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I am Beautician. I work from home by order bookings. How about you?

Where are you originally from and live?


Ans: I am German adopted. My early life started here in Florida. This is why I came
back here after I lost my husband to Leukemia for I couldn’t bare living alone.

I would be glad if we can texts a while to gain some more comfortability.

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So how long have you been on the dating site, are you having luck there? And how
did you know about that site..

ANS: Well am new to all this internet stuff and has only been on the site for 2 to
3 days now and have not talked to any man from there. a friend of mine met a nice
man on here and they are happily married so she introduced me to the site and i
said let me join and see where it will take me to.
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Is there any risk in the online dating?

Ans: I have not been on here that much so i don't know if there is a risk in this
online dating but am praying i meet some real good people and i pray i find
everything i dream of in you.
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What do you think about me so far ?

I am being honest with you and i am a very independent person and own myself..am
not seeing anyone at the moment so we can always keep in touch and through that it
will help us get to know more about each other if you still remain interested.All i
want is someone to be my soul mate and to spend the rest of my life with thats why
i put my heart clearly to speak with you and building something real with you..
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Do you want to give birth to more kids with me in near future?

ANS: well that is undecided because i may like to discuss about this for now but if
you want it then fine by me..you know what i mean,let me put that another way if i
we meet that's fine and we see about that.
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Do you want to get married again if you meet the right person?

Ans: I made a promise to my self,If i find the right person it's a possibility.
There is nothing more fantastic than having your decent man as a partner to lean
on, love, admire, and share everything with. I am in no rush, taking it slow and
feeling my way around. When the time is right i will know....i would want to get
married if we meet and things we both have faith in each other because life is too
short to be spending it all alone..sometimes its gets too lonely.I want the right
man and i promise to give a hand to hold, a warm winter night cuddle and can't
offer the world but i can offer my arms, my time, my support, my affection and
never ask for more in return than i give. I have small demands and adore you.
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How serious are you in getting into any relationship or do you just want someone to
spend some time with?
Ans: Am serious and i want to love and to be loved again.i don't joke about this
or play any head games.i am very serious,at the beginning i was just not sure about
this but you have changed my mind, maybe there is a light at the end of the tunnel.
i want someone there every day, someone to spend time with, doing things together,
share everything together and more.I want a serious relationship, i don't joke or
play games with anyone as i said earlier, and you are the only one i am talking to.
I really want to make a great and happy family . I just want one man, in my life,
one i can love, and cherish, and be with. Share my sorrows, and my happiness. My
good times and bad, would hope he would share the same with me.
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what is the most important things you are looking for in another partner?

Ans: character and intelligence,honesty, someone who is fun-spirited and


playful.chemistry is important to me in my partner.I am looking for someone who
seeks someone else to really explore life together with and the willingness to work
at making a relationship stronger hold much more weight.....every time i look i
think i find some one but they just screw me over and thats not what i want but im
looking for a relationship that will last and one that i can have fun with someone
who is honest, loyal, able to share happiness and sadness, similar life goal...when
all this things are there then everything else will fall into place. No secrets,i
have explored some things but not enough to see a lot of what life has to offer out
there, that would be grand to do it together with you. A relationship is teamwork
and one person can not do it alone. I have been screwed a few nasty times but never
let it make me bitter, i chalk it up to experience, learn from it and ensure i
never treat people the wrong way i was treated or taken advantage of. I want to
have fun , share happiness, cry together, smile when we achieve the goals we set
together, and most important love each other with our whole hearts.

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17. what are some of your interest?


Ans: my interests include reading, reading books of John Grisham, James Patterson,
Stuart Woods, Patricia Cornwell, Sue Grafton, Kinky Friedman, Tom Robbins, Mario
Puzo and many more...I love a good mystery, seeing concerts or symphonies, walking
a trail in the woods, movies, eating out or cooking and book stores.

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18: what have past relationship thought you?


Ans: I have realized that people change and don't necessarily grow in the same
direction.Going down a different path is ok ,it doesn't make one person wrong or
the other right. I have also learned that the important thing in a relationship is
honesty and without that, you don't have much. I think people are resilient and
bounce back from most relationships....

