of 21 days. Do it for 21 days and observe the
transformations in your own life. The people near you will not miraculously transform, but
as your energy changes and your inner reactions transform, you will get some positive
response. Even if they are not in your life, you will see how you set off by observing the
changes in yourself. It may take some patience to transform deeper pain that has been
processed into the subconscious. After a month, you can do another 21-day study. you can
continue cyclically until you feel complete healing. Your intention should be to break the
cycle of pain from your ancestors, to fully release the cycle of victimhood, and to move away
from the expectation that your emotional needs will be met by your family. no one has to
satisfy you emotionally. love is an infinite resource that the divine has bestowed upon us all,
and when you connect to that source, you are bathed in an infinite feeling of love. That's
why loving yourself is loving the creator, and you don't need any other resource. In your
close relationships, you share love in an unexpected way and do not give emotional
sanctions to anyone. Now repeat the following affirmations with me, intending to stay in this
mood:

I freed my mother and father from the responsibility and guilt of their mistakes, either
knowingly or unknowingly.

I free my children from the belief of the need to make me proud. I am not missing, I learn
something new from every living thing around me.
I thank my family's ancestors and grandparents for being in a way that allows me to be alive
now. I free them from their past mistakes from incomplete desires. I am aware that each of
them strives to behave in the best way that time and circumstances bring. I love and honor
them.