How

to Sleep With Any Girl

By Adrian Gee
























Table of Contents
How to Sleep With Any Gir l
By Adrian Ge e
Introduction :
You Can Lear n
Chapter 1: Gaining Confidence Before You Approac h
Practice, Practice, Practic e
Choose a Good Locatio n
Keep Learnin g
Chapter 2: Humor, Hygiene, and Smiles – Important Steps Before Looking for
the Ladies Improve Your Physical Appearanc e
Improve Your Hygien e
Remember to Smil e
A Little Humor of the Right Type Goes a Long Wa y
Reading Social Cue s
Do Not Fear Rejectio n
Chapter 3: The Approac h
Be Mentally Ready to Pick Up a Girl Anytim e
The Right Approach for the Local e
Observe Before the Approac h
Develop a Topic or Two to Talk About Before Initiating a Conversatio n

The Approach Must Be Nonthreatenin g

The Approach Should Be Well-Time d
Chapter 4: The Conversatio n
Your Body Languag e
 NLP – Neuro-Linguistic Programming – What Is It and How Do You Use It
?
Conversation Starter s
Taboo Topic s
Ask for an Opinio n
You Don’t Always Have to Agre e
Conversation Includes Listenin g
The Power of Innuend o
Basic Conversational Etiquett e
Chapter 5: Make an Emotional Connectio n
Start an Emotional Connection as Soon as Possibl e
You Should Share, To o
How Personal Should Your Stories Get ?
What Is Negging and Does It Really Work ?
Chapter 6: Make a Physical Connectio n
What Is Anchoring ?
Go With Her Flow Regarding Physical Connectio n
Chapter 7: Never Be Need y
Are You Too Needy? Signs of Needines s
How to Stop Being Need y
Instant Neediness Is Instant Rejection for Most Wome n
Why Do Women Hate the Needy Man ?
Conclusion :

Introduction:

You are probably like many men out there. You have some trouble and
trepidation when it comes to speaking with women, especially when it comes to
flirting and trying to get them into bed. It’s a more common problem than you
might imagine, and not everyone is a natural when it comes to charm and
seduction.

However, this certainly does not mean that you can’t succeed when it comes to
women. You just need to know what you can do to improve your chances, and
that’s just what this book is all about.

You Can Learn

Over the course of the book, you will learn things that you need to start doing
right now to make yourself appear better in the eyes of the women that you want
to be with. After all, they aren’t going to want someone who is slovenly and
unkempt and who doesn’t seem to have it together. This is true whether you are
looking for a relationship or just a one-night stand with her.
You will learn how to approach women the right way, how to start up and have a
conversation, and even how to make an emotional connection when you meet a
woman. You will learn how to make the physical connection that can start to put
her mind in the right place.

You will also learn why it is so important not to seem needy, along with some
other tips and tricks that will help to ensure you come across as a prize, not just
some schmuck who is terrible at flirting.
Best of all, you will discover that learning and implementing these techniques
into your life are not as difficult as some might lead you to believe. It’s not a
magic trick that helps guys get the girls. Most of the time, it’s just learning to
look good, learning how to talk to and listen to women, and learning how to take
things to the next level. Let’s get started, so you can seriously bump up your
success rate.


Chapter 1: Gaining Confidence Before You Approach

When it comes to meeting women, you will always find that those men who are
more confident are going to have far more success. It’s not about luck. It’s about
becoming a more self-assured and poised man. You make your own luck.
Confidence is far more attractive to women than someone who is meek and
unsure of himself, or the wallflower who stands in the corner and gazes at them
creepily, hoping for that “spark” or the “look across the room” they’ve seen in
all of those cheesy romance movies. Those sorts of things don’t typically
happen, and the vast majority of women are not looking for the lovable loser
whether it’s for a one-night stand or a long-term relationship.

You need confidence before you approach women, so you will have the
confidence when you do approach them. When you know how to talk to women,
and you have the right attitude, you will start to exude self-assurance. With more
confidence, and plenty of practice, you will find that the techniques in this book
can help you to hook up with girl that you want.

Of course, you are probably wondering just what you need to do in order to
improve your confidence. Let’s look at a few steps that will start you off on the
right path.

Practice, Practice, Practice

One of the biggest mistakes that a person can make in this endeavor is to start off
by always trying to talk to the most gorgeous woman in the room. If you are
unaccustomed to doing this, your head is going to start swimming in doubt the
moment you start thinking about it. This means trouble, as many people are
going to start making excuses right away as to why they can’t approach her right
now. Maybe they worry about her friends, the music, their breath, whether they
put on too little or too much cologne, the lighting, the phase of the moon… any
number of random excuses will pop into their head and derail them from
approaching her.

This is because they have not put in the time to practice talking with enough
women so that they are confident enough to approach the one that they truly
want to be with. So, as with anything else in life, practice is going to make
perfect.

You will want to build your confidence gradually. Start making conversation
with women you have no intention of picking up wherever and whenever you
can. This includes people you are not attracted to. Talk with the waitress, the
cashier, the bank teller, and everyone else.

You are using these opportunities to learn how to talk without getting nervous or
stumbling over your words. You are learning to smile when you talk and
learning to make eye contact with people.

Once you start to practice, you will definitely find that your confidence is
growing and that it is becoming easier to start conversations with women you do
not know. In time, you will have no problem walking across that crowded room
and talking with the beautiful woman that caught your eye.

Choose a Good Location

Another great tip to help you meet the type of women that you would like, and
that would make it easier to converse with, is to choose a type of venue that
makes you feel at home. Perhaps you don’t like the bar or club scene, for
example. This could make approaching women in these locations more difficult
if you hate yelling over the music or looking like a fool on the dance floor –
unless, of course, you know how to dance.
Instead of using that as an avenue for meeting women, consider classes, such as
an art class or a cooking class, head to the park, a farmer’s market or grocery
store, a museum… there are countless places that you could meet women outside
of a bar or club. Find those locations that you enjoy, and you will find that you
are more confident when it comes to approaching women and talking with them.

Keep Learning

Building your confidence is a vital initial step. Later in the book, we will be
discussing more about using humor and smiles, approaching women and
breaking the ice, and actually conversing with them and moving on to a physical
connection.

Chapter 2: Humor, Hygiene, and Smiles – Important
Steps Before Looking for the Ladies

Sure, you want to get out there and meet women who are going to be interested
in you and who will want to sleep with you. However, all of the talking in the
world is not going to get you anywhere, if you are humorless, gruff and hygiene-
challenged. Think about it from the woman’s perspective for a bit. Would you
want to go home with someone who did not take care of themselves and who
was grim all of the time? Probably not.

