Scorpio in Love
Scorpio in Love
If you are a Scorpio you are intense, dedicated and fascinated by love-play. Romance is
somewhat mythical to you, you want great passion, sexually and otherwise, and you often fall
back to obsession. Because you radiate sex appeal and have such an attractive personality,
people easily fall under your spell. You expect love (and sex) to transform you, and that is
what usually happens.
Do you know a Scorpio who hasn’t a tale to tell of passion and heartbreak? I don’t. Your sign
is all about the glorious highs and deathly lows of the great love affair. You were born to love,
live to suffer yet to rise again, like the proverbial phoenix, out of the ashes of each painful
lesson in love. There is something deeper and more compelling about you than other women,
something that goes beyond physical appearance and charm: you have genuine sexual
magnetism, which men cannot resist. Yet like all females who thrive on passion and are
driven to extremes, your ardour can draw you into the most inappropriate and mutually-
destructive liaisons. Fortunately, like the scorpion itself, you are tough and not only survive
the most fatal attraction but always live to exact the sweetest retribution. Oh, that Scorpio
sting in the tail...
What, of course, would make the path to love and happiness a whole lot straighter and
smoother would be to make a choice with your head as opposed to your heart. But then, that
would be to deny yourself those sojourns in the troughs of pain and despair, which somehow
replenish you. Then there’s overcoming your jealousy and possessiveness. You were not born
with the live-and-let-live gene, but, with practice you can acquire the appearance of giving a
partner his space and you can conquer the desire to put him through a third-degree each time
he’s late for dinner. It is true to say that of all the signs Scorpios are their own worst enemies:
creating unnecessary conflict and suffering agonies over hurts, real and imagined, but let’s not
forget that the making-up more than makes up for all the aggro. Indeed, you have the capacity
to continue living the grande passion well into the geriatric years!
Scorpio in Bed
After all is said and done getting a Scorpio into the bedroom is not a difficult task. However,
you must remember that sex for a Scorpio can turn into a power play. This obsession and love
of power also figures into the sexual arena. They can use sex as a tool so beware. They can go
from nun to pom star in a matter of seconds. They may even withhold sex because it’s just
another little “carrot” they can dangle over your head. It’s a well kept secret that some
Scorpios think about sex more than they actually do it.
You need to get their attention so try to not try to get them into bed right away. Give them a
mental picture of what and how you want to “do them”. You might even go so far as to
whisper it in their ear while eating dinner with their parents. Without having to “go there” you
will have given them an idea of how scandalous and wicked you really are. Yet you are
holding out on them which will forever leave an imprint on their mind.
Another tactic that is in the same ballpark is to embark on a sexual fantasy. Tell them your
deepest darkest sexual fantasy. Encourage them to share their dark secrets with you. You
might want to to this over the telephone as you will be able to exercise willpower should the
atmosphere become to heated. The love total freedom for themselves but can instantly spiral
down into a jealous tantrum should you express sexual interest in another. One final piece of
advice….always promise them sex on the edge. You’ll have their undivided attention.