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19: do you drink?


Ans:
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20: Have you ever smoked in your lifetime?


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21: What do you think about affairs?


Ans: affairs are all about accepting and understanding one another and desease
from hurting the feelings of one another.its always good making yourselves happy
and smiling......keep your mate in hear best shoe just as it would make her feel
better rather than hurtng her feelings.and i would prefer the same from her.

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22: Besides love, what one trait have you noticed in couples that have maintained a
successful relationship for many years?
Ans: believing in the most high God,trust,honest,communication.as long as we talk
to each other,the relationship endures.Even when there are differences, talking can
solve problems.you know what i mean.
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23: Describe an interest you have that you would truly hope your partner could
share with you.
Ans: Better communication and understanding, genuine passionate love than
romantic love, learning what to say, how to say, when to say things without hurting
any ones feeling, career, goals, and detail oriented and lastly a peaceful and
perfect family where husband understands things, do his responsibilities, make his
wise look good by pinpointing failures and correcting them because that's what good
husband do...there is much a family needs and i feel i am a caring enough person to
be there for the man i'm with..

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25: If you had three wishes, what would they be?


one is happy i'm happy

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26: what are your greatest achievement

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27: what do you do for fun?


Ans: well i like to go out with friends,read ,swim,sail,go fishing and camp.
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what is your favorite foods?
Ans:

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29: what is your idea of a great date?


Ans: It could be anything from taking a walk in the woods, having a picnic,
talking, and sharing funny stories to taking a country drive, seeing a good movie
either at home or the theater, cooking dinner together, canoeing or kayaking on a
peaceful lake, going to an art exhibit or the symphony, working outside....really,
I'm game for about anything, feeling it has to do with who i'm with, not what i'm
doing. If it's the right person, taking the garbage out together can be really
fun,meeting for coffee, seeing a movie or just taking a walk.Having a dinner
together.. Having time to spend talking and getting to know each other would be a
good place to start. I would be open to other ideas but I would like the first date
to be casual and relaxed providing an opportunity to share with each other about
who we are and who we have been.

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30: Are you a jealous type?
ANS: Well am not a jealous type of person and i think if a
person is jealous theres no trust like you said so i always like to be on the trust
side,hope you know what i mean.I am not a jealous person.If what my mate is doing
bothers me,i talk it out in private ...
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What are your favorite color and favorite clothes to wear?

31: Do you control people?

ANS: No way I don't control any body,everybody needs his


or her own time to decide on what to do and what not to do..and i take people as
they are...I have a kind heart and i am sensitive to everyone's feelings...no one
should ever think or even try to change anyone. I think you can always learn from
others because everyone's experiences are all different.I don't believe in trying
to make people do what you want them to do.
I am a take charge person so in that sense, there may be some control.As far as the
general sense of the word "control", no i do not "control" people.I personally like
a man to be somewhat of a take charge person.But he also has to have the ability to
ask for help and or accept help when it is offered.he has to admit when he is
wrong, make mistakes or doesn't know an answer.I really can't stand arrogance.
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37:what are your goals in life?


Ans: to love and be loved,have fun and enjoyment in life,Sense of belonging ,Warm
relationships with others,Self-respect,Self-fulfillment,Being well respected,A
sense of accomplishment and Security.
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38: what is your perception of an ideal relationship?
Ans: Of course communication, honesty, and trust are important, but so is being
morally and intellectually compatible. Also, having fun together is so important.
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39: so other than your appearance what is the first thing people notice about you?
because they might think they would be nice. so i think people first notice my
appearance..
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40: what are you passionate about?


Ans: In this crazy world i'm just passionate about life and living it to its
fullest.Thankful for all that we have.Some people aren't so lucky...
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41: describe one thing about you that only your best friends know.
Ans: my best friend could described me as honest,faithfulness person who always
like to give to those with less fortunate and give good advices.
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44: Have you ever had any financial problems bad credit or filed bankruptcy?
Ans: No never .am always fiancially fit.