That’s why this chapter is all about working on yourself and making yourself
into a better catch before you start trying to hook up with women. By taking
these steps now and making some improvements in your life, you will find that it
can help you to build the confidence discussed in the first chapter. You are going
to be happier with who you are and what you have to offer.
You will exude confidence, and that’s what so many women find attractive,
whether they are looking for a one-night stand or someone with whom they can
build a real relationship.

Improve Your Physical Appearance

We’re not talking about running out and getting plastic surgery to look like
whoever the current heartthrob actor or musician is right now. It’s far simpler
than that, fortunately.

You will find that even if you are an average guy, or perhaps even a somewhat
less than average guy, there are plenty of things you can do that will help to
change and improve your physical appearance to make you more attractive.

Physical Fitness

The first step is to make sure that you are taking good care of yourself when it
comes to your physical fitness. Not only is it important for your health, but it is
important for how you are perceived by women. If you are hoping to sleep with
attractive women who have great bodies, you can be sure they want the same
thing from the men they choose.

Whether you are highly overweight, a bit overweight, a little flabby, or nothing
but skin, bones, and a little bit of muscle, you can do better. If you have the
money, spend some time at the gym to shed some pounds and build muscle. You
don’t need to have a six-pack, and you don’t need to look like a fitness model.
You just need to make sure you are in shape and that you look good.

For some, the journey to fitness might be longer than it is for others. Perhaps
you’ve neglected taking care of yourself for a while now, or perhaps fitness was
never important to you. Now is the time to start getting into great shape. You are
going to feel better, and you are going to look better. When this happens, you are
going to be bursting with energy and confidence.

If you want to sleep with beautiful women, don’t you think it would be nice to
be happy with your body, and to have that extra energy for all of those…
extracurricular activities you have planned? You don’t want to get winded or
get a cramp when you are having sex. That would be rather embarrassing, don’t
you think?
So, how do you start to get in shape? It really depends on what you need to do.
Are you trying to lose weight and build muscle? Are you skinny and want to
pack on some muscle? You can go to the gym if you have one in your area and
can afford it, or you could work out at home. Hike, swim, walk, run, and find as
many ways to be active in your life as you can. You don’t have to spend a lot of
money getting into good shape. Calisthenics and body weight exercises can work
wonders.

The goal of this book is not to give you a bunch of workout plans that you can
use. Instead, we’re teaching you how to pick up and sleep with women. Getting
into shape is just one of the aspects you will have to consider.

There are plenty of books and websites dedicated to helping men get into proper
shape. Find several that appeal to you and that have positive reviews with people
who have gotten good results, and then follow those plans.

Just make sure you follow through with the plan and put in the time and effort it
takes to get into shape before you start trying to strut around a club and pick up
women. It’s not likely to work unless you have at least a passable body. The
better shape you are in the easier it will be. Women want someone who’s
attractive, and it’s your job to make sure you fit the bill.

Diet and Nutrition

Remember that physical fitness is about far more than just working out. You also
need to think about the foods that you are eating if you want to get into the best
shape possible. If you want to put on muscle and cut out the flab from your
body, it means eating right with quality protein sources and fresh fruits and
vegetables. You want to choose these foods over processed foods.
That’s not to say that you can never have some of those unhealthy foods that you
love, just that if you want to get into shape and stay in shape – which helps you
stay on top of your game when it comes to picking up women – you might need
to seriously consider your food choices. Again, the right foods help to give you
plenty of energy, which helps with working out, not to mention having staying
power when it comes to women.
Proper nutrition can also help to make your skin look and feel better to the touch,
which can help make you appear young and strong. Bad nutrition can often cast
a sickly appearance on people, even if they are those folks who can “eat
anything and not gain weight”. Think about the foods you are putting into your
mouth, along with how much you are eating, and staying in shape and attractive
is going to be much easier for you.

Better Clothes and Shoes

In addition to getting your body into shape, you need to think about other aspects
of your outward appearance. This certainly includes the clothes and shoes that
you are wearing.

People say that you should never judge a book by its cover. However, it’s human
nature to do just that. People judge based on appearances, and there’s nothing
you can do about that. If you were to see an unkempt woman in ragged, dirty
sweatpants, wearing an old baggy t-shirt, and with a cigarette dangling out of her
mouth, you are probably not going to think she’s the most attractive woman in
the room.
Now, think about it from a woman’s perspective. If you have holes in your
clothes, ratty shoes with frayed laces, and stains on your clothes that just won’t
come off, why would she be interested? You can’t wear your favorite Velcro
sneakers everywhere, no matter how comfy they might feel. You are not a
professional hobo, so don’t dress like it.
Sure, if you are just lounging around the house, wear whatever you want. Be
comfortable. When you head out, though, whether you are heading to the gym,
to work, to the store, or you are going out to a bar, movie, museum, or wherever
you might be heading, dress appropriately.
You don’t have to run out and spend all your money on new clothing – at least
most people don’t. You probably have a few things around the house that you
can wear that look nice and that make you look great . That last bit is the most
important. You want clothes that work well for you and that make you look as
good as possible.

Maybe you do need to spend a bit of money getting some clothes that fit better
on your body. This is certainly true if you have been working out and getting
into better shape, as mentioned. If you aren’t sure exactly what you should be
wearing to look good or the type of clothing that will work best for you, talk
about it with some friends.
If you have some friends who are women, and hopefully you do, they can
provide you with some great suggestions. If you aren’t sure who you should be
asking, then you can always spend some time talking with people in the clothing
shop. They can certainly help, but don’t fall into the trap of buying shoes and
clothing items that are more expensive than you really need.

Now that you have started to think about your physical fitness and health, and
you’ve started to look at your wardrobe to see what you need to buy, it’s time
that we talked about hygiene.

Improve Your Hygiene

Everyone who is an adult and who has managed to get through their awkward
teen years should have at least a basic grounding of hygiene and how important
it truly is if you want to attract women. However, it does still bear repeating here
because there are plenty of men – too many, in fact – out there who do not care
one iota about their grooming. Yet, they still wonder why they aren’t attracting
the women that they want and why they can never seem to get laid.
Like those who are grossly out of shape and who are wearing rags to pick up
women, these men often believe that it’s the fault of those women for not
“seeing past their faults.” That’s complete and utter BS. Guys who take care of
themselves are smart enough to know that’s what women are looking for.

