Nelson Jones Theory and Practice of Coun
Nelson Jones Theory and Practice of Coun
Counselling and
Psychotherapy
Sixth Edition
Richard Nelson-Jones
The word therapy is derived from the Greek word ‘therapeia’ meaning healing.
Literally psychotherapy means healing the mind or the soul. Nowadays, most
commonly the meaning of psychotherapy is broadened to become healing the
mind by psychological methods that are applied by suitably trained and quali-
fied practitioners. However, as illustrated in this book, there are different
approaches to psychotherapy and, consequently, it is more accurate to speak of
the psychotherapies rather than a uniform method of psychotherapy. Moreover,
there are different goals for psychotherapy including dealing with severe men-
tal disorder, addressing specific anxieties and phobias, and helping people find
meaning and purpose in their lives. Each of the different therapeutic approaches
may be more suitable for attaining some goals than others.
Does counselling differ from psychotherapy? Attempts to differentiate
between counselling and psychotherapy are never wholly successful. Both
counselling and psychotherapy represent diverse rather than uniform knowl-
edge and activities and both use the same theoretical models. In 2000, the
British Association for Counselling acknowledged the similarity between
DEFINING TERMS
Throughout this book, for the sake of consistency, for the most part I use the
terms psychotherapy or therapy, therapist and client. Psychotherapy refers both
to the theoretical approach and to the process of helping clients. It is notable that
the originators of most psychotherapeutic approaches include the word therapy
in their approach’s title: for instance, person-centred therapy, gestalt therapy,
rational emotive behaviour therapy and cognitive therapy. Therapist refers to the
providers of therapy services to clients, be they psychoanalysts, psychiatrists,
clinical psychologists, counselling psychologists, counsellors, psychotherapists,
social workers or other suitably trained and qualified persons. Client refers to the
recipient of therapeutic services whether inside or outside of medical settings.
approach presents a single position regarding the theory and practice of coun-
selling and psychotherapy. A school of counselling and psychotherapy is a
grouping of different theoretical approaches that are similar to one another in
terms of certain important characteristics that distinguish them from theoreti-
cal approaches in other counselling and psychotherapy schools
Probably the three main schools that have influenced contemporary indi-
vidual counselling and psychotherapy practice are the psychodynamic school,
the humanistic school, and the cognitive behaviour school. Sometimes the
humanistic school incorporates existential therapeutic approaches and then
can get the broader title of the humanistic-existential school. A fourth school,
the postmodern school, comprises some more recent approaches. In addition,
there are other recent theoretical approaches that do not fit neatly into this
school heading, for instance positive therapy. Be careful not to exaggerate the
differences between counselling and psychotherapy schools, since there are
similarities as well differences among them. Box 1.1 briefly describes some dis-
tinguishing features of the psychodynamic, humanistic-existential, cognitive
behaviour and postmodern schools.
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PSYCHODYNAMIC SCHOOL
Classical psychoanalysis Originator: Sigmund Freud (1856–1939)
Pays great attention to unconscious factors related to infantile sexuality in the develop-
ment of neurosis. Psychoanalysis, which may last for many years, emphasizes working
through the transference, in which clients perceive their therapists as reincarnations of
important figures from their childhoods, and the interpretation of dreams.
HUMANISTIC-EXISTENTIAL SCHOOL
Person-centred therapy Originator: Carl Rogers (1902–87)
Lays great stress on the primacy of subjective experience and how clients can become
out of touch with their organismic experiencing through introjecting others’ evalua-
tions and treating them as if their own. Psychotherapy emphasizes a relationship char-
acterized by accurate empathy, respect and non-possessive warmth.
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RECENT THERAPIES
Solution-focused therapy Originators: Steve de Shazer (1940–2005) and
Insoo Kim Berg (1934–2007)
Theories of causation are irrelevant to the process of achieving goals and resolving problems.
The therapist is responsible for directing the conversation towards the client’s goals and
acknowledging their difficulties. Specific uses of language and styles of questioning are used
to encourage creativity and flexible thinking around the relevant issues.
Therapists are decision makers. They continually make choices about how to
think about clients’ behaviour, how to treat them, and how to respond on a
moment-by-moment basis during therapy sessions. Theories provide therapists
with concepts that allow them to think systematically about human develop-
ment and the therapeutic process.
