What Is The Love Language of An ISTP
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This blog post will address the question “What is the love language of an
ISTP?”, it will briefly discuss what an ISTP looks for in a romantic relationship,
give a description of the five love languages and discuss the love language of an
ISTP.
A love language refers to the different ways that people can express and receive
love between and among each other.
These ways differ from person to person, in this blog the focus is on the love
language of an ISTP personality type. Research has identified that Quality time,
Physical Touch, and Acts of service are the primary love languages of an ISTP.
What is the Love Language of An ISTP?
The following are what ISTPs enjoy the most out of the five love languages
Acts of service.
ISTPs deeply appreciate it when assisted in their projects, duties, and
obligations. They feel loved when a person shows consistent interest in their
business with the intent to help them out.
They are very preoccupied with their business and personal activities as they
place a high priority on their independence. So if a loved one helps them
achieve their objectives they will feel loved and cherished.
Quality Time
ISTPs enjoy it when their loved ones spend time with them despite their
tendency to be quiet and detached when in the presence of others.
They enjoy being alone most of the time, but when they do care for someone
they do not mind sharing their personal space or time. This helps them create
meaningful experiences and memories with people and bond with the ones they
love.
Physical Touch
ISTPs are highly kinesthetic and are very hands-on in everything they do. They
hold regarding information they receive through their five senses.
It is no surprise that physical touch is one of their love languages. Because they
are not very wordy they also express love by touching others.
An ISTP In Love
To be happy, comfortable, and stay committed in a romantic relationship the
ISTP usually desires the following conditions:
1. They cannot do the same for a long time because they are not routine-
oriented individuals. Therefore, they desire relationships with people who
indulge in a plethora of activities and events. Therefore, the relationship
must be full of new experiences so that they do not get bored or lose
interest.
2. ISTPs are very hasty and most of their actions are unpremeditated, they
desire a relationship with a person who understands and accepts that
about them. A person who can match that energy by equally being
spontaneous is ideal for them.
3. ISTPs seek independence as they are inclined to try new things, embark
on various personal projects, and live by their own rules. Therefore, a
partner who does not mind this about them would be ideal.
ISTPs are naturally introverts and so need to be alone from time to time to get
energized. They are the type to want to be alone even when they have someone
by their side.
Understanding The Five Love Languages
The concept of the five love languages was originally developed by Dr. Gary
Chapman, these are simply five unique ways that people can express and
receive love between and among each other. These are:
Words of affirmation
These can be words of praise, appreciation, flattery, kindness, compliments, or
encouragement. Some people feel loved when they are recipients of words that
affirm them.
Quality time
This refers to the act of a person spending time with another person. Some
people feel valued when this is done for them.
Receiving material gifts
Others feel valued and appreciated when material gifts are purchased or made
for them. These may include, clothes, jewelry, shoes, cars, and whatever
material things they desire.
Acts of service
Acts of service refer to favors, assistance, or a contribution to the day-to-day
life of an individual. These may include things like helping someone with their
chores, picking up dry cleaning, and generally any form of assistance.
Physical touch.
This refers to physical contact and is more about intimacy. It could be holding
hands, laying your head on your partner’s shoulder, or simply a hug. Some
individuals feel loved when their loved ones touch them and make physical
contact with them.
Conclusion
This blog answered the question “What is the love language of an ISTP?” It
briefly discussed what an ISTP looks for in a romantic relationship, gave a
description of the five love languages, and discussed the love language of an
ISTP. An ISTP’s primary love languages are Quality time, Physical Touch, and
Acts of service.
Frequently Asked Questions: WHAT IS THE LOVE
LANGUAGE OF AN ISTP?
How does an ISTP show love?
ISTPs feel most loved when their partners compliment them on their ability to
solve problems quickly, practically, and creatively with the limited available
resources in hand. They also enjoy having their crafts or handiworks
importantly complemented and appreciated by their partners.
What are ISTPs attracted to?
ISTPs are attracted to people who are confident and comfortable in their skin.
Someone confident and in control of their emotions is extremely attractive for
the ISTP. They are also drawn to originality, sincerity, and people who are
forthcoming about what they want.
Are ISTPs cool?
Yes, ISTPs are considered to be the coolest. They have a calm and collected
disposition, but they also have a spontaneous side which people like and make
them cool and fun.
Are ISTPs dominant?
No, ISTPs usually mind their own business and have no interest in controlling
others as they are usually preoccupied with their business.
Can I be both ISTP and INTP?
No, it is not possible to be both simultaneously.
Are ISTPs talkative?
No, ISTPs are silent and do not like socializing and speaking unnecessarily.
References
Jordan Michelle, ‘Physical Touch Explained - The 5 Love Languages’,
Retrieved from https://cratedwithlove.com/blogs/relationship-tips/physical-
touch-love-language-explained
Leslie Francis & Susan Jones, (2000), ‘Psychological Type and Happiness: A
Study among Adult Churchgoers’, Journal of Psychological Type, Vol 54,
pp36-41. PDF
Richard Bentall, (2003), Madness Explained: psychosis and human nature,
Penguin, London. PDF
