Intrapersonal Skills
Intrapersonal Skills
Intrapersonal skills are skills within an individual that helps in controlling their attitudes,
emotions, beliefs and also to cope with challenges they may face in their immediate
environment. Intrapersonal skills are found within oneself and these skills helps in managing
situations in life. In most cases, intrapersonal skills are related to emotional intelligence of an
individual and their ability to make well informed decisions. How well they cope with their
emotions in times of trouble or when excited. Intrapersonal skills only focuses on self-awareness
that are fundamental in building relationships with other people in one’s environment. From
personal experience, when faced with pressure or difficult situations that may trigger emotional
outbursts, I tend to retreat and let my emotions cool down first in order to have a sober mind
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Cultivating intrapersonal skills is important since they are essential in everyday life. Being aware
of the environment and ones beliefs are essential when trying to focusing and developing an
individual’s intrapersonal skills. Being aware of the beliefs and values of an individual guides in
innermost beliefs and attitudes, an individual needs to take the opinions of others as a means of
knowing and understanding their intrapersonal skills. In most cases, an individual may be
unaware of their intrapersonal skills since it may be difficult for an individual to see his or her
attitudes, or their attitudes or personal concepts may not match what people say about an
individual. Therefore, getting feedback from other people completely helps in defining and
developing an individual’s intrapersonal skills. For instance, I did not realize that I was a poor
listener until my colleague communicated this information to me. In this way, I tried to develop
and focus on my listening skills by avoiding talking and just listen when someone else is
speaking.
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Our intrapersonal skills affects our behaviors, attitudes and how we relate with one another in
our immediate environment. As discussed earlier, intrapersonal skills involves how we control
our emotions and how we relate with people in the community. Having good intrapersonal skills
helps in forming good and positive behaviors. We are able to behave in an acceptable manner
that are mostly defined by the society that we live in. When an individual has good intrapersonal
skills, they are able to form lasting relationships in the society and they become more likable
with colleagues or anyone that they associate themselves with. One develops positive attitude in
life and they get to relate well with people surrounding them thus making an individual easy to
associate with. Forming good and positive relationships with people especially in the workplace
impacts positively on performance. An individual is able to work with others since they have a
sense of emotional maturity. They are able to solve any workplace conflict that may affect the
in forming good and lasting relationships with people I associate myself with.
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Positive and good intrapersonal skills impacts positively on my attitudes since it helps me to
approach life in a different manner. Having intrapersonal skills such as self-discipline, self-
and towards life in general. Through self-discipline, I am able to see positivity in everything and
having an optimistic attitude towards things that I come across. Every challenge or obstacle that
comes my way I see it as a positive challenge and maneuver through the obstacle and come up
manage to handle situations in life with confidence. I am able to come up with solutions with
confidence and I trust myself in coming up with good judgments that would not affect my life
and that of the people around me. For instance, I once came across a situation that requires me to
use self-discipline as an intrapersonal skill to make decisions. The self-discipline acquired has
fueled my attitude and how I handle situations in life. When something is not good for me, I
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Having good intrapersonal skills has influenced positively on my job performance. I relate well
with the people in my workplace and this helps in improving my job performance. One of the
most important skills in the workplace is having people skills since it helps in forming strong
relationships with colleagues which in turn impacts on job performance. In addition, emotional
maturity as an intrapersonal skill helps in solving any conflict that may arise in the workplace
and end up affecting job performance and the relationship between colleagues in the workplace.
Through emotional maturity, I am able to judge situations wisely and come up with well
informed decisions that are not only based on pure emotions. Having positive attitude in the
workplace leads to job satisfaction thus avoiding any frustrations that may be triggered in the