Counselling and psychotherapy theoretical approaches may be viewed as
possessing four main dimensions if they are to be stated adequately. In this
context behaviour incorporates both observable behaviour and internal behav-
iour or thinking. The dimensions are:
THEORIES AS LANGUAGES
Swiss psychiatrist Carl Jung used to stress that, since all clients are different indi-
viduals, therapists require a different language for each client (Jung, 1961). Another
function of theories is similar to that provided by languages. Languages are vocab-
ularies and linguistic symbols that allow communication about phenomena. Like
the major spoken languages of English, Spanish and Mandarin Chinese, the differ-
ent theorists develop languages for the phenomena they wish to describe: for
instance, cognitive, psychoanalytic or person-centred languages. Language can
both unite and divide. It can encourage communication between people who
speak the same language, but discourage communication if they do not. Each
theoretical position has concepts described in unique language. However, the
uniqueness of the language may mask common elements among theories: for
example, the meaning of conditions of worth in person-centred therapy overlaps
with that of super-ego in Freud’s psychoanalytic therapy, though you would not
know this from the language!
The psychotherapy process is a series of conversations requiring languages. In
any therapeutic relationship there are at least four kinds of conversations going
on: namely, therapist and client inner and outer speech. All therapists who oper-
ate out of explicit theoretical frameworks are likely to talk to themselves about
clients in the language of that framework. In varying degrees their therapeutic
practice will match their language. Therapists do not always act according to
how they think. Furthermore, in varying degrees therapists share their theoreti-
cal language with clients. For example, unlike in rational emotive behaviour
therapy, the language in which person-centred theory is expressed tends not to
be shared with clients. Instead, person-centred therapists try more to reflect and
match clients’ outer speech.
Clients are also theorists, though usually without the sophistication of their
therapists. Approaches like rational emotive behaviour therapy and cognitive
therapy actively try to influence the language in which clients talk to them-
selves so that it becomes helpful rather than harmful. In a sense the therapist’s
language is being exported to and imported by clients so that they can better
assist themselves once therapy ends.
Theories can be both based on research and stimulate research. For example,
cognitive behaviour therapy is based on research into how people think and
into how both people and animals behave. Furthermore, cognitive behaviour
approaches, such as rational emotive behaviour therapy and cognitive therapy,
have stimulated research into their processes and outcomes.
Theories also provide therapists with frameworks within which to make pre-
dictive hypotheses during their practice of psychotherapy. Whether acknowl-
edging it or not, all therapists are practitioner-researchers. Therapists make
hypotheses every time they decide how to work with specific clients and how
to respond to single or series of client utterances.
Clients are also practitioner-researchers who make predictions about how
best to lead their lives. If valid theories of counselling and psychotherapy are
transmitted to clients, they may increase the accuracy with which clients can
predict the consequences of their behaviours and, hence, gain more control
over their lives.
WOUNDED THEORISTS
The origins of behaviour therapy are more in the animal laboratory than in the
personal experiences of behavioural theorists. However, many of the other
theorists whose work is described in this book encountered periods of signifi-
cant psychological suffering in their lives. Box 1.3 illustrates this point. Jung’s
observation that ‘Only the wounded physician heals’ might be amended to
become: ‘Only the wounded healer creates a counselling and psychotherapy
approach’.
Sigmund Freud (Psychoanalysis) suffered for many years from periodic depressions,
mood variations and anxiety attacks. Freud also had occasional attacks of dread of
dying, some psychologically induced fainting spells, and became very frightened about
train travel.
Carl Jung (Analytical therapy) was a solitary child who, at one stage, used fainting spells
to get out of going to secondary school. In his late thirties and early forties Jung expe-
rienced schizophrenic-like symptoms.
Carl Rogers (Person-centred therapy) was an extremely shy and solitary child who grew
up considering his parents as masters of subtle emotional manipulation. Rogers felt it
unsafe to share much of his personal feelings at home for fear of being judged
negatively.
Fritz Perls (Gestalt therapy) grew up in a distressed family where his parents had many
bitter verbal and physical fights. Perls’ mother beat him with carpet-beating rods. He
hated his father’s pompous righteousness.
Eric Berne (Transactional analysis), when eleven, experienced the death from tubercu-
losis of his beloved physician father, leaving his mother to support him and his sister.
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Irvin Yalom and Rollo May (Existential therapy) Yalom grew up spending many hours
hating his mother’s vicious tongue. May grew up in a discordant and unhappy family
atmosphere. He described his mother as a ‘bitch-kitty on wheels.’
Albert Ellis (Rational emotive behaviour therapy) was a sickly child who was unusually
shy and introverted during his childhood and adolescence. Ellis’ mother was self-
involved and neglectful and his father was often physically absent. Aged 12, Ellis dis-
covered his parents had divorced.
Aaron Beck’s (Cognitive therapy) mother was deeply depressed. She could also be moody,
inconsistent and excitable. While growing up Beck developed many anxieties, including
fears related to abandonment, surgery, suffocation, public speaking and heights.
