Annotated Bibliography
Annotated Bibliography
Katrina Busmanis
Ms. Drinkwater
ENG3UV-04
23 July, 2021
Annotated Bibliography
Dubus’ The Fat Girl is a story about a girl named Louise and her struggle to
appease the people in her life. Since she was young, people only viewed her for her
weight. Her identity was tied to how heavy she was. Her mother tried to put her on a diet,
leading her to develop a secret binging habit. When she went on a diet and lost weight,
she received praise from everyone who scorned her for being fat, but she felt that as lost
the weight, she also lost a part of herself. When married, she felt that her husband could
not understand the shaming that she went through as a child. When she started to gain
weight during and after her pregnancy, her husband lost interest in her and stopped
having her around his friends. The people in her life went back to shaming her, but she
found herself to be more comfortable and full of spirit in her fat body. This source is
extremely useful when trying to understand personal identity and acceptance of self. It
was interesting to see the effects of people forcing their version of an ideal identity onto
someone else; it stopped the protagonist from feeling whole and from the people in her
life to treat ‘the real her’ with genuine love and respect. This story made me evaluate the
relationship between our own perceived identity and the way others perceive us,
Hammerstein, Oscar. “Happy Talk.” Happy Talk " Oscar Hammerstein II | This I Believe, This I
the world and himself. If he were to focus only on the negative aspects of life, such as the
death of people he loves and the danger of a nuclear war, he would be undermining the
beautiful and positive aspects of it. He believes that the only way to enjoy life is if you
accept the imperfections of the world and yourself, and that it is silly to do anything but
that. This is a particularly useful source because it highlights how a person’s flaws are
integral to their identity. You cannot truly live and be happy with yourself if you do not
acknowledge your flaws and the imperfections of your life and the world that you live in.
Kiffmeyer, Jennie. “The Stories We Tell, The Stories We Are.” The Stories We Tell, The Stories
We Are " Jennie Kiffmeyer | This I Believe, This I Believe, 24 Mar. 2014,
thisibelieve.org/essay/140004/.
Jennie Kiffmeyer speaks about the death of her father. She explains how she knew
very little about him because he was a private man, and due to this, she finds it hard to
write about him. She talks about how during the beginning of our lives, our family
dictates our identities, and how we must eventually create it ourselves. Kiffmeyer
concludes by stating that she mainly writes to preserve her identity, to have something to
distinguish who she is after she dies. This is a very useful source because of the way that
it presents the concept of identity as subjective and fading. The philosophy that identity is
the stories that you create and share with others when you die is interesting and
Meloy, Maile. “‘Ranch Girl’ Maile Meloy.” WordPress.com, ads714, 30 June 2013,
ads714.wordpress.com/2013/06/30/ranch-girl-maile-meloy/.
Ranch girl is a short story about how your perceived identity can stop you from
becoming someone more than who you are now. The narrator of this story grows up a
ranch girl and lives her life as the stereotype that comes with the label. This label molds
itself into the ranch girl’s personality to the point where her personal identity and the
stereotype becomes interchangeable. This, coupled with her desire for comfort and
stability stops her from leaving her small town. Ranch girl could have grown to be
something so much more than her label, but her identity had built her a cage. This is an
excellent source because it is a great example of how viewing identity as static and
unchanging can stop people from growing. Identifying too strongly with a stereotype or
label can limit your opportunities and stop you from stepping outside of your comfort
zone.
Morton, David. “Stripped Identity.” Poetry Foundation, Poetry Foundation, Nov. 1944,
www.poetryfoundation.org/poetrymagazine/browse?contentId=23994.
Morton’s poem is about how a rose loses its identity as it ages. It describes how a
rose loses its petals, thus losing it’s name and identity. Although short and simple, this is
a very good source. This poem leaves the reader wondering what makes a rose a rose. It’s
most popular attribute is its petals, so when the petals fall from the plant does it cease to
be a rose? This poem made me reflect on how fluid and changeable identity is. It made
me reevaluate my ideas on what qualities are needed to give something its identity.