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45: What are your guilty pleasures?
Ans: I find guilt to be a totally useless emotion and one we would do well to rid
ourselves of.That said,i do spend hours and hours and hours reading non fiction
books...
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47: what are the things you are most thankful for?
Ans : Jesus dieing for my sins, the love of my darling partner which happens to
you after proving to me how need me and love me and also my wonderful family
especially my mom..

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48: What is your religious beliefs and religion? How were you brought up?
Ans: I'm a very good christian who belief and trust in almighy God.even though i
do not get the chance being in the church,i always pray during meal and after meal
and also before i sleep and after i getting up in bed.lol..
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49: How much of their spare time should your partner spend with you?
Ans:

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50: What does growing old mean to you?


Ans: well i would love remaing as i am ,but God hasnt create us this way.no matter
what we shall grow old and we need to accept our state of growing old ...

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51.Describe your dream holiday?
i love the beach,camping and sightseeing.so think it should be the best dream of
Holiday venues that i think would like being with my lovely partner..

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52 what do your parents mean to you?
My parents are the world to me, especially my mom as well.because i did not enjoy
any fatherly love..i was mostly taken care of when i was very young even though my
dad passed away ,but still i could remember some of the care provided to me by my
dad and i missed him so much.

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53: What do your friends mean to you?


friends mean a lot to me too..thats if only you aint that kind of selfish ones.i
dont make friends who are greed and lazy.friends i have are very hard
working and i think make me laugh as well..when in sadness,i goes too o them so
they could crack jokes for me to laugh and share ideas with them,.

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54: What do others admire about you?
My personality.That i am a very caring and giving person.how many people that
really like me and have nothing bad to say about me.No one really dislikes me.
Honesty, loyalty, my perverted ness at times, hard worker, fair to others and the
ability to sympathize and be empathetic.am a kind who offers help when ever one is
indeed..

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55: How do you define success?
Ans: What makes you feel happy and fullfilled in life. How your family turns out.
Knowing that you had a hand in it and they are well.
The achievement of something desired, planned, or attempted attributed their
success in business to hard work.I think i have been successful in everything i do
and making friends...
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56: What makes you proud?

57: What are you afraid of?


Ans: being hurt in a relationship thats when trust and honest doesnt work between
us.
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58: How important is money to you?
Ans: Well, it is a necessary evil so to speak.I don't like not having any but it
doesn't control my life. I am careful with my money and don't go crazy buying every
latest fad, but i like to use it wisely and get things that i really need or want
when i can afford it..I want to be comfortable and enjoy nice things,but do it
reasonably,i like saving money...

Money is good and it is important to me as well..But it doesnt mean alot to me even


though its important.i have alot and also an independence man of my own.i have been
in my business and it brings lots and lots of income into my pocket....what am
looking for now is a very loving and caring man..who would provide me with much
love and care..
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59: What negative characteristics do you have?
Ans: Lets see...I tend to like to do things my own way.Someone may want to show me
a certain way to do something, but i will insist on doing it my way...usually
because my way has worked for me before....Another thing is that if i don't know
the answer to a question, i may make up an answer i am a kind of person who is very
straight,asks what i need and demand prompt answer and not everybody likes it that
way.i believe very strongly in love and when i have interest in you.i wont hesitate
telling you to be mine.so bear this with me,i might have the same feeling for you
and i would need a positive answer.....lol.i hope am not sounding too controlling..
that sounds right and that is not always good,Sometimes,i am impatient,Sometimes i
can be too quiet and not express myself when i should...
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60: do you like animals?


Ans:

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62: what valuable lesson have you learnt in your life?


