Personal Development - Report
Personal Development - Report
Santos – 12 STEM
Joey always wanted to become a copywriter for an advertising agency. His father’s wish was for
him to take up engineering. Being the eldest in his family, Joey set aside his personal preference
in deference to his parents. He took up engineering, did well since he was quite intelligent,
graduated on time, and then after that, he took the board exams. When he passed the board
exams, he went to his father and gave his engineering diploma and his professional license and
told his father now that he has fulfilled his father’s wish, he would like to fulfill his own wish of
becoming a copywriter. The father allowed him to take his destiny in his hands. Joey became a
successful copy writer and eventually became the president of an advertising agency.
Key Sentences:
You might have decided to take up accountancy but your mother told you that being a nurse, like one of
your aunts, will provide you with more opportunities to earn much more money especially when you
work abroad.
For parents, they will always think of the best for their child.
There are some instances when the adolescent will abide by the wishes of the parents over what college
course to take.
3) Motivation
The drive to fulfill one’s fullest potentials is the best motivation any person can ever have in
living a meaningful life. Sure, there are some whose motivations evolve around amassing wealth
or obtaining power, but the majority of Filipinos are motivated primarily by their desire to
improve the quality of their family’s lives. Millions of Filipinos are now working abroad for this
very reason. They went to college to take up a course that can provide them with employment
abroad. Once they graduated, they ventured out into the world to seek their own fortune for
themselves, as well as for their families. When they have saved enough, they return home to
pursue their personal dreams. We hear plenty of success stories of OFWs coming back and
setting up their own businesses, and succeeded in doing so. A person without any motivation will
end up wasting a life of unfulfilled potentials.
Key Sentences:
The drive to fulfill one's fullest potentials is the best motivation any person can ever have in living a
meaningful life.
Sure, there are some whose motivations evolve around amassing wealth or obtaining power, but the
majority of Filipinos are motivated primarily by their desire to improve the quality of their family's lives.
Millions of Filipinos are now working abroad for this very reason.
When they have saved enough, they return home to pursue their personal dreams.
A person without any motivation will end up wasting a life of unfulfilled potentials.
4) Self-confidence
“Yes, I can!” “Kaya ko ito!” Notwithstanding the challenges an adolescent face after high school,
the self – confident person will keep his eyes on his goals, and declare to the world that he can do
it and will succeed in the pursuit of his dreams.
5) Personal skills
As children, we already learned certain skills just by observing our parents and siblings,
classmates, and school authorities. Basic education teaches us the hard skills we need to acquire
so we may qualify for higher education, such as learning math and the sciences. The softer skills
such as dealing with people, or the skill to communicate a feeling or a thought nonverbally, are
skills that are not taught in our education system. Be aware of the inherent skills that you have.
Ask yourself what you like and enjoy doing. If you enjoy drawing, then that is a skill. If you like
to listen to music and learn how to play a musical instrument, then that is another skill. If you can
listen to people and put their ideas together, that is a skill called synthesizing ideas. If you can tell
what is not right about a person’s overall image, it means you have the eye for proportions, color
coordination, design, poise, and style. The skill that you have may be hidden because some
people around you do not accept it or you may be afraid to show it because you might be
misjudged. Have the courage to stand up and take the relevant course that will hone your skills
and be the master of your own destiny.
Key Sentences:
Basic education teaches us the hard skills we need to acquire so we may qualify for higher education,
such as learning math and the sciences.
The softer skills such as dealing with people, or the skill to communicate a feeling or a thought
nonverbally, are skills that are not taught in our education system.
Be aware of the inherent skills that you have.
Ask yourself what you like and enjoy doing.
Have the courage to stand up and take the relevant course that will hone your skills and be the master of
your own destiny.
6) Personality Traits
Knowing your personality traits will definitely help you in choosing a career. Certain traits are
compatible and matched with certain types of work or occupation according to Holland’s trait
factor theory. What are some of your personality traits? Are you the quiet type who would rather
do work alone than with a group? Or are you the more sociable type who enjoys working with a
team? Do you have a knack for details or are you irritated by them? Would you rather memorize
information rather than analyze them? Later on, we will engage in some exercises to help you
identify your personality traits.
7) Personal health
The condition of your health is a major factor in the career choice you will make. Are you healthy
enough to take on the rigors of some tough courses like law or medicine? You might aspire to
become a physical education specialist but your asthma or allergies are getting in the way. Many
health conditions can be handled given the proper guidance from a professional medical
specialist. In many instances, however, physical conditions or health issues did not deter certain
individuals in pursuing their dreams
8) Emotional considerations
Generally, it is difficult to make a decision when one is experiencing some strong emotions such
as anger or sadness. Oftentimes, an emotionally disturbed individual will end up deciding on the
wrong thing. Check yourself when you are deciding on what course to take. It is always best to be
level-headed and calm when making these life-directing decisions.
9) Self-sabotaging thoughts
Self-sabotaging thoughts are thought that deter a person from developing a healthy and
wholesome self-concept. Statements such as “I cannot do this. I will never succeed.” “I am not
intelligent enough for that course.” “Nobody believes in me, so why should I even believe in
myself?” These are some examples of stumbling blocks in your journey toward self-actualization.
Knowing one’s strengths and weaknesses will put a person’s feet on the ground and make him
realistic about his capabilities and limitations. However, to immediately put a barrier to one’s
dream is to sabotage what could have been a realization of that dream. Many of these challenges
are real, but there are some that are just figments of one’s imagination that sow fear in the heart.