It doesn’t matter if it’s just a one-night stand or a relationship. If you stink, if

you have fuzz on your teeth, and if you have a wild tangle of untamed hair
sprouting off your face, back, and shoulders, you aren’t going to get women.
And you shouldn’t. Have some pride and take care of your hygiene.

Get into a routine for hygiene and stick to it. Honestly, it’s very simple, and it
might amaze you how many men really don’t seem to care. Here are some
simple yet vital grooming and hygiene tips and reminders for men.

· Wear deodorant – Wear it every damned day, and maybe add some
twice a day if you need it. You want a pleasant fragrance for the deodorant
and antiperspirant, but not something that is going to be overwhelming.

· Wash your face – You should wash your face twice per day.
Washing helps to make sure that your face is clean and is not going to
break out. Stay away from using soap, body scrubs, and body gels on the
face, as these can dry and irritate the skin. Use a facial cleanser instead.

· Brush your teeth – You want to brush your teeth three times per day.
Do it in the morning after breakfast, after lunch, and before you head to
bed. This keeps the teeth in good shape, and it helps you to maintain a
white smile. I’d recommend activated charcoal by
teethwhiteningsolutions.com. Your smile is important, as you’ll see later
in this chapter.
· Floss – Brushing is important, but don’t forget just how important it is
to floss, as well. Floss at least once per day, as well as whenever you feel
as though something might be stuck between your teeth. If you plan to kiss
a woman, you really need to make sure your teeth and breath are on point.
Otherwise, it’s going to be a no go.

· Change your damned underwear – Sure, you change your

underwear daily… but do you always? Are there days where you just say,
“screw it, good enough” and head out into the wide world. Do you always
change your underwear directly after you’ve had a workout? Always
change your underwear. No one needs to have that musk offending their
nostrils. Imagine getting a woman back to your place or hers and then she
realizes that you have on dirty, stinky underwear. That’s going to be a
serious turn off.

· Wash your clothes – Just because you sniff your shirts or pants and
don’t think they stink and you don’t see any stains does not mean they are
clean. Get into the habit of washing your clothes regularly and hang and
fold them properly so they do not get any wrinkles.

· Shower twice a day, at least – You should shower in the morning

before you head out, as well as at night after a long day. In addition, make
sure that you shower after you have been working out. It’s better for your
skin, and it ensures you don’t have any leftover funk on you after the gym.
If you are going to be going out where you could meet someone – which is
just about anywhere – make sure you are clean and fresh before you leave
the house.
· Clip your nails – Take a look at your fingernails and then your
toenails. Having trimmed nails is something that women often look for
when they are talking to a man that piques their interest. If the nails are
long enough to hold dirt, then they are simply too long. If the toenails are
 starting to curl over the edges, then they are far too long. No, this doesn’t
mean that you need to invest in a manicure or pedicure. It just means you
need to take a minute each day to check your nails and make sure they
aren’t out of hand.

· Shave or trim the beard – Having facial hair is fine; so long as you
keep it groomed and trimmed properly. Use beard oil and other products
to make sure it is in good shape, and to make sure it doesn’t stink. Yes,
some men have bushy beards that stink, and that’s going to be a big turn
off for most women. When it comes to having facial hair, something else
that you will want to remember is that not all women like it. By having a
beard or a mustache, you are limiting the number of women who may
immediately find you attractive. Think about whether you really need a
beard or not.

· Grooming below the neck and the belt – Please keep in mind that
you want to groom all your areas, including the ones that she can’t see
when you first meet. If you are so covered in body hair that you could be
mistaken for Sasquatch if you go for a jog without your shirt, it might be
time to shave that away, so people can see you are human beneath. You
will also want to consider grooming the pubic area for when you do find a
woman who wants to sleep with you. It shouldn’t look like the Black
Forest from Grimm’s Fairy Tales down there. Keep it tight.

These simple tips really will help you stand head and shoulders above many men
out there who just don’t seem to care about their grooming. You want to have
every advantage possible, so make proper grooming a part of your life.

Remember to Smile


Smiling is important if you want to pick up women. Someone who looks dour
and grumpy is going to find that it is far more difficult to get women to spend
time wanting to talk with them. After all, who wants to be with someone who
looks unhappy? You aren’t Batman, so brooding is not going to bring about the
results that you want.

You need to smile.

However, you also need to know how to smile . There are right and wrong ways
to do it, believe it or not. What types of smiles are bad? Well, the creepy, leering
smile for starters. This type of smile is going to set anyone on edge very quickly,
and you aren’t a seedy villain from an 80s movie. The “sudden” smile when you
notice a woman looking in your direction is also a bad idea. If you go from a
neutral position to a smile in a fraction of a second, she’s going to wonder
what’s wrong with you.

The best type of smile is the natural smile. The smile needs to be organic for it to
“land”, and that means you need to learn to be a happier person. Smile more
often and make it natural. It will show that you are a happy and confident
person, and that tends to be the type of man that many women want to be around
and with.

It also means that you are naturally going to be smiling more, and this will catch
the eye of many women. They will often smile back, and this will give you a
chance to turn the smile into an approach and actual conversation. It doesn’t
always mean it’s going to go further than that, but it is certainly going to help
make it easier to continue approaching and talking to women.

A Little Humor of the Right Type Goes a Long Way

You are funny. Well, at least you think you are funny, and maybe some of your
friends tell you that you are. However, the things that you tend to find funny
may not always be the same things that most women are going to find funny.
Sometimes they are, and sometimes they aren’t.

When you are first approaching a woman, it’s best to keep the humor a bit more
cerebral and a lot less juvenile. Most women aren’t going to laugh at your fart
jokes when they first meet you, even if they do secretly find them funny. They
want to know that you have a bit more going on than that.

To use humor effectively when you are talking with women, you will first want
to make sure you have brushed up on your social skills. The jokes that you tell
can and should be topical to your location, and the conversation. Try to
implement the humor naturally and make it help to further connect the two of
you, even though you just met. They should be funny without being overly
offensive, and they should certainly never be demeaning, especially toward her.

Sure, those types of jokes might sometimes work, but it’s rare, and it is telling
about the personality of the woman who enjoys those types of jokes.

Don’t Use Pickup Lines

Some people will tell you that pickup lines still work, but the truth of the matter
is that they generally don’t. In fact, pickup lines are more likely to get you some
eye rolls and cold shoulders than the effect you are hoping for.

Pickup lines are a dime a dozen, and when you use them, you are telling her that
she is no more special than the countless other women who have heard the line
in the past. Treat women like the unique humans they are and come up with
better ways to speak to them and connect with them.

Putting in the extra effort to learn how to talk with women and inject humor
naturally is going to go a long way in helping you with women.