Ans: There are lots of things i have learned in my life, and i keep learning.
That is what i believe we are here on earth to do.. keep learning but the most one
i have learned is that no matter how much you think you are in control of a
situation, there will always be something that will prove to you that you are not.
And that when bad things happen in life, it doesn't mean the end of things...it is
just a turn in the road that you didn't see coming and a new direction will lead
you to better things to love is better than not to have loved,to forgive is better
than rot in the bitterness it will otherwise distry you,to believe in someone even
when everyone else has given up hope,that i can learn from other people's mistakes.
It saves me time and hopefully i don't make their mistake.and Life IS trouble, only
Death is not. To be alive is to roll up your sleeves and LOOK for trouble..
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63: what is your favorite foods?
Ans:I truly love fillet..steak and potatoes,barbecue ribs or catfish,Chicken
sandwich,lamb Bridie,mixed bean with bacon onion carrots potatoes cabbage and
garlic,Mexican, Chinese and American,Asian foods and trying all types of different
foods.I love to shop for a woman and enjoy shopping New York in, Los Angele's when
am around there and especially in foreign countries where you can find many
interesting things and bargains.
i love mexican an spagetti meatloaf any type of potato any kind of beans except lol
cabbage smoke sausage an like it with bell peppers an onions dont care to much
about fish maybe eat it once in six months if i get a craven for it love broccoli
an cheese i am a cheese lover like steaks lasagana mac an cheese love chicken
cooked anyway

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64 you know am 27 years old and what do you think about my age,will it be a problem
to you?
Ans: I wouldn't mind if you were 10 years younger or 10 years older...it is the
connection to the person that matters...not age. It is what is in the heart and
how you feel about each other that makes a relationship. Age is just a number.
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65: describe your spirituality?


Ans : I believe in Jesus Christ. I'm of Assemblies of God. I'm more of a
moderate. I do have traditional views on things, but I'm not gonna TELL people what
to do. But I'll try to guide them as best I can. I believe the father, son, and the
holy spirit are/is my father, and my friend. I think if I try to live a good
Christian life, that others will see that and WANT to follow me. I don't like being
told what to do, and I don't really like telling others what to do, but I will tell
them what I think(or know), what they should do, and I do believe that I'm guided
by God most of the time. He is my Savior, and I do believe that God will give u
what u want as u need it, and that he won't give u problems u can't handle. If he
does, I just tell him I'm about to give up on life, and something usually comes to
me...sent by him...a friend calls, I see something soothing on tv, I read the
Bible, and the scripture totally relates. etc. Footprints is
awesome!gonna TELL people what to do. But I'll try to guide them as best I can. I
believe the father, son, and the holy spirit are/is my father, and my friend. I
think if I try to live a good Christian life, that others will see that and want to
follow me. I don't like being told what to do, and I don't really like telling
others what to do, but I will tell them what I think(or know), what they should do,
and I do believe that I'm guided by God most of the time. He is my Savior, and I do
believe that God will give u what u want as u need it, and that he won't give u
problems u can't handle. If he does, I just tell him I'm about to give up on life,
and something usually comes to me...sent by him...a friend calls, I see something
soothing on tv, I read the Bible, and the scripture TOTALLY relates. etc.
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66: Do you have any prejudices?
Ans: No i don't think i am.I try to judge people on how they treat me and my
loved ones,not on their beliefs, color, native origins etc.I don't lump everyone
into one category because maybe one person is "bad".I have always tried to teach my
friends to judge people by their character, not their race etc...
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67: what makes you angry..
Ans: well arrogance and disobidient people makes me angry,i ignore people who make
me angry..i prefer to walk away if they are being intentional....i used to have a
bad temper when i was young but my martial arts training and reading affirmation
books and mixing with positive people helped a lot.
I get angry when people don't listen to what i have to say, or cut me off before i
complete my thought. I also don't like to be belittled or told I am stupid or my
views are wrong. If my opinion is asked for then my opinion should be respected. I
get angry at cruelty...to people or animals. I get angry about lots of injustices,
so i will lump them all together.
I'm sure there are other things, too, but those come to mind right now..I think the
martial arts are a great help in finding a way to confront anger.

