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So how long have you been on the dating site, are you having luck there? And how
did you know about that site..
ANS: Well am new to all this internet stuff and has only been on the site for 2 to
3 days now and have not talked to any man from there. a friend of mine met a nice
man on here and they are happily married so she introduced me to the site and i
said let me join and see where it will take me to.
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Is there any risk in the online dating?
Ans: I have not been on here that much so i don't know if there is a risk in this
online dating but am praying i meet some real good people and i pray i find
everything i dream of in you.
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What do you think about me so far ?
I am being honest with you and i am a very independent person and own myself..am
not seeing anyone at the moment so we can always keep in touch and through that it
will help us get to know more about each other if you still remain interested.All i
want is someone to be my soul mate and to spend the rest of my life with thats why
i put my heart clearly to speak with you and building something real with you..
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Do you want to give birth to more kids with me in near future?
ANS: well that is undecided because i may like to discuss about this for now but if
you want it then fine by me..you know what i mean,let me put that another way if i
we meet that's fine and we see about that.
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Do you want to get married again if you meet the right person?
Ans: I made a promise to my self,If i find the right person it's a possibility.
There is nothing more fantastic than having your decent man as a partner to lean
on, love, admire, and share everything with. I am in no rush, taking it slow and
feeling my way around. When the time is right i will know....i would want to get
married if we meet and things we both have faith in each other because life is too
short to be spending it all alone..sometimes its gets too lonely.I want the right
man and i promise to give a hand to hold, a warm winter night cuddle and can't
offer the world but i can offer my arms, my time, my support, my affection and
never ask for more in return than i give. I have small demands and adore you.
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How serious are you in getting into any relationship or do you just want someone to
spend some time with?
Ans: Am serious and i want to love and to be loved again.i don't joke about this
or play any head games.i am very serious,at the beginning i was just not sure about
this but you have changed my mind, maybe there is a light at the end of the tunnel.
i want someone there every day, someone to spend time with, doing things together,
share everything together and more.I want a serious relationship, i don't joke or
play games with anyone as i said earlier, and you are the only one i am talking to.
I really want to make a great and happy family . I just want one man, in my life,
one i can love, and cherish, and be with. Share my sorrows, and my happiness. My
good times and bad, would hope he would share the same with me.
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what is the most important things you are looking for in another partner?
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22: Besides love, what one trait have you noticed in couples that have maintained a
successful relationship for many years?
Ans: believing in the most high God,trust,honest,communication.as long as we talk
to each other,the relationship endures.Even when there are differences, talking can
solve problems.you know what i mean.
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23: Describe an interest you have that you would truly hope your partner could
share with you.
Ans: Better communication and understanding, genuine passionate love than
romantic love, learning what to say, how to say, when to say things without hurting
any ones feeling, career, goals, and detail oriented and lastly a peaceful and
perfect family where husband understands things, do his responsibilities, make his
wise look good by pinpointing failures and correcting them because that's what good
husband do...there is much a family needs and i feel i am a caring enough person to
be there for the man i'm with..
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what is your favorite foods?
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30: Are you a jealous type?
ANS: Well am not a jealous type of person and i think if a
person is jealous theres no trust like you said so i always like to be on the trust
side,hope you know what i mean.I am not a jealous person.If what my mate is doing
bothers me,i talk it out in private ...
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What are your favorite color and favorite clothes to wear?
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39: so other than your appearance what is the first thing people notice about you?
because they might think they would be nice. so i think people first notice my
appearance..
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41: describe one thing about you that only your best friends know.
Ans: my best friend could described me as honest,faithfulness person who always
like to give to those with less fortunate and give good advices.
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44: Have you ever had any financial problems bad credit or filed bankruptcy?
Ans: No never .am always fiancially fit.
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45: What are your guilty pleasures?
Ans: I find guilt to be a totally useless emotion and one we would do well to rid
ourselves of.That said,i do spend hours and hours and hours reading non fiction
books...
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47: what are the things you are most thankful for?
Ans : Jesus dieing for my sins, the love of my darling partner which happens to
you after proving to me how need me and love me and also my wonderful family
especially my mom..
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48: What is your religious beliefs and religion? How were you brought up?
Ans: I'm a very good christian who belief and trust in almighy God.even though i
do not get the chance being in the church,i always pray during meal and after meal
and also before i sleep and after i getting up in bed.lol..
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49: How much of their spare time should your partner spend with you?
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51.Describe your dream holiday?
i love the beach,camping and sightseeing.so think it should be the best dream of
Holiday venues that i think would like being with my lovely partner..
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52 what do your parents mean to you?
My parents are the world to me, especially my mom as well.because i did not enjoy
any fatherly love..i was mostly taken care of when i was very young even though my
dad passed away ,but still i could remember some of the care provided to me by my
dad and i missed him so much.