Reading Social Cues

It is also essential that you understand how to read body language and social
cues from women. If you can’t, it means that you are going to continue telling
jokes that she does not want to hear or saying things that she finds inappropriate.
Each woman is unique, and you need to learn how to read what she’s saying not
only with her words, but with the expressions on her face and the way she holds
herself around you.

For example, if she’s looking around at everyone but you in the room, she could
be looking for a way to get away from you. If her body language shows that
she’s closing herself off from you, and your conversation and techniques don’t
change the way she feels, she’s going to get up and leave. If she starts to ignore
you entirely, well, she probably doesn’t want anything to do with you.
Some social cues are subtle, and others are blatant. Learn to look for them,
understand them, and respect them. There will be times when you feel that your
game is on point and that you should be doing well with the woman you are
talking to, but her words, face, and body language are telling you a different
story.
Always listen to her.

It’s better that you smile and excuse yourself. She’s going to feel more
comfortable, and you are no longer going to be wasting your time trying to get a
woman that does not want anything to do with you. That brings us to the final
point in this chapter.

Do Not Fear Rejection

Sometimes, you are going to get rejected. It happens to those who are in the best
shape, who have the model looks, and the charming smile and wit that women
tend to want. There could be any number of reasons that she’s not interested and
that she rejects you.

It happens .

You shouldn’t be disheartened by it, even though it can feel rotten to endure that
feeling of rejection. Use it as a learning experience. Think about what you said
and did, how you approached her, and how you acted around her. Often, you can
pinpoint one or more things that you might have said or done that made her
reject your advances.

Did you do something stupid like try to grope her? Did you spend your time only
talking about yourself? Were you telling inappropriate jokes? Did you not
understand the social cues? If there is something that you did to make her upset,
learn from it. Don’t do stupid things.

Of course, there’s always the chance that she simply rejected you for no reason
that you can determine. She could already have a boyfriend and not be into
cheating, for example. Perhaps she just didn’t find you attractive. Everyone has
preferences, and you might not be hers. That’s okay.

It’s Not Her Fault

Never get upset at a woman for rejecting you. Don’t insult her regardless of what
she might have said, don’t raise your voice like an idiot, and never threaten
someone. If you do, you are only going to look like more of a fool – a needy and
weak fool at that – and you might very well find that you have a rather large
bouncer coming your way to roughly haul you out of the bar or club.

Rejection happens to everyone , so just learn to accept it and move on like a big
boy. You will have plenty of other chances to find women who are interested in
you.

In the following chapters, we will talk more about what you will be doing once
you have gotten past the initial barrier of social anxiety when it comes to talking
with women and how to approach them, converse with them, and make a
connection. Still, even after everything seems to be going well, there is still the
chance of rejection. Never let it get you down.

Chapter 3: The Approach

The way you approach women is going to make all the difference in the world as
to how they are going to react to you. First impressions matter, and so do second
impressions. If you’ve taken heed of the advice in the first and second chapters
and made sure that you look good and smile, you can talk to women without
feeling nervous, and you are feeling confident; the first part of the approach is
easy.

It's the actual walking up to her and beginning the conversation that tends to be
the more difficult aspect of it, and that’s what this chapter is all about. Getting
ready for and making the approach. Think of it as an airplane analogy. If you are
a pilot, and you don’t make the correct approach, you are not going to land on
the runway.

Be Mentally Ready to Pick Up a Girl Anytime

One of the big mistakes that many men make is that they look at picking up
women as something they are going to do when they are at the club or when they
are at a party. They mentally prepare for those situations only , and they are
missing out on some wonderful opportunities. Don’t be like those guys.

While there may be more women at the clubs and bars who are looking for a
guy, which can improve your chances, it also means you are going to be facing
quite a bit more when it comes to competition in those locations. Sure, you can
and should still go to those places if you are looking for women, but do not limit
yourself only to those locations.
Let’s look at some of the other locations and see how and why they might work
well for you.

· Supermarkets
· Banks

· While walking around a retail store

· Any line that you are standing in where there is a gorgeous woman in
front of you or behind you… provided she’s not with her boyfriend or
husband · Open-air markets

· Cafés and coffee shops

· Bookstores, assuming you can still find them

· Museums and art galleries

· The dog park if you have a dog or are watching a dog for a friend;
otherwise, it just seems weird

These are just a few of the potential locations where you might meet women. It
doesn’t mean that when you meet them they are going to go home with you right
away, of course. Even in the clubs and bars, where this is more likely to happen,
it’s still somewhat rare. Simply strike up conversation after approaching them
and see where the conversation leads. It could lead to getting a number or even
setting up a date.

You don’t want to miss these opportunities, so always be mentally prepared to

go into the approach and talk to the women that you see and that catch your eye.
Sometimes they will want to talk, sometimes they won’t. It never hurts to try,
but always be respectful of her time and space.

If you have been practicing your small talk with everyone you meet, whether
you are attracted to them or not, you will find that it tends to be easy to get over
that initial awkwardness when you are approaching a hot woman. That is
because you have confidence .

The Right Approach for the Locale

Since we mentioned that you can pick up women in a wide range of places, it is
important to remember that the way in which you approach the woman is going
to be different based on where you are. While many of the techniques of talking
to a woman and striking up a conversation with her are going to be the same no
matter where you are, quite a few things can differ.
These include the types of things you say and the topics that you plan to bring up
to talk about, naturally. You can’t ask a woman to dance at the museum, for
example. Well, you could, but things are not likely to go over well for you
because you will look like you’ve lost your mind. Think about where you are
and then craft your approach accordingly.

Observe Before the Approach

When you see a beautiful woman that you would like to get to know better,
whether it’s for a one-night stand or something more, it’s important that you first
take a moment to observe what she’s doing. This doesn’t mean leer at her like
she’s a piece of meat and you haven’t eaten in days.

Instead, you simply want to make some quick observations of what she’s doing,
who she’s with, and what her general mood at the time seems to be. Is she with
some of her friends? Is she with someone who could be a boyfriend or husband?
Is she by herself and perhaps waiting for someone? What does the general mood
or attitude seem to be?
All this information can help you understand whether you should approach, and
how to approach when you do. Just a few seconds of solid observation of the
situation before you make your move can be extremely helpful.

Develop a Topic or Two to Talk About Before Initiating a

Conversation

Once you have observed briefly, it can often give you some ideas of things that
you might be able to bring up in the conversation once you initiate speaking to
her. If she’s in a bookstore, for example, and you see that she’s checking out the
mystery titles or the photography titles, this will automatically give you
something that you can talk about.