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68: so when you are angry what do you do?
Ans: i just walk away.. i go very quiet.prefer to go some where neutral than say
and do things i would regret after,we need that space and time to cool down.. i
found if you say something hurtful things get worse....when i'm happy i enjoy
laughing over nice jokes, family stories, happy memories.
I get louder....I will yell at the person i am angry at. Especially if they will
not listen to me or are being extremely contrary. I usually have my say and then
leave. Most of the time, though, i hold in my anger and try to talk it out with the
person at a later time, when we are both calmer. This usually works as long as the
other person will listen.I really don't like to argue, but i know arguments will
happen.But i like to use my brain and not my emotions to resolve the argument.
Sounds like you are the same..

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71: if you ever find someone else before i meet you will you tell me about it and
don't lead me on.
Ans: well i dont think that will ever happen because when am getting to know
someone or learning about someone i don't talk to any one about being friends with
them again..just the person am talking to.
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74: what makes you warm and fizzy?
Ans: When my partner and i is snuggling on the couch with a blanket, watching a
movie with a cup of hot chocolat and it must be raining outside. then i feel warm
and fuzzy..it could be the final touches!!!
Lying in bed, nuzzling with my partner, listening to each other breath and knowing
I wouldn’t want to be anyplace else. Or sharing a hot shower (tub is too small)
and just holding each other-not everything is
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75: what do you do with your free time when you are alone?
Ans: Well when am all alone on my free time i don't want to have memories about
the past things so i prefer reading nice books..like Your life follows your word
written by Darlene Bishop of Solid Rock Church or watch a nice movie.
I try to stay busy, maybe go shopping or take in a move. Don’t like doing movies
alone feels weird and I look at couples and feel alone. Miss sharing my popcorn
with somebody and usually do movies at home. In the last two years I have read
more than 50 different books, the library knows me by first name now, and I bought
a Kindle E-Book that has about 167 books loaded that I still need to read.

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76: what would you do if a total stranger came and spoke to me..just asking
Ans: well i may not do anything because i don't know what he or she was discussing
with you but after he or she is gone then i will ask you what you discussed with
the person..
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83: What is one place you have never been that you would love to visit?
Ans: I would love to visit England/Scotland/Ireland and the Scandinavian
countries. But I would also be interested in Greece and Italy because of the ruins
and history.
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84: Where were you raised small town? What about school what was your favorite
subject? Were you an average student or the class president? Did you go to college
and where? I want to know all about your past, it tells me how you got to where you
are now and what molded your past besides the parents raising you.