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54: What do others admire about you?
My personality.That i am a very caring and giving person.how many people that
really like me and have nothing bad to say about me.No one really dislikes me.
Honesty, loyalty, my perverted ness at times, hard worker, fair to others and the
ability to sympathize and be empathetic.am a kind who offers help when ever one is
indeed..
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55: How do you define success?
Ans: What makes you feel happy and fullfilled in life. How your family turns out.
Knowing that you had a hand in it and they are well.
The achievement of something desired, planned, or attempted attributed their
success in business to hard work.I think i have been successful in everything i do
and making friends...
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64 you know am 27 years old and what do you think about my age,will it be a problem
to you?
Ans: I wouldn't mind if you were 10 years younger or 10 years older...it is the
connection to the person that matters...not age. It is what is in the heart and
how you feel about each other that makes a relationship. Age is just a number.
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68: so when you are angry what do you do?
Ans: i just walk away.. i go very quiet.prefer to go some where neutral than say
and do things i would regret after,we need that space and time to cool down.. i
found if you say something hurtful things get worse....when i'm happy i enjoy
laughing over nice jokes, family stories, happy memories.
I get louder....I will yell at the person i am angry at. Especially if they will
not listen to me or are being extremely contrary. I usually have my say and then
leave. Most of the time, though, i hold in my anger and try to talk it out with the
person at a later time, when we are both calmer. This usually works as long as the
other person will listen.I really don't like to argue, but i know arguments will
happen.But i like to use my brain and not my emotions to resolve the argument.
Sounds like you are the same..
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71: if you ever find someone else before i meet you will you tell me about it and
don't lead me on.
Ans: well i dont think that will ever happen because when am getting to know
someone or learning about someone i don't talk to any one about being friends with
them again..just the person am talking to.
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74: what makes you warm and fizzy?
Ans: When my partner and i is snuggling on the couch with a blanket, watching a
movie with a cup of hot chocolat and it must be raining outside. then i feel warm
and fuzzy..it could be the final touches!!!
Lying in bed, nuzzling with my partner, listening to each other breath and knowing
I wouldn’t want to be anyplace else. Or sharing a hot shower (tub is too small)
and just holding each other-not everything is
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75: what do you do with your free time when you are alone?
Ans: Well when am all alone on my free time i don't want to have memories about
the past things so i prefer reading nice books..like Your life follows your word
written by Darlene Bishop of Solid Rock Church or watch a nice movie.
I try to stay busy, maybe go shopping or take in a move. Don’t like doing movies
alone feels weird and I look at couples and feel alone. Miss sharing my popcorn
with somebody and usually do movies at home. In the last two years I have read
more than 50 different books, the library knows me by first name now, and I bought
a Kindle E-Book that has about 167 books loaded that I still need to read.
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76: what would you do if a total stranger came and spoke to me..just asking
Ans: well i may not do anything because i don't know what he or she was discussing
with you but after he or she is gone then i will ask you what you discussed with
the person..
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83: What is one place you have never been that you would love to visit?
Ans: I would love to visit England/Scotland/Ireland and the Scandinavian
countries. But I would also be interested in Greece and Italy because of the ruins
and history.
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84: Where were you raised small town? What about school what was your favorite
subject? Were you an average student or the class president? Did you go to college
and where? I want to know all about your past, it tells me how you got to where you
are now and what molded your past besides the parents raising you.
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94: do you drink coffee and how many cups do you take in a day if i may ask?
Ans: yes not much, love different flavoured tea, horlicks, light chinese tea ,i
drink coffee in the morning..i think two cups before i start my day.
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96: Do you like pizza?
Ans: yes sometimes..love seafood and hawaiian with pineapple like sweet and
sour...i eat pizza on occasion, but I eat vegetarian style thin crust...I don't
care for pepperoni on my pizza or sausage mostly eat it plain or spinach. Fish,
Chicken, Pasta, Mexican, Greek and Chinese are my favorites
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97: do you like thick crust or thin?
Ans: I like thin thxs..the thick gets too doughy...thin is my favorite.
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98: do you like any winter sports?
Ans: I love to snow ski. And I have ice skated several times before and even
took lessons, but was never very good. Of course I like sledding and sleighrides.
And I have cross country skiis too. But I'm not very good at that either.... i
love winter sports.
My ice skating days came to an end when I fell on the ice and hit my head so hard I
had a slight concusion, scared my folks and me so bad that I never put them on
again, but sledding and sleighrides would probably be neat and fun to do-together
of course.
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99: what are your favorite desserts?