If you do happen to be at a bar, you could ask her what the best drink at the place
might be, or what she’s drinking. If you are at an art gallery, a festival, a
museum, or other similar location, you could ask her about the art or exhibit
she’s looking at, or about any other number of things that seem relevant to the
location at the time.

Make sure you have a few topics that you could talk about, so you are not
stumbling over your words when you finally make your way over to her.
Remember just how important those first impressions really are.

The Approach Must Be Nonthreatening

You must also think about how you approach the woman, or group if she is out
with some friends. You need to have that natural smile that we discussed earlier,
and you need to make sure your approach is not seen as threatening. Women
deal with men approaching them and talking to them all the time and not all men
show the women the respect they deserve.

There are plenty of uncouth men out there who say the wrong things and who
believe that being confrontational is going to get them what they want. This
sucks for those women, and for you, since you need to work extra hard to show
them that you aren’t like those idiots. Even if you are just looking to sleep with
her, and hope she just wants to sleep with you too, there needs to be trust and
respect.

Therefore, make your approach friendly and nonthreatening. A solid, friendly

approach really will help to increase your chances of moving past the initial
hello into an actual conversation.

The Approach Should Be Well-Timed

Also, you need to make sure that you think about the timing of your approach. If
she is engaged in conversation with her friends and not paying attention to
everything else that’s happening, your approach could be construed as an
unwelcome intrusion. You want to make sure that there is room for the
approach, and that you can get her attention without being too much of a bother.
You will find that many women put in headphones when they are at a café or at
the gym because they really don’t want to be bothered. Choose the time and
place to approach carefully, and always be ready to be turned away or rejected.
It’s a fact of life. If you keep at it and are smart about your approaches and take
the other advice in this book, you will find that you are going to have more
success.

Chapter 4: The Conversation

For many men, the advice in the first part of the book tends to be simple enough.
They understand the concept, and they know they must improve their social
interaction prowess if they hope to stand any chance with women. However,
they still have quite a bit of dread when it comes to starting a conversation with
the beautiful girl they’ve seen.

Your Body Language

Body language is a very important aspect of conversation, but it is often

overlooked. If you don’t think about, and work to perfect your body language, it
will be to your detriment. Good body language is about more than merely
standing up straight. It needs to complement the words that are coming out of
your mouth.

Having eye contact is very important. More eye contact, so long as it is not
leering eye contact , is better than less eye contact. Smile while you are making
eye contact, and don’t look away unless you have smiled. When you are talking
to the woman, remember to look into her eyes and not ogle her body, no matter
how hot you might think she is.
You should also try to adopt an open stance. This simply means that you want to
make sure your arms and legs are uncrossed. Keep your head up and your
shoulders back. This position will make you seem more open and confident
rather than closed off. When you seem relaxed and receptive, you will find that
she’s often going to be more open to speaking to you.

You can also lean in slightly when you are listening to what she has to say, as it
will help to show that you are interested. When you speak, always make sure
that you speak clearly. Speak confidently and without hesitation and without
saying “uh” and “um” all the time.
Body language is discussed further in the following section on NLP.

NLP – Neuro-Linguistic Programming – What Is It and How Do

You Use It?

Neuro-linguistic programming, or NLP, is often used in the fields of therapy

since it was created in the 1970s. However, it can also be used to good effect
when talking with women. It’s about trying to condition someone to seeing you
in a positive light, and it’s easier to do than you might think.

First, you will want to consider the words that you are using. You want to strive
to keep your language as positive as possible. If you utilize positive words, even
when discussing something negative, it can help to keep the conversation’s
mood upbeat. Try to use positive words and terms and reframe negative things as
positively as possible. This can help her to see you positively.

Mirroring

When you mirror someone, you are subtly mimicking aspects about them, which
they will not notice. However, they will subconsciously feel more like they
know you or can trust you. Mirroring is simple, but it takes practice to get just
right and to make sure it is not too obvious.
Some of the elements that can be mirrored include:

 · Body language, such as gestures and how they are sitting

· Tempo of the speech

· Vocabulary choice
· Facial expressions

· Pitch and volume

These are the added touches that you will want to add to your conversations.
They can help to make a connection and build rapport faster than just talking to
the person. When you are first starting out using the mirroring technique in
conversation with women, it is a good idea to start slowly and only add one or
two elements at a time until you have become comfortable mirroring without it
being too obvious.

Conversation Starters

In the last chapter, you learned that you should always have some conversation
ideas in place when you are going to approach a woman. Having conversation
starters is essential, and it is a good idea to have some topics that you know a bit
about and have talked about a lot in the past, which can help to get and keep the
conversation flowing. You can move onto other topics later once you know that
she’s interested.

Some common topics that you can use include:

· Friends
· Work
 · Hobbies and interests

· Travel

· Goals and aspirations

· Current location/setting

The topics that you choose are often going to be dependent on the setting, which
was mentioned earlier. You might, for example, want to make observations
about your surroundings, or even her. You could talk about the drinks, food,
other people, the music, and similar topics.

You have an endless world of topics that you can talk about, so have fun and get
creative. Always make sure that you have answers to the types of questions that
you ask, as well. If you talk with her about travel and where she has been, you
should have an interesting travel story or two, as well. The same is true about
any topic that you bring up. If she answers the question and asks you the same or
something similar in return, and you just stare blankly, she’s going to lose
interest rather quickly.

Talking About Her

If you are going to talk about her, there are two different tactics that you could
use. The one that tends to work best is a compliment on something she’s
wearing, her hair, etc. The second (which often ends up in a rejection) is to talk
about her body right away. Starting out a conversation using this latter method
does not usually end as well as many men might hope. You want to have a little
bit of class, after all.

Wait, What If You Are Boring?

It’s time to stop being boring.

If you are the type of person who doesn’t do anything interesting and doesn’t
have anything interesting to say, you are going to have some trouble. You won’t
have anything to talk about, and women are not going to want to be with a
dullard unless it is for a one-night stand and you also happen to be remarkably
good looking.
You should start to change some aspects of yourself if you feel you are dull and
don’t have much to talk about. Get out and start leading a more interesting life.
Start up a new hobby, meet new people, go to a class, travel more often, join a
club, and simply do more. Not only will this give you more subjects that you can
talk about with some level of knowledge, but you will find that it can help you to
meet more women who are going to these same types of places and doing similar
things.