Ans: I have already told you am Originally from Queensland, Brisbane,Australia


and that is where i was born and my parents moved to Vila do Conde in Portugal and
that is where i was raised....Vila do Conde is a small town but its a beautiful
place and i bet you will like it there....i was an average student ....And when it
comes to education I went to Rahway High School in Portugal and then continued to
the ISCTE-IUL (ISCTE - Instituto University de Lisboa) Portugal....had my M.Sc. in
Mining and Minerals Engineering @ Birla Institute of Technology and Science,
Pilani, Rajasthan, India.I later came to California and i was into systems
Engineering and business management,Mathematics, Physics and Civil Engineering
Anthropology..in California State North ridge, UC Berkley.so after i graduated
decided to stay in the united state but don't really know where exactly to
stay ...i was having a friend who used to live here in Lexington and he told me a
lot
about
Kentucky so i just came straight bought this house and moved here about 3 years
now..but that friend of mine was in a car wreck and died two years ago...i always
cry when i remember him.
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85: well I was a good student in school. I was usually in the top 5 in my class.
I loved English, Math, Art, Music, and Science.
Ans: well I was a good student in school. I was usually in the top 5 in my
class. I loved English, Math, Art, Music, and Science...Science for me is limited
to Science Fiction as an adult. I was never in any click of boys I had a few close
friends and we spent time together but once we all graduated we lost touch as we
moved away... life has a funny way of changing things that were never expected.
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86: How do you handle embarrassing moments?
Ans: oh, it doesn't worry me, i just carry on, apologize and clean it up ..not
embarrasing to me, i make joke out of it and laugh....There is no embarassing
moments when you show human emotions and i don't think a man should ever be told he
isn't suppose to cry-why? he's human and has to handle the same pain as a woman, he
is a sign of love not a whimp.
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87: Do you show your feelings easily?
Ans: don't make me cry..i'm very sensitive when it comes to emotion ,i don't get
anger easily and also i laugh easily...i'm a softee when it comes to love..i hurt
easily because i put my whole life on the line for a man.
i show my feelings fairly easily. But i can control them too, if i need to. When
i first meet someone i am more guarded, but after i get to know them and feel
relaxed, i let my emotions show rather easily, and will joke around more and be
silly more. It does take me some time to feel free to do that. I guess i am
rather cautious in that regard.
I would never intentionally make a person cry. I don't like to play with peoples
emotions. I try to respect others and their personalities and hope they will do
the same.
I have a hard time with small talk. I always become tongue tied when meeting
someone new, I do better if I can just listen for a while before talking. I am a
good listener.
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88: from speaking to me,do you think am a perfect person in everything?
Ans: I have my faults, so please don't put me on a pedestal.I am stubborn at times
and can be set in my ways.I can be impatient with some things and very patient with
others.I have a hard time dealing with bad or slow drivers and that will frustrate
me.i have ups and downs , temperaments, sensitivities, likes and dislikes, so what
thats how we were made humans..i think i have found a good man,i feel you are the
type of man i would like to be with, no one is perfect but everything about you i
really admire and respect you for being who you are....no one is perfect, we all
have traits thats why you are you.but you know there has to be some sort of
chemistry happening for two people to get along well. That is something we will
have to see about eventually.it all about 'give and take' it's how we approach
everything in the right way, live the right way, think the right way for ourselves
and others in our lives...
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94: do you drink coffee and how many cups do you take in a day if i may ask?
Ans: yes not much, love different flavoured tea, horlicks, light chinese tea ,i
drink coffee in the morning..i think two cups before i start my day.
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96: Do you like pizza?
Ans: yes sometimes..love seafood and hawaiian with pineapple like sweet and
sour...i eat pizza on occasion, but I eat vegetarian style thin crust...I don't
care for pepperoni on my pizza or sausage mostly eat it plain or spinach. Fish,
Chicken, Pasta, Mexican, Greek and Chinese are my favorites
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97: do you like thick crust or thin?
Ans: I like thin thxs..the thick gets too doughy...thin is my favorite.

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98: do you like any winter sports?
Ans: I love to snow ski. And I have ice skated several times before and even
took lessons, but was never very good. Of course I like sledding and sleighrides.
And I have cross country skiis too. But I'm not very good at that either.... i
love winter sports.
My ice skating days came to an end when I fell on the ice and hit my head so hard I
had a slight concusion, scared my folks and me so bad that I never put them on
again, but sledding and sleighrides would probably be neat and fun to do-together
of course.
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99: what are your favorite desserts?
Ans: Mango & Tapioca Pearls Dessert,Pavlova all in Australia,Tapioca pudding and
Italian Cannollis (Cone shells filled with a mixture I love) with a mixture I
love). I am not obsessed with chocolate but once in a while I can eat some candy
but choclate cake is too sweet. Cheescake is another one I love and frozen yogurt
or custard (Like Dairy Queen)

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100: If you could go anywhere in the world -- on a vacation -- what is your idea of
a perfect vacation?
Ans: well i have been wanting to visit Hawaii so i think there will be a nice
place for me to go for a vacation..

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101: How important do you think sex is to a relationship?
Ans: I think sex is important in a relationship, but I don't think it should be
the only thing. Sex is a very intimate sharing and expression of love and caring
between two people. I enjoy sex and love the tenderness and warmth that I feel
when I am with that special someone.
yes...just thinking
I want sex to be fun with my partner
I want him to desire me and for me to desire him
want him to always respect me and I him
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102: Oh--- Do you have brothers and sisters?


Ans
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103: Do you find it difficult to keep promises?
Ans: No - not at all-- I take promises very seriously...If i say i will do
smoething, that is what i do..It is very simple..I stick by my promise always.
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105: Have you ever been to Charleston, SC
Ans: Charleston is wonderful-- the city is very old.