Ans: Mango & Tapioca Pearls Dessert,Pavlova all in Australia,Tapioca pudding and
Italian Cannollis (Cone shells filled with a mixture I love) with a mixture I
love). I am not obsessed with chocolate but once in a while I can eat some candy
but choclate cake is too sweet. Cheescake is another one I love and frozen yogurt
or custard (Like Dairy Queen)
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100: If you could go anywhere in the world -- on a vacation -- what is your idea of
a perfect vacation?
Ans: well i have been wanting to visit Hawaii so i think there will be a nice
place for me to go for a vacation..
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101: How important do you think sex is to a relationship?
Ans: I think sex is important in a relationship, but I don't think it should be
the only thing. Sex is a very intimate sharing and expression of love and caring
between two people. I enjoy sex and love the tenderness and warmth that I feel
when I am with that special someone.
yes...just thinking
I want sex to be fun with my partner
I want him to desire me and for me to desire him
want him to always respect me and I him
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TRUST...
Trust, loyalty and respect are a must for eternal happiness. No matter how much you
love someone if you dont have these ingredients you will never succeed.
To be in love means being patient but to be patient you must trust him/her
first.You can never find love through the eye or ear, so you must trust the only
thing that will never fade until you die, your heart....
Love is like trust, when you find your special someone it is as if you're trusting
them with your heart.Trust is what you put in someone's hands. Faith is what you
hold on to.
Trust is what makes everyone realize that you are always there for them.
Faith is what makes everyone realize that you are always there to help them in case
they need some helpLove makes not everyone, but the only one in your life who is
special, think that you are always there for her, to be with her, to make her
realize how much you really love her.
Without honesty, love gets unhappy, and without trust, love gets unstable.Love is a
wonderful gift; trust in it, believe in it, give it, and it will be returned to you
to give again and again.
You can get advice from family, friends and strangers, but the best advice comes
from your heart; it never lies trust it.There may be many people that are
trustworthy, but only a few are worth trusting with your heart; choose wisely.
To be trusted is a greater compliment than to be loved.
For you can love many, but without trust you have nothing.The heart already knows
what the mind can only dream of. Trust your heart.Distance cannot,they are on the
inside, but when he or she betrays your trust, they become the ugliest person in
the world.Love is patient.
Love is kind. It does not envy. It does not boast. It is not proud......... It is
not rude. It is not self-seeking. It is not easily angered. It keeps no record of
wrong doing. It does not delight in evil, but rejoices in the truth.
It always protects, trusts, hopes, perseveres.Love takes many things: trust, hope,
wishes, dreams, and everything you've got, even when you know it's not going be
enough.Love is not always fireworks and shooting stars; sometimes it's a simple
understanding and trust between two people................
All relationships have some adjustment periods, but being hurt shouldn’t be part of
being in love. Loving relationships have good qualities, such as support from your
partner, a willingness to communicate, a desire to compromise, and open an honest
communication. When you do not have these fundamental qualities in a relationship,
that relationship isn’t likely to grow, and become something that you desire.
We all turn to our loved ones for support from time to time. When your loved one
does not offer you their support it may be time to look at your relationship. As we
all want to nurture those that we love. We want the best in life for those that we
care about. If your partner is unwilling to listen to you, and to your problems,
they are not meeting your needs when you need support. Support can come in many
forms, someone lending an ear, someone going out of their way to help you, or
something as simple as a phone call to cheer you up. Make sure your partner gives
you support when you need it.
When engaging in a relationship with another person there is always going to be
things that you do not agree upon. You want to have the ability to compromise so
both partners are getting their wishes met. This may mean one night you watch
football, and one night your partner watches a movie you enjoy. It might mean that
your partner can agree to try a dish that you enjoy cooking......... In any
organization with more than one person in it, there will be more than one opinion,
work with your partner to see that both of you can compromise on different
subjects. If someone isn’t willing to compromise, they are not willing to
acknowledge your wants and desires. If they can not acknowledge your wants they are
likely not emotionally developed enough for you to have your needs met.
Open and honest communication is one of the more desirable qualities you want to
have in a relationship. Watch to see that your partner is not secretive, nor are
they willing to tell lies to avoid certain subjects. For example, if a partner is
married, and fails to tell you that, you can rightfully assume if they can lie
about big things, they can lie about small things. While you may not like
everything your partner may say, freedom to be honest should be there in your
relationship. Likewise, you need to be open and honest with your partner; a
relationship based upon false truths is not likely to be successful, because both
partners do not have the correct frame of reference in the relationship.
There are many qualities that make relationships good support, compromise, and open
and honest communication is just a few of these qualities that you may desire in a
relationship. Engage only in relationships where both partners can openly discuss
their wants and needs, this can take practice. Remember loving relationships grow
and only become better, eliminate those who do not meet your needs when they
continually fail to support you, will not compromise, and will not be honest. These
three qualities alone will help you nurture and develop a deeper relationship with
your partner