Passion: How To Find Your Passion
Passion: How To Find Your Passion
COM LESSON 6
PASSION
HOW TO FIND YOUR PASSION
FINDING
PURPOSE WILL
ULTIMATELY WIN
THE
ENTREPRENEURIAL
GAME...
YOUR
PASSION
Happiness Occurs Through Purpose
WRITTEN BY BOBBY MASON
Who we are and where we want to go ultimately determines what we do and how
much we are able to accomplish doing it. An entrepreneur who lives with purpose
will ultimately win the entrepreneurial game because purpose is the most powerful
motivator when creating a startup. Plus, you’d be stupid to start something for any
pursuit besides happiness…
as the crowd stood in utter silence, the King dropped at the beggar’s feet and
admitted defeat. “You are victorious, but before you go, fulfill my curiosity. What is the
secret of this begging bowl? The beggar humbly replied, “There is no secret. It is
simply made up of human desire.”
Before you start down the path of entrepreneurship, be aware that one of
entrepreneurs’ biggest challenges is avoiding the beggar’s bowl, a bottomless pit of
desire continually searching for the next thing that will create happiness. Starting a
company that makes you loads of money, fortune, and fame won’t lead to happiness…
what leads to happiness is the fulfillment of purpose.
Purpose Is Important
As an entrepreneur, if you lack a big picture view, you can easily fall into serial success
seeking, when what you really want is to become more engaged in what you do and
find ways to make your life more meaningful. A recent study interviewed individuals
that were/are considering the pursuit of an entrepreneurial venture (key word is
“considering” a venture). The “future” entrepreneurs were asked four questions, and
these were the most common answers.
Question #1: How much money do you want to earn from your business?
Answer: I don’t know. A couple million dollars.
Now remember, these answers weren’t every persons response, but they were the
most common answers given to these four questions. You may be asking, “Why does
this matter to me and entrepreneurship?” For one specific reason. This line of
questioning proves if these individuals moved forward with starting a business, they
would never become happier or know when to stop or which direction to focus on. In
other words, an entrepreneur will never know when they have enough money, and
can never be financially wealthy without a purpose.
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Purpose Is Power
The purpose driven conversation above may seem superficial and worthless. You
might even write it off and ignore this lesson all together. DON’T. Purpose is the
ultimate source of personal strength because it creates your unwavering strength as
an entrepreneur to persevere. The ability to create extraordinary results hinges on
your ability to understand what matters most to you and taking the daily steps and
actions that align with what matters. A definitive purpose for your life leads to clarity,
which leads to more conviction in one direction, which leads to faster decision
making. Faster decision making commonly leads to better decisions, which leads to a
more innovative culture and bigger success. Did you follow all that? Essentially,
purpose and passion are the two things some of the greatest leaders in the world
possess and it’s something you want to possess as well!
Did you create a list? We recommend having a minimum of 10 activities listed… Now,
follow these next steps to decrease the list.
With the list in hand, ask yourself the following question: “If I had to choose between
the first activity and the second activity, which activity do I enjoy doing more?” If you
can’t decide, close your eyes and imagine a life where the first activity consumes your
entire work week and the second activity does not exist. Now envision the opposite.
Which activity can you more easily live without?
If you are still struggling to decide, devote some exploration time to each activity.
Spend an entire work day (start at 8 a.m. and end at 4 p.m.) participating in activity
number one without spending any time doing activity number two. Then do the
opposite the following day, spending all day participating in activity number two and
not touching activity number one.
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Once completing these activities, you should have your final answer on whether you
can live without activity one or activity two. When you have your final answer, circle
that activity and cross out the losing activity. Then compare the winning activity to
the third activity on your list using the same format described above.
Complete this exercise over and over again until you’ve made it through all of your
listed activities. When you complete the loop, you should have one final
activity/passion circled. Write that activity down on a separate sheet of paper and
label it #1; this is your number one passion. Take a moment to breath… Now rewrite
your activity list excluding your #1 passion that you wrote on a separate sheet of
paper. With this list, you will repeat the process four more times until you have
created a list of your top five passions on a separate sheet of paper.
Ask a friend, family member, coworker, or mentor to sit down with you and try this
exercise (we’ll refer to this individual as a “friend” moving forward).
Ask your friend to name three of your greatest strengths.
Tell that friend about your top passion and ask him or her to explain an imaginary
story of your life based on the top passion and the three strengths named by your
friend in step 2. For example, your friend may say, “You’re organized, analytical, and
personable, and you’re extremely passionate about golfing. Thus, I imagine you
running a Golf Pro Shop, where you deal directly with customers looking to
purchase golf attire, organize the store accordingly with the most popular
products up front and the less popular products in the back, and have the
responsibility of tracking and purchasing inventory.”
Take a moment or two to imagine and discuss this fantasy in greater detail.
Consider all of the things you like about the fantasy (“I love golf, golf products, and
analyzing inventory trends!”) and what you dislike about the fantasy (“I’d never
want to physically organize inventory or work behind the counter as a
salesperson”).
Now have your friend recreate the story with slight changes based on your
feedback. For example, “Alright, so you still work at a Golf Pro Shop but you are the
Club House Manager. You still analyze and purchase inventory, work at the golf
course, and decide what products go where, BUT you no longer work at the
counter… You now manage the sales staff and provide them direction to improve
their sales performances.”
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Go back and forth until the story feels right. Word of advice: Your friend may
suggest scenarios that you don’t immediately like, but don’t put a stop to their
suggestion until they complete the entire scenario. This is about creating a
situation that plays to your strengths, and you are biased when it comes to
deciding what those strengths are. Therefore, be sure to roll with the punches and
explore several scenarios.
Stop when you are completely comfortable with the story. Once you hit that point
of satisfaction, you’ve officially shaped your favorite passion into a realistic goal and
outlined what you like and dislike doing within that passion.
you. This is especially helpful when you want to learn new skills.There are many more
motivations, but we are assuming that you didn’t prepare yourself mentally to read a
novel.
There are many more motivations, but we are assuming that you didn’t prepare
yourself mentally to read a novel.
Even if your goal doesn’t align, don’t stress out. It doesn’t mean you can’t pursue it. It
just means you are going to have adjust the scenario you created in Step 2 to more
accurately fit what motivates you. Once you do this, be sure to restate your goal on a
piece of paper with the proper modifications made to enhance your motivation.