TRUST...
Trust, loyalty and respect are a must for eternal happiness. No matter how much you
love someone if you dont have these ingredients you will never succeed.
To be in love means being patient but to be patient you must trust him/her
first.You can never find love through the eye or ear, so you must trust the only
thing that will never fade until you die, your heart....
Love is like trust, when you find your special someone it is as if you're trusting
them with your heart.Trust is what you put in someone's hands. Faith is what you
hold on to.
Trust is what makes everyone realize that you are always there for them.
Faith is what makes everyone realize that you are always there to help them in case
they need some helpLove makes not everyone, but the only one in your life who is
special, think that you are always there for her, to be with her, to make her
realize how much you really love her.
Without honesty, love gets unhappy, and without trust, love gets unstable.Love is a
wonderful gift; trust in it, believe in it, give it, and it will be returned to you
to give again and again.
You can get advice from family, friends and strangers, but the best advice comes
from your heart; it never lies trust it.There may be many people that are
trustworthy, but only a few are worth trusting with your heart; choose wisely.
To be trusted is a greater compliment than to be loved.
For you can love many, but without trust you have nothing.The heart already knows
what the mind can only dream of. Trust your heart.Distance cannot,they are on the
inside, but when he or she betrays your trust, they become the ugliest person in
the world.Love is patient.
Love is kind. It does not envy. It does not boast. It is not proud......... It is
not rude. It is not self-seeking. It is not easily angered. It keeps no record of
wrong doing. It does not delight in evil, but rejoices in the truth.
It always protects, trusts, hopes, perseveres.Love takes many things: trust, hope,
wishes, dreams, and everything you've got, even when you know it's not going be
enough.Love is not always fireworks and shooting stars; sometimes it's a simple
understanding and trust between two people................

All relationships have some adjustment periods, but being hurt shouldn’t be part of
being in love. Loving relationships have good qualities, such as support from your
partner, a willingness to communicate, a desire to compromise, and open an honest
communication. When you do not have these fundamental qualities in a relationship,
that relationship isn’t likely to grow, and become something that you desire.
We all turn to our loved ones for support from time to time. When your loved one
does not offer you their support it may be time to look at your relationship. As we
all want to nurture those that we love. We want the best in life for those that we
care about. If your partner is unwilling to listen to you, and to your problems,
they are not meeting your needs when you need support. Support can come in many
forms, someone lending an ear, someone going out of their way to help you, or
something as simple as a phone call to cheer you up. Make sure your partner gives
you support when you need it.
When engaging in a relationship with another person there is always going to be
things that you do not agree upon. You want to have the ability to compromise so
both partners are getting their wishes met. This may mean one night you watch
football, and one night your partner watches a movie you enjoy. It might mean that
your partner can agree to try a dish that you enjoy cooking......... In any
organization with more than one person in it, there will be more than one opinion,
work with your partner to see that both of you can compromise on different
subjects. If someone isn’t willing to compromise, they are not willing to
acknowledge your wants and desires. If they can not acknowledge your wants they are
likely not emotionally developed enough for you to have your needs met.
Open and honest communication is one of the more desirable qualities you want to
have in a relationship. Watch to see that your partner is not secretive, nor are
they willing to tell lies to avoid certain subjects. For example, if a partner is
married, and fails to tell you that, you can rightfully assume if they can lie
about big things, they can lie about small things. While you may not like
everything your partner may say, freedom to be honest should be there in your
relationship. Likewise, you need to be open and honest with your partner; a
relationship based upon false truths is not likely to be successful, because both
partners do not have the correct frame of reference in the relationship.
There are many qualities that make relationships good support, compromise, and open
and honest communication is just a few of these qualities that you may desire in a
relationship. Engage only in relationships where both partners can openly discuss
their wants and needs, this can take practice. Remember loving relationships grow
and only become better, eliminate those who do not meet your needs when they
continually fail to support you, will not compromise, and will not be honest. These
three qualities alone will help you nurture and develop a deeper relationship with
your partner

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