Taboo Topics

If you are going to be flirting with a girl that you’d like to sleep with, whether
you want to date or just have a fling or one-night stand, you need to be aware
that there are certain topics you shouldn’t bring up or discuss. It’s mostly basic
common sense, but some people will talk about them anyway.
What types of topics should you avoid? It’s a good idea to avoid anything that’s
political or religious, for example. Avoid negative topics that are going to spoil
the mood you are trying to set. Consider all the topics that could be considered
offensive and avoid them.

Like everyone, you have your opinions about them. She does, too, and they
might not be in line with yours. Those aren’t the sorts of things that you are
going to want to talk about when you are trying to sleep with her.

Ask for an Opinion

Let’s say that you are in the grocery store, and you see a woman in the produce
section. You could start a conversation by asking her the best way to check
whether or not a melon is ripe.

The same technique could be used for other types of products whether or not you
are in a grocery store. It is simply a way to get her to speak to you, and you can
then use the opening to lead into other topics to learn a bit more about her. This
leads to further potential conversation ideas, which will make it easier for you to
keep conversation flowing.

The opinion that you ask for could be about anything, even if you may not really
need the opinion. With this technique, it’s about breaking the ice. Once you have
started the conversation, you can then start to bring that conversation into other
areas to further it along.

You Don’t Always Have to Agree

One of the mistakes that many men make once they have initiated a conversation
with a woman they find to be very attractive is to simply agree with everything
that she says. They feel that by being so agreeable, it will help to win her over…
but that’s not typically the case. If all you do is fawn over her and agree with
whatever she says, she’s not going to respect you. This doesn’t mean that you
should disagree just because , of course.
If you honestly disagree, then you can make it known, but you still need to make
that a respectful disagreement. This can allow for some more stimulating and
interesting conversation. If you can stimulate her mind, even with a
disagreement, you just might be able to stimulate one another later.

Agreeing on some things is great, but if you are exactly the same as her, she’s
not likely to find you very interesting. You are your own person, and that means
you aren’t always going to be on the same page about everything. That’s okay.
After all, the saying opposites attract is very true.

Conversation Includes Listening

A conversation is not about just waiting for your turn to speak. You want to
make sure that you spend just as much time honestly listening as you do talking.
When you are actively listen to what she’s saying, you will know what to say
next and where the conversation is going.

Active Listening

Active listening can help you to connect with women in a relatively short time,
and in some cases, it can help with the emotional connection, which we will
discuss in the following chapter. It can let the woman know that you “get” what
she is saying, and it’s relatively simple to use.

Let’s look at how you can use active listening to help you with women.

· She tells you how she feels about something or what she thinks about
something.
 · You then ask her why she feels this way.

· You then repeat back to her in your own words the way she feels
based on the information that she just gave you.

You are listening to what she said, and then using that information to show her
that you understand why she feels this way. You don’t necessarily have to agree
with what she said, but you are letting her know that you “get” her because
you’ve used her own words to indicate that. It shows that not only do you
understand her, but you are also listening to her.

This seems simple because it is, and it can help with just about any conversation
that you have. The common mistakes that people make when they are listening is
that they try to guess or assume what the person is trying to say rather than
listening and figuring out what they really mean.

When you use active listening, it will put you ahead of the other men out there
who are only waiting to hear themselves say something next or who simply
make assumptions about what the woman is trying to say.

The Power of Innuendo

There is a certain segment of men out there who tell other men that you need to
be very upfront about sex and wanting to have sex if you want success. While
there are certainly some women out there with whom this will work well, that’s
certainly not true of most women. Women aren’t always as graphic, at least
openly, when it comes to talking about sex. Instead, they tend to be more
responsive to innuendo, and that’s something that you will want to master, as
well.
It will be very clear what you are talking about, but you are doing it in a way
that’s wrapped up in a bit more class than the guy in the purple top hat who
comes dancing her way and says, “Hey, wanna screw?”
So, what’s innuendo and how do you use it? It’s a way of turning the
conversation sexual without it coming across as creepy or overly aggressive like
Mr. Purple Top Hat. Innuendo tends to be clever, and it is a way to get her
thinking about sex, which can help her to get turned on.

Innuendo means talking about something that is nonsexual in a way that makes it
seem sexual and using certain words that can imply the idea of sex without
coming out and saying it. Words like hot, hard, erect, wet, and the like can work
well when they are used in seemingly innocent and innocuous ways that can be
taken another way.

Moving on from Innuendo

Eventually, you can move the talk from innuendo to actually talking about sex.
Before you do this, though, it’s a good idea to watch her and listen to her to see
how she is responding to the innuendo. Does she get it and think it's funny? Does
she add to the conversation with her own innuendo? Does she seem
uncomfortable or put off by the talk? Is her body language more closed off?
These are cues that you can use to know when it is time to turn it up a notch and
when it is time to dial it back for a bit.
If there is a back and forth talking around sex in this way, then you might want
to actually talk about sex in a flirty way with her. Again, you will want to watch
for those same types of social cues – facial expression, body language, etc. – to
see if it is getting you anywhere or if it’s a waste of time.

Basic Conversational Etiquette

You also need to make sure that you pay attention to basic etiquette when it
comes to having a conversation with women. In addition to becoming a good
listener and having some topics in your back pocket that you can bring out when
needed, keep in mind the following advice: · Make sure the level of your
voice is appropriate for the setting

· Do not interrupt her or speak over her

· You can swear, but don’t do it too much

· Be polite

· Remember to be respectful

· Avoid negative phrasing

· Don’t fight to get control of the conversation

These are some simple things to consider when you are conversing with women.
Like all other aspects of picking up women, it will become easier the more you
do it. You will learn the things that work for you and those that don’t, slowly
perfecting your approach and the way that you converse.

Chapter 5: Make an Emotional Connection

Let’s be honest. If you are looking for a one-night stand, and you find a woman
who is looking for the same thing, you aren’t going to need to have much of an
emotional connection. You are attracted to one another, and the only thing that
matters is the moment, and the next few hours.

However, most of the time, it’s going to take a date or three before she decides
that she wants to sleep with you. From your first encounter, on through any dates
that you do go on, you are going to want to work on building an emotional
connection with her.

If you do not build this connection, at least a foundation, during the first
conversation, there’s a good chance she’s going to forget all about you by the
time you get around to texting her in a day or two.

