Kino Explain
Kino Explain
touch.
You use Kino every day, every time you touch something or
someone.
Here are some listed examples of Kino that you can use:
Shaking hands
Hugging
Pecking each other on the cheek
Pushing her away from you / pulling her towards you
Linking arms
Kissing
Negging or complimenting her on her self adornment while picking
it up and examining it i.e. rings.
Leaning in and smelling her (yes it counts)
Slapping her on her ass
Foot rub
**Hint - Kino is always best when your skins contact each others
and cause friction, so for example, try to lose the gloves.
For example, if you had not touched her for the entire night when
suddenly you lean in and try to kiss her, she is more likely to
reject you as you have not established any comfort in touching.
Now all of a sudden you want to kiss her? Way out of her comfort
zone.
So MAKE IT IN HER COMFORT ZONE. How? Touch before that point.
In fact begin the touching as soon as you enter the set. You’re just
a touchy guy!
So for this reason, along with not wanting to seem intrusive and
too direct, you should begin the Kino at about 14-20 seconds in. I
understand it’s hard to be exact, but its only roughly.
THIS WAY when we do make a move, the chances are that she will
be comfortable with it.
It also establishes the fact that you are more than friends. But be
careful of this one, it depends on the frame (context or
circumstances) of the Kino.
For example, if you hug each other or pat her on the back trying
to comfort her, that’s what we call friendly Kino. Friends do that
all the time. Hell guys do that with each other, and guys tend to
be less comfortable with their sexuality for Christ’s sakes.
So what we want for the frame is more than friendly Kino. Sexual
framing baby. This is the difference from a boy and a man (chiefs
words lol <) and more importantly the difference between a friend
and more than a friend. An example of this would be your hand on
her knee, or even better her hand on yours.
Most guys think that every bit of Kino means that they are really
hitting it off with the girl and that she likes him, so the touching is
a really big deal.
**Hint - If you believe it’s a big deal, she will pick up on this. Do
you want her to think that you are overwhelmed by the smallest
bit of touching with her? (If your answer to this is yes read my
value thread) of course not. You want her to pay no attention to
the touching, just want her to be comfortable with it.
So the guy will carry on escalating, (He may not give any Kino at
all - to show her that he’s ‘respectful’ and ‘uncaring about the
physical stuff’) and just aim for that one special kiss at the end of
the night to make his week. Wow don’t you wish you were as
caring and respectful as this guy? Even if he got no where? You can
be caring and respectful, and still have results.
The main thing is act like its no deal for you. It’s nothing. If your
frames strong, then she will follow your judgments and she too
will think it’s no big deal. I saw a guy a few days ago on the
forum, buzzed up because he kiss closed a girl he liked for years.
Great, I understand the buzz, it feels great when you are granted
something that you have been denied for years, but if you honestly
believe it’s a big deal the chances are you’re more likely to screw
up.
The best thing is the first two are also compliancy tests.
This is great for AMOGing. It lets them know they do not threaten
you, and that you are dominant.
Of course if they have not been trained to recognize this then they
will not be conscious of the fact that you have dominated them,
neither will the group, but they will all pick up on it
subconsciously.
So when you enter a set and shake hands with the guys, make sure
you do it first. When they shake your hand, they have validated
themselves to you, if they don’t, then they have failed to validate
themselves to you, and besides to the group they will make
themselves look VERY bad if they don’t shake your hand when your
being this friendly. Tom Cruise is the shit when it comes to AMOG,
watch his Kino. Puts his arm on the side of their shoulder/top of
their arm and with the other hand shakes away happily =D. When
he does this he is actually keeping their arms at bay, containing
them and restrained them from attacking him. He has compressed
them in a single handshake.
When you pass them don’t be scared to give them a pat on the
back to establish your dominance.
But what if they are touchy touchy? The trick is size. Not physical
size, but what you do with your body. Always be the widest.
That’s key. Don’t mean get to MacDonald’s and order everything
you can. I mean cage them with your arms and hands when it
comes to Kino. Every time you pat them, or take the widest Kino
layer, you have successfully compressed them down and restrained
them. You are then free to attack whenever you wish.