Counseling Filipino M7
Counseling Filipino M7
Among Filipinos:
- Most common accommodation is respect for elders
- There is a concept of “IBANG TAO” (CIVILITY applies) and HINDI IBANG
TAO (Non-burden)
- Only aims to gain mutual trust and rapport
- Counselors must remember to maintain objectivity whereas flexibility and
objectivity must not be compromised
- The goal is not “pakikisama” but “pakikiisa” – adjusting is not the targeted result
but oneness with substantial trust.
2. Focusing – Pagtutuon (Central Event) – this is the technique of zeroing into an issue, an
aspect of the person, a concern vital to the healing of the person or relationship
A. Talk about the past and recent events in the clients’ life
- Pagbabalangkas ng mga pangyayari sa buhay
B. Assist the client to understand his/her underlying issues through description
- Tulungan ang pasyenteng intindihin and mga problema gamit ang pagsasalarawan
C. Allow the client to confirm your comprehension of his/her situation
- Paghingi ng kompormasyon ng pagpapatutoo sa iyong mga sinasabi
MISCONCEPTION
- Focusing is sorting out available material, either shared by the client or observed
by the therapist, and highlighting and targeting what is felt to be
significant/crucial/vital
AMONG FILIPINOS
- Sharing is especially difficult since their way of communication is mostly indirect
- Reasons:
To avoid offending others
To save one’s face (amor propio)
Regard for social acceptance
3. Probing the Depths
- Paghawi at paghinga (Feelings)
- Despite focusing on the central event that brought the distress or central issue, the
underlying problem still needs to be identified
A. Understand the clients’ feeling and encourage through venting.
- Alamin ang naimbak na dinaramdam at magbigay ng kunting pag-alwas mula sa
paghinga ng mga naipit na damdamin.
B. Explore the clients’ emotions and allow him to open up as well as clarify his
feelings
- Magtanong at hayaan mabuksan, linawin, at tiyakin ang mga dinarama ng kliente.
AMONG FILIPINOS
- The concern for the preservation of acceptance by others filters the manner in
which Filipinos express their feelings
- Alala – Tampo – Sama ng Loob – Hinanakit – Inis – Galit
4. Exploring the options
- Tanaw sa mga sinag sa dulo ng yungib (solutions)
A. Construct ways on how the client deal with the situation, to problem-solve, to
functionally react and deal with emotions, to plan out to avoid problems.
- Tulungan ang kliente kung paano humarap sa problema, kung paano makabangun
sa isang sitwasyon o ikinakasakit ng kalooban, at pagbabalangkas at paghanay ng
makatunay na kalutasan.
AMONG FILIPINOS
- Cultural blocks:
“Bahala na” mentality (negative)
“Kapit sa patalim” course of action
5. Securing Resources – Pagpulot at Pagbubuo (Game Plan)
- Requires seeking and looking in on considered resources
A. Search for who and what can help the client in coping
Maghanap ng maaaring makatulong sa pamamaraang paglutas na pinili
B. Construct ways to help the client calm himself/herself down and reach a
resolution of peaceful mind.
Bumuo ng paraan na makatulong magpakalma at maaaring magdulot ng
kapanatagan
AMONG FILIPINOS:
- Personal Resources
A. Inner resources – faith, life, prayers, previous experience and ways of coping,
material things, persons, groups with personal access or connection to client
and more important to Filipinos than Institutional Resources
B. Institutional Resources – brilliant mind, wisdom and rationality
6. Identifying the opportune time for starting
- Pagtaning sa pag-usad (TIME)
- Awareness must be achieved to make way for a speedy resolution of their
problems
A. Ensure that both the mind and the heart of the client is ready to adapt to
change
Siguraduhing ang pag-iisip at ang puso ng kliente ay handa na humarap sa
isang pagbabago.
** Although time consuming, the six stages of intervention is designed to give a counselor an
upper hand in assisting a client towards his progress.
INDIGENOUS THERAPIES
- Started in some schools in Manila in the 1920s
- Ability to connect with their client because they employ concepts, methods and
techniques
- Based on Carl Roger’s client centered counseling
- Uses behavioral strategies such as behavior modification, reinforcement and
conditioning
- Basic procedure for guidance & counseling – preliminary interview and post
interview.
FORMS OF INDIGENOUS THERAPIES:
1. “SALDET-SAET”
- Ilocano term – prominent trait of the Ilocanos as being hard working
OBJECTIVES:
To help solve problems related to poverty
Help channel negative emotions into something that becomes productive.
Help organize thoughts and mindset in achieving predetermined goals
2. “MEKENI-LIKHA” THERAPY
- Kapampangan word meaning “come” and likha, Filipino word meaning “to
create”
- Therapy for all the victims of the eruption of Mt. Pinatubo.
OBJECTIVES:
To develop positive outlook and minimize trauma through crisis and social
interventions in the form of drama, role play and being creative.
3. MAALWAN THERAPY
- Focuses on three positive traits from the Visayan people
- Meaning malambing, mapagmahal and mapagbigay
A. MALAMBING
- Utilizes power of touch coupled with gentleness, softness, well-modulated voice
and positive reaction when dealing with children.
B. MAPAGMAHAL
- Effective tool to get someone’s attention, sympathy and trust
C. MAPAGBIGAY
- We give without expecting anything in return
4. LAMBILOS THERAPY
- Stands for LAMBING, BIRO and HAPLOS