Start an Emotional Connection as Soon as Possible

You must learn how to build an emotional connection with women as early on as
possible. It is one of the most important skills to have. Fortunately, we’ve
already covered the first major part of this connection earlier. Having good
communication skills and knowing how to converse are vital if you want to build
an emotional connection with women.
Talking with them and spending as much or more of your time actively listening
is going to give you an advantage when it comes to creating that fast, emotional
connection. They will feel as though you understand them.
Show curiosity in who she is and what she has to say. Being genuinely curious
about her can prove to be something she finds very attractive, and it can help to
make the emotional connection easier. Instead of just trying to connect with her
on an intellectual or logical level, you want to create that emotional connection.
How do you do this? When you are talking with her, ask her not only what she
wants to do in life, but why she wants to do those things. Why is she so
passionate about them? Get her to talk about those things that she loves and that
are important to her and show her that you love her passion and want to know
more. This is a fast way to start building a connection.

You Should Share, Too

It’s great to get her to open up about the things that are important to her and that
she holds dearly, and you will want to do the same. It’s reciprocal, something of
a give and take. She’s opened up and now it is your turn to do the same thing.
This lets her get more insight into who you are and shows her that she’s getting
to know more about you – the real you.

This is the way that humans assess one another whether they are friends, in
search for a real relationship, or they are looking for a fast relationship… well, a
short-term fling or one-night stand.

Talk about the things that you want and the things that you fear. Talk about some
secrets that you have, and things that have made you emotional in the past. Just
don’t get overly sappy, as this can come across as being weak.

How Personal Should Your Stories Get?

The answer to this question is really going to depend on your overall intent and
what the woman wants. Are the two of you only looking for a fling that’s not
really going to go anywhere? If that’s the case, it doesn’t generally matter quite
as much about telling deep and personal stories. You can still develop an
emotional connection that’s fast and still at the surface level when you talk about
some of the things that you are passionate about in life.

However, those who are looking for more than just sex with a girl once or twice,
and who are hoping to find a longer relationship, going a bit deeper with the
stories that you tell for emotional connection is generally a good idea. You just
don’t want to go too deep too fast (how’s that for innuendo, by the way.)
Creating the connection with a woman who you want to spend a lot more time
with requires that you share personal stories. Not only does this add to the
conversations you have with one another, but also allows her to get a much
better sense of who you really are and what you want in life. The same is true
when she shares stories with you. These can help you to develop a better
understanding of one another, and it can further develop the emotional
connection.

What Is Negging and Does It Really Work?

Negging is a term that’s used by men who throw negativity at the woman they
are trying to sleep with. They might use an insult or a backhanded compliment
on the woman. It’s a way to degrade them and make them feel insecure, which
supposedly makes them feel “lucky” to have caught your eye.
Here’s the truth of the matter that many PUAs simply won’t tell you. This type
of tactic is typically only going to work on one kind of woman – someone who is
already emotionally insecure. Some men use it only to get what they want, and
even then, it doesn’t always work. They are just hurting someone who already
needs constant approval.
Remember what was discussed earlier about being positive? You will find that
positivity is going to work much better for you. This doesn’t mean you have to
fawn over the woman – that shows you as being too needy. However, not being
a total jackass really does work in your favor.

Not to mention, the term and technique of negging is no longer a secret. Many
women know exactly what a man is doing when they start using it. They might
even string the man along for a bit, just to waste his time. Negging is not only a
rotten way to treat someone; it’s not going to work for you in most cases.

Put the shoe on the other foot for a second. If a woman showed interest in you
and then started to insult you or say something like, “for being so short, you
aren’t too bad looking”, how would you respond? You’d probably be pissed, and
you wouldn’t want much to do with her, unless you were just looking for a
quickie that you could forget. Women are thinking the same thing when they get
negged by someone.

This chapter is about creating an emotional connection, not breaking someone

down. Stay away from negging, keep positive, and implement all of the other
aspects in this book for the best results.
Chapter 6: Make a Physical Connection

In this chapter, we are going to delve into making a physical connection with the
women long before you sleep with her. This is done with a technique called
anchoring . It works well with the emotional connection techniques that were
discussed in the last chapter. It can help to solidify the connection and move
things toward the next level.

When you have initiated the conversation with the woman, you can slowly add
in this technique. This minor physical connection can often lead to something
more and it’s a way to help get her mind in the mood. It’s also easy to do, and it
utilizes the techniques of NLP discussed earlier in a way that incorporates touch.

What Is Anchoring?

The goal of anchoring, or emotional anchoring as it is often called, is to create a

trigger that’s attached to an emotion in the woman. Once the connection is made,
it is possible to use the trigger to create the emotional state. You want the
woman to have good thoughts of you – smiles and giggles. With anchoring, this
is possible. It sounds far more difficult to accomplish than it truly is.

Here’s what you need to do. When you are talking with the woman and making
her smile or laugh, you will touch her hand, shoulder, arm, knee, etc. at the same
time. This way, she will eventually think about your touch whenever she
experiences those pleasant feelings.

This is a good way to create that quick emotional and physical bond with
someone. You need to make sure that the emotional anchor you are creating is
always associated with something good and relaxed. You want her to feel that
when she’s thinking about you. It helps to connect you faster.

You can also use this technique when you are utilizing innuendo or talking about
sex. By introducing the touch early, it becomes natural. It also means that when
she is touched again by you, or when she thinks about the things you’ve said, she
will have those same feelings that she had at the time.

While emotional anchoring can work for the long-term, you can also use it with
a one-night stand. You want her to associate your touch with happiness and
pleasure, and this is going to make her more willing to entertain the idea of
having sex with you.

In addition, try to make eye contact with her when you touch her. Whether she’s
laughing from a joke you told or she’s giggling from something dirty that you
just said, having that touch connection along with eye contact can be quite
powerful. It can release hormones in the body that she finds pleasurable, and you
certainly want to be associated with that kind of pleasure.

Go With Her Flow Regarding Physical Connection

Everyone has a different feeling about being touched when they are in
conversation with someone they’ve only recently met. If you’ve approached
properly, you are having a good conversation, and she is showing interest, it
typically means that she’s going to be okay with a touch on the hand, shoulder,
etc.

However, this doesn’t give you the right to grope her. You also need to be aware
of her body language when it comes to the light touching that you are doing. If
she continues to pull away or move your hand away, then respect those
boundaries. If you don’t respect them, it’s not a matter of you “being a man who
knows what he wants”, it’s assault, and you can be brought up on charges. If
she’s not okay with being touched, you don’t do it.

Most of the time, if she is showing signs that she’s attracted to you, she’s going
to be touching you back. This is a very good sign. It means that you are getting
closer to moving things to the next level, and they should progress more easily.

However, now is not the time to forget everything else that you’ve learned. You
still need to be on point when it comes to conversing with her and listening to
her. You need to look good and make eye contact. You also need to listen to the
words she’s saying and the body language cues she is giving you. She will
decide what the limits and barriers are, and it is your responsibility as a good
man to respect them.