Arnold Lazarus (Multimodal therapy) was the youngest of four children and grew up
feeling ignored and unimportant at home, which contributed to his feeling shy, inad-
equate and hypersensitive. Lazarus was also a skinny kid who was bullied a lot.
better results with clients from listening to them than from diagnostic under-
standing and advice (Rogers, 1980). Michael White and David Epston developed
narrative therapy partly as a reaction to the hierarchical and dehumanizing
ways they perceived people were treated in psychiatric hospitals.
RESEARCH FINDINGS
Research can both influence the initial development of theory and test its use-
fulness. Behaviour therapy theory is based on the findings of experimental
research: for instance, Pavlov’s classical conditioning is based on experiments
with dogs; Skinner’s operant conditioning on experiments with pigeons and
rats; and Wolpe’s counter-conditioning by reciprocal inhibition on experi-
ments with cats.
Theory can also be developed and validated from researching the processes
and outcomes of psychotherapy. Theorists are practitioner-researchers
generating and testing hypotheses in their psychotherapy practice. Thus pro-
fessional experience can act as informal psychotherapy process and outcome
research. Theorists and their adherents differ in the extent to which they either
engage in or generate more formal psychotherapy research. On the one hand,
the processes and outcomes of approaches like cognitive therapy, rational emo-
tive behaviour therapy, person-centred therapy and behaviour therapy are
heavily researched. On the other hand, there is a paucity of research into
approaches like transactional analysis, gestalt therapy and existential therapy.
PROFESSIONAL AFFILIATION
A group of theorists whose work is presented in this book were or are psychia-
trists: for example, Beck, Berne, Freud, Jung and Yalom. Many of the remainder
trained as clinical psychologists: for instance, Ellis, Lazarus, May, Rogers and
Seligmann. Of the clinical psychologists, only Lazarus and Seligmann were
affiliated in academic psychology. De Shazer, Berg, White and Epston were
social workers and counsellors.
LONGEVITY
If you are going to be a major counselling and psychotherapy theorist, it helps
to have good genes. Longevity helps major theorists to develop, refine, proselyt-
ize and defend their work. Ellis lived into his nineties, Freud, Jung, May, Rogers
and Lazarus lived into their eighties, and Perls lived to over seventy-five. Probably
Berne’s premature death at aged sixty robbed transactional analysis of many use-
ful developments and insights. Of the living theorists Beck (b. 1921) is over
ninety, Yalom (b. 1931) is over eighty, and Epston (b. 1944) and Seligmann (b.
1942) are over seventy. Another aspect of longevity is that many, if not most,
major theorists did not publish original work until they were over forty.
Each of you reading this book is engaging in the process of creating your own
theoretical approach. Theory creation is both a subjective process of making sense
of material as well as an external process of reading, learning, researching and
practising psychotherapeutic skills. How can you make yourself a better theorist
and hence a more effective therapist? The following are some suggestions.
GET PERSONAL
Jung observed: ‘My life is a story of the realization of the unconscious’ (Jung,
1961, p. 17). What about your life’s story and what are you trying to realize
UNDERGO SUPERVISION
A good way to learn about the theory and practice of a psychotherapy approach
is to be supervised by a practitioner skilled in it. For instance, you can learn the
theory and practice of one psychotherapeutic approach more thoroughly by
being supervised by someone knowledgeable and competent in that approach.
Then you can broaden how you work by obtaining supervision from practition-
ers of one or more different approaches. Many consider that supervision for
those practising counselling and psychotherapy is essential throughout their
careers.
REVIEW QUESTIONS
1. How would you define the terms counselling and psychotherapy?
2. To what extent do you consider the terms counselling and psychotherapy describe dif-
ferent activities and why?
3. What is a theory?
4. What are the functions of counselling and psychotherapy theories?
5. What are some potential limitations or disadvantages of counselling and psychotherapy
theories?
6. What factors are influential in creating counselling and psychotherapy theoretical
approaches?
PERSONAL QUESTIONS
1. Do you consider yourself a prospective counsellor and/or a prospective therapist and
why?
2. Describe your present preferences regarding counselling and psychotherapy theoretical
approaches?
3. How can you best learn about counselling and psychotherapy approaches?
4. How can you best develop a theoretical position to guide your counselling and psycho-
therapy practice?
ANNOTATED BIBLIOGRAPHY
This book is a mixture of primary and secondary sources. For instance, chapters
on cognitive, existential, person-centred and rational emotive behaviour psycho-
therapies are written by their originators, sometimes with co-authors. Secondary
source chapters include those on psychoanalytic, Adlerian, behaviour, gestalt,
family, contemplative and integrative psychotherapies.