Chapter 7: Never Be Needy

Few things can turn off a woman as fast as finding out that the man she thought
she was attracted to is actually needy. Showing your interest in a woman and
paying attention to her is something that you should certainly do. However, this
becomes a serious problem when your affection for her becomes warped to the
point of becoming desperate and needy. This is unattractive and weak, and it
could even make her think that you don’t trust her.
When you’ve just met someone, this is an immediate turn off and a sign that
there is probably something wrong with you. She’s not going to want to go any
further with you, and you can count yourself as lucky if you were able to sleep
with her before she discovered. Neediness is not attractive. Repeat that to
yourself like a mantra, so you have it ingrained in your head.

Women are more attracted to emotional strength and emotional security. They
are turned off by the weakness exhibited by someone who is needy and clingy. It
is a sign that you do not have confidence with women, and that is often a
subconscious indicator to women that you would not be a good mate.

Some men are needy because they feel that they need to have approval…
constantly. Those men diminish power in a conversation or a relationship. It can
also be a form of seeking attention, and this gets to be very annoying to women
after a while. To them, it almost seems as if you are a child seeking the attention
of their mother. That’s the last thing that you want.

Are You Too Needy? Signs of Neediness

Some people might not even realize that they are needy and that it is turning
women away from them. They might be able to start a relationship only to have
it fall apart after a week or so. It could be because you are showing signs of
being overly needed. Let’s look at some of the signs of neediness .

· You try to steal her time – You don’t want her to do anything but
spend time with you, and you will try to find ways to make sure that every
waking minute is spent with you. You even bargain with her to spend
more time with you.

· Stalking social media – If you are spending time on her social media
pages finding out what she’s doing, where she is, and who she’s with, it’s
going to creep her out. It’s digital stalking. She’s not going to be pleased.

· Over the top gestures and professions – Being nice and doing nice
things for her are great. However, there’s a limit to this. If you keep
making grand gestures, instead of seeming romantic, it seems desperate
and needy. She’s going to get sick of it, and in some cases, she might just
think it’s weird.
· Trying to spend all your time with her – Spending time with one
another is great. However, there’s a limit to this. You shouldn’t give up all
of your free time just to be with her. You need to do your own things, and
spend some time hanging out with your own friends away from her, just
like she wants to do with her friends. If you keep spending your time
following her around like a puppy dog, she’s eventually going to tell you
to get lost. You both need your own space.

Do any of these signs sound like you? If so, you can make some changes in your
life to make you more attractive to women. If you don’t make changes, she’s
going to become bored with you.
If you are still trying to move the relationship forward to where you can have sex
with her, it’s not going to end well for you. If you are already in a relationship
where you’ve had sex and thought you were moving forward, it’s still not going
to end well. Stop these needy and desperate behaviors now.

How to Stop Being Needy

Neediness pushes people away. If you fall into this category, you will want to
find ways to eliminate that neediness and become a stronger and more confident
person. It’s easy to talk about what you need to do in order to stop being needy.
However, putting it into action is a different story. If you want to make sure that
you are not overly needy, be willing to do the following: · Provide space –
She needs space, and you do too. Enjoy the space and be productive with it.
Don’t instantly text her or hop onto social media to see if you can see what she’s
doing… it’s creepy.

· Find purpose – Have a purpose in life other than doing everything for
her. Do things for yourself and have goals that you want to attain that
have nothing to do with her. This not only shows that you are driven, but
it makes sure you are not seen as overly needy.

· Trust – You have to give her trust, and this is often difficult for needy
men, especially those who have been cheated on in the past. There is no
guarantee that she won’t cheat on you, but you have to give her the trust.
If you don’t, and you are too needy, you will find that she’s actually more
likely to move on from you.

· Continue to build your confidence – Do different things in your life

that you enjoy and that help to build your confidence. It could be the time
you spend in the gym, boxing, or learning a new hobby. Confidence helps
 to crush neediness, and we already know that confidence is attractive.

· Spend time with friends – One of the reasons that some men are
needy is because they’ve had issues with being alone in the past. They
don’t like the feeling of loneliness, so they cling (too tight) to anyone who
shows them attention. The best thing to do is spend more time with
friends that you have, and work to meet some new friends.

If you recognize your own neediness, you are ahead of the pack. Most men have
to have their friends who know them well tell them when things are getting out
of hand. Even worse, the woman herself might tell them to their face that they
are too clingy. By that time, it’s often too late.

Think about the items mentioned in the list above, and if any of those sound
familiar to you from your past relationships, you will want to make some
changes before you meet the next woman.

Instant Neediness Is Instant Rejection for Most Women

If a man becomes instantly attached to the woman, during the first week or so –
or even at the bar the night they met in some cases – it’s not going to go over
well. She doesn’t want someone who is so clingy and needy, and she’s going to
quickly lose your phone number.

You want to make sure that you play it all very cool when you first meet women.
Getting jealous before you’ve even had a first date is just stupid. Sending her
multiple text messages on the same night that you meet is similarly doltish.

Why Do Women Hate the Needy Man?



While there might be some women out there who are looking for a needy man
that they can care for and control, that’s not generally the case with most women
today. You will instead find that most women who are independent, strong, and
worthy of your time want someone who is mentally and emotionally strong, as
well. They want those who have confidence, drive, and believe in themselves.

They do not want someone who is wish-washy and who is going to be padding
around after them like a toddler. They are looking for a man, not for a baby.
Enjoying spending time together is great, but someone who is clingy is not.

You are not weak.

You are not clingy.

You are someone who she wants . Make sure you stay that way. If you ever feel
that you’ve become too clingy, take a step back and think about your behavior.
Make the needed course correction and get things back on track.
Conclusion:

We’ve now come to the end of the book, and you should have a much better idea
of how to pick up and sleep with a beautiful woman. The techniques in the book
are great for those who are looking for a one-night stand, as well as for those
who are looking for a longer-term relationship.

Meeting women and getting them to open up is as much art as it is science. You
can use what you’ve learned in this book to add to your own techniques and
improve on how you flirt and converse with women. Always be learning, testing
new ideas and conversation topics, and figuring out what really works for you.

After all, every man is different, just like every woman is different. It’s always
exciting when you make that approach and start the conversation. You never
know exactly who it is you will be speaking to and where it is going to lead!

Of course, with everything that we’ve mentioned in this book, it is still just
scratching the surface of attracting and sleeping with women. If you’d like to
truly master the art of pick-up and seduction, sign up to my advanced seduction
course here